STARTING OUT THE HOW'S WHERE'S AN WHY'S

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  1# Would you like too fuck? 2# Fuck 3# Fucking 4# Want too fuck again? mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Of course that is the "in between the lines" for it all. Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Is in it with same intentions as you... Sex. It dosnt always go there tho ;) Be open and get to kno the others. Ask what they are there for, swap, watch others, group. People are normally very forward and honest with you. The best times we have had is the unexpected, the unplanned. Hard to organise tho lol :) Enjoy and look after yourself. Good luck with your first time:) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Profile: You have great pics, though I would put the action shot in your private gallery as not everyone is keen on them.Take the "ask me"s out, as well as the generic sentences. Say a bit more about you, your relationship and your likes. Meeting:I personally prefer meeting in a public place for a drink to see if we all get on and if there is chemistry. I'll ask what you like, tell you what I do and we can discuss our rules and boundaries. Playing:I like to have a drink and relax first, than perhaps some female on female kissing and touching before the husband joins in.Communication is key and I expect couples to have discussed clearly what they do and do not want. Nothing worse than jealousy coming into play (pun intended) halfway through.Safe sex is non-negotiable, and though I will always bring condoms, a couple not providing them may just be a dealbreaker.I also think it's important to be very respectful and ask "Would you like it if..." or "Is it ok if I..." You are playing with someone else's partner, after all. Afterwards:Well, that depends on how comfortable and how much fun it was! Do get in touch the next day though, even if only to say how it was for you and to thank the other couple. Welcome and good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  that if you do not know "what to say or do", you are not really ready to swing. Perhaps consider sharpening your social skills first? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Bitchy! Don't listen, PeeShaun. We all started somewhere. One thing though? Writing your profile name kind of made the word Pee stand out to me and I don't think that is your intention.

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  enange63

  11 years ago

  Know what you want, let others know. Be as honest as you can, meet publicly, meet with the intention of having a good time whether it leads to the bedroom or not.Dont "take one for the team"Have an exit strategybe niceTalk, before, during and after.laughdont expect it to change your life hope that helps :) xx

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