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Recognition
September 25 2015
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
You're a very lucky man, with timing and fate on your side. I was approached by a man, in a public supermarket queue once, while I was with my daughter. They asked me if I was SuperFoxxxy. That's more than rude and insulting in my eyes. Clearly they had no idea of personal boundaries and privacy. Yes I have face pics on here, however to violate ones privacy especially in front of a teenage child and very public place, is another thing altogether. That was not the time or place to say something. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
👎👎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
In the local supermarket by a woman who reads the forums but she sent me a message..she didnt approach me. I have no idea what she looks like as she has no face pic...I think that might have been a little disconcerting OP but it seems that she was ok with your approach.. I think it probably depends on the venue. and who the other person is with etc....this is possibly a reason why many have their face pics tucked away xx Freya.
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
a bit interested?? What was the outcome? Plans to meet again? Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
How many people have recognised each other in public (apart from adult club or party), said something to each other and followed up meeting again? Has it been a Success or unsuccessful? Foxy
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think you should always be discreet and respect the persons privacy. That being said having a face pic you are open to random recognition and it's a risk you take. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Superfoxxxy nothing happened. She asked me how i recognised her and thats about it. I went my way and she went hers. I hadnt been on here too long and was (and still am really) unsure how to approach things. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is a small place, Ive been recognised a few times. I have a lot of pics up though. Only once did someone announce it in public, at a nightclub, but usually Ill get a message saying...I saw you the other night.......I did go to dinner with one of the guys and had a good night. Foxxy, that was not on! He must have known that was your daughter, some people are just plain mystifying If someone came up to me and asked discreetly if I was on RHP, I wouldnt mind?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've been recognised by the rough old soldier across the road from my office, he lives rough and stinks like a polecat, so I can't imagine anyone wanting to fool around with him! Why he's on RHP I can't imagine! - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
We have seen another couple we recognised in a shopping centre, like us out with their family, we all discretely smiled as we passed. We ran into another couple we had one met the night before in a bar once, we smiled and passed by, we could see they were with friends. At few minutes later we were invited to join their group. We were still discrete, until we were informed that the other couple were also swingers. Years later we are all still friends, we know each other's children, we celebrate birthdays etc together.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Goes a long way... That was an oops moment for you I bet. Lol. 10 years ago with daughter in supermarket could have been very awkward... Now? Not so much... She's a part time burlesque performer. Haha. How times change. - Posted from rhpmobile
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225Special
9 years ago
I think you are very lucky that you didn't get bitch slapped upside the head. In hindsite, a message through the site would possibly be a better option, then again it could of been the begining of a beautiful friendship.
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Missb4u
9 years ago
I've been recognized in public but never approached just received a message through the site. I don't necessarily think approaching is a bad thing but you really have to be mindful of the situation and who is around, etc.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My business in mine, and whoever else is involved. Not anyone else who may be in earshot. Even back in the old days those with candour kept business in house. Don't sweat it re how you play the game, people were doing that a long time before the www came along.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Jay is not my real name but IT IS a long time nick name in real life. I was walking down Hunter Street and was tapped on the shoulder by a 30 something woman asking if I was Jay ? When I said yes it left me puzzled because I didn't know if she knew me from my past or RHP.. But when she laughingly said I was a bit of a stirrer , then the penny dropped....
