M46
Rimming
June 09 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Discostickk, you may like to consider getting some of what they call "dental dams". Sheets of flavoured, coloured latex. I bought some online from a store that sold condoms, the dams I found were Glyde brand and they came in their own handy-dandy little bags, great to dispose of them afterwards. You pop a bit of lube on the side that's going on top of the arse and your tongue does the magic from the other side. I'd only ever "given" through a dam but recently I "received" for the first time, and it still felt good. That way you can play even when you're not neccessarily straight out of the shower and it cuts down the risk of getting an E. coli sickness. I'd only ever be on either side of rimming with a dam in between. But the real advantage I've found is that it helps people who are reluctant to give it a go take the plunge! So any ladies who were going to reply with a no - what if it's through a dam?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have been on the recieving end and I just plain do not like it. It feels all wrong. The sensation is slippery and revolting. Apart from the connotations of licking someones arse...there is no way in this wide world I am going to be rimming someone else. Not me baby...aint happening. Yuck, Yuck and double yuck!!!!! If the man I am with really really likes doing it to others...he may go right ahead but I am not gonna like it and it will turn me cold faster than walking outside naked in this arctic wind today.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Guy half here. I'm into it, both giving and recieving. I would only let a girl give after I'd come out of the shower, got to be courteous and all. I've only got sick once from doing it to a girl. What is the opinion of going arse to pussy? I can't imagine that would be healthy.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i love it i only ever get hubby to do it when he is fucking me hard with my toy it makes me ever so wet and horny
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RHP User
14 years ago
but then I also love givng and recieving rimmming....however I must stress that this is not something I indulge in with just anyone....currently there is only 1 person I undertake this with (gicing - and we have been playing together for about 12 months and yes peeps I know he is clean but no slippery no dam)...this is something that can be very controversial...I enjoy it....I indulge....am more than happy for others to gove to me but note I wont give in return until I am comfortable with you...know your history (as much as you are willing to share) and yes! if neccessary I want proof!!! . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'want2tryUout' Guy half here. I'm into it, both giving and recieving. I would only let a girl give after I'd come out of the shower, got to be courteous and all. I've only got sick once from doing it to a girl. What is the opinion of going arse to pussy? I can't imagine that would be healthy. Good point. No, it's not healthy. Folks should wash very carefully anything that's been in contact with arse before it goes to pussy. It could cause a nasty infection she won't thank you for. Another reason I use dams, it eliminates the need to spend ten minutes in the company of toothbrush and Listerine in the middle of playtime. I'm a little concerned that you've "only got sick once" however. I shouldn't find that amusing but the way you worded it is making me smirk. It's kind of like saying, "I'm a great driver, I've only ever hit one pedestrian". hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get it feels nice but both Pups here would rather give it a miss. I mean a tongue on the perineum getting kind close to the poo shooter is nice enough but close enough is good enough in this case. I mean I'd be paranoid I'd have a little spasm and let a fart out and that wouldn't do! We're always amazed at the number of people who want to lick the bare arse of a new partner. Reminds me of a story of playing around when guy says to girl "Stick your finger up my bum now!", girl politely acts as though she didn't hear him as she's just waaaay too nice but in her oh so cute way tells me after "If he wanted a finger up his bum, he can stick his own up there". Loses something in the translation here without her oh so cute facials!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have only done it with two lovers so far... And it was discussed prior and errrr very clean back measures were taken prior, so tongues everywhere resulted in nothing but PLEAAAAAAAAASURE But if the man's errr gear stick goes back, then it must take a visit to the bathroom to 'freshen' up b4 it goes elsewhere... This has never been even close to a drama, it is just like going to get a drink or needing to go for a wizz (but slippery would hope that he'd be there for that! lol)
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RHP User
14 years ago
