M62
Repeat profile views..
February 20 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm not much of a fan of lurkers. Only because I'm a really big fan of talking to people! I have regular profile viewers and yes, it can be unsettling occasionally. I don't block them though. I appreciate they might like my pics, or my 'war and peace' effort at a profile and perhaps they even like my forum contributions. However if they are that keen on my RHP activity, why not contact me and say hello?? I don't bite unless asked to and I enjoy making new friends. I only ever ask that people read my profile before they contact me and I only ever discriminate against those who demonstrate in their first message that they clearly haven't bothered to read it. Even the dickheads get a reply from me though! So, whilst its a little creepy at times, I don't have a golden number of profile views someone can reach before making me feel like a rabbit. Mmmm ... Rabbit.
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rc_80
13 years ago
We had a person view us enough times over a couple months that we took notice. Maybe 15-20 times... once or twice every few days. Interstate profile, so didnt bother messaging... yet...However, one day it got a bit more serious. We just got bombarded. Maybe 27 views in one days was a bit much, but then to come back 19 times the next, and 12 times the day after that, was just insane. So we sent a message... asking if she (was a single girl) liked our pics, and if we should be worried that she was a serial killer? Made a bit of a joke about it all, and tried to get a flow of conversation happening. We got blocked. And then viewed ten or more times a day the next few days until we sent a message to the RHP team. They put a stop to her.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You can see what topics a person has been contributing to by clicking on the "more actions" tab of their profile. It's quite useful if you have your favorite contributors. A contributor like Meeka might post frequently and being such a charismatic and interesting person, she can hardly complain if someone perves on her profile 20 times a day. Does she have the right to feel that it's creepy? YES. That's because it is creepy. How many times is too many? That's for you to decide in the circumstances. If you're a creep, obviously your perception is a little out of hilter with the person whos profile is being viewed. What can a person like Meeka do about it? Well that's what the block button is for. The system isn't infallible, but it is here for our enjoyment, not to make us feel like we're being stalked. Hugs Stalky
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
So if I see a name pop up over and over and like the look of their profile I tend to message them and ask, "What're you lookin' at?". If I don't like the look of their profile and they've never tried contacting me I might block them. I never thought about the links to what I've been blabbing on about... if they're not a forum regular and never talked to me it's their loss I guess.In some cases me contacting them has let to a little banter and me giving access to my PGs, if they're nice they're not hurting anything by looking (unless it gets to the level of rockercouple's experience ~ creepy as fuck). If they never get back to me but keep looking I might block them. I'm fickle. *shrug*xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've had a bit of everything with this...had the normal ones who after a message have had a little banter with and it's been fine, also had the ones who view a hell of a lot, and then don't reply if sent a message, which makes me wonder why (I'm a woman dammit, I need to know everything :P) and the ones who fit absolutely none of my criteria, have sent numerous flirts and a bajillion profile views, that one always creeps me out and has ended up in a few blocks. So no not a specific number, but more a specific scenario
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bajillion? I think the term we're looking for DGT is "Vadgillion". The Milf per square meter ratio here in RHP land is truly sensational. Ive had to sanction my profile perving! :)) Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
One thing I didn't expect through posting in forums is the number of profile views....went from a small handful every now and then to a decent bunch every day...don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining - quite the opposite in fact. Who doesn't love a little attention and occasional nice comment? However, I have come across a couple of people who've viewed my profile enough to be a little weird, you'll never guess which gender :-PI've only ever blocked two people and that was only because they've personally insulted me. I work on the assumption that, when I post photos on a website, people are going to look at them. Whether its once, twice or a thousand times, you've put yourself on display - advertising yourself if you will. Therefore, my getting upset/blocking someone because they're looking at my profile a lot seems a slightly unfair thing - I posted the photos, ergo I should expect they will be viewed by whomever and whenever they so choose. As a side not, if flirts and messages come into the equation, then its a different story. Sending repeated flirts and messages to someone who isn't interested is purely harassment and shouldn't be tolerated. Hugs :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have a few that instantly look at my profile the moment I log on. I don't know if they check out my forum comments or not but - hi guys (waves). Nothing wrong with looking as far as I'm concerned. As long as they are respectful if they ever message or flirt it's all good. We all do a bit of window shopping now and again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Stalky, after much deliberation I have decided not to block you. After all, who am I to deny you the pleasure of my profile :p Although, yes it is creepy when you are online and you can see that someone is looking at your profile every 10 minutes or every half an hour. I don't understand? What are they looking at so often?? Are people aware that you can hide the fact that you are viewing a profile? xx Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gwwaddd.. shhh.. don't tell about the profile viewing options! lolz.. I asked a couple of guys to stop looking at my profile so often..As it does creep me out. They replied that they were sorry and they just flick through the who's online now pages.. Kinda makes a girl feel special.. lol sweetp xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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PartyOrg
13 years ago
