M35
Red Hot Pie
August 06 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's re-affirmed an old saying for me; That is "women are mean and men are stupid". Now don't get all uppity and offended, though that is your choice. Just think about it. Or google it. 😎😋
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RHP User
9 years ago
from the good and bad experiences with people you have met through RHP.A small minority of the men I have met were absolutely fine but the majority made little attempt to be amiable and / or give great sex and were disrespectful, inconsiderate and bad mannered.And don't start me on the poor hygiene and bad dress sense of many of them.Sorry to ask this but is it just men in Melbourne? As the interstate ones I met were fine.And do Melbourne men find Melbourne women not to their liking overall?Comments anyone? Also, it is never pleasant when a man acts like a child after you've politely thanked them for their time then gone on to explain that you have decided against having sex with them due to there being no connection whatsoever.This situation seems to occur because many men seem to be deceivingly clever at turning on the charm and pretending to be someone they are not during messaging and phone calls.It needs to be said that before I agreed to meet anyone I let them know it's just a meeting so we can check each other out THEN, IF WE DO HAPPEN TO CLICK, another date will be organised for play. If they do not agree to that, the meet would not go ahead.I have then attended meet ups only to find that the "charming man" has disappeared and an immature male who can't cope with sexual rejection has taken his place.Like many women on here, if my mind is engaged, my body will often follow but a lot of men don't seem to get that concept.So I no longer wish to meet men at all, not from here or anywhere.Sad but that is the affect it's had on me.Just enjoy perusing the forums these days, that's all. To all the good men on here that I never met and will never meet, keep being great guys! Best of luck to you all.
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RHP User
9 years ago
This site and a few others have allowed me to open up and understand myself better, by understanding other people better. Ive also been fortunate to find people that I connected with at the right time, for the right reasons during my journey. Lessons learnt, lessons taught, some things hidden inside for years were brought into the open by people I had a connection with. Some bridges burned, some rebuilt.Evolving with each new person I have had an experience with. Even if it wasnt sexual,its been part of my journey in my little universe. Ive made some truely amazing friends that are, like you say, pieces of my puzzle, which I hope is never completed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
How could you!?! ;)
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
It has literally changed my life. Only a select few who i interact with in here know how, what and why. Never too late or too old to change direction. Another piece in life's puzzle. You dont want to get to the end and find there is some pieces missing.......
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RHP User
9 years ago
This site has really been an education for me and I'm loving it, I have met some awesome people both IRL from here and in the chat room and forums that I now talk too off this site as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have met and spoken to people I never would have normally spoken to or connected with in my normal everyday life prior to RHP, and by that I mean discussing sex and relationships plus life in general with a wide variety of people. I have spoken and met with a porn star, sex workers, cross dressers, trans people, lesbian, gay, bisexuals, pansexuals, swingers, submissives, doms, cheaters and liars, straight people, conservative swingers and people that are so promiscuous they have had more sexual partners in one weekend than I have had in my entire life. A few people have altered my way of how I view life, love and relationships and I have slowly come to understand myself much better. Cliché I know, but I think my upbringing, a strict Italian father and Catholic School, totally skewed and fucked up the way I viewed lots of things. Actually that isn't totally fair. I think my upbringing and the brain washing we are all subjected to meant that I have spent most of my life not really understanding myself or my kinks. Something that is an ongoing process. I always looked at my friends relationships and marriages and thought...... boring. Now I know why...... I think. LOL
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
I always thought it to be a pain in the butt. So wrong when you're giving 😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
butt....oops I mean a bit obsessed eh?? 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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TallBaldSexy
9 years ago
Saying you're not!..😂😂😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have chatted with lovely people through to crazy and down right rude people. I have met beautiful people, strange people and plain people. I wouldn't change a thing though, its been a crazy, fun, bizarre, challenging and interesting ride. Giddy up!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I have met and spoken to people I never would have normally spoken to or connected with in my normal everyday life prior to RHP, and by that I mean discussing sex and relationships plus life in general with a wide variety of people. I have spoken and met with a porn star, sex workers, cross dressers, trans people, lesbian, gay, bisexuals, pansexuals, swingers, submissives, doms, cheaters and liars, straight people, conservative swingers and people that are so promiscuous they have had more sexual partners in one weekend than I have had in my entire life. A few people have altered my way of how I view life, love and relationships and I have slowly come to understand myself much better. What she^ said (but only if I include adult dating sites in general, not just RHP) No pornstars etc yet (except at Sexpo, but that's unrelated).
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jedi_knight
9 years ago
And some really weird folks...but overall I find people here liberated interesting and it's better to go and meet someone than sitting at home watching TV lol..
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RHP User
9 years ago
.... each encounter provides a ' piece of the puzzle' .... we learn by interaction ..... I liken it to learning a language ... each word or concept gives us a platform to better understand, analyse and discuss . The power of the forum .... start worrying when you stop leaning ..... am i becoming arrogant .... or nearer to death ?
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
FUck me OP (figure of speech)..... youre sounding like guys who go on The Bachelor. Throw in a few "journey" comments and a pile of roses and youre away!....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' FUck me OP (figure of speech)..... youre sounding like guys who go on The Bachelor. Throw in a few "journey" comments and a pile of roses and youre away!.... I've gotten a bit soft lately. My heart is open, it's in the right spot, and I'm looking for someone that will make my dreams theirs, and their dreams mine. All I can say, is it's OK to fail. Nice guys don't finish last, it just takes a bit longer to get there.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' FUck me OP (figure of speech) Hush now. You don't have to be scared about getting lost in my eyes any more. Because I will find you.
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Hottie1
9 years ago
We have made incredible friends from RHP and we share our lives outside of RHP too. They have a piece of our puzzle and we theirs. Yes, we've met some strange people, but like IRL they don't become part of the network we have developed. Herein lies my problem, I don't get (nor do I want to) keyboard chameleons. You think to yourself when you read what they say in forums and chat, they are so lovely and when you meet them IRL, you realise, FUCK! 😕😁 Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'ag4mg92' We have made incredible friends from RHP and we share our lives outside of RHP too. They have a piece of our puzzle and we theirs. Yes, we've met some strange people, but like IRL they don't become part of the network we have developed. Herein lies my problem, I don't get (nor do I want to) keyboard chameleons. You think to yourself when you read what they say in forums and chat, they are so lovely and when you meet them IRL, you realise, FUCK! 😕😁 Mary xx oooo, interesting any examples?
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