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Repeat profile visits .

October 08 2016

I recently saw a post where a couple of guys were talking about repeat visitors to their profile. They were actually talking about unwelcome visits from another bloke, they also mentioned that their profile also states that they're only interested in women. Like wise I state that I'm only interested in women and have blocked three repeat visitors that I don't feel comfortable withAnyway that's only part of my reason for posting this thread, I gave a couple of other visitors who drop by occasionally one is a woman who has visited me many times sometimes soon after the last visit and other times not for a month or two. I've winked at her messaged her and never has she replied...or stopped visiting. This doesn't bother me in the slightest but it does make me curious, hell I've even given her access to my PG. Another visitor is a TV/CD who has dropped by occasionally for some time, this doesn't bother me either as I have some empathy for their situation, however i don't engage this person in case it is interpreted as being some form of encouragement or come on.Anyway who else has repeat visitors? Do they creep you out or not?

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  • Allnightrider

    Allnightrider

    8 years ago

    Have the same problem . Because my profile contains some dick pics , half of the views I get are from men who offer me blow jobs , or young studs who want to compare !One woman . despite me messaging no interest , visits my profile up to 5 times in a row .I hate to block people ( the nature of the site is like perusing a catalogue ) but it is an irritation , more than a creep , we have to live with.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...it's kind of flattering actually. Some almost feel like old friends when they haven't dropped in for a while. Friends you've never met, seen or spoken to. Ever..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm not here for anything anymore but do like to share my pics and most of my visits seem to be from people rating the Hot or What feature on the Amateur pics page. Peachy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It's frustrating especially if the person has the ability to message. Guest is more understandable when they don't communicate. I have several window shoppers who continually view especially after a pic change. Would be nice to a able to give them a wave and a wink ;) xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    they never come back twice to look at mine

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  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    Doesn't bother me generally. Only time I find it slightly annoying so when the viewing party is hot as fuck and doesn't message me. I view people profile multiple times to and don't engage with them, particularly when I'm reading the forums.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mostly flattering, but yes, don't understand why they don't message or flirt, or simply use stealth mode? If it's someone I have already said no to, and they continually look it can become a little creepy... Especially if they then message commenting on a new main pic... Otherwise, I've been known to message a repeat visitor to ask if they have any questions for me 😉 If you get a notification tart I've viewed your profile, chances are I want you to know I'm looking 😜

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    Look as much as they like. And you dont know how many times the ones that have stealth mode on, perve on you. They can have a wank. Just means they have had sex with you but you haven't had sex them.........it's really safe sex. ......

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ....prepare to be looked at. If you are really irritated by constant viewing by the same people, change the photos. Personally it doesnt bother me and lets face it, our profiles are on here to attract attention. When I had a singles profile looking for men only, other women and couples sometimes looked me up, which I thought was very flattering. Lets put it this way....how many of us are fighting off admirers in the street on a daily basis? Sometimes it seems ( and this is not you Hank ) that the attention online goes to some peoples heads. Just pop into the chat room ..........example, one female in particular..."Oh, Im so over all the uglies who look at my profile". Really? She, of course, must be auditioning for Australias Next Supermodel.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Tart should be that ;)

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  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    Get a good number of repeat visitors, and also doesn't concern me. Like some of the guys have mentioned, I get my fair share of male visitors too - they won't know your preferred orientation until they check out your profile, so I'm not flustered by them. Some of them even come by for several visits thereafter, but there is nothing much in my profile pics that will get them going, so all the more power to them if that's their thing. Like Missb, sometimes I will check out some of the ladies profiles a few times too when running around in the forums - just trying to remember where everyone is located, more than anything else. ( I run on stealth mode, so I don't 'disturb' anyone too much). But all in all, not particularly perturbed or 'creeped out' by anyone dropping by. Tall

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  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Betty7216' Tart should be that ;) Think I wouldn't mind a visit by a notification tart - sounds like it could be fun. Tall