Well I wont name any names, but I have a couple stare at my profile without every week. I sent them a message saying hello and if they would be interested in coming along to one of our parties, but no response :S Funnily enough this has been going on for over a year, but no contact.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guess this is the right place, so here goes .....I would like to offer a sincere and heartfelt apology to any person, living or dead, that I had the audacity to view their profile more than once. Yes I do understand that it may be considered stalking, but when I get a message stating that the profile has new photo's (including those that are kind enough to grant me access to their PG), I do feel that they put those photos up to be viewed, so I view!I humbly promise now to keep a detailed, extensive record to ensure I only view a profile once, after all they are a one time use right!!!Mooka
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rc_80
13 years ago
Yeah, we have people register for our parties. You contact them to ask for them to show us a pic, or tell us about them.... dead. no reply. nothing. Quoting 'PartyOrg' Well I wont name any names, but I have a couple stare at my profile without every week. I sent them a message saying hello and if they would be interested in coming along to one of our parties, but no response :S Funnily enough this has been going on for over a year, but no contact.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As long as they're friendly and intend to take it further. Its a shame to waste all that eyeball work at get nothing at the end of it. We also wonder about interstate viewers and their intentions. Some people travel so we're open to offers from those further afield. Guys.....hmmmmm our profile is clear about that but we still get some guys perving. Upsetting? Nah not really unless they become obsessive and Stalky oops sorry stalkERS lol. Sorry Stalky. We admit that we sometimes look a few times at partucular profiles. That could be because we are interested and have similar tastes and interests. Mr. T might be browsing at a different time to Mrs. T and she will take a peek later and vis versa. We have noticed that when browsing on our mobiles it will register that we have had multiple views of a profile when we haven't. That, and the fact we're probably going senile we forget all those interesting pics and juicy details and have to go back for another look lol. Oh and not to forget, we are a little shy too. (blushes) . So it takes a while to build up the courage to take the first step. We're not all the garrulous and outgoing type. As for PartyOrg...the idea of a party can be very intimidating for most people. We are just toe dipping into this area and although its exciting just thinking about it, we can understand why some will look but shy away when approached. So for those GENUINE people who look at us several times, send a flirt, PLEASE lol. Timewasters we can block.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I could stare at your one nipple shot all day long Tmax! Very enticing. Mezmerising even! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can't belive people don't respond to messages from ladies. i can understand women not responding to messages from men. that's all part of the game. but not the other way around, what's that all about?messages are so rare i put them in a copper banded oak chest and buried it down by mettams pool (or somewhere). I made three different maps. posted one to my self, put one in my will and floated the other off shore in a talisker bottle. this way i'll be sure to find my messages when i need them.not answering messages from the ladies!! ~shakes head~
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RHP User
13 years ago
look at the war and peace thing..and i think DGT = Die Gross Texte (bad deutsch for lots of lady words)
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RHP User
13 years ago
i seem to be getting a woman viewing my profile everyday but yet i cant view her profile whats that about???
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Reck1
13 years ago
ok repeat looks happen when you perusing who is close to you and you show an interest but what of those who continually look at your profile but they have you blocked ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
We don't mind people looking at our profile at all. I am sure we have looked lots of times at profiles and drooled over some of them but not messaged as we are out of their price range etc. I take it as a compliment.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
we get the same deal with people but we thought must be interested in one of us and not the other .But that cant be just people checking out free porn maybe, who knows ?Keep on tossing dreamers .
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RHP User
13 years ago
after posting on the forums few times, I noticed the views to my profile increase, I did notice the "repeat viewers", I can't say its creepy, my profile it's free for everyone to view, you do wish for them to make a more forward move if in fact they are that interested, a wink or a message..When I do have my eye on a particular profile, initially I might go back to it a few times, read what they have written, check out the photos.. and as stated above, when I'm interested, make the move and show specific interest..I think a large number of RHP members have that "voyeur" element in them, like to check out profiles, read forums but not go to the next level to actually contact members and organize meetings..my message, make the move boys and girls, the attention is appreciated, you never know, contact might result in access to sexy photos, a phone number or even a meeting *wink*good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'rockercouple80' We had a person view us enough times over a couple months that we took notice. Maybe 15-20 times... once or twice every few days. Interstate profile, so didnt bother messaging... yet...However, one day it got a bit more serious. We just got bombarded. Maybe 27 views in one days was a bit much, but then to come back 19 times the next, and 12 times the day after that, was just insane. So we sent a message... asking if she (was a single girl) liked our pics, and if we should be worried that she was a serial killer? Made a bit of a joke about it all, and tried to get a flow of conversation happening. We got blocked. And then viewed ten or more times a day the next few days until we sent a message to the RHP team. They put a stop to her. Jesus Rocker... That is a bit serious. Im glad RHP sorted it out otherwise i'd be freaking out worried. Considering....LRE.. is that you? THE Little Red Engine? the same bloke i know yonks ago?!?! can it be true???
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rc_80
13 years ago
She either has her profile locked, or she's blocked you. Quoting '4yourpleasures' i seem to be getting a woman viewing my profile everyday but yet i cant view her profile whats that about???