You don't need to bring my fetish up in every thread, damn it!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'slippery_halo'You don't need to bring my fetish up in every thread, damn it! If i keep talkn bout it, i may start to 'get' it? I need to as DGT how she got interested I have already moved position from WTF? to oh i could do it for someone if they wanted??? the only tipping point the other way was when u mentioned the strong flow of the bath tap on a girls button, is akin to a strong errr flow... but i'd still go bath tap at this point!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have done and loved it both ways giving and receiving gave up on it tho after feeling a bit I'll the next day! And she was soles and showered ha can you get the dams from sex shops?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mathew1974'I have done and loved it both ways giving and receiving gave up on it tho after feeling a bit I'll the next day! And she was soles and showered ha can you get the dams from sex shops? I've never seen them but I'm sure they're around and if they're not they should be able to order them for you. Some chemists might as well. The only place I've really heard of them being around in great abundance is the gay/lesbian etc rooms at universities. I'm told there are a heap of them for free, intended for lesbians for oral but just do a snatch and grab. haha. But yeah, online was the best way to go I found. I got a deal, bought 40 at once or something and it was very inexpensive. Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'slippery_halo'You don't need to bring my fetish up in every thread, damn it! If i keep talkn bout it, i may start to 'get' it? I need to as DGT how she got interested I have already moved position from WTF? to oh i could do it for someone if they wanted??? the only tipping point the other way was when u mentioned the strong flow of the bath tap on a girls button, is akin to a strong errr flow... but i'd still go bath tap at this point! Okay Booba, we need to have a talk about keeping threads on-topic and not mentioning stuff from private messages in public discussions. And guess where we're going to have that conversation? That's right, elsewhere. (Though I must say I am thrilled to be making a convincing case...)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Master Slippery When can we cum? errr to finishing 'that' conversation...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Master Slippery When can we cum? errr to finishing 'that' conversation... When I've slept and can write a long message again.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mathew1974'I have done and loved it both ways giving and receiving gave up on it tho after feeling a bit I'll the next day! And she was soles and showered ha can you get the dams from sex shops? Oh Mathew, I forgot to mention - you can make a similar thing yourself. Get a condom, flavoured are the best for the giver (the Glyde dams are flavoured too). Unroll it and with sharp scissors snip off the resevoir end. You'll be left with a cylinder. Then snip lengthways down the side of the cylinder and you'll have a flat piece of latex. A dab of lube to the unflavoured side and slap the whole lot down on the area in in question. If there's no air under it'll fit tight and feel better for the receiver. Sometimes it may help to ask the receiver to help hold it in place with a hand. You'll have to experiment as to which body position best facilitates that. hehe. The dams are much better for a variety of reasons but I've used that method with flavoured condoms (which I like to call "flavourdoms") before I bought dams online.
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RHP User
14 years ago
So that explains the Bad Breath on some!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'JustEnough'So that explains the Bad Breath on some! The sales of mouthwash have seriously increased since I strtaed indulging in this activity . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
with a partner you adore rimming is delicious... just a starter to other options of pleasure
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RHP User
14 years ago
What's rimming curious sweetpetite41 wants to know all the finner details..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41' What's rimming curious sweetpetite41 wants to know all the finner details.. Arse licking, you know using your tongue to lick someones arse hole and push your tongue in there.
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RHP User
14 years ago
what ass to mouth? i seee it on pornos all the time girls getting anal then giving blowies... i always think that'a kind of gross though...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sweetpetite41' What's rimming curious sweetpetite41 wants to know all the finner details.. You are not alone, when we were getting interviewed at the sex clinic one of the questions were: Do you engage in rimming? then the nurse immediately asked, "Do you know what rimming is?" So you are not alone, heaps dont know! Plus as mentioned above additional safety issues are available just for that practise in addition to dams and condoms.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Wow this seems more taboo than anal!!! I love it when the self professed open minded RHPers become prudish heeheeheeeee Two words on rimming: it's hot Meh, folks can still be open minded and not like something. Of all the things not to like I think I can understand this the best. I'm glad you think it's hot though. If Chilli likes it, it's GOT to be okay. Quoting 'focusliason' I love vaccinations I assume vaccinations is a way of referring to the act of tongue fucking an ass, penetrating in and out as deeply as you can??? Am I even close, Focus??? Chilli xx really really hot with Damn BabeHeh. While your attempt was hot, Chilli, I think not. While not trying to speak for the very capable of speaking for herself Focus, I suspect she was saying she enjoys something the majority of people don't, so the fact that she enjoys rimming should be taken with a grain of salt. Unless I'm the one who's mistaken, in which case I deserve to be punished with multiple vaccinations. Quoting 'sweetpetite41' What's rimming curious sweetpetite41 wants to know all the finner details.. Also known as "analingus", licking someone's arse. Although a friend had a margarita party with a product called "rimming sugar", which was supposedly to go around the edge of the cocktail glasses. So that's another definition and one that probably shouldn't be confused at the bar. Quoting 'we_are_no_angels'what ass to mouth? i seee it on pornos all the time girls getting anal then giving blowies... i always think that'a kind of gross though... No, not ass-to-mouth. Well, literally, I suppose that's not a bad instruction manual for the activity. But what you're talking about is different. Rimming is tongue on the anus. That's a power trip/"look how dirty I am!" and you're right, that is gross. Not nearly as tingly either.