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Revealing or provocative - what does it mean..?

October 19 2014

Question for both girls and boys... Last night I took my (adult) daughter out - just to the movies, but we went to Jam Factory and had dinner before on Chapel St with a lot of people walking to night clubs and bars. As the summer is here women (and men) are now dressed a lot more provocatively and have often very revealing dresses... We discussed this and I was wondering what everyone's opinion is: When someone is wearing a more revealing clothing, do you feel more inclined to "hit" on them - approach them with the intent of making it further than just a simple conversation? Is it easier for you (whether you're the one wearing a sparse outfit or the one approaching you) to direct the conversation towards getting laid (if that's what you want)..? But also - do you feel yourself wide open to advances - and if you do how do you get rid of sleazy guys/girls that you don't find attractive?

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RHP User

10 years ago

That is why I am on here, I don't get any attention in public unless I have my boobs out. Other than a bit of cleavage from time to time, I don't really do short dresses and crazy heels. I think when you are flashing your assets it is much easier to steer the conversation to sex because there is a point of reference, if I was dressed like a nun, there are no references so that would make it a lot harder.

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RHP User

10 years ago

It's a good topic ,not sure ladies dress to be picked up as such! Chapel st was always a good perve back in my twenties,along time ago lol Night clubs can be full on,but I suppose it pays to advertise !! To me it's like Xmas,love to un wrap my present lol xxx

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RHP User

10 years ago

If I'm ready to mingle I don't usually go out in a jumper, but apart from that I dress mainly for me, not others. When I wear something ultra feminine I think my confidence shows and men are probably more attracted to that than my outfit. I don't wear too revealing things, as I'd hate to feel as mutton dressed like lamb. Also, I look at the young women in The Cross on weekends and I just don't get it. I recently had the disturbing realisation that a lot of the prostitutes there (I know a fair few of them) dress classier than girls going out partying with their friends, no joke. How do I get rid of sleaze balls? I tend to ask them politely to leave me alone.

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PL1963

10 years ago

I agree Meander, ultra feminine is great for the ladies confidence and certainly gives the guys a clue that the lady is on "high alert". I seriously doubt you would look like "mutton dressed up a lamb", please ladies, don't underrate yourselves, dressing well, smelling nice, confidence and personality is what maters to most guys, making the best of what you have is what shines thru. Cheers P.L.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'ralf74' That is why I am on here, I don't get any attention in public unless I have my boobs out. Other than a bit of cleavage from time to time, I don't really do short dresses and crazy heels. I think when you are flashing your assets it is much easier to steer the conversation to sex because there is a point of reference, if I was dressed like a nun, there are no references so that would make it a lot harder. smart cookie

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RHP User

10 years ago

I wear whatever makes me feel good. It can be a short or long dress, as long as it makes me feel feminine. If any one thinks my dress is too short quite frankly that's their problem, not mine. I don't have big boobs so I might as well put my legs out there, lol. When I go out at night it's to have fun with my friends, not to pick up, regardless of what I'm wearing. Too besides, I never do after midnight beer goggles pick ups.

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6exxy

10 years ago

Class, style always has a hint of sexy in it as well. A sense of who you are with confidence. Intelligent women always get me with the afore mentioned qualities.

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