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rc_80
13 years ago
Here's another one:Got a couple, looking for single girls only. Looked at our profile EVERY day.... so...We sent them this last month:so, you guys check us out like... every day. No problem there, we check you out too in return. You reckon you could be converted from 'chicks only' to... 'rockercouple can have some' ?? We wouldnt want no strap on though... that shit scares us! PG gallery opened up for ya. P+S They've looked at us close to daily since then (just over five weeks). No reply. Nothing. Premium members. We hope they see this thread.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mind serial lookers whether they match what we are looking for or have intentions to meet or not. To me this pleasure catalyst of a place is about pleasure for all whatever that is individually- so if some are just voyeurs then so be it and if they like what they see and want to look again and again I don't mind. It's 7 flirts in a row or messages down the track when I have said no thank you like they think they might be able to slip through the net this time that I find weird but I still see it as acceptable because to me RHP is any and everyone's game to play it how they choose. If I don't like it I just politely say no thanks and then ignore, I am yet to block anyone yet though.The other day a couple misinterpreted my reply msg. So I carefully crafted my rebuttal to be as concise and unambiguous as possible to set them straight only to find out I was blocked without right of reply!!! LOL!!!Cass xxx
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rc_80
13 years ago
Ok, so our serial profile lookers are BACK. From now on, for every profile view, they will get one message from us. Each message will only contain the number of views since we started getting a little freaked out. It's at 22 right now. I wonder how long until they realise?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Think anyone with decent pics will have there fair share of lurkers, they tend to come and go. I don't mind as long as they dont then flood my inbox with flirts. I mean you kind of get the hint with the 10 or so hits...they must like the pics or are interested, but if the profile owner hasn't taken up the "in your face" "Yeah we get it! you can stop now with the hits /flirts.."...then maybe its time to go on to next profile or back to plain ol perving at the pics "stalker mode" you know? the one in your edit functions which doesn't show profile owner you have passed by there profile AGAIN? I'm sure I could have had "stalker/perve" badge put on my chest had some profilesowners known how many times I go for a sneeky peek!
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brent3250
13 years ago
wow i just veiwed rockercouple80's profile to see what the fuss is all about and i was going to send them a msg saying i can see why you have serial lookers as your a pretty attractive cpl and apologuise for looking , but when you read a forum post like this you can help but look so i got blocked for my one and only look bit harsh if you aske me lol
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rc_80
13 years ago
Not interested in single guys. Most try their luck out by messaging anyway, so we just block first. Saves a shit load of wasted time at our end. You got a problem with that? We don't...
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RHP User
13 years ago
@sparty. yep that is me, i got bored and drunk one night and found my self back here. @peachypear hey i did not know you could do that. but if i did krissy_g would not know i'd dropped by. LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have a theory that 'serial lookers' mostly like the pictures, Maybe they (or the males anyway!) are playing with themselves as they look! Not sure if that makes you feel any better but at least they must get hot and horny over the pics! 'Photo collectors' are also out there! And for those that think your pictures cannot be 'copied' think again, it is actually pretty easy to do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I used to keep a tally of all the pies that blocked me, by blocking them in kind. I turned it into a game... back then your stats showed who has blocked you. Anyway, after the first couple of hundred I got over it. :)) I figured most of them were in the chat room.. and most of those were wankers. lmfao. I mean, wanking... anyway.. same same.HugsStalky
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brent3250
13 years ago
rockercouple80 definatally have no problem with that at all ,future reference posting in forums = people are going to look enough said :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had about 30 flirts from one guy in one afternoon... I know Im guilty of looking at profiles multiple times, especially when it says that they have viewed mine I go and look at theirs... Are you supposed to keep track of who you have viewed and who you have not????
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RHP User
13 years ago
well we are a couples profile and we usually arnt on at the same tim e so it tends to look like we are stalking when there is actually two of us looking at two different times, so we appologise we are not the stalker type.in saying that though we have had people stalk our page and it gets annoying to once u have replied thanks but no thanks or we dont see planets collied then thye keep flirting and nagging then yeah thats too much. we dont mind the viewings but not when you keep pumping n begging, mwah xxxmrs cheeky
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abcplus1
13 years ago
She looks, looks, looks Didn't respond to a message Flattered by some profile repeat viewers, annoyed by others (eg someone completely the opposite of what we seek)
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Mr_Invisible
13 years ago
I don't mind lookersI would however like the young lady thats viewing my profile regularly to make it visible so I can see itI don't understand why she has me blocked but keeps looking at me 5-10 times a weekUnlock it young lady :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have never actually had the urge to post in a forum but this subject actually caught my attention . Being another dreaded single male I have found that ( If you read my profile ) I generally tend to search most couples profiles and also very select womens profiles . I am a man of respect and manners its just natural and how I was brought up . If a sign says 'NO SINGLE MALES ' I respect it and move on with grace . But over my time exploring this forbidden world I have found that most of my very good friends who have enjoyed me and my company are people who actually never put the big neon sign up of ' NO SINGLE MALES ' But men are not listed in their desires???? I'm much the same if I notice someone looking at me I will check them out and cross read their profile or its also very interesting to just read their posts , interests etc But If I look at the wrong profile ...... Bang!!!!!! itchy fingers on the block button it always makes me laugh . I was looking yes but was I actually going to send a message ???????????? The freaky for me is guys women or couples who view you on a regular basis , every log in yet if you make contact and all you get is a very blank and cold screen I start to wonder ................... Who? Why? and Where ? Kids ?? Computer Freak ?? Or am I being too precious to even bother thinking about it ????? its their little bit of fun and how they get their jollies off . Everyone is different and everyone is not for everyone and everyone has a very different approach to it . Classy xo
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are these the same people that look over and over, flirt and then dont reply when you msg them... We get busy sometimes and i am sure we have missed replying to msg's and invitations... We might even border on stalking some profiles.. But there are two of us and occasionally he likes to get on here and have a browse through who i'm trying to do. Lol. Oh and Krissy_G we'll happily keep viewing you... Hehe. I know I love your forum antics and pics hehe.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mmm people that look at my profile a bit get a "Hey so what's happening :)" and then they say nothing. A little disappointing, but I only block people when they get abusive or weird.