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Wow this seems more taboo than anal!!! I love it when the self professed open minded RHPers become prudish heeheeheeeee Two words on rimming: it's hot Meh, folks can still be open minded and not like something. Of all the things not to like I think I can understand this the best. I'm glad you think it's hot though. If Chilli likes it, it's GOT to be okay. Quoting 'focusliason' I love vaccinations I assume vaccinations is a way of referring to the act of tongue fucking an ass, penetrating in and out as deeply as you can??? Am I even close, Focus??? Chilli xx really really hot with Damn BabeHeh. While your attempt was hot, Chilli, I think not. While not trying to speak for the very capable of speaking for herself Focus, I suspect she was saying she enjoys something the majority of people don't, so the fact that she enjoys rimming should be taken with a grain of salt. Unless I'm the one who's mistaken, in which case I deserve to be punished with multiple vaccinations. Quoting 'sweetpetite41' What's rimming curious sweetpetite41 wants to know all the finner details.. Also known as "analingus", licking someone's arse. Although a friend had a margarita party with a product called "rimming sugar", which was supposedly to go around the edge of the cocktail glasses. So that's another definition and one that probably shouldn't be confused at the bar. Quoting 'we_are_no_angels'what ass to mouth? i seee it on pornos all the time girls getting anal then giving blowies... i always think that'a kind of gross though... No, not ass-to-mouth. Well, literally, I suppose that's not a bad instruction manual for the activity. But what you're talking about is different. Rimming is tongue on the anus. That's a power trip/"look how dirty I am!" and you're right, that is gross. Not nearly as tingly either.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'slippery_halo' If Chilli likes it, it's GOT to be okay. No, not ass-to-mouth. Well, literally, I suppose Oh dear, Slippery... ... I see a troubled world ahead if my preferences become the barometer for acceptable standards Bwahahaha! Now while I appreciate you trying to sanitise rimming, Slippery, it's really not for the squeamish, and should only be done in the context of having irrigated and washed immediately prior to the act. I'm like Focus - it's a particularly intimate act worthy of only those elite, trusted, long term playmates... Meh. Recent shower - ever wonder why I'm such an advocate of a dam?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Was referring to the knowledge that the most common danger associated with rimming is within the hepatitis family and you can be vaccinated against this....yes I know not all can be vaccinated against and it isnt a cure but it sure helps. . I remember my sexual helath nurse asking me if I knew what rimming was also and when I could go into intimate details about it he looked at me with a raised eyebrow....poor soul . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
That can be fun, Dont you think Focus! (we had a female nurse giggling, saying It just clicked what you said! during her educational speel on condom sizes) Thank Goodness I didnt get a male nurse! Cheers Quoting 'focusliason' I remember my sexual helath nurse asking me if I knew what rimming was also and when I could go into intimate details about it he looked at me with a raised eyebrow....poor soul . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Was referring to the knowledge that the most common danger associated with rimming is within the hepatitis family and you can be vaccinated against this....yes I know not all can be vaccinated against and it isnt a cure but it sure helps. . I remember my sexual helath nurse asking me if I knew what rimming was also and when I could go into intimate details about it he looked at me with a raised eyebrow....poor soul . Kisses FocusWell whaddya know, that even makes more sense than my explanation.
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RHP User
14 years ago
your alot like me
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'JustEnough' That can be fun, Dont you think Focus! (we had a female nurse giggling, saying It just clicked what you said! during her educational speel on condom sizes) Thank Goodness I didnt get a male nurse! Cheers Quoting 'focusliason' I remember my sexual helath nurse asking me if I knew what rimming was also and when I could go into intimate details about it he looked at me with a raised eyebrow....poor soul . Kisses Focus That being a sexual health nurse he shouldnt have been surprised by it...or maybe its because I was actually honest about the fact that I do partake in rimming...know what it is....and enjoy it.... . But it can be fun when you have a professional surprised at your knowledge about topics....especially topics that they feel you probably shouldnt have knowledge of...lol....having had a male sexual health nurse can be so funny - they have to go and get a female to assist with the examination aspect of the consultation to ensure there is no inappropriate behaviour...two for the price of one...lol . Kisses Focus
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