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Redhotpie....version 2.0

July 23 2014

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Hey everyone! Not sure if this type of proposal has been raised before, but I was very curious to know what people would think of the following idea... Now, it seems that there are all types of people on this site: Single guys, single girls, swinging couples, Groups for party's and events, cross-genders...the whole works! And that's great! Everyone has a right to be here! However...everyone is looking for their own, specific criteria, and there are many who get irritated by an abundance of messages from those outside their seeking criteria. It's very rare to come across a couples profile without 'SINGLE GUYS CAN F#*K OFF' plastered all over it. There are many girls who are only interested in other girls and couples, and then of course, there are gays and bisexuals who have preferences too. So, my question is, instead of everyone pissing eachother off by barking up the wrong tree, perhaps REDHOTPIE could be separated in to different sections when you log-in, depending on your profile: A Singles section, a couples section, bisexual, gay, lesbian, etc? That way, singles can actually mingle, and couples can be left to message each other all day without the hassling single males, and bis and gays can easily sought each other out. What are your thoughts people? Would it work? Would you prefer it?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that it would be a logistical nightmare to try and sort people into groups. I think a better option may be to be able to block whole 'groups' from being able to contact you. So me being a single woman only looking for a man, I could (if I wanted to) block all couples, tv/ts, bi men, bi women so only men could contact me. I think it should only be an option too because I like hearing from all sorts of people even if they aren't what I am looking for. I find people interesting. Some are annoying but you can already block individual people.

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  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    10 years ago

    As long as what people are looking for is of a sexual nature I think everyone should be welcome.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Great idea, but it would leave the forums pretty quiet! And besides, you can meet some lovely people who don't meet your personal criteria? But would be interesting to see if it worked.

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  • Plain

    Plain

    10 years ago

    Great Idea, but me thinks the owners of this site would not do it for the simple reason that it would cost revenue or sales lets face it apart from couples and ladies that have definite need for this site, most guys rush in pays their money and go WTF is this thats not what hooked them in, whats a category. Just an observation of commercial reality.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Actually not here looking for anything sexual....would there be a neutered section OP :-) xQ

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    I would rather read on a profile "Fuck off", then to sit waiting around from someone and a no show. How I see it, people have a right to post what they want in the Forums, they also have a right to post what they like on their profiles...if they say "Fuck Off" is it really hurting anyone??? If someone says that to me in REAL LIFE then I would have an issue. What about just a "JUST FOR SINGLES" sub topic in the Forums...there's couple corner, so why not one? Singles post in the couples corner and couples can post as well in the "Just for Singles"....yeah? Just a suggestion... Foxy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's all pretty well calibrated so you can whittle down your search options to only include what you're looking for, and only people who are looking for you. And having the full cornucopia on display makes for a much more interesting and entertaining site.

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Take all my fun away seeing people getting pissed off and whinging in the forums. Change the name though to RED HOT TAPE - all the red tape you have to go through to meet some one.

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

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  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    inspirit @ RED HOT TAPE! LMAO....That's GOLD!! Foxy

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  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    10 years ago

    What about peops who like dabbling here & there...sounds like they would be consticted in their choice. I like variety.. a bit of this and a bit of that so it wouldn't work for me.

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  • ruby_blossum

    ruby_blossum

    10 years ago

    Its called NON MATCHING in your message box. The rest is up to you....Just dont open it. Works for me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    it already shows a message with the red flags essentially saying "you don't match" Rather than all this segregation, the simpler solution would just be better filtering options on the messages/flirts. So you could just have all the ones you don't want to see filtered off into an "other" box, and either ignore them or browse through them later on. Maybe members could be given whitelists or something, so that couples looking for couples could still easily ahve conversations with singles that they want to.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm out of popcorn..... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Now why would you want to do that and spoil all our fun? ;) I actually also prefer to read all the drama and the bitchiness that goes on with people pissing each other off on here. Sometimes I can't believe some people take stuff said on here so seriously and personally. But that adds to the fun of the forums :) I do like the 'blocking by group' option, as ralf suggested :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm sick and the idea of how the concept might work is a mystery to my poor brain right now. . But I'm going to say... There's enough division already. And if there's a place where lines are blurry... this is it. You never can tell WHAT is behind a profile, so I really don't see any chance of it working. . I don't quite get where you're coming from Foxy, singles are very well presented in the forums with SWB, SMB, Girls Ask & Guys Ask. The ONE forum dedicated to couples is Couple's Corner. If I was to consider adding a new forum it would be a secret one for the couples to balance things out, so we can whinge about you singles in private too.

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    Some one ruffle your feathers chicken

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But would need work shopping. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yup sounds too complicated to me .......all single guys looking for couples should just message me instead :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Peachy... You'd be stuck in the singles forum with me and foxy !! 👀 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I know! It would be such a trial. :-D I'm so confused... My profile is a perfect example of why it wouldn't be easy to separate couples from singles. It could be said, I'm singular?

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Whenever you read phrases such as "SINGLE GUYS CAN F#*K OFF".... it means the profile was written by a guy... so you're probably not interested in the guy anyway... ___________read___________

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is complete bollocks. I get people that don't match in my match tab (for example, couples) and men that meet my age criteria sometimes come up in my unmatched tab. I think is it is broken.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Re-Qefenta3 Why??? This is a hook up site!!! If you just want friends go someplace else. It shits me when I see that on a profile.... Go join RSVP - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    FYI - A lot of us happen to like Q's input on the forums, and if you don't like something you see, YOU move along. Don't tell people what to do or you'll get your ass spanked :P - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • HappyCbrCouple

    HappyCbrCouple

    10 years ago

    Remember when the government wanted us to install filtering software to stop kiddies gaining access to nasty sites - where it is now ? Gone. Good software wont replace good parenting and nobody will prevent a horny teenager from gaining access to boobies... Heck, in my day it was by sneaking into the newsagent and pinching a playboy. Not me of course, but I know people who did :) Using technology to control behaviour isn't really a replacement for simple respect and good manners. People will find a way around the technology.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Mr.gladetc.... Gosh what an articulate charmer is you...I didn't realise that a prerequisite to posting was obligatory fucking...I shall rectify that immediately... :-) xQ

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People should take the time to read someones profile rather than just seeing a pic and firing off an obligatory msg or flirt and expecting a reply in turn? Though we reply to any and all messages the amount of single men sending them is amazing when it clearly states no single men. And this is Mrs3's choice btw...she just isnt interested in MMF action. Her choice, so it should be respected. We don't fire off messages to str8 women as we're clearly something they aren't looking for, or single women not interested in couples. If everyone would take the time to read the profile which was set up for that exact reason, then there aren't any issues in my opinion.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Gladhe8her333.... Fresh meat :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Isn't this what the search engine is for ?? Anyway I like things just the way they are after all whats more inspiring than seeing hot pics of naked women that you're not allowed to touch on the front page - it really makes you try that little bit harder.....things like posting in the forums to make others think your not just a straight white trash deviate

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