RHP

RHP User

M57 F55

Safe sex,,,

September 23 2016

Ok I know there is this hypocritical practice that we all at sometime guilty of doing oral without yet we insist on protection for actual intercourse. Or just NO to condoms all around for some! Regardless... Which then brings me to disease free term. At the end of the day most of us are talking to strangers. And yet we a suppose to take their word that they are ddf???? Is this just over overthinking this issue? or is this something other couples have discussed at great length like us? And what is the answer.?? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Our experience, on this site over the past 3 years, is that one cannot believe all people nor whats written within their profiles. There are some, that say that they are single, and then turn out to be married. (actually there are many) There are others that say they are a couple, or a single female, and end up being a male. Some say that they practise safe sex, for all activities. Others say that they are STI/STD free .... We believe, based on our experience in here, that many people will simply tell one what they think you want to hear, simply so as to get you into bed as quickly as possible. Once thus cannot believe anything on here, we feel. We therefore adopt the " Precautionary Principle " and that is to assume that everyone is infected / is carrying a STD / is risky, until such time that they have proven that they are 100% safe and free from STI's /STD's, and not the other way around. That does not mean that one cannot have fun. One just has to weigh up the rewards versus the consequences and to take the necessary precautions.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    Once = One

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    is that each of us, is responsible for our own health & well being. No one really has the right to tell you to take risks or to accept anything. It is really up to you. If one is carrying a STI/STD it is ones responsibility to disclose this, to ones sexual partner, as non-disclosure that results in ones partner contracting a disease, could lead to one being held legally accountable for this, not to mention jeopardising the health of an innocent person. The same applies if one is sleeping with others, outside of ones long term monogamous relationship. One needs to ensure that you do not bring a disease back home to your husband/wife/partrner.

  • hotdelights

    hotdelights

    8 years ago

    Thats the play of the game or is it a bag of worms

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    One of the reasons I like attached guys for ongoing fun, there are more reasons though. But knowing they care about not catching something and are careful, very careful, works for me, I'm quite often the only other partner or one of a few, time restricts them playing with anyone else, and their partner, usually. Discretion is another major factor, I don't like the world knowing my private business, and neither do they, so it works, there's more but I won't go there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I use condoms for intercourse and for everything else.... Well. Regular STD checks is the way to go. As they say, if you haven't had the clap or chlamydia at least once then you haven't been fucking enough. Lol Totally disagree that married men are safer though. I would say that most every day people hardly ever get checked and are often rooting around without protection. That's just from my own personal observations.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I still wouldn't take that into consideration what so ever. Because I don't know where they have been between that blood test and right now, a lot of people can happen in a week 😱........ Interesting read social suicide, made me consider something I hadn't thought of. 😏 - Posted from rhpmobile