Sawadee

Sawadee

M62

Revenge sex..

December 26 2022

Early this month l accepted a invitation from a client to attend thier end of year xmas get together .. Innocent enough but as the afternoon went on and inibitions dropped off , l got caught up with the same woman who invited me.. Sluring her words we got into a in-depth conversation about work but then her mood swang and she quickly changed that to relationships, saying how her husband had cheated on her and how she badly wanted to pay him back.. Then she jokenly says ' you interested ? I just laughed and took it in the same joking way and the conversation went back in another direction.. A few days ago l got a text saying " are you interested " thats all ? For a start ' lm not the kind of guy to go off with anothers mans wife unless of course its arranged that way ' which this was not. I explained this' which she was quite cool with saying' if you ever changed your mind..? This of course in my opinion is revenge sex and l am wondering if any of you RHP people have been in a similar situation... Of course l did consider it ' but it seemed far too complicated ...

Comments

  • Rising_Phoenix

    Rising_Phoenix

    2 years ago

    I’d be so mad if someone asked me that, I’d rip through them for trying to involve me in their fucked up games.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Happens all the time! I believe many have been there, done that. I have. ✋️ I just put it down to adding closure to one relationship and wanting to be in the arms of another. I mean we all crave sex, right? At the end of the day people want to feel loved and needed and want a confidence boost. Many couples (some, not all) lack that in their marriage. Sometimes it's deceitful and backfires, other times it brings couples closer together. In your case OP, I'm pretty sure you know exactly what to do. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    If you live in a big city? Say: "Yes." If you live in a small town? Say: "No." If you get this offer while you're out of town? Say: "Fahhhhhhhk YES lurve, let's go!!!!!" Those are the rules.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 years ago

    It’s strange to proposition someone with pity or revenge as your selling card. ‘Guilt free’ sex, anyone? It’s like ‘sugar free’ cookies… a poor substitute and may give you the runs. That was my first impression anyway lol. Your response sounds fair, Santa’s got work to do and too busy kissing other mummies under the mistletoe tonight. Ho ho ho

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 years ago

    I’m not her so can’t speak to her reasons. I just know for me that jealousy, revenge, competitiveness hurt, pity, etc are all turn offs for me. Ok maybe the friendly competition can be fun. Love of the sport lol. Yes, yes and yes. I fucking love sex and all the possibilities. Too many to be bogged down in drama

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    2 years ago

    Taking her word as her partner cheated on her, fucking a woman from work, Where in his decision to betray a woman who found out he is cheating, who he is fucking and is the woman he is fucking cheating aswell. To be fair, the woman who has been betrayed, if she wants to fuck a single guy, then likely she doesn’t like her ex, she’s known for some time and outing up with his bullshit lying to her, he’s lost any worth, he’s lost a friendship and once again untrustworthy and any friends he or they have, he certainly won’t honour any of them, he buckled and the woman he is fucking is just fucking probably at its end as if his ex caught wind of it, it’s blowing around all over the joint. His problem will be wanting his ex to forgive him, maybe he doesn’t know she found out, for sure he will drop in a heap, will he continue lying and if OP you consented with the woman who honoured her friendship with him, she is not cheating and if you guys fucked, you’re not betraying anyone, you’re single so no hurt and owe nothing of you’re principals can be faulted, if you want to fuck her and she’s expressed her want to for you to fuck her then she has wiped the slate and her choices as a friend more so than client, she finds trust and likely companionship, she has been hurt. Supporting her choices and best seeing them through with her is by principle what you must do, what comes of it is her’s to manage, learn, predicted and passably where her Intensions have meaning, next choice you see through to where it is meant, advice, caution, wisdom or so, can be part of clear travel, working around interference and manipulation is always looking for a way in, helping your friend indeed she counts on and she has not betrayed you. Now we are privy, you need to address with her. Fuck her and open a couple’s account and seek shelter with your community of friends, family in the lifestyle and see it through to where you intend with meaning and find a way to remind yourself to regularly check in and maintain this friendship is the centre of your life with a woman who has chosen you to join her sharing intimacy. Unless your swamped with women inviting a shot with could very well be the path travelled A journey into the years of the rest of this life and maintained a friendship centre always. Or walk away and don’t look back, you’re honouring her choices, only hers alone. But you still have to include her in these conversations. It’s all in care and why principals have one clear answer, no matter the excuses, it’s unconditional. Mado Mado, Tara xx

  • EtherealMagician

    EtherealMagician

    2 years ago

    I think the key here is alcohol is involved and the need to tread warily. I think some people use alcohol as an excuse for their actions and can spin a narrative around this. (I am not implying that this is what is happening in the scenario presented here) I am always wary when substances are in play. Personally I’d decline because I wouldn’t want to feel used. Yeah it’s an opportunity to have sex but for me it needs to be for the right reasons. I need to respect myself. I have never been someone to just have sex for the sake of having sex. I have turned down a few offers over the years. Revenge sex doesn’t sound healthy but people are free to do what they want which is why getting to know someone is important so I know what their motivation is and I can decide if I want to be a part of that. In the end I think it was a great decision. ✌️