Responding time ?????

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  If they don't have the patience then it's their loss not yours. As men we must realise that the ladies on this site must get quite a few messages per day and we can't expect instant responses. If they expect to get anywhere on here then they need to be a bit more mature than sending derogatory messages. MM

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  Two_Tarts

  9 years ago

  Just because someone is feeling hot and horny and has the time to send you a message today does not mean that you have the same luxury right now. Sometimes work, kids, washing, cooking, sleeping, and other assorted real life issues get in the way and don't leave you with either the time or the energy at the moment. Some messages are so captivating that they grab your interest right away, and others give you so little to work with that you need a lot of time and energy to figure out how to respond and you might never get back to them. As a couple there are often times when we would need to connect and discuss a message before we can respond because there is a limit to what either of us will do without the others input, and that discussion is not about to happen while we are at work or while the kids are banging around. That is just the way it is for most people and there is no point feeling too bad about either yourself, or others, for the outcome of messaging that may have found you at an inconvenient time. Sometimes it will take us five minutes to reply, other times we might not even see the message for a week or it will take us a week to be in the right place to know how to respond. It depends on what else we have going on in life, how high our enthusiasm is, and how appropriate the message is to our interests. Anyone who takes it too badly that you did not respond in their expected time frame probably doesn't understand what else you might have going on in life and if they can't relate to the things that happen in your world then they are probably not the right people for you anyway. :-) xxx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It's totally up to you and no one should be pushed into messaging or even be called names. That's just plain rude and some people need to show more respect

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  kinky_master

  9 years ago

  IMHO it all depends on the message. One liners don't really deserve a reply - unless you really want to. Messages outside of what you are asking for in your profile should either have a template - no thanks - but I have heard how some guys don't get the message and keep messaging - so the alternative is no reply.However a well thought out message that interests you should be responded too as soon as possible. If it is a no, I would appreciate to know straight away - and a yes - well I rather have a short message saying you are interested but currently pressed for time than wait a week to hear from you with something meaningful. Now that doesn't mean I don't want a meaningful message - but I find letting someone wait disrespectful. After all when I look at my send message I can see if you have read it or not.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  As long as you want gorgeous! !!!

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