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RedHotPie Brisbane Drinks Night.
April 10 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can I ask why you have stipulated under 40?I can understand if its a play party but if its just a drinks meet and greet why age limit it?You have to consider the other RHP peeps in Brisbane who may be over 40 or even those under 40 that want to meet over 40's, please please do not take this the wrong way but even though you are the organiser you have to cater to the whole , not just to your own personal preferences.
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
But why do I have to consider other RHP peeps? If I was holding a gang bang, for example, would I have to cater for 'the whole'? Also please notice I did say 'ideally' this age group. I'm flexy on age but I'm looking for people that I wil be to have conversations and share common interests with - am I wrong in thinking that's probably more likely with people closer to my own age? I don't really understand why the fact that it's a social meet should mean I'm not entitled to be selective about who I'd like to attend and socialise with? As the organiser, I would be considering my own personal preferences - regardless of whether it's a social meet or otherwise - as I'm having this event for my own (selfish) reasons, not to satisfy the whole. Whilst I mentioned the Sydney Meet n' Greet, I'm not intending for this to be a carbon copy of that event. If any Brisbane peeps are interested in having an open event, they're more than able to post up another event Jess xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
With the event Jess....at least you won't have to put up with creepy old people.... I know cos I am one :-) Hugs Q....PS there are heasps of events posted with age preferences.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sounded great till I saw the valley and the age limit I was going to being my FB with me who is now on RHP.. I'm only attracted to men in there late 30's to mid 40's and I know he wouldn't be up to a night in the valley - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's her party and she can do what she wants to! So Jessica, are you going to invite people from the list of people who will express an interest or will you post the event details so that anyone attend?
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
You're far from creepy, I love your little forum pearls of wisdom and humour. Meeka thanks, it'll be fun even if to just catch up with a few already established rhp friends Of mine. I'll be keeping the details private and contact people via messages otherwise (based on already received messages) it'd likely be a massive sausage fest. Not that I'm against an abundance of wiener the right situation... but I'd like a more even male to female ratio. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Jessica, not sure what the younger women are like but a lot of the meet and greet drinks nights I have been to have had lots of women attending. I think lots of men decide not to go because they assume it will be a sausage fest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's called age "DESCRIMINATION"
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RHP User
11 years ago
There I was, quite excited on reading that there is going to be Brissie drinks and it looks like I will be in SE QLD that weekend. But then I read the criteria ...sigh Notwithstanding I am way way too ancient (I am sure most venues now have a disabled access I could get my zimmer frame through), I don't know if my fragile male ego could handle nominating for the event, then finding out I was not one of the few single males selected. Bugga (again, just for emphasis ...lol) Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
Something reasonably local and with Jess hosting? Pretty damn exciting news I must say
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
The one that was brainstormed after the last rhp meet and greet that happened in Brisbane? As for the age thing, my first thought when I saw the event details was that it can't be directed towards any real interested in meeting rhp's regular posters, and like other's have said that's ok, it's just that by calling it a redhotpie meet and greet suggests it's open. Rhp represents different things to different people who use it in different ways. But yeah, it's Jessica's party and she want to meet her peers, those who are bit longer in the tooth would have picked up that to post this in the forums was going to end up messy. The reason everyone's excited abput the Sydney meets is because so many going have interacted here on the forums and no doubt in the chatrooms which are another thing altogether. What I loved abut the Sydney and Brisbane Meet and greets that I went to was that it was about meeting people who already know eachother yet have never met, sexual tension wasn't a driving force, and it was fun. This one, age specific, except for some reads like it's more of a meet and greet to hopefully click and pick up. Again fair enough...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry "Mooka" your to "OLD"
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think Indy and sub gal were organising it....Indy is or was in Thailand xx Q
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playfulfunwa
11 years ago
your event ..your party ..totally up to you who you would like to attend !! for those complaining why not me? why not organise your own and invite anyone you like .It is your prerogative whom you invite ,why and want to come, same as it is for jessica...btw never met Jessicarabbit but totally respect where she is coming from...kind of obvious really if a party is on and your not invited ...would you really want to rock up ?? just saying
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just curious Jess.... I very rarely turn up to drinks nights. So..... What makes your meet and greet more desirable than an open to all?? Given that, the free for all usually have a major registration, but, with - at times - piss poor attendance. Also why not rename it from a RedHotPie meet and greet to "meet Jessica Rabbit" event?? Or even why even post it as an event?? why not just send those people you want to attend a message?? While I like seeing your posts and contributions, I feel it's an event for YOUR own gratification than about meeting and greeting. But.... I do hope it's a success for, I'd love to hear the results of the night :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