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RHP User
13 years ago
that doesnt bother me, because with all the people that message you its hard to keep track of who ur talking to and what u like about individuals so viewing someones profile regularly is a neccessity, plus then you can check if their online, so the" view" most likley is for something as simple as that, not being stalked!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
love ur way of thinking :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Totally agree here. We all appreciate being admired. My only curiosity is that I get the same thing, many profile views from the same people but i FEEL as if they might be interested. Yet they dont get in touch! I've yet to meet someone off here. Actually when i was on a few years ago I met a couple from out Sutherland, but that was when i was in a COUPLE profile... Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' I don't give a damn how many times a day people look at my profile. I rarely take any notice of it, and yes, have also experienced the same person looking more than 10 times a day, but I figure they read my forum posts because I am a serial poster and we need serial readers. Yin yang, balance all that... I've add my favourite forum celebrities to my hot list so I get updates on their posts on my home page stream It's kind of creepy the way I lick your brain repeatedly, isnt' it??? Rockers - over 20 is certainly excessive but I still don't think I'd do anything about it unless they sent repeat emails. And then, I simply block them. There is one guy who didn't take "thanks but no thanks" very well and I blocked him in the first month of being on RHP (way before I discovered the forums). To this day I always note him on the list of profile views should I venture there, and often multiple times each day. I just find it natural and justified coz I'm so FUCKING HOT Give the profile stalkers a break - we're putting up our best display in the shop window, it's not illegal for a shark to do the rounds of the fish bowl while on the public pavement outside If he chooses never to enter the shop and try me on - so what? I have more important things to think about And we all know you can never tame a tiger in your bamboo Chilli xx If only I had a dollar each time I've asked for Thai Chi instead of Chai Tea...
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MegaSin
13 years ago
How can one look away from your stunning Pictures Saturn ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes I just forget that I have looked at someone and I will end up looking at their profile three or four times. I have to say that I have never failed to respond to a message though. I had never thought of any sinister reasons that may be behind it and I would be horrified if someone thought that I had some vague ulterior motive. I seem to have a few lurkers of my own since I out my pics up ages ago, almost all men having a peek. I had a chat with a good friend about it one day (she is also on the site) and although sometimes I find it a little amusing, I certainly don't mind. Actually I feel a little complimented by it. I guess at the end, my attitude to it is that I have chosen to put myself, my profile and my pictures "out there" so I should expect it to happen a little. One day if I feel I need to I can always block them, but really doesn't worry me at all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If people look at us over and over they get blocked unless they are what we are after. Keeps it simple. No offence meant.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We don't mind people looking but when you send a message and don't get a reply we hit the block button. We are also known to bloke people that do not fit our age/wants criteria.Each to their own though. There is no right or wrong.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '4yourpleasures' i seem to be getting a woman viewing my profile everyday but yet i cant view her profile whats that about??? I've guessed that this means they have blocked you.... Anyone know of any other reason??The only time I will look at a profile that I might have blocked is to reconfirm with myself who that person is. I can't remember every single username and what my reason for blocking them was so sometimes I have to have a look so that I remember. It's also even more difficult when there is no profile picture on display.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Looking at us if you are a single man - that will get you blocked.Looking at us from interstate - that will get you blocked.Outside our age range, that's a blockin.Naked except for your socks, you better believe that's a blockin.Lookin at us more than once a day, blocked.Lookin at us sideways, block block block.Sunglasses on? Blocked quicker than you can blink.If we dont like your hair, your eyes, your teeth, your shoes, the background in your photo - blocked.Cock too big, too small, too bent, too visible - that's a blockin.Tits too big, too small, too round, not visible enough - that's a blockin.Amusing profile handle not very amusing, that will get you blocked.Hang out on dodgy internet sex sites, blocked.You know what, stuff it, you can all go and get blocked!Ahh the serenity.Mr Chick(Kidding, really. It's wasn't you it was us, it was just a thing we were going through. I've unblocked you now and it will never happen again I promise. Please look at me, pleeeaase. Look at me, look at me, look at me, pleeaase! It's too quiet in here. Am I talking to myself? Bugger, now I'm blocked)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Recently after enchanging a few brief messages to determind if we connect a certain member viewed my profile <10 (actually 14) in a 24hr period... I truthfully was sure what the heck was going on with viewing my profile as its indicates a crazy number over such a short time frame so I kindly sent a message stating if there is anything she would like to say, fire away as I am receptive to most questions of which she never replied... My solution was not to hit the BLOCK button but was to remove her Private Gallery access... Easily fixed as we are all seeking different things via this damn site.