M55 F70
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January 10 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
To be honest its hard to look at your profile. Your pictures need some refinement.I wouldnt reply as it doesnt appeal to me to be honest.Not being rude just being honest.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Don’t have time, not interested, too many messages to read...there’s Lots of reasons why people may not reply, just because you message them does not mean they owe you a reply, don’t take it personally.
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mango69er
6 years ago
Shazam. Theres the answer to your question. It can be brutal at times on here. But fair enough answers
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RHP User
6 years ago
I think that's a fair comment.Simple courtesy takes little effort. Your profile is open & honest,whether you are what others are seeking or not at least they know what you're looking for.So I simple no thanks or Yes please is not too much to ask.
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DynamicCouple36
6 years ago
Because often a polite “not interested “ reply results in a barrage of abuse and insults, the rejected instigator not taking the perceived “rejection” very and wanting to know why you don’t find him attractive etc etc. Sometimes it is easier not to reply, especially if they have clearly not bothered to read ones profile wording. Also bear in mind that no reply is as good as saying “no” and so it is a reply of sorts. Remember that no one owes you anything in here . Not even a reply to your unsolicited messages. Couples & females often get swamped with messages.
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EarthQueen
6 years ago
I don’t want to That is all
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
State their position on replies. Hunt around and find a profile that states that all messages answered. Pop off a message and wait for that elusive reply of " thanks but no thanks." Problem solved. Amazing how a few words will brighten up your day.Extra hint. Message another guy. The dont get many messages and have ample time to send a reply. Worst it can get is a polite fuck off but it's a reply.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'Redmustang' To be honest its hard to look at your profile. Your pictures need some refinement.I wouldnt reply as it doesnt appeal to me to be honest.Not being rude just being honest. Totally agree.OP, Redmustang's reply to you is very polite.Sorry but I'm not going to be quite so polite.Perhaps you underestimate the number of people who find nothing amusing whatsoever about pictures of people poking their tongues out.It's juvenile and I know I'm not the only person on here who gives a very wide berth to any profiles showing such puerile matter.Remove it and replace it with a carefully taken photo of yourself wearing a manly looking suit or something like that.Love men in well fitted suits........sooooo hot! Anyway, anything's better than pics of adults acting like children by sticking their tongues out! Yuck!
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MsJonesy
6 years ago
I think you will find its the majority of pics showing tongues sticking out are from men. It seems to imply that they possess an impressive tool to give female clits a good lashing. 😜 OP. People will reply if your profile and message interest them. Therefore, no reply usually means no interest, or the profile is no longer active. Harsh reality, but that's the reality of online platforms.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'MsJonesy' I think you will find its the majority of pics showing tongues sticking out are from men. It seems to imply that they possess an impressive tool to give female clits a good lashing. 😜 I'd already thought of that and I dare say you're probably correct in regard to some men's profiles. Still think it looks childish and creepy though so I always ignore such profiles and other women I know on this and other dating/sex sites feel the same as me.
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
Frankly...... I just don’t know where to even begin
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
Even I haven't got replies from profiles stating "all messages responded to", and that's my presumedly quite lovely message too! :P
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
I’m with ML on this one...it’s long dude...like shark tale food chain long
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RHP User
6 years ago
I’ll give the long winded response a go 😂... Typical messaging scenario in my experience: Him: “hey wannna hook up?” (The opening messages of course range from polite to vulgar). Me: No thanks, (if they’re polite I’ll offer an explanation) That’s when things change, either I get no reply to that or I get “oh ok, well let me know if things change cos I wanna.....” or they basically ignore what I’ve said and keep messaging, presumably in the hopes that their persistence will change my mind. So more often than not now I just don’t reply from the get go 🤷🏼♀️ I get that some people are here to find as much sex as they can and that’s fine, I have no problem with that, but you need to respect the fact that not everyone is like that and for those of us who aren’t it gets exhausting trying to play nice with people who don’t listen. It’s easier not to play at all. This is just one of many reasons why people may not reply but regardless of all of that the bottom line is they just don’t, the real question is how are you gonna deal with that in a way that doesn’t damage your ego? That’s all you really need to figure out.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Because often a polite “not interested “ reply results in a barrage of abuse and insults, the rejected instigator not taking the perceived “rejection” very and wanting to know why you don’t find him attractive etc etc. Sometimes it is easier not to reply, especially if they have clearly not bothered to read ones profile wording. Also bear in mind that no reply is as good as saying “no” and so it is a reply of sorts. Remember that no one owes you anything in here . Not even a reply to your unsolicited messages. Couples & females often get swamped with messages. I agree with your issue with insecure individuals not responding well then sending insults.. but this general approach means you apply to those who deserve respect and disrespectful lack or simple basic courtesy. And let us not forget, if someone becomes a dick or rude... and trust me, a lot of rejected desperate nasty women also frequent these sites thinking being female excludes them from being courteous because of the same desperate guys that are the definite majority... there is always the BLOCK button and that is where I go when people disrespect me. Why can you not respond and simply block the idiots? I think a lot of profiles exist to attract adoration for these insecure individuals.. It is a game. I find it annoying to have people approach you asking to meet, you take your time and use your limited messages to respond politely and then they go silent. It seems people want to hear you are willing to meet them and that is all they seek... It takes nothing to say thanks but no thanks especially after they have initiated contact with a flirt etc requesting you contact them. Personally, I agree with you guys as a respectful person will show the courtesy of a response, but most people on here are incapable of delivering what they falsely represent themselves as being and as such lack moral caliber to be respectful, because in a bar you would not touch them and rejection in the real world is all they know... You have the usual trolls in here as well who claims to be attached, but I don't accept being attached to a Blow Up doll or your right/left hand as being capable of a long term relationship or short term for that matter... What him respond to this comment, we all know who he is
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RHP User
6 years ago
Obviously an agree to disagree situation.. because I very much do agree, they don’t even owe you politeness, not responding isn’t rude, it’s just nothing.
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RHP User
6 years ago
😂 *don’t agree
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
Just to address this whole courtesy argument... Imagine if you’re at home one day and you receive a knock at the door... You answer the door to find a salesman from a local business and you greet him/her only to have them ask “we dropped a flyer in your mailbox and you didn’t call us...wtf is with that??”
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House_of_Fun
6 years ago
Quoting 'The_Antichrist' Just to address this whole courtesy argument... Imagine if you’re at home one day and you receive a knock at the door... You answer the door to find a salesman from a local business and you greet him/her only to have them ask “we dropped a flyer in your mailbox and you didn’t call us...wtf is with that??” What you don't get though is that the local business only dropped the flyer in the mailbox because you had one! I mean, if you weren't interested, why have a mailbox in the first place, especially an inviting looking one? How do you expect local businesses to restrain themselves? Take it down or something. You shouldn't have a mailbox if you don't like junk mail, simples.
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
Solitary hahaha Maybe it’s the red light that hangs over it?? 😂😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
Easy, within the first 24 hours I had close to 40 messages I don't have the time to reply to them all
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