👮 Safe and Sound 👮

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  DynamicCouple36

  5 years ago

  The safety of anonymity When it comes to our interactions with people on RHP 1.For starters we never divulge our surname 2. We never give out our mobile number 3. We never give out our residential address nor bring anyone from here to our house 4. We keep our swinging life very VERY separate to our real life 5. We are very careful with regards the photos that we share so as to ensure that they can never be traced back to us 6. We never play nor correspond alone. We are a team and we look after one another

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  DynamicCouple36

  5 years ago

  Oh and ... We surf using Nord military strength VPN and are thus untraceable to even the Aussie government

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  As a single woman agree on numbers 1, 3, 4, and 5. I always try to keep safe. Most times, I wing it by gut feelings snd intuition. If someone gives me too much info straight up, it becomes very personal, not only that, for me, it can be signs of red flags and a turn off. I do not want to know peoples personal details at first, until I'm ready/comfortable and they have actioned to me, they are respectful, not just to others but themselves. It is common sense really. Sad tho, it takes experiences and situations to learn that as it is not handed out or in manuals. Ms Foxy

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  teejaylongsword

  5 years ago

  Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' As a single woman agree on numbers 1, 3, 4, and 5. I always try to keep safe. Most times, I wing it by gut feelings snd intuition. If someone gives me too much info straight up, it becomes very personal, not only that, for me, it can be signs of red flags and a turn off. I do not want to know peoples personal details at first, until I'm ready/comfortable and they have actioned to me, they are respectful, not just to others but themselves. It is common sense really. Sad tho, it takes experiences and situations to learn that as it is not handed out or in manuals. Hi Foxy,Your answer was very interesting. What is 'too much info' for you? I am asking because as a guy, you can feel like you only really have one shot at a successful initial contact. So sometimes I feel like I need to give enough information to show who I am as a person. I divulge what I might be into, what sort of lover I am and maybe a bit about my past experiences. I don't reveal my actual name and don't go on about my ex-partner (haha). I never thought that too much info would be a problem. But now I see that it could be from hearing your perspective (maybe I have been stuffing up on this front a few times)Teejay

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  OkeyDoke45

  5 years ago

  I just run with a step-wise approach and do everything on an exchange basis. Messaging on here first, then if I'm feeling comfortable I will often give them my phone number to message more directly. There is the whole Kik thing I know, but I can block a phone number if they turn out to be creeps so I don't really have a problem with people having my phone number. As far as accessing private galleries goes, I have a simple rule - whoever asks to see one must first open theirs. If they don't have one, too bad for them as they are certainly not looking at mine. Having said that, I have probably overshared my private gallery. I did have a rule of only opening it for an hour then closing it but to be honest people can just screenshot your photos so I don't know that it makes any difference. In the main though I am quite trusting, I have only had a couple of exchanges on here that I have regretted - the rest have all been quite respectful and I have their info as much as they have mine. I know there are some photos of me in some really interesting situations out there on a couple of peoples phones, and they may be showing their friends, but to be honest I could not give a shit.

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  countrytouch82

  5 years ago

  As a single male with a dog and a blue collar job and otherwise quite uneventful lifestyle, my interest in security is more about electronic security, identity and online privacy, as opposed to avoiding the very rare bad apple among women that women's prisons might be made up of :) Few people outside of this scene know that I am here, and many others might not care, but of course I don't want to risk the people that might have a problem. In any case I'm unlikely to know anyone in my private sphere that would see me here as I'm still essentially anonymous even in person in my home town. So I don't worry so much about showing my face etc, or using my real name in person or chatting. I have cropped pictures mainly because they're of less use to someone wanting to steal.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Yes, I've one on the side of my Sig P226 and still have all the benefits and privileges ownership. It's like a Titanium MasterCard... just don't ever leave home without it. Other than that, a full on VPN browser shield (no RHP I am not really dialing in from Botswana again) and a half lick of common sense which unfortunately isn't all that common. Hawgs and kickass ........ ʗɱ

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  There you said it. First/2nd or even 3rd meet, Bad mouthing/talking about EXES, financial situations, personal problems etc that type of thing first up..that's the sort of things I do not want to know about. I'm not a free Counsellor, financial advisor or Therapist. Over the top personal life dramas drains the absolute shit out me (meaning its mentally exhausting). Leave some curiosity wanting more, but not a life story on War and Peace. If I want to know, I'll ask or tell, in the mean time no pressures or expectations. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  As always it's the personalisation that makes replies extra special. I'll do replies one by one cos it's easier to get my head around. 😊 Your's was a brilliant list to start off with DynamicCouple. I won't be specific but I can see I need to look a lot deeper than I have while being happy I do pretty good in other areas. Thanks, I hope you'll care to to add if anything else comes to mind. 🍑

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  And a bit of unfortunate experience Foxy? Good lessons learned I reckon. Thanks heaps. 🍑

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