The Gold Coast one is still on and yes Indy still in Thailand, I pick her up from the airport tomorrow morning......good luck Jessica - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just read your first response my bad...you do indicate that it's for your own reasons :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_Mrs_Stig' It's called age "DESCRIMINATION" You mean just as your profile discriminates against anyone over the age of 55? Then yes, I suppose it is. I'll repeat my previous comparison, if I had posted up a gang bang event, would I be expected to open it to all? Why should this case be any different? Quoting 'playfulfunwa' your event ..your party ..totally up to you who you would like to attend !! for those complaining why not me? why not organise your own and invite anyone you like .It is your prerogative whom you invite ,why and want to come, same as it is for jessica...Thank you Playful.Quoting 'sir_stir'What makes your meet and greet more desirable than an open to all?? Also why not rename it from a RedHotPie meet and greet to "meet Jessica Rabbit" event?? Or even why even post it as an event?? why not just send those people you want to attend a message?? Sir_stir, if it's desirable to someone and they are 'ideally' within the range that I have specified in the post, then they can check it out and register interest. I'm not sure why I need to sell it to you at all? As far as I am aware, having 'RedHotPie' in the title doesn't specify that's an open to all event - I think it says nothing beyond the fact that those in attendance are probably from RedHotPie? It is a meet and greet for RedHotPie users, therefore the title (in my opinion) is accurate. I'm actually pretty peeved that I'm having to defend my event and justify my reasons for having it, so I'm not going to comment any further on it besides to say that the regular posters that ParadisePair mentioned may be the most visible members of the forums, but they certainly aren't the only ones here...Hence my reasons for posting it here. End of story. Quoting (sort of) Lesley Gore: "It's my party and I'll invite who I want to."Jessxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I came across this post as i was looking at what's going on while i travel around a couple of the capitals and it sounds great! Unfortunately, i can't go as i wont be around but looking at the responses, i'm a little shocked people... Jess wants to hold a party. Jess wants to invite a group of people that are IDEALLY within her criteria to match the same interests, whom are around the same age group. The last time i checked, she was well within her right to do so. The majority of posts having a go because it's "age discrimination"?! seriously?! plan your own party, mix and mingle in reality and stop being keyboard warriors - as it doesn't matter how old you are, they're not attractive. If you don't like it, why bother commenting? Why not just shake your head and move along? *sigh* oh people. To Jess, have an AMAZING time & hopefully we can catch up soon!
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RHP User
11 years ago
What confuses people is that normally, when an event like this is posted, the organiser usually doesn't exert ownership of such events. Due to your statement that in a way aligns it with the Sydney meet and greets, it's naturally - and quite fairly too I might add - assumed that it's not an invite only party. So when you define it as a RedHotPie'r meet and greet, your format for the event is somewhat different to the dynamic that people have experienced in the past. Hence why I suggested the name change. - Posted from rhpmobile
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BS_KS
11 years ago
Even if we are outside your age limits Jess we still think you're the hottest thing since Duran Duran. Have a great night. Kristy xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's why you didn't get invited all you old things....you are way too grumpy :-) xx Q
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
If you're free that night, feel free to message me and I'll keep you up to date with details xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are lots, and lots, and lots of events going on everywhere in Oz. Some are for everyone, others are designed to draw a crowd that may have more things in common. I can see how a couple in their 20s (no kids, first home buyers, still studying) would enjoy the opportunity to meet people who are on the same page as them, rather than struggle finding common ground with couples in their 40/50s. We might all be open-minded, sexy people but there are just simply some things only people around the same age as you appreciate. This shouldn't be viewed as discrimination or being mean/ageist. It's practical and at the end of the day, it's Jessica Rabbit's event. Good on her for taking the initiative to start something!
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Violetincredible
11 years ago
I need a like button for your comment! Xx
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hankster
11 years ago
Can we come ????? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your party you do what you want... But would love too have you in my spot light - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If an event was posted and it was for 40-60 year olds only, I certainly wouldn't get my knickers in a knot for not being included? Live and let live! I remember organising my high school reunion one year a few years ago. I had people who weren't in our school year emailing and FB messaging me to see if they could come along to the reunion. I thought it a little strange - why would you want to attend a party that is not intended for you? Anyone can post an event if they want to .. rather than complaining, get on it, peeps!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Geesh, you try to organise a party and somehow it becomes a political forum. Sad how a fun event has been turned upside down. Screw that!! Invite who you want and have a freakn good nt;-)
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
Yep we are supposed to be organising one for the GC but with Indy being in Thailand and me about to head out to the middle of nowhere for a new FIFO job it has been put on hold for a little bit. I had such an awesome time at the last Brissy one and am really looking forward to holding another one here on the coast this time. Here's hoping that a few more interstaters will be able to attend. Just need to brainstorm with the lovely Indy and as soon as we can settle on a date we will let everyone know...
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
We'll be there with bells on, would love to head up for Jessica's too but some practical real life stuff makes it unlikely...
