M44 F41

Respond to all mails?

March 02 2016

Hey guys. I am new to the game as you can see and I have received a lot of mails. I was wondering what is the right thing to do? Should I respond to everyone? Positive or negative. I really want to take thinks reallyyyyy slow. We have played a couple of times with other females and we are keen to expand our horizons but I am not sure yet if I am ready to chat with anyone or make arrangements for dates. We were always out for drinks and thinks just happened! I have a few messages that I liked but not feeling ready to respond. Is it rude to respond when we are ready? Should I let them know how I feel now? I 'd love some advice. PS: The Mrs was writing today.

Comments

RHP User

9 years ago

Not simply reply with a version of this thread post. Seems perfect to me Welcome :)

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

I always reply i think its nice to regardless of how i feel at that time.. even if its just a template response

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

I hope you'll have a great time on here. It's nice to be able to respond to all messages. The problem is that at first you get tonnes and depending on your membership level - and the level of the sender, you may only be able to send so many a day. I have a lot sitting in my inbox that I haven't responded to for that very reason. Just a suggestion for your profile - maybe put the takings things slow comment at the start of it? Unfortunately a lot of people don't seem to read the whole profile. Have fun!

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

I am rather intrigued by your profile name. Does it infer that you are 'greek lovers' or lovers of greek?

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

I'm really not doing well today in the technical department haha! I seem to be a bit thick!

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

You can say it's both!

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

Well that was helpful! I can say that I'm nervous and excited at the same time. Thanks guys!

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

Yes welcome I don't respond to most messages, some I do. I have my reasons for that. Sometimes I do if I like the message and feel like chatting to the person. Template responses are a good idea though, something I must set up. Take your time but, you don't need to feel pressured, enjoy

reply

like
horneycouplewa

9 years ago

I respond if they have read our profile. Which states a lot. No picture no reply, dealt with too many time wasters, same goes for flirts. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
Mischeviouslad

9 years ago

Lets be perfectly frank about it...... some messages don't even warrant the courtesy of a reply. And thats an unfortunate consequence of some peoples attitudes and behaviour. However...... reply based upon your attitude.

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

As I can only use RHP on my phone, I can't tell whether a message has been read. Which leaves me wondering whether there was no interest or whether it just got lost in the enormous Inbox that I expect the recipient to have. A template reply is far better than no reply at all. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

So you have a browser on your phone? You can click on desktop version which allows you to view if the messages have been read. You have to expand the screen though because it's quite small to read.

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

you go into a shop to buy clothes..... Are you obliged to buy?? - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

Thank you. 💋💋💋💋💋 Much appreciated. That worked. I thought that it was always going to defer to the mobile version. Happy days 😁😁😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
usnow

9 years ago

Always reply , its just good manners . Swingnew .

reply

like
Mischeviouslad

9 years ago

Quoting 'Summer_solstice' You go into a store that has a clear sign by the till stating they don't accept American Express but try to use your AE card anyway, because it's platinum so you're the obvious exception to the rule... And then are taken aback when the sales person rolls their eyes at you. To which the reply would be.... "Your loss, i don't want to buy anyway coz its ugly" or "but my card will lick you all night long and make you quirt you won't be disappointed hehe" Because technology is that good now.

reply

like
RHP User

9 years ago

Quoting 'SNAG4XTC' Thank you. 💋💋💋💋💋 Much appreciated. That worked. I thought that it was always going to defer to the mobile version. Happy days 😁😁😁😁 - Posted from rhpmobile that there is a way to read messages without opening up the message, so it will still show as being unread. If they want to respond to you then they will have to open up the message. To the OP, I don't always reply to messages. If they clearly haven't read my profile I generally don't respond. I also rarely respond to flirts.

reply

like

Respond to all mails?

Comments

Tags

Boards

Forum help