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Received a message from his partner :/
December 17 2014
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Missb4u
10 years ago
i ignore the message and just delete.
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RHP User
10 years ago
just received another the other day. I ignored this one because I never even met the guy and it came from his email addy anyway so wasn't sure who would get the reply. I did have one lady who emailed me back and forth for weeks and I do not like being played by cheating arseholes so I sent her every text and every email he ever sent to me, even video surveillance of him coming to see me at work because the lying scumbag kept denying it all even though it was undeniable. He tried to paint me as the one chasing him and I was pissed off because he wouldn't return my affection, pfft, yeah right. He even tried threatening me at one stage when he said to stop sending her stuff or else, so I said, or else what? and told him not to threaten me because I will have his arse if he wants to start with me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had been chatting to a guy online, we had exchanged numbers. He simply wanted to know if I was going to a particular type of party if he could get an invite as well. We exchanged a few txt messages, and then a week late I send him an invite. No replay, oh well bad luck for him I thought. Then a few days later I got the most abusive woman ring me, I did not recognize the number, but when I answered it was just a woman screaming abuse at me. Could not get a word in edge wise, so just hung up. She called three more times that day, after the second rant, I did not answer. I did not make the connection, just thought she had the wrong number. Then about a week later I got some very abusive messages from that guys profile. Very strange indeed, I still was not making the connection, thought they were unrelated. It was very bigoted homophobic stuff, kind of scary that some people can write that shit. Finally I got one last message from him, asking if I had any strange messages or calls. Apparently his "ex" had got hold of his phone and computer and has been abusing everyone he has been in contact with. I simply replied, "Thanks for the heads up but I will not have anything more to do with you." He tried to say it was all over, blah blah blah. I never replied. I personally don't care if it was his ex or soon to be ex, he had lie and miss lead me. I was completely unaware, though I do not remember what his profile status was, he gave me the impression he was single and free. I had done nothing wrong, I had not even meet the guy. I have it on my profile, will not do it if the partner is unaware, but that is really just pointless, people just lie. I always take it at face value. I am not going to assume everyone is guilty, shit I would not meet anyone if I took that stance.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was once approached by a woman's ex/partner or whatever he was. It ended in a very brief fist fight which didn't go well for him. I'd made the mistake of meeting her somewhere I frequented fairly often and next thing mr jealous fire and brimstone turns up yelling and pushing then he had a short nap. Honestly I don't give a rats if a woman is married, partnered or single but I'd really appreciate them being more secure with phones and computers.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I got a phone call from a woman who said she was the ex girl friend of a man I had just started seeing.Apparently they were still friends and she had somehow accessed his computer where she found my contact details..She went into a nasty rant about him,about me yadda,yadda...At the end of her rant I told her she had breached his privacy and my privacy and that if she continued I would report her to the police..That worked.xxFreya
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erotictouch4u
10 years ago
I had a call from a woman's husband...yes I knew she was married...and he asked how I knew her and why was I txting her so much. Seems he had gone through her phone records after having suspicions about her night-time visits to "friend's" places.Well, we had a mutual play-partner and we were introduced for a MFF a few weeks earlier but I wasn't going to tell him that obviously. I just let him rant, assuming the best defence is stunned silence and he hung up.It worked. I told her later that day by email and she confronted him, angrily telling him I was friends of her girlfriend she brought around for dinner the previous week and that she was chatting to me about her.No more calls from him after that.ET xox
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Not yet, but I'm more than prepared for it if it ever happens. I did once get a female stalker due to a man here.....seems she was his stalker and when she became aware of me she then found me on facebook. I met her 3 times before I broached the topic with him and found out she was obsessed with him and had made his life hell. Needless to say I sent his description of her to her then politely bowed out of the mess. Blocked her via telstra and every other way possible. I am now blissfully unaware of her existence. Happy Ending
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Usually, in here its the... "Im a woman looking for a woman.... Oh... and my guy would like to join in"... type of contact from a partner. I wont play with anyone who is attached.... from here... or elsewhere.I dont need the drama, and I dont need the karma.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