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And a worthy gallery it is too. I probably should spend more time looking at the forums I've posted in. I totally missed that until today..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of a Simmons episode from way back when... LOL Quoting 'chickcara' Looking at us if you are a single man - that will get you blocked.Looking at us from interstate - that will get you blocked.Outside our age range, that's a blockin.Naked except for your socks, you better believe that's a blockin.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Who cares really as long they didnt come with an Axe whats the problem?...be thankfull someone is admiring your pictures and loves seeing your profile so the rest really, whateva !! x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why do people get so threatened when someone outside of their carefully crafted criteria (which one doesn't know until you view the profile) that they have to block after one view? Not that it has happened to me, just curious on why people are that paranoid that they have to resort to blocking.AND ....The exact opposite - why do people feel they have to contact someone just because their profile got looked at? I look at quite a few profile, from here, from the chat room and it is all down to curiosity - definitely not to try to get into their pants. Just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they are interested in you. Hell they could be confirming you live far enough away to not be a threat, or worse, really want to see how bad your profile pics are lol
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rc_80
13 years ago
Its got nothing to do with feeling threatened. Some single guy, whom we are totally uninterested in meeting, views our profile. Fine. We then log in, and see who has viewed our profile. Hmm, single guy... fine. They then log in, and check who viewed them... oh it's rockercouple... have another look. We then log in, check who viewed, etc etc and so on and so on in a perpetual cycle.So, we arent interested in contact from single guys, they have no need to email us, and we cant be bothered explaining to them that we arent interested... we never will be, and we have have been.Its much easier to click on block. 1/4 of a second. Never will we have to get excited about a message coming in, only to find out its the same guy who has been viewing us, because we viewed him, because he viewed us...The results? We'd get a handful of messages from single guys each week, 2-3-4... disregarding our clear profile description. Now we block straight up. Last message from a single guy was before xmas some time. And that's AWESOME :P Quoting 'mooka' Why do people get so threatened when someone outside of their carefully crafted criteria (which one doesn't know until you view the profile) that they have to block after one view? Not that it has happened to me, just curious on why people are that paranoid that they have to resort to blocking.AND ....The exact opposite - why do people feel they have to contact someone just because their profile got looked at? I look at quite a few profile, from here, from the chat room and it is all down to curiosity - definitely not to try to get into their pants. Just because someone looked at your profile doesn't mean they are interested in you. Hell they could be confirming you live far enough away to not be a threat, or worse, really want to see how bad your profile pics are lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand (I think). You may feel that your profile is that attractive that if a single guy dares look at it, he will be compelled to contact you. Now let us be honest here, you are one of the more prolific posters on these forums, what happens if someone, and yes it could be the poor, down-trodden single male, decides to contact you to compliment you on a particular post. He doesn't want to get into your g-string, he doesn't want to get into your wife's g-string, he might just want to privately thank you for maybe supporting him in a thread. Now this poor, misguided individual can post his Thank You on the forums but some might like a little discretion. Instead, he does what he thinks is the right thing and finds himself blocked. You go from having a supporter here to someone who thinks you are a pretentious prat. Just one thing though - you said ' We then log on, check who viewed, etc etc ....'. Why are you checking the profile of single men that don't interest you. Surely you can identify if the person who viewed you is male or female, single or couple, it is all there on the screen. Maybe you might have to change your viewing habits, you could be contributing to the vicious cycle you described. Hell I never click on a male profile if they viewed me, I just ignore them - works for me :D Quoting 'rockercouple80' Its got nothing to do with feeling threatened. Some single guy, whom we are totally uninterested in meeting, views our profile. Fine. We then log in, and see who has viewed our profile. Hmm, single guy... fine. They then log in, and check who viewed them... oh it's rockercouple... have another look. We then log in, check who viewed, etc etc and so on and so on in a perpetual cycle.So, we arent interested in contact from single guys, they have no need to email us, and we cant be bothered explaining to them that we arent interested... we never will be, and we have have been.Its much easier to click on block. 1/4 of a second. Never will we have to get excited about a message coming in, only to find out its the same guy who has been viewing us, because we viewed him, because he viewed us...The results? We'd get a handful of messages from single guys each week, 2-3-4... disregarding our clear profile description. Now we block straight up. Last message from a single guy was before xmas some time. And that's AWESOME :P
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rc_80
13 years ago
