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Responsible seduction
May 23 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I was 17 , I lived with a 36 year old Woman for about 6 months . I got to do things with her (sexually) that I had never been able to do with girls my age . She had about 17 years more sexual experience than me . It's normal for guys to want Sex with older Women for that reason . Internet wasn't a factor . There was no Internet . Basically , I think older Women just have more Confidence . Of course , at my age now , Age isn't a factor . We're all in the big melting pot after 40 . Age becomes blurry & Sexual Experience can't be gauged on Age alone . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Men like older women for lots n lots of reasons.. The maturity, adventure, to learn from, n just because really!
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RHP User
12 years ago
with an older woman was pre internet. (me 35 her 45+)It was a landmark relationship in my life and I fell in love with her, but one day I realised I had things to do like family and children that she had done already, the toy boy got real.So I left.As a less than confident man then she was my salvation, I will always love her for her gift.Not every young man needs an older woman but if you do take one on I think you do have to be mindful, particularly if he is getting attached, it is a wonderful thing and hearts do get broken but hey better to have lived it than not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agree with you TR. but I also found as a younger female that older guys were better than younger guys. They were more controlled, considerate and often more affectionate. They also taught me a few things I didn't know. Gotta say though, I do love some of these younger guys now. YUM!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was seeing a much younger man,it was just sex and I thought it would just be once or twice but it continued Finally we ended it,it was so risky for both of us and yes TR,very raunchy , also it became a little kinky with role play. A week ago he contacted me again,just one more time he said and it took a lot for me to say no,because it just wasn't right for either of us.....but he was lovely and I was a little addicted to his beauty.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are you all saying younger men prefer older women and older men prefer younger women? I did try going out with younger women. I got bored so quickly as we had very little in common. I think I prefer to stick to more mature women. Age does not really matter, maturity does.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think we do have a responsibility as older women. As they say, a mind once expanded by an idea, never goes back to it's original dimensions. I think that you can experience too much too soon....and there is no doubt that the younger generation are doing it all much earlier than we probably did. I was interested to hear my son's adventures, with his then fiance, by 22 they had experienced both a MMF and FFM....i was in my early 40's and hadn't yet....my thoughts were....where do you go from there?? While i think i'd enjoy the role of teacher, i'm cautious about going too much younger and feeling like i've forever changed a young'ns view on sex and sexuality.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have always adored women older than myself. I wouldn't say it is the Internet that gives that desire, nor the access. Although I have sought after older women on the net, I have found it easier to make a connection out in the real world. Part of it is you can feel and see the energy in real life and maybe that is where and how the great connections have arose. I don't think younger men and older women being together are not robbing anyone of sexual growth.. In my eyes it is natural progression of those two (or three) persons' growth. Not all older women desire younger guys and not all younger guys desire older women. No one is being robbed, so those of us that love this situation and interacting in this relm.. Live it while we can! Life's short. Kisses to all the gorgeous older sexy confident women. Keep it up.
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RHP User
12 years ago
older women...'raunchy'? really?....lol.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Speaking from experience, older woman do have to be cautious and mindful when it comes to younger men/boys.. It's really no different than older men with younger woman/girls, for some reason it's just more socially acceptable for older woman..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes it had to be a consideration recently for me. Spending time with a much younger guy, we started developing some very real feelings, and had to discuss where in all honestly it could go. We were at totally different places in our lives, so as painful as it was, we put distance between us, yet still talk regularly, and i know i have had a part in shaping his sexuality, as he has changed his outlook in a number of ways.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What I mean is there are many young woman who are more experienced in the kinkier side of things than some of us will ever be. It all comes down to demand and supply. We arnt shattering their fragile little sexual worlds by giving them something that they are obviously seeking out. If they cant find the girl that will share their kinks then obviously they havnt found the right girl and again there are plenty out there.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
I was a 19yo guy going out with a 30yo woman(a sex worker as I later found out ...I was young and naive) it was the best thing ever for me as it made me grow up and change my attitudes towards women in general.not only did she give me a brilliant sexual education and appreciation of all things female. Instead of just being young dumb full of cum. I was what she desired in her life at the time and vise versa . As long as it is win/win for both partners then it's all good.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
And stick to rules and such I think it is okay, very interesting and valid point though and something to be mindful of.