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Seachange
11 years ago
I am not in your area nor do I fall in your age category. I don't see why some people give you a hard time on this. I salute you for taking the initiative in getting the party started, regardless of the age limits (or any limits you have set). I hope you have a great turnout. Ignore the negative rants and have a great time. Your party your list. We can't please everybody. Gooooo Rabbit!!!
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sexyduoplusu2
11 years ago
come on guys ! seriously if RHP decided to hold a party saying its for 40 plus would you see younger ppl making a big fuss ? We are a young couple and we will be going to this event :) we cant wait for it as we know that there wont be ppl OLD ppl there and very excited about that :P the amount of parties we have been to that say (for the younger ppl) but then try to get numbers and just invite old ppl :( we would rather go to a small party with a few younger ppl then a big one full of older ppl. lets face it we are here for our pleaser not anyone else's. so if your older then the age limit then just move on im sure there are plenty of other parties you guys could attend just not this one.Jess its about time someone decided to stand there ground :) see you soon
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've always wanted to go to a RHP night. This one in Bris sounded great....now I want to go for the controversy it's stirred. Funny how people are crapping. on about discrimination and such. That's all a profile is really lol
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imupinthesky2
11 years ago
All this nonsense about ageits just a numberI am sure, like Jessica's first thread on this topic, it is an expression of interestmake contact with her and she will contact you in returnlet he be the deciding vote as to who she would like to attend the party she is organising Jessica, may I express my interestI was unable to attend the last one, but I went to SuperFox's some time ago and it was a pleasant evening thanksx
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JessicaRabbit
11 years ago
Thanks to those that have had something positive to say about the event. I've been in touch with all of those that have expressed interest on the thread and will do so for anyone else that does. It's shaping up to be a great night already! Jess xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Looking forward to catching up with some of our sexy RHP friends!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sent a message privately as unable to register interest on the event page due to differing criteria. Definitely a 'select single guy' ;-) Have now read all the pages of this thread, what 'fun'. You sure know you're on the Internet with some of the keyboard cowboy/girl/cowsissy' responses!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Brissy & GC Mrs_AJ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lets start with a liddle love for Jessica and a liddle for correct grammar and, say it with me, pronunciation. Good. By now 50 per cent of you hate me which if im reading these forums correctly is der rigour for posters. She has organised it and obviously has a gap between her legs you could run a train thru. Enough said on Jessica and now a little bit about me which is really why im here ha ahah. Ive paid my money and still cant talk to anyone so this is my forum now, I own it. Because of my aforementioned possession I, notice the capital when talking about myself, again ha ahahah, here is a poem dedicated to RHP and flagrantly trying to draw attention to myself, I began to meander,thru lifes assorted meanswhen bugger me deadI became a liddle extreme I wished to plundermy bodys exotic fruitsI wanted to exploremy cock and all its roots I tried to stretch itin length and in girthI started to fuck thingsstuffed toys, assorted fruits, the earth digging a hole in the groundI soon realisedI appeared a bit of a gooseThen my thought process capsized I discovered RHPand all the tarts on itand found most of them pretty easythey didn't give a shit Looks or wealth, its not eharmonyposition or declineits just a question of cock lengthAt your place or mine A home for the dispiritedthe displaced or misunderstoodIt dawned upon me then should I post this....I should
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RHP User
11 years ago
Highrise71... Why on earth would you think people here don't like you ? GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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vodkaontherocks
11 years ago
haha wow the "old" people been so childish . sometimes you arent invited deal with it. ps id love come along to the next meet n greet drinks :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Your age says you are 18. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'highrise71' I began to meander Come back when you've gained 20 years and at least two inches. (In height. I mean height!)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do you want to Lady T his arse?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do you want to Lady T his arse?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Miss foxy.....consider my sin rescinded....I certainly DO NOT want to be 18 again as I'm about to have too much fun getting my Viking on.... Meander...your wish is my command....(insert imaginary mental image of me crossing my arms, blinking and having a spanking cleavage like Samantha, hang on she was a nose wiggler wasn't she, Genie did the blinking...another magnificent set of tits though)....BLINK....Done...I'm now 43....Can't do much about the two inches however...I will always be a collingwood 6 footer hahahaha
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RHP User
11 years ago
I loathe these sorts of posts.....there is absolutely no excuse for bad poetry xxQ
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Seachange
11 years ago
Mr Wordsmith, I thought you would have a field day with young master highrise71 post. Whoa. A grammar Nazi's paradise...After you....sir. Am so tempted to jump in. Highrise, you have mistakenly posted your IQ in the AGE box.
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RHP User
11 years ago
in terms of poetic ability...I've shown u mine....feel free to show me yours...haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Jess. Will you be having an similar event when you come back to Perth?
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