If some single guy, who we will never meet, thinks we are pretenious for blocking him, who really gives a rat's??? WE COULD CARE LESS. ~~~We USED to~~~ look at single guys, because we could. Same as they can view us. We did it because we wanted to see who was looking at us. No other reason. We got over that real quick. Why the hell are we even justifying this?? Regardless, how we choose to use RHP, is up to us. If it offends or upsets you as a single guy, to know we block single guys, well, too bad.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow! I will definately think twice before viewing anyone's profile again!! There are hundreds of profiles up here, while taking into consideration issues raised in regards to views is it really practical to remember every profile you've viewed everytime you do a search? (Its all a power trip if you ask me)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If someone views my profile either once or twenty times and their profile or pics creep me out, I'm going to frigging block them....it's mine, I pay for the damn thing, Im here for pleasure not to be grossed out by some guy with a mound of pubes so deep you could stuff a mattress I won't be told what I can be attracted to, nor can I be talked around, Im old enough and ugly enough that I know my own mind by now..........nor will I be made to feel guilty about blocking some *cough* innocent viewer. I'm not belittling them, or being a nasty bitch via message, I'm just saying in my own way...."Sorry, but you do NOT have permission" it really is as simple as that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
@D_G_T twenty times in a short space of time is creepy but how about over a period of months or something? Don't get me wrong, I am not by any means trying to justify people winging about being blocked but just saying not all of us are stalkers or perverts coz. I've been blocked by a couple of people but I don't get mad coz its a clear indication the other party is not interested therefore noones time is wasted in efforts of further pursuit or contact. This is a public site with public content however I do agree one should have a choice who it is available too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It does save time on wasted effort or in the guys case a wasted and valuable message, I don't block anyone just for the sake of it. Mostly it's the ones who have sent me numerous flirts (to which I actually have replied using the 'sorry dont see our planets colliding blah blah') and possibly a message that I have already responded to declining in the past. If I can look at the contact history, so can they, I'm not here to guide the idiots through basic English or heaven forbid, taking a no for a no. You can easily pick the ones who have innocently browsed back onto your profile after a month or so, and fair enough if you've changed your pics etc....it's not going to look familiar until they actually open your profile and read. But I prefer my profile not be used for a free peep show for someone so far outside my preferences that its not even funny. and I only become a bitch when they make the need arise Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
We get it all the time. What usually happens is some one will view our profile and naturally we will take a look at who it is. Then they will do the same back again. The following day we will go through who has viewed our profile and end up clicking on the profile again as we haven't bothered remembering there profile name. We then get a wink along the lines of . "I have noticed you also"As a couple another issue is myself or Jane can view the profile at different times and not know the other person has already viewed it.We did have a stalker last year that viewed our profile several times a day for most of the year. We actually found it kind of funny . In the end I just sent them a message offering to post them a laminated copy of our profile for Xmass. The views toped then.If its some one very creepy looking or who has something sick in there profile we just block them same for people that keep sending messages or flirts after a kind rejection.Tim
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John_do39
13 years ago
There are a lot of interesting people on RHP and a lot more happening especially with the forums. So other than checking out new comers, I sometimes access profiles of people that I think are really fun and exciting, and pretty much follow their updates, whether it’s forum contribution, pictures etc..
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redhotozz
13 years ago
We don't mind, its all part of the game, checking each other out, will we msg, will they msg, can we play this weekend, so on...so just enjoy the chase, lol, and run a little slower!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's hilarious!!!! A form of Pirate marketing guaranteed to get more hits, I mean views! (what is a tag, does it start with a # like twitter?)
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RHP User
13 years ago
yep am guilty of repeat profile views no apologies i like looking at pics of all sorts of ladies and couples sometimes i look more than once before i contact as need to refresh memory of what prospective partners are looking for
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RHP User
13 years ago
When it gets to about a dozen or so flirts I tend to block, just to put the poor buggers out of their misery.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...little critters aren't they! And I made my profile boring as bat shit!!! No harm though. C'est la vie ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
who really gives a fuck, utter bullshit, look at my profile as long and as many times as you want, If I didnt want you to I wouldnt have put myself in a position to be viewed, you can send me hate mail , threaten me , promise me the world but unless I want to talk to you NOT ..... you keep lookin buddy, love, darling , and enjoy yourself......... people really, you put yourselves on this site with a fair deal of anonimity, ( I hope,) you are going to attract all types, its not like you ve given them your address and they re sitting on your front lawn, discretion discretion discretion, look before you leap, and enjoy the wonders of cyberspace anonimity.
