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Replying to a wink?

December 23 2009

Hi what is the go when you respond to a wink noting that you are interested and effectively thanking them. Then nothing, zilch, notta another peep ..... particularly from paying members - frustrating ! Maybe it's the tone of my winks. hmmmm any thoughts

Comments

  • rc_80

    rc_80

    15 years ago

    get used to it.We probably get a flirt a day. We respond, and then nothing. Maybe one out of four or five respond. If we dont like the other couple/girl, we'll say so, but we respond to EVERY message or flirt. It's damn annoying getting a "I think your hot, what do you think of me?" flirt from some ultra sexy couple, and then they dont respond to a message saying hi...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    got me there too. seems to be that the wink is sent, then they think about it, and decide it was a wrong wink. no chance to find out why, no answer at all.maybe, they want to get our hopes up, then ignore us. there are a few stupid guys on here, maybe they have ruined it for the rest of us...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Honestly I find winks a waste of time... If you could put in the wink a few words (up to 10 without contact details) ... rather than the generic wording... as sometimes the winks words just dont suit.We state in our profile we cant respond to winks etc... but still you get them ... and yes the paid members send us winks, we respond and then zip... Personally I dont about 90% of the winks you can chose from ... go back to basics.  1. sorry the answer is NO but thanks anyway2. Sorry you dont match what I am looking for.3. If I sent you a msg would you respond4. Yes / No. ** and with that you can click the Y or N5. Thanks for the wink... please msg me if you like6.  Thanks for the wink... but I cant respond with a msg as i am a trial member.7. * now this one should be allowed in the msg section* - thanks for the msg, but I am not interested.Get rid of the * like your profile ones* ... ok its flattery but what does it mean????Yes I know RHP had that thing not long ago about submit your suggestions... but they need to be basic & simple.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes it's frustrating but it's also life. Hit and miss. Same as everything. Unfortunately I think some people on here (when i say some i mean many) are fakes or time wasters, so for every decent person you meet you'll find 1000 that will waste your time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    They're probably the same people who send you a friend request or add you to their hot list, but then don't reply when you send them a message. haha. Go figure.   I think some people think they're on Facebook when they log into RHP. Lol. Let’s see who can get to 1000 friends first!!   This site has so many flaws, but it is what it is. It's important to not take this site (or yourself whilst logged in) too seriously.   I agree with you "RedIsTheNewBlonde". (You're a little bit sexy too... Gawd!!)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ya get a wink...they they want ta be ya friends...ya send a message...then zippo...not a reply...lol...why one even blocked me after sending me a wink...figure that one out...???and one woman sent me probably 30 flirts over 10 days...and could i send her an email...nope...her inbox was locked....!!!!!!....so...yep...get used to it, send a reply...and ocassionally ya find a woman who is so hot...well....errr......me finks i'll leave that to ya imagination....giggles...jose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Winks really are a waste of time. I say on my profile I won't reply to them, and yet, they still keep coming and I keep deleting.     Joanna