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Unless I've had an unpleasant interaction with someone (in which case I'll usually block them anyway), what's the harm? I really don't understand men who get all bent out of shape about guys looking at their profile... So you're not interested in guys? I'm not interested in the majority of guys who view my profile either (when I even bother to look), but I don't crack the shits and start blocking them. For the record, the fact that guys pay so much attention to who views them is the main reason women use stealth mode when viewing profiles. A look at your profile is not contact, unless it's followed with a flirt or a message.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I can admit I sometimes look at profiles multiple times. Whether in the mobile and you click back instead of going to the profile tab so you need to go back into the profile. I too look at people on the profiles so that counts And lastly is the search. A lot of people have unmemorable names or pictures so you may come up in searches and I haven't realised I've seen the profile before. But none of this bothers me. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    On the mobile app, if you are swiping through profiles(similar to tinder), it registers as a view. Thats why you can get one person looking at your profile a few times a day, they are swipping. And when I was first in here, I would get guys message and say that they notice I had been checking out their profile a few times,so... i must be knterested. I couldnt work out why they would say this, as I hadnt looked at their profile at all. But that was a while back now,and now, I prefer the desk top viewing. And Im stealth(invisible ), so you will never know if Im stalking you 17 times a day ;)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't have problem with repeated viewings unless it's someone viewing it 10 times a day for months at the time. Might be explained above? But I do find that kind of off putting.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It doesn't bother me as there's no harm in looking unless it's someone I've chatted to in the past and they've chosen to no longer chat with me, but keep looking at my profile (can't quite figure that one out). Sometimes I've looked at a profile more than once. I look at their profile, realise I'm out of their scope and leave it at that. Then they look at my profile and I forget I'm out of their scope and look at them again and then think "oh....d'oh!".

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  • couplefairride

    couplefairride

    8 years ago

    Kinda glad they do pop in after a while as it's like waving to a faraway neighbour. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    8 years ago

    I had a guy repeatedly look at my profile. So, I looked at his to see who was sooooooo fascinated by me. And he sent me a message asking what the fuck I was looking at. Odd

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Tall_n_Hard' Get a good number of repeat visitors, and also doesn't concern me. Like some of the guys have mentioned, I get my fair share of male visitors too - they won't know your preferred orientation until they check out your profile, so I'm not flustered by them. Some of them even come by for several visits thereafter, but there is nothing much in my profile pics that will get them going, so all the more power to them if that's their thing. Like Missb, sometimes I will check out some of the ladies profiles a few times too when running around in the forums - just trying to remember where everyone is located, more than anything else. ( I run on stealth mode, so I don't 'disturb' anyone too much). But all in all, not particularly perturbed or 'creeped out' by anyone dropping by. Tall I'm on stealth too

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  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I had a guy repeatedly look at my profile. So, I looked at his to see who was sooooooo fascinated by me. And he sent me a message asking what the fuck I was looking at. Odd What the fuck were you looking at?.....and when did you change your name to Odd?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I've found myself in a curious situation a couple of times, where somebody has looked at my profile and I've then looked at theirs (one where the profile pic, looked like a 1/2 naked woman, just the angle). So we get into this loop, where he looks at me & I look at him....... Neither of us being interested in each other, I suppose we are just excited to see some interest in our profiles. hahaha

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    doesn't worry me in the slightest

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I don't like dick pics either.

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  • beachgal20

    beachgal20

    8 years ago

    That you just know what they are doing as looking.....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Repeat lookers can be good. They might not have been sure about u the first look so they keep looking. I find it flattering. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    We don't get heaps ,but the few we get doing it are like a familiar face ,it's all good ,except after you have had to say no ,no,no ,other than that all good ,been heaps that their pic inspires to check them out .im prolly a pest cos I can't rember the right names to profile pics and the bloody pics keep changing and o don't realise till after I've clicked on it and think aghhhh them again nice, titts ,ass or whatever ,oops lol and off I go or show Mrs b , Ps maybe not as many profile visits as others cos once you have been and you brain has burst from my typing and gramma skills, once is enough to do you for 6 months ,lmao - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This reminds me of the time I had a lady double take my profile, so I sent her a message introducing myself as she matched my interests. She replied and shot me down for implying that I thought she was interested. If you don't ask, you don't know... Cheers, Natural - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting '19TheNatural77' This reminds me of the time I had a lady double take my profile, so I sent her a message introducing myself as she matched my interests. She replied and shot me down for implying that I thought she was interested. If you don't ask, you don't know... Cheers, Natural - Posted from rhpmobile I do that all the time, hit on guys who have looked at my profile Like you said, you don't ask, you don't get or however it goes, this life is not a rehearsal

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