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RHP User
13 years ago
sometimes if I get a flirt or a message I accidently "view" the persons profile a few times... sometimes three or four times but in reality all Ive done is click out of the message, into the profile, back to the message, back to the profile... for some reason this shows as several views when in fact it was only once. so who's got tickets? (just sayin, lol) LS
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RHP User
13 years ago
They very same people on here complaining about multiple veiws by someone who does not want to meet, play or even make contact are the self same individuals who would complain, whinge, whine about getting absolutely no veiws. I say to you all...BIG DEAL....Someone looked at your profile 20 times today. Stop being so damn precious cupcakes. They may like the pics. I block only for repeat messages when I have already replied saying I am not interested and also for abuse. I have no pics up for veiw but I still get repeat lookers. Maybe they like the way I string a few words together. Who knows? Who cares? What harm are they doing? I contacted one and asked if they would like to get to know me a little and the answer came back that they were just looking for now. No harm. He still looks, each time I log on.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Let them look all they want? seriously....why? . They may have come here for anything, but some of us come here for OUR OWN little journey or search, sadly to attract the ones we are seeking we have to be open to all , I would happily cut my profile out of a cougar search for one (that fucking shits me no end)and out of any search that is older than my stated age preference. How much simpler for anyone using the search function, to put in their desired preferences and be shown a list of people who are actually 'looking for them' too .......*eyeroll* not just be available to all and sundry . . I'm going to relate it to those bloody knocks on the door you get on your one day off, you've just claimed the remote, your pants are around your ankles, the porno has just started with your favourite toy in handy reaching distance, oooooh this is looking good.............Knock Knock Knock it's either going to be someone selling you door to door religion, or wants to give you a bargain on your power bill. If you wanted either...you would go looking for them , not the other way around .
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RHP User
13 years ago
... crack me up! Answer the door brandishing your toy? Just wandering ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
KK why the hell didn't I think of that? either way they're going to piss off quick aren't they haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why the fuck not? What harm does it do? None. They are not disturbing you with a knock at all, they are merely clicking on the mouse. Why do so many find this simple little thing so irritating? You are all putting yourselves up for display so why get all bent out of shape when others look? If you dont like the attention........leave!
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RHP User
13 years ago
thats what i say too
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' Why the fuck not? What harm does it do? None. They are not disturbing you with a knock at all, they are merely clicking on the mouse. Why do so many find this simple little thing so irritating? You are all putting yourselves up for display so why get all bent out of shape when others look? If you dont like the attention........leave! Again, Im talking about those who have been told (and sometimes more than once) that I am more than not interested in them. I dont have to leave, I just block them And just to repeat , I am talking about the ones who do a multiple attack of view in a very short period, THAT is actually very fucking irritating and this bit right here : You are all putting yourselves up for display so why get all bent out of shape when others look? If you dont like the attention........leave! Pisses me right off coming from another woman !!! would you also say then , that a woman walking down the street in a nice dress because she is on her way to a pleasing destination of her own choice, should not be slightly irritated by a bunch of dirty old fuckers leering and wanking as she goes past? She told them just yesterday to piss off . You can tell that most of the comments here are for serial pests and the ones who have no intention of returning contact yet still multiple views. Members are well within their rights to block them for any personal reasons they might have. Most , like me can tell when it's a harmless look-see every now and then, but ffs stop defending the creepy ones by saying they have every right simply because we are on here Here's an idea, I'll send all the creepy ones your way for a while and we can see if your opinion changes at all
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RHP User
13 years ago
In fact , I might just go make a little change in my profile that states all creepy serial pests, with big bushy mounds of pubes , and who refuse to take a no as a no....can all go talk to the Hand maiden
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RHP User
13 years ago
Careful Handmaiden your mask is slipping! :D Personally doesn't worry me too much, and I don't notice it either really except for one person who I noticed was repeatedly looking at my profile over and over. We had been chatting via email so I knew he was a nice guy but it worried me when he started doing that. I couldn't figure out why. but it's okay folks. He was only wanking over my pictures.... So it's alright :p Come on DGT give those boys a little thrill!! Turn around and show them your ass! As for the knock on doors, I know a lady who is in her 60's who can't wait for Jehovah witness people to come knocking on her door. As she told me " I take all my clothes off and then open the door quickly with "can I help you" and because of the way my front door is my cunt is right at eye level! And I just thought she was a sweet old lady :O
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RHP User
13 years ago
with Hand Maiden, profile views would seem pretty innocuos I didn't think women would even bother to scrutinize their profile viewsto notice, obviously DGT does. Clearly she has a large fan base.Totally different though if you are being barraged with unwanted flirts/messages.Personally I wouldn't view someones profile more than once or twice, otherwise I would feel a bit like a stalker,though thats just me.Cautious Felonius.... no way would I be game to look at her profile now.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Damn did this topic stir the pot!There seems to be very differing options on this touchy, emotive topic of viewing a profile:1 - Those that can't give a flying fuck who views them, in their opinion, they created a profile to be viewed so why get upset when someone does view it.2 - Those that get upset with multiple views by the one individual. Now comes the sticky bit, what is considered 'multiple' - is it once every couple of days, five times in fifteen minutes, once a month??? Whatever is deemed 'multiple', if exceeded, results in a block.3. Those precious ones that block after ONE view. How dare someone view their profile who doesn't meet their criteria. Only problem, they might be clicking on the golden profile just to find out what this mysterious criteria is. But I suppose those that use this method of instant block feel safe that only those that meet their criteria (or can mind read) will view their photo's and profile.Seriously, if someone feels that strongly about someone they deem unworthy of viewing their profile, set the damn thing to invisible and only give access to those who meet the long list of 'must haves'.Mooka (who is a perve, will click on a profile from the forums and has probably been blocked for having the audacity to view one of these forbidden profiles because he is a single male who is old and well not handsome :D )
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RHP User
13 years ago
(They cant see anything that I dont want them to) and why only the ones with big bushy mounds of pubes? I am an equal opportunist. Those that indulge in a touch of manscaping are also welcome to perve at my non existant pics as well. . Not quite the nice dress DGT no but it is the same as a woman continuously wearing a low cut blouse, putting the girls on display and then complaining when the old perves act like her eyes are glued to her chest. They are only looking......not messaging or flirting and after all, if you are only on here for the forums then dont put up so many pics for the perverts. . It is not rocket science. . As for the Jehovah's Witnesses...I always invite them in.....I sooo love a good debate and if someone beleives that strongly in something then they can justify it for me. Besides, I do love a man in a suit.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't get many people to look at, so...