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wingman2014
12 years ago
I ask why they don't have girlfriends? They all seem to agree that young girls today think they know all about sex but really know nothing. They are influenced too much by scripted porn online and reality TV shows . They prefer older women because they have been " run- in" . They know what they want and how to get the best out of them , not preoccupied with vanity .- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
What a thoughtful thread TR - you don't often see people raising issues of personal responsibility in relation to their actions in the sexual arena. As a male the two older women I had sexual relationships with in my late-teens early 20s were fundamental to my sexual development - they are still some of the happiest sexual memories I have. Older women I've found tend to have more self-awareness and when it comes to interacting with usually immature younger guys this can be a really useful thing. In short you're doing them a huge favour I think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Was nice while it lasted and I never took it seriously anyway.. At 17, all we know is our dick gets hard and we either stick it in a vagina or get it sucked and grab onto whatever we can. Too young and immature to know any better.. But I must say' the memory has lasted a long time and no regrets.. Guess there has always been cougars around' even back then..Besides' older women pick younger guys because they can. At 17' you could have lead me around by my dick anywhere you wanted me .. Yes, we are that gullible at that age. So to have a older woman show interest is incredible..These days its the reverse, I find younger women so more forward than ever before.. Only last year I was with a 20 something yr old. No way was she inferior to the more experienced women I'd been with.. In fact' she virtually took over the whole session.. No laying back for this chicky.. Her favourite position was the cowgirl and her control unbelievable.. So not all younger girls are that bad even if she was the exception.. I still tend to shy away if younger than 25 with my preference being 30 +.. This doesnt mean 40 + and 50 + are excempt... As long as the chemistry is there so am I..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have no interest in the young. On average they are a minefield of psychological immaturity (not all) but I no longer have time nor patience to teach, I am way too busy learning to deal with my own ongoing immaturity. But oh I do love their beauty and energy. I don't think that there is a responsibility inherent in age. If you are happy to teach OP then my hat off to you. I would question you though, as your post hints at the concept of moral corruption, and dare I say, maybe a reflects a little on your own journey. Just an observation OP, humbly given with good intention.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Hun Interesting and Insightful Topic :) I hope Life is treating you well, I love your sexy Pics :) As a Mature Woman I am mindful that issues may arise Therefore I take My time to get to know younger Males and it's not just sexual Encounters I'm seeking. I tend to attract quality Guys who are meant to cross My Path.. . I choose those who I've a strong Connection with on all Levels and they want a more rounded Friendship/ Sexual relationship even if casual too. I also begin as Friends this allows it to be a No Pressure situation Plus I can vet who's suitable Personality wise to share what I offer so it doesn't impact negatively on a Guys Sexual activities with younger Females later... I do teach them at times on the art of Sexual Intimacy if required..I also make it clear that I'm sharing my skills, so they can in turn share them with special younger Lovers in their future . I stress that we can enjoy "Our Time".however long it is. But when it's the right time we'll part ways , they're ready for the next stage in their "Life journey.". I don't tend to embrace those Guys who want raunchy sex tho' our sessions can be erotic and hot at times or if they want to to return ,if their purpose is just to Fuck.. I would feel Insulted if all they got from the Unique experience I share is that. Then I'd tell them in no uncertain terms ........................ I'm not a Fuck Buddy nor an experience to be ticked Off a Guys "Bucket List" Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fantastic question TR and one I was contemplating recently. I think you meet people for a reason & that you are often supposed to learn something from them. I have met someone who has probably corrupted me I suppose and now I have do the same. Possibly? It can be applied to more than just younger and older, male and female. What about me taking people to swingers clubs, nude bi-orgies, Hellfire? Am I changing their sexual landscape by taking them to these places? For sure not everyone will like it but some will love it, and once you develop a taste for it you can never go back to plain vanilla. Should I think twice before taking people to these places? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'Was nice while it lasted and I never took it seriously anyway.. At 17, all we know is our dick gets hard and we either stick it in a vagina or get it sucked and grab onto whatever we can. Too young and immature to know any better.. But I must say' the memory has lasted a long time and no regrets.. Guess there has always been cougars around' even back then..Besides' older women pick younger guys because they can. At 17' you could have lead me around by my dick anywhere you wanted me .. Yes, we are that gullible at that age. So to have a older woman show interest is incredible..These days its the reverse, I find younger women so more forward than ever before.. Only last year I was with a 20 something yr old. No way was she inferior to the more experienced women I'd been with.. In fact' she virtually took over the whole session.. No laying back for this chicky.. Her favourite position was the cowgirl and her control unbelievable.. So not all younger girls are that bad even if she was the exception.. I still tend to shy away if younger than 25 with my preference being 30 +.. This doesnt mean 40 + and 50 + are excempt... As long as the chemistry is there so am I.. Sorry keyboard its just taht thkhlskethkesthls/:LJslzjfpossssssssssssssssssssssssssssst. OOOps
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Fantastic question TR and one I was contemplating recently. I think you meet people for a reason & that you are often supposed to learn something from them. I have met someone who has probably corrupted me I suppose and now I have do the same. Possibly? It can be applied to more than just younger and older, male and female. What about me taking people to swingers clubs, nude bi-orgies, Hellfire? Am I changing their sexual landscape by taking them to these places? For sure not everyone will like it but some will love it, and once you develop a taste for it you can never go back to plain vanilla. Should I think twice before taking people to these places? - Posted from rhpmobile Not so sure about that, I like a lot of flavours and vanilla is occasionally anice rest, a palate cleanser and a hint of nostalgia. Then back to the rainbow!
