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Regrets

February 19 2015

Ok today's topic. is regrets (sexual of course) For me, when I way young and silly I took a cute woman out on a date we had a great time. She was a virgin. Anyway, at the end of the night we were saying good night it got hot and steamy. I was rubbing her pussy when I felt something. It turned out to be a bit of toilet paper that remained after she had had a wee..... I was horrified and never went out with her again.... Before you say how shallow and idiotic. Yes I know that's part of my regret. She was really nice and I regret that I didn't continue with that relationship...... So what is your regret?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have a whole book xxFreya

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    I regret reading a few opinions in these forums.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    That I lay there under anyone that was nice to me. That I never fought back the times I was sexually assaulted including my first time. Now I would stick a sharp object in a persons eye. I regret that I missed a lot of great sex because I did not say, hang in a minute is there something in this for me? Being young we do not have a crystal ball. We are explorers of self and others. We are partially blind to the posibilities, blinkered by our up bringing. We all have those toilet paper moments. I have had the whole roll and the cardboard roll. But it makes and shapes us as we stumble along. Now I am well and truly making up for those lost moments of could have been. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    I regret reading a few opinions in these forums.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Did you manage to have a sex life when you were young.?.Girls wearing denim jackets with dresses you rejected and now this poor girl 😳xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    He created males with a penis females with a vagina and both with an anus.Watch them fuck this up he thought.And he's still pissing him self laughing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There are things I probably shouldnt have done, but when I look back, by doing them, right or wrong, it led me to where I am today. I believe in fate so every experience is just another step on lifes journey. And the bad ones are something to learn from. Dont dwell on the past. look forward to the future.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sexual.....no, because since joining RHP I have done a few things I would have never ever done as my old self, and at this age I am comfortable with my sexuality. I know what I want and I am having the best time. My profile pic is a good example.....a couple of years ago I undressed in the dark and had no lingerie to speak of, I thought I was way past having a hot sex life. Fast forward......I didnt have the confidence then that I do now, so nothing to regret there.

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    I have no recollection of any cigars or misgivings😳

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'thepeach' That I lay there under anyone that was nice to me. That I never fought back the times I was sexually assaulted including my first time. Now I would stick a sharp object in a persons eye. I regret that I missed a lot of great sex because I did not say, hang in a minute is there something in this for me? Being young we do not have a crystal ball. We are explorers of self and others. We are partially blind to the posibilities, blinkered by our up bringing. We all have those toilet paper moments. I have had the whole roll and the cardboard roll. But it makes and shapes us as we stumble along. Now I am well and truly making up for those lost moments of could have been. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I regret not starting/being successful earlier, but I doubt that I could get into the scene like I am now, without the maturity from general life and relationship experience I have now as an older adult.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't get that at all. Adults can actually decide what they want to read. Even from a lofty perch - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why regret anything, there is no right or wrong. Each path you choose is just a lesson, be it not seeing someone again because of a piece of toilet paper, reading some of ridiculous posts on the forum, those lessons have brought you to this moment, this exact moment, the question you should be asking yourself, which path do I take next and make sure you have a smile on your dial while making that decision Now to answer the original question, I do regret not experiencing more with a person I really felt at home with, instead I thought the grass would be greener and oh look it was not

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    But when sometime in the future when I feel settled in all areas of my life. Then those regrets will be long forgotten :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have very few regrets sexually speaking, it's all experience and had made me the lover and person i am today*. However, I've had many many many regrets in regards to love and relationships. I don't tend to wear those mistakes as stoically. They hurt too much. Boo hoo. The women I never took things further with continue to haunt me. But this could also be fantasy, I'm a temperamental romantic, and also as hopeless. Also, passing 30 years of age could mean biology is kicking in, my daddy in comfy slippers part of my brain has protruded like a hernia. *all welcome to put me through assessment as to whether that's good, bad or...............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I make my own decisions and stand by them. If circumstances don't work out as expected, I just take it in my stride. No point wasting my time thinking about "what should or could have been". Instead, I look forwards and try not to look back. I'll be a much happier person this way. Amy

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' I regret reading a few opinions in these forums..... LMAO

  • precious142

    precious142

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'CucknShells' Quoting 'JerseyGirl' I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention. Yes but I did it my way. Shells. sentiments exactly gals.........well said!!! Although I did regret not taking up a shower offer with a hot toyboy few years back..........body issues!!!!But - they are now starting to become non issue.....thanks to some fabulous RHP meets!!!!

  • voyercouple2

    voyercouple2

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'JerseyGirl' I've had a few. But then again, too few to mention. I did what I had to do and saw it through without exemption

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Regret is not something to induce stress, it is something we use to learn. Regret, sexually??? I would say my youth, I regret not knowing that sex is not love and love does not need sex. I regret letting others dictate what I find attractive and not. I regret saying NO and not understanding that having my arse felt up on the dance floor and being asked if we should go somewhere private means she wants to fuck me. I regret hiding my attraction. To sum up. Regret, its not really regret, it's just a shame that i was such a dumb fuck when I was young.

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    10 years ago

    Every step we take is a building block of our lives. sometimes instead of blocks lies a hole in which we stumble. Rather than focusing on the hole and forgetting the journey, remember it fondly as an obstacle to avoid along your path. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' Did you manage to have a sex life when you were young.?.Girls wearing denim jackets with dresses you rejected and now this poor girl 😳xxFreya Hey Freya Ahhh you remembered my earlier post.... Good question. all I remember is spending lots of times at clubs and more often than not going home alone. Actually I remember one night in particular. I was incredibly horny, walked in the door and was all over myself. I was like an octopus hands everywhere. I couldn't remember how but before long I was nude. Then a moment later in bed, OMG I thought I'm not that sort of guy, but do I regret it now.... no way hahaha But in all seriousness, I was young and stupid. And I really regret those two instances (yes only two) both women were really nice and I didn't treat them as well as I should have...... not that I was nasty but just wasn't concerned about their feelings.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Regret is not something to induce stress, it is something we use to learn. Regret, sexually??? I would say my youth, I regret not knowing that sex is not love and love does not need sex. I regret letting others dictate what I find attractive and not. I regret saying NO and not understanding that having my arse felt up on the dance floor and being asked if we should go somewhere private means she wants to fuck me. I regret hiding my attraction. To sum up. Regret, its not really regret, it's just a shame that i was such a dumb fuck when I was young. Touche Mr Blindman very well said. I was certainly a dumb fuck too.... Thank you...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Sexual.....no, because since joining RHP I have done a few things I would have never ever done as my old self, and at this age I am comfortable with my sexuality. I know what I want and I am having the best time. My profile pic is a good example.....a couple of years ago I undressed in the dark and had no lingerie to speak of, I thought I was way past having a hot sex life. Fast forward......I didnt have the confidence then that I do now, so nothing to regret there. Good on you Koko..... well I for one think that you're hot hot hot........ any man would be lucky to have you....