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RHP User
13 years ago
how is this conversation still taking place , its cyber world people, stalkers , lurkers everywhere, dont get involved if you dont want the attention, get a real life and get down the RSL, or join a dance club, or a sporting club or something else other than sitting in front of a screen and trying to vet those that may be what you re looking for, what happened to seedy nightclubs on satdee nights, I M SO OVER IT i m out to find some real people, i ll keep ya s posted if there are any left
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RHP User
13 years ago
How'd ya go down at the RSL againsthewind? are you still online or are you just back early lol . Oh I'm not only here for the forums Handmaiden, whatever gave you that idea ummm I'm here for orgasms, lots n lots of orgasms, of course once I can ascertain they are not my Dad's age, bushy pubed,rock spidery,a toothless terror, parading as a nicely manscaped ,fat,juicy,cocked , handsome devil of a man, with a few standards and a wickedly filthy sense of humour. I only ever have the one public pic up for perverusal, all the rest are in my private galleries (where I keep the good shit, including pics of well.........I guess you could call them girls) Look, Im not a serial blocker, god! even againsthewind sent me a message basically saying he had no intention of looking below the tits n arse or reading my profile, and that he may even pop back for a perve or a wank, I dunno, can't remember exactly....But it made me LOL and i said yeah no worries, knock yaself out haha but he was upfront about it, no creepiness and the fact he actually bothered to send a msg to let me know that is cool. But I will indeed send the nicely manscaped ones your way too, I mean sheesh I'm not greedy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Oh my, DGT I can see your boobs!! Slurp.... Lucky I have my profile viewing clicked off so you won't actually know how many times I am going to wank over that pic imagining myself coming on those pretty ta~tas. Yep, my new screen saver. Thank you. Mwah xx
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John_do39
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Oh my, DGT I can see your boobs!! Slurp.... Lucky I have my profile viewing clicked off so you won't actually know how many times I am going to wank over that pic imagining myself coming on those pretty ta~tas. Yep, my new screen saver. Thank you. Mwah xx My laptop is connected to my 55" TV, so i can be a "BIG" perve and have both D_G_T's and your profile up all day,this view beats any decorative or artistic painting :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
...high definition boobies! Gawd john_do39 hope you've got plenty of wet wipes!
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RHP User
13 years ago
@ John_do Just remember to take them down when you have visitors !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
As far as the creep factor?? I've stayed out of trouble by trusting my gut. If I'm online and can see the creepy perp is viewing me, again, I could suddenly find myself "not in the mood" and start cancelling plans that I had come online to finalise. THAT IS a knock on my door, a hit to my private affairs, an unwanted intrusion into my life. So I block anyone that worries my trusted gut. I have paid membership dues for MY experience on RHP, not to be fodder for wanking over by all and sundry. I know it goes on but I don't have to condone it. Shit if I wanted me to be so stripped bare, I would be on one of those live perv internet sites and get bloody paid at least! My experience, my rules.
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RHP User
13 years ago
As far as walking down the street with my cleavage showing?? Hell yeah I can do that if I so desire. Do I expect to be looked at? Hell yeah! Do I expect unwanted advances? Hell NO! It is worrying that the opinion of a single lady on here, smacks at the age old condonement of rape "She was asking for trouble did you see what she was wearing?" very very sad Hand Maiden!
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RHP User
13 years ago
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
We all know that some people do it here :)You know the ones I mean...the fake pics, words, say they are single when they are "attached" and have told their partners that they have closed alllllll their profiles.They just waste peoples time on here, the ones who really are looking at profiles to meet some fun play partner.Just wish they could be honest to themself and others here...put up a profile that says they are just here for the forums and to shit stir from afar..Suppose I am going to cop shit and be blocked now......LOL
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