I'd rather forget that time and ugly past...a huge lesson learnt. If they do read this...well they are the ones with a sad, continuous crappy unproductive life whom I don't feel sorry for, cause their behaviour still continues. Oh hang on..... I do say thank you...one good thing did come of it, I have since made an amazing friend.. Who woulda thought. :-) The crap ya go through to met amazing people. Foxy xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
It really is an interesting topic. If anyone is into human behaviours do some research into it - it really is very educational and well worth it. Knowing people's background/upbringing etc does help to understand why people do the behaviours they do. Foxy x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Probalely because of the golden rule that I would never fuck a mates wife / GF .. while their together, and I never have. On one occassion only ' I slept with a friend who had separated form her husband.. I see that as different.. Ive been called hard to get ' gay , and a asexual.. All because I rejected a few ladies who were in a relationship... The only aggression I ever got , was from a guy who's long time girlfriend was showing me attention at a after party back in my footy days... she meant nothing to me at all , yet the tirade of abuse and the shoulder push from the jealous bf / hubby ? was enough... all I can remember was holding him against a wall giving him a mouthfull about respect..
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do you do when you are lied to. I got woken up at six in the morning in a woman's bed after a really good night of sex. She dumps my stuff on the bed and tells me to hurry up and get going because her boyfriend is due home from work any minute. Holy shit, she told me that she had split up. I had spent half the night listening to what a shit he was, and that she had broken up months ago. I normally never leave stuff behind, and not sure if it was because I was rushed, or me just being mean, but I forgot to grab my thongs. Another time with a guy, we had had some fun and as the sun was coming up he sort of casually said, "You better make sure you have every thing I don't want my girl friend to find out." "WTF" then followed half an hour of angst as we searched for a missing condom wrapper that had disappeared somewhere in the bed. I gave up and told him "This is your problem mate, you should have told me." and left. What the hell can you do when people lie about their status. Some times I think I should just say that I don't care if you are in a relationship, that way people might me more inclined to tell the truth. I am not about to start feeling guilty over someones else's cheating. They are the ones doing it not me, they lied to me. I am not going to cop their stress. I never saw either of them again, but they still both have their profiles up, and this was some years ago.
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5weeta5kandy
10 years ago
This is not the first time this has happened to me :/ and neither time had i even met the guy just conversed on here then text and maybe chatted. Im beginning to think like you Blindman maybe if we change to i don't care if you have a significant other hey might be a little more inclined to tell the truth. Mysteriously the guy in questions profile has disappeared from RHP and i have not reply to "The how do you know my fiance' " question Will now just wait and see if i receive any further communication from him or her.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd reply... His integrity or lack thereof isn't your concern. And let's be honest....she's already doubtful of his fidelity or else why would she be going through his phone?? Of course she could be a cling on ex...but I doubt this too as otherwise she wouldn't have his phone...I know I sure as hell wouldn't let my ex have my phone as I'm no longer her concern right?? The other point is...that by ignoring the message you're essentially enabling him to continue and why would you do that?? So many women complain about cheaters but do nothing to call their partners behaviour out and make THEM accountable.... Ok there's the age old saying that they don't need that drama in their life .... Cool no problems; but does that mean someone else does?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Years ago I had a ex who turned out to be a serial cheater and I used to work away from home for 6 weeks at a time. How I got the poor girls number was from a 'good' friend who turned out to be sleeping with him as well , I think it was a weird jealousy thing on her part to give me the number anyway I kept my cool when I called because I didn't believe this girl was to blame as I knew my ex well enough to know he talked a good game. I think because I was polite and I also told her I didn't see her as guilty she told me everything the best part was how she had knocked him back on sex because he came on to sotrong and he ended up sleeping on the couch till he could get a lift home the next day. I was able to confront him and his sory matched hers and he gave up the info how my friend and him had been sleeping together as well. Needless to say he got the arse and my so called friend got a belting plus told that id belt her everytime I saw her after that too( I have mellowed since although if I saw her again may belt her just on principle Lmao). I feel for the people that get decieved by these cheaters and then cop abuse from the wounded partner. But then I do have to say the pain of finding out that someone you love and trust has lied and decieved you can be like being gutted and makes trusting anyone else hard in the future. So that's my story.