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sweetgem
9 years ago
You are the type of person who doesn't care if your friends, family, work colleagues, or people you know, know that you are on an adult dating site ceepee, but that doesn't mean that other RHP members think the same. What if the lady in question was a married woman or in an attached relationship, but pretended to be a single person due to her own reasons? Especially if domestic violence was involved? You would have done enough damage for her by saying "hey are you on RHP" out loud in a public place! Of course, I am not saying that the lady in question is a married woman or in a troubled home situation, I am just saying the "what if...." possibility! I don't care if people know I'm on RHP as I have told my family and many of my friends about it, but I've never been so careless in approaching other people in an open public place! Hence, this is one of the reasons why I paid to be a member while I am not even looking or searching on the site. I would rather send someone I recognised from here a private message instead because, it is an act of respect for other people's privacy, in my book! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There is this blonde girl at work,is it you Koko?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ok so it seems i made a mistake in saying something. I'll make sure I dont do it again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It looks as though nobody agrees with what you did. Don't worry bloke it could have been me that wrote this as I possibly would have done the same. I am just a bit too impulsive and my mouth can work quicker than my brain. I also don't care that I am recognisable and I would have thought the same of anyone else with clear face pics. Mind you I am in control enough to not approach somebody if they were with others. So thanks for posting this guess I know how people truly feel about recognition
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MsSuperFoxy
9 years ago
I think what most are saying is be a bit tactful with an approach and certainly do not approach when others are with their families. Saying "Hi" is ok (in my eyes) however dropping RHP... Nah That's just plain disrespectful. Even if one has a face pic on here, all it takes is being mindful of others, respecting their space and their privacy. Maybe ask next time "Do you have a twin, as you look familiar" or something like that..leave it up yo that person to tell you, give them the choice. By informing them you've seen them on here, you've removed that choice..See where incoming from? Ms Foxy
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Not cool. The one saving grace as I see it.... is that you didn't claim to be "discrete/discreet" in your profile. Because you weren't. As you said... lesson learned. DG
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inspirit
9 years ago
Of course you are going to be recognised. If you don't want too be then, don't put tell tale pics up.....ie: Jewellery, Tattoos etc. I have asked people and I have been asked. Personally I am not bothered at all. The look on their faces when I say "Yep" is worth it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
No, the only guys at my work are the young Italian gardener and a married handyman, def not me! But I have seen your handiwork.......
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madotara69
9 years ago
You call out because you recognise her from the pics in her profile gallery, likely all dolled up... she must have made an impression and whatever it is that you see in her that tickles the fancy, you saw it in her while out and about and there must have been some positive energy in good spirits all around you both for guiding the feelings to such a thing. We went to a meet and greet Jan 2013, had been writing to the forums for about 6 months and I got paintme mixed up for Jayjay, JayJay for Indy on Safari, Meeka mixed up for bigmumma, Funlover for Unzipped , a lady came over and gave me a kiss, it was lovely and I'm still fucked for as to who she was ? You did pretty well and she did not deny your question and easily could have if she had reason with reckoning and there can't be a right and wrong for everything as too other than that moment and it's happenings, it was what it was and an infinity of what if's and negative energy trying to turn your 'lucky you were right thing' to shit. Welcome to the sandpit Ceepee Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes Ive been recognised twice. Both local guys and we had swapped face pics in pg. nothing went further but both have messaged me on here to ask if it was me they recognised at a certain place and time. Both times it was. But I didnt notice them. Too busy shopping anyway,haha. Nice to know though, that I look like the pics Ive got on here, even without makeup and looking pretty average on both occasions.So Im not false advertising. haha.And Mado I had that happen at the m&g. Tried to match names to the faces and failed dismally with many from the forums. A lot of the bigger personalities were actually very quiet and reserved in real life.but was fun working out who was who.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not cool at all in my opinion, even if she was from here. Not all of us like to advertise to everyone that we're on this site. Could you imagine if friends or relatives of hers had been nearby and you hadn't seen them? If someone outed me like that, the conversation would end right there. I'm with DG on this one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your response (along with many others) wasn't here yet when I posted. I don't mean to sound harsh, it's an easy thing to do which could either work out well or blow up in your face. Like many things in life, really. ;-) I think it's great you not only posted a forum asking for opinions, but you seriously consider them too. :-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
At s wedding today, well i kind of crashed a wedding, on the beach, outstretched in my fleuro bikini, laying close waiting for the bride to arrive. Horny as, usual story when i'm on the beach, guests were waiting all done up in hot outfits, must have been a Maori wedding, anyway, lots of very sexy guys under my gaze while i was waiting, i saw 2 guys nudge each other looking in my direction and look on the phone lol but a not long after, a smoking hot guy arrived wearing incredibly sexy black pants or jeans with white detail or rips on each pocket, right on his butt, i used all the mind power i had to get him to stray over my way, god those pants and sexy shirt and sexier body, god help me, if you're reading this, contact me, you took my breath away mmm
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