Safe Sex

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We have seen that too our interpretation Stay clear....avoid.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Well I guess she's protecting herself from him then.. Speaking of which - how many use protection when giving a lady oral sex?

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Very good question.. it's Pure and Simple - No glove, No love!

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  MsSuperFoxy

  11 years ago

  "Always for activities" on profiles" does not mean they ALWAYS practice Safe Sex or wear condoms. Do you actually believe people when they put, "Always for Activities"?? I don't ......To protect myself, is MY OWN responsibility and I don't rely on others. I give credit to the man in this case...At least he's being honest and given readers the choice. Maybe, sometimes the man may just like to watch his wife play and in that case, no condom required. As for the woman, who knows? However I would ask the couple explain why/what they mean; as the woman says one thing and the man says something else. That's all you can do and go from on what/how they reply back. Foxy

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  When it was a couple, I thought that the couple together don't have to do a condom, but everyone else yes!!! But then I was new to the site at that time as well :). Enjoy

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It's one of things that you will have to ask the couple for further clarification as strangely enough we all define these terms differently. Maybe the guy will allow a woman to perform oral sex with him without a condom hence the If required but the wife uses condoms for oral. Some couples have if required on their profile because they don't use condoms with each other. I find that really bizarre, I would assume that most couples wouldn't use condoms when having sex with each other... What I am interested in is their safe sex practices when they are with other people.

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  On_Safari

  11 years ago

  DOES NOT constitute Safe Sex......carry on.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I'm single however if I was in a couple and playing with friend either rhpers or outside of rhp I would just insist on condoms a) foremost for safety reasons b) respect if I'm playing with a couple it is my way of keeping my mental health knowing I'm playing responably ... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  If I don't know the person 9/10 condom is used whether they the other party wants to or not... The other 1/10 times well yes obviously everyone is human and sometimes pure lust gets in the way and woops nature takes over ... But hardly ever ... And the woopsy is what people may mean when they say ' if required ' who knows . - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Its probably not a real couple. Found that out last night the hard way. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I think "If Required" means "If they do something that 'requires protection'..."". Obviously, if you're just doing mutual masturbation or things that don't require 'genital to genital' or 'mouth to genital' contact, then I suppose there's no need. Some people may just do things like that and not go the "whole hog"... Dunno. But I've asked on another thread, and maybe here is a better place to mention it... Prior to coming to this site (prior to that was on the other 'Plain Dating Sites' where you spend a month to 6 weeks getting to know someone before you even talk about sex, my idea of safe sex was "Getting tested and presenting the 'clean' results to the prospective lover and requesting same from her. I also showed 3 month old test (I got tested every 3 months (having worked in Security and getting involved in close contact with crims and drunks etc, who sometimes bled, I was used to getting tested regularly anyway. On this site are 'condoms' the ONLY thing meant when people say 'Safe Sex'. I mean condoms don't protect against Herpes. They can be caught from places other than the shaft of a penis. They can be passed from balls, labia, inner thighs, mouth (oral herpes can be passed onto genitals and vice versa. Also HPV (Human Papilloma Virus or Genital Warts) are even more wide spread, with the virus being on the inner thighs, labia, testes, butt and the perineum (taint). So why are condoms the 'be all and end all, when they don't protect against the two most widespread diseases throughout humanity, across the world? I would be far more comfortable with a partner if we both got tested after meeting (it take 2 - 3 days to get full results for all the badies) than not knowing anything and wearing a condom that is less than 100% effective and also may break. It's been know to happen! Frequently. I much prefer test results and ID (proving they are yours). Clinical, I know, but it's for the 100 percent protection of both people (or more). Maybe I'm too finicky? I'd appreciate anyone's thoughts. Thanks All

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Docklands_Babe' Its probably not a real couple. Found that out last night the hard way. - Posted from rhpmobile There you go, Stay away from any profile where its not the same rules for all four.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Set your own rules Stick to those rules Be super clear with your rules Communicate them again and again ...... . People all see this differently- subsequently define it their own way - which is just human nature. There is no definition so you need to make your own decisions and stick to them. . Don't get too upset just be clear on what you want out of it. What you find acceptable and is acceptably "safe enough" sex for you. Because let's face it, you can try but, the only way to be 100% safe in sex is to not have it - and that's NOT FUN! . Brae - frequent condom wearer

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