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RHP User
10 years ago
don't ever ask allforthefunofit for credit as the right hook may offend 😝😝😛😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I totaly agree with Jay -me and Mischeviouslad. Bad morals will lead to bad karma. There are plenty of signs that attached people show and if you proceedto play with that person who you are fully aware is attached. Then you deserve the calls, harasment you get. I personaly have more respect for the TALIBAN, than i do for cheaters or the people that play with them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'nigel435' I personaly have more respect for the TALIBAN, than i do for cheaters or the people that play with them. Damn straight, those fucking cheaters are soooo much worse than a terrorist group that intentionally kills and maims children!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you just detonated yourself, though without taking anyone with you. Forum Suicide we call that here. Troll.
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RHP User
10 years ago
lol I think you two are taking him a little too literally.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
To answer your question: No, luckily I've never been in a situation like that.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'nigel435' I totaly agree with Jay -me and Mischeviouslad. Bad morals will lead to bad karma. There are plenty of signs that attached people show and if you proceedto play with that person who you are fully aware is attached. Then you deserve the calls, harasment you get. I personaly have more respect for the TALIBAN, than i do for cheaters or the people that play with them. Please refrain from making mention of me... and murderous idealogues ... in the same comment...... ever again. Thank you
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' lol I think you two are taking him a little too literally.... Even used as a figure of speech it's a pretty fucking stupid thing to say.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Definitely a contender for the most dumbfounding comment of the year. In my opinion, of course.
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twodare
10 years ago
So here's a bit of a Spin on it. Girlfriend of ours we had known a very long time, was in an open relationship . . well, not even a relationship, just someone she had a thing going on with physically. They'd stopped it a year ago. She came over one night, things happen, then 2 days later we get an email from the boy saying that he would have expected she would end up sleeping with us . . (she told him, he asked) and then telling us she had (insert several diseases here) She then apologises TO HIM not to us, he then asks if we can all meet up and go out together and continue the relationship as a foursome. We say (after his obviously abusive/dominant thing they had going) no . . so then it's 2 days of abusive calls then the both dissapear. Took a while to go there again
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RHP User
10 years ago
I must see past a lot....(alot 😝) I'd have used the following analogy:- They're as trustworthy as a fart after a dodgy vindaloo 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'twodare' So here's a bit of a Spin on it. Girlfriend of ours we had known a very long time, was in an open relationship . . well, not even a relationship, just someone she had a thing going on with physically. They'd stopped it a year ago. She came over one night, things happen, then 2 days later we get an email from the boy saying that he would have expected she would end up sleeping with us . . (she told him, he asked) and then telling us she had (insert several diseases here) She then apologises TO HIM not to us, he then asks if we can all meet up and go out together and continue the relationship as a foursome. We say (after his obviously abusive/dominant thing they had going) no . . so then it's 2 days of abusive calls then the both dissapear. Took a while to go there again They sound special Probably deserve each other, too bad you got caught up in it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find it amazing the number of guys that tell Lek they want to see her alone but not to tell me when she's already let them know she can play on her own if she wants - Posted from rhpmobile
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Kattss
10 years ago
and once was enough... I try to only meet up with single guys, but women's intuition tells me there is usually a gf or wife in the mix too... Cautiously optimistic that I'm not ruining some other girls relationship! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
When they are attached on here,but playing the single game on the sly. They only seem to be online during working hours. Very rarely will they reply at night or weekends. Dead give away.
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