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Rockercouple80's guide to events...

June 21 2012

Ok, so we host events from time to time.Damn frustrating organising everyone else's sex lives, although the pay off is wonderful!Anyway, here is a list of guidelines you should consider, if you are thinking of event participation1. Read the event listing. If it says an age limit, stick to it. If it asks for couples only, don't be a single guy pretending to be a couple. Etc.2. Click the 'register' button. That way others know who is registered. Sure, send an email to the organisers, but still click register. Makes it so much harder to organise invitations when not everyone has actually registered.3. If you can't make it on the night, say something! That way someone else can take your spot, if numbers are limited. Otherwise, the event organiser sits around twiddling their thumbs wondering why you haven't RSVP'd at all. If you can't confirm straight away, at least say something! Communication people!4. Rock up on time! We have a big kick arsed gate out the front, and we shut it dead on the 'closing time' for event arrival. Cant count how many people have arrived an hour late only to not get in. Ruined a few nights for them... not us!5. Don't get too drunk. Having a few is great. Loosens you up a bit. We all tend to enjoy a drink. Don't be like us and have too many 6. Leave the drugs at home. 7. Communicate with your partner prior to arrival. The do's and don'ts of your limits, what you want/expect/hope. No one likes a couple off in the corner after just disagreeing on some trivial action from 20 minutes ago. Or worse, one half sulking, the other half running wild. Unless they run wild with us, that's different!8. Most events should have supplied protection. But bring your own anyway. Lube, etc too.9. Respect the home/venue rules. We ask guests to use plastic cups (saves hours of time cleaning glass from a spa). Don't go through doors that are closed. Don't touch CD collections. Don't touch anything... unless they are naked of course...10. MINGLE. What's the point of sitting there talking to the same two people all night? Mingle. Chat. Spread yourselves around. Network!11. NO MEANS NO! Don't push it. Respect others. Don't push boundaries if you have been told not to.Comments? Additions? Thoughts??

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RHP User

12 years ago

Having been to only one private party myself, I realise it's a lot of time and effort to organise. We had sensational hosts ( hi 5s delcplbris) who went above and beyond in making everyone feel welcome.It's nice to see roughly who is also attending to when guests register. I gotta say I do like a "no pressure no play" guideline and a "dress to impress" attitude too..sexier the better.Excellent guidelines Rocker..you should have it printed up and handed out lol..

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RHP User

12 years ago

That list will come in handy rather soon ;) I'd only add one more point myself and that is : Please leave in a quiet and discrete manor as we get on rather well with the neighbours and wish it to stay that way.

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QLDtwo4fun

12 years ago

When you need to explain common curtesy about responding to invitations and behaviour at someone else's home. Sounds you guys have had some bad experiences from hosting. I must again thank timetoswing for the great parties they organise.

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DonnaBrett

12 years ago

You guys nailed everything!!

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RHP User

12 years ago

We too, have been to some of the greatest private parties with Deliciouscplbris You guys rock xxxxxxx The work that goes into doing it and the organising it's MASSIVE Well done guys xxxxxx Saturn i need not say anymore Just to add to the list At the end of the night......... It's not hard to say Thankyou to the hosts and say good bye people SEND IT TO PRINT

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RHP User

12 years ago

Honey and Saturn we had a ball too !! And yes it's a huge thing to put together......only thing that annoys me is the register and then no answer!!! Communication is key ! Love hosting though - always then guaranteed a no pressure classy event:)

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RHP User

12 years ago

Hats off to anyone that holds a party , hard work . Done it weekly for nearly 10 years Xxx

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RHP User

12 years ago

Some good tips there rockers.. We are on our 6th private party now...and it only gets better, and more laughs (did i mention sex) Each time we hone it a little and have never had dramas... except the one time...some GRUB "professionals" bled on bed, wiped their business on face washer and put pillow on red spot!! what the hell is wrong with people..? No sorry, they told no one...cleaned up nothing and slinked home ah well..no breakages and no spak outs ...lol roll on next party in august :>

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rc_80

12 years ago

Other than the lack of replies from people, we've not had too much to complain about. We did have a bit of trouble with people just assuming they can crash on the couch over night, but we put a stop to that one after the first time, when said guests started drinking again at 9am, and sat back and watched while we spent the best part of two hours cleaning the entertainment area and draining the big spa. We dont mind a pre-arranged sleep over (it's good fun cooking up a big post party breakfast)... just not a 'spring it on us at 3am that they can't drive so they HAVE to stay and not clean up after' deal.Sometimes we're too laid back for our own good...

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RHP User

12 years ago

These are common senses, surprise to know that there are people who lack these common senses. I'm hosting a party in Sydney in two weeks. This will be very useful to send to my guests.

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RHP User

12 years ago

I Can triple verify Saturn in regards to Deliciouscplbris party on the GC and the time and effort it takes. I met some great people and made new friends... Especially A & B x

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RHP User

12 years ago

I hold mine in my dungeon and provide nibbles and soft drink. I get very pissed off when I find that someone isn't using a condom on one of my toys, lights or brings their cigarette inside or leaves almost full softdrink cans around because they can't remember where they left the last one and so open another one.And don't get me started on those that make a big song and dance about finding out the time and address and promises to be there and then doesn't even send a text to say sorry not coming now.

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rc_80

12 years ago

Yep, had one couple last time, contacted us at 4pm, for a 7pm event. Gave them the go ahead but made it clear we need more notice next time, and they only got accepted as opne couple pulled out ten minutes prior. They confirmed they would be there for dinner (we like the social aspect too), etc etc. Didnt arrive, so we held off starting dinner.... didnt reply to texts... we later heard they sat in the RHP chatroom all night. BLACKLISTED, and their details were forwarded to all party organisers we know so they can cross them off event invites :) Quoting 'MistressT' I hold mine in my dungeon and provide nibbles and soft drink. I get very pissed off when I find that someone isn't using a condom on one of my toys, lights or brings their cigarette inside or leaves almost full softdrink cans around because they can't remember where they left the last one and so open another one.And don't get me started on those that make a big song and dance about finding out the time and address and promises to be there and then doesn't even send a text to say sorry not coming now.

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DonnaBrett

12 years ago

We like your style Rockers....let everyone know about the slack asses & unreliable people who waste other people's time!! Quoting 'rockercouple80' Yep, had one couple last time, contacted us at 4pm, for a 7pm event. Gave them the go ahead but made it clear we need more notice next time, and they only got accepted as opne couple pulled out ten minutes prior. They confirmed they would be there for dinner (we like the social aspect too), etc etc. Didnt arrive, so we held off starting dinner.... didnt reply to texts... we later heard they sat in the RHP chatroom all night. BLACKLISTED, and their details were forwarded to all party organisers we know so they can cross them off event invites :)

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rc_80

12 years ago

thought of some more ESSENTIAL rules for party/event participants.12. Don't come empty handed. That doesnt mean grab something while you cum, but to arrive clutching a bottle of booze for the hosts. Preferably in litre size or larger (nothing that is housed in a cardboard box though, no matter how pretty the painting on the front is)13. Take your shit home with you after the event. We've got FOUR pairs of bikinis here, three towels, a pair of shoes, and two t-shirts left being from last nights debauchery. Oh, the memories! Why can't people leave their wallet instead of skanky nickers?

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RHP User

12 years ago

Just a note for party organizers, hitting the registration button means nothing, we can get 34 people registered and 150- 200 people turn up..They simply hit it to read the event and most people know what is on and where anyhow.So unless you hit event and then get an email it really means nothing.We never take the registration list as an example at all of how our parties are going, or who is coming.Just saying.Leesa CI

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