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is disturbing. Jay I am sure you were loving it at the time but there is something disturbing about a woman of 34 finding an adolescent attractive. :-/ Although don't think EB was referring to that? LOL. Big night out EB? :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meeka.. on reflection I agree but whats past is past.. If you dont want to believe these woman exist you should think again. They are as real as you and EB. Didnt do me any harm' in fact it was a great learning curb.. Im sure theres many a 17 year old out there who would jump at the chance just as I did...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't doubt they exist and for sure young 17 yr old males will jump at the chance. But a 34 year old woman should be more responsible and also the fact that she is turned on by someone so young is disturbing. I am saying her actions were suspect. As a 17 year old I am sure they would all say. "Hell yeah!" :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Fantastic question TR and one I was contemplating recently. I think you meet people for a reason & that you are often supposed to learn something from them. I have met someone who has probably corrupted me I suppose and now I have do the same. Possibly? It can be applied to more than just younger and older, male and female. What about me taking people to swingers clubs, nude bi-orgies, Hellfire? Am I changing their sexual landscape by taking them to these places? For sure not everyone will like it but some will love it, and once you develop a taste for it you can never go back to plain vanilla. Should I think twice before taking people to these places? - Posted from rhpmobile I know you to be very astute, and will not encourage anyone to go with you, unless you feel they can handle it. Your good at reading people so when you take them, they go because thats what level they are at. I cant see you taking some pimply boy or girl for that matter.
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RHP User
12 years ago
when I was 27 I went to work in a one horse town, well not a town more a road house and a pub I worked in theroad house and lived in the pub the owners of the pub had son17 going on 18 well he had never been with a woman,and he got a crush and was always hanging around, offering drive me to places or just wanting to talk I am sure he took some of my knickers as well there were no younger people at this place so it was pretty akward for him I did nothing untill I left and he droveme the two hours to the nearest town on the way home I got him to stop and he found out what it was all about that two hour drive turned into sex hours and I dont think I could sit down propperly for a week big strapping country guy I hope he remembers me fondly every young man needs his first,but cant always find the girl of his dreams first up. when I worked on cattle stations in the Nt many of those boys had never been with a woman, its was an isolated life for a lot of them. stumbling cowboys but I do agree that if the person is very young then its a power thing and as adults we need to be very careful , as sexual imprinting lasts a lifetime. If you open a kink that becomes an unhealthy fetish then there are consequences for their future relationships.
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RHP User
12 years ago
kinnda like ebay, hey :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting tuscanred"I worked on cattle stations in the Nt many of those boys had never been with a woman, its was an isolated life for a lot of them. stumbling cowboys"but I bet ya a bottle of bundie or two that some of them stummblin cowboys had stumbled on one another at one time or another :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
responsible seduction has to be..... no harm. people need to think about what they are doing...before playing with a young girl or guy...or with another's partner....the potential for harm is huge
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inspirit
12 years ago
Sexual Growth = NO. Individuals can only be responsible for this themselves. If they turn into big "kinksters" which you think may be unhealthy - at the end of the day that is thier choice. Emotional Growth = YES - no brainer really.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'boingboingboing' Quoting tuscanred"I worked on cattle stations in the Nt many of those boys had never been with a woman, its was an isolated life for a lot of them. stumbling cowboys"but I bet ya a bottle of bundie or two that some of them stummblin cowboys had stumbled on one another at one time or another :P Sounds like you are quite confident, as I am sure giving up a bottle of the beloved Bundy would be not be easy. From what I have seen of Bundy drinkers in the out back, they are quite attached to the vile stuff
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inspirit
12 years ago
There is a the Fenacle festival is on in early August... I can't message you woman as you have your PF in lock down. No wonder after this post sux to be a young cub today hey LMAO
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'boingboingboing' Quoting tuscanred"I worked on cattle stations in the Nt many of those boys had never been with a woman, its was an isolated life for a lot of them. stumbling cowboys"but I bet ya a bottle of bundie or two that some of them stummblin cowboys had stumbled on one another at one time or another :P All male there, but who knows for real they were usa guys who who were pretty rough and tough but one never knows , never saw that in embut the cows were sure pretty. I think I saw a couple with ear rings on
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly hope i posted this in right post :-) Well it's a good subject I don't realy think it matters about age I was with a woman over 40 when I was 20 and was prety much her toy boy for 6 months put she under stood that I also liked younger woman I learnt a lot off her and I recon there would be a few young girls would like to thank her for showing me that :-) I think it's just the thaught that an older woman is having fun and horny over a younger guy so straight away she's going to be more excited (and its awesom seeing a woman laying there out of control orgasming) so that makes the experience better for both worlds On the other hand was with a 21 yr old woman not long ago and wow that jeneration is out of control (think its the ease of seeing porn these days went of like a fire cracker ) and was prety open minded So older woman shouldn't be worrying about leading younger guys astray if alls fun
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