jenniecruising

jenniecruising

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Saints and Sinners

October 11 2015

We attended S&S on Friday (9th Oct) and it was our 6th S&S ball, our first being in 2012. When attending large events like S&S you have to take the good with the bad, however our observations from the last few balls is the party dynamic is really changing and Friday's ball pretty well ended our future participation. "The Hovering Leach" Friday was the closest I've seen my husband come to having to use violence to warn men away. Several times we were approached, well to be more precise thrust upon while in the act by individuals of south asian decent. Sure you always get one or two guys looking to help out but these individuals were just on us to the point we had to physically move them away. It has seriously gotten worse over the last few parties and Friday's leaches ruined a usually awesome night. Was great to see new faces and catch up with friends but we might give the next party a miss. Jennie and Cruising

Comments

  • Markov77

    Markov77

    9 years ago

    Not that I have ever been to one and won't pretend to know how people should act however in general life regardless if the situation it sound as though these people have no respect at all. Hope all wasn't ruined and you found some good aspects.

  • vinocouple

    vinocouple

    9 years ago

    Guys It was our first time there.....whilst we had a ball, I can understand what you are saying. Knowing some people before we got there was a good thing. We thought that it just got too loose and random by the end of the night (we left after 2). In our case, a couple of guys took initial flirting and fun way too far, and we had to quickly move away. Not sure if the "no single males" policy was strictly enforced...... that may have been part of the problem. Whilst we are likely to attend again, we will definitely not be going to the NYE event. We are looking to try smaller more intimate functions.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    We went for the first time on NYE 2012/13, and really enjoyed it, even though we only played with one another. It was nice to get dressed up, dance, watch the action and flirt a little. We returned for our 2nd visit in March 2013 for what was to be our final visit. We noticed a large number of single males hovering around and trying to get in on the action. What had clearly happened is that they had used a female friend to get in, and once though the door had become single feral males on the prowl. With upwards of 1100 people there, and no visible patrolling by the organisers, it was not possible to report the hovering, stalking, groping "meerkats" nor get them thrown out. We also watched fingers going from anus to vagina to next vagina to next anus, and so on and so on, with zero washing of those hands & fingers (and other organs) between all the action. A great way to spread ecoli, UTI and other STI's. The bathrooms did not appear to have shower facilities and the floors and everything else were dirty and full of urine.... too many people in the place and no cleaners at all during the evening. As s result of this, we did not touch anyone nor allow anyone to touch us. Just control over 1100 people. Many friends of ours, who also attended, had the same experiences and complaints We won't be going back . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    Just can't control 1100 people. NYE by the way, is the smallest of all the events with over 800 people there. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    to one of those events, but I completely understand where you're coming from and can't believe they don't screen people better before entry or police it more during the night, that's the big thing. They should really have a quarry of people floating around chucking guys out who exhibit that kind of behavior. That meerkat behavior is hard for people to understand unless you've seen them and how they operate. I've had issues at the nude beach, where they don't respond to what you're asking, I had an encounter won't go into detail, already talked about it on another thread a while ago, but it was pretty full on, group of guys watching from CLOSE range, which is okay so long as they are prepared to move if you ask them and are respectful. Most are great guys, they're not all weirdos, but some are, and after that session, everybody moved on, I was still laying naked, one guy was still there, so just him and me, he was creepy looking, I asked him to go, to move on, he ignored me and just stood there, playing with himself, I had a guy on the phone who was concerned also for my safety, so I said to this guy, seriously you need to go, you're crossing a line. His response again was to just stand there, perving and said 'shame' and very slowly turned to move away, but kept stopping and looking. So creepy, another time I was having sex with a guy on the beach very late so probably midnight, I can't remember exactly, but it was a beautiful warm night last summer, still, my guy I'd seen before a few times so we were having a great time but full on into it, nobody anywhere along that strip of beach, we had the whole beach to ourself, or so we thought. This guy appeared from nowhere and sat down next to us?? Middle of the night, how bloody creepy is that. He didn't go, he just sat there watching, there's times when I like being watched, that wasn't one of them, at night with no-one else around, complete stranger, it's not safe, we grabbed our stuff and started packing up, he saw the show was over, got up and started walking away. At a properly organised event, I don't care how many people are there, they should allow for that, and work even harder to watch out for people, not just for their safety, but so you can enjoy the night. Should never happen

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    9 years ago

    We were there on Friday night and had a great time, meet a few new people and caught up with a few people we had meet before. Thankfully we didn't experience or witness what you have described :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Sounds like the type of event we'd want to avoid! We were actually going to attend this weekend's S&S but after reading your comments we are glad we didn't. The last thing you want is end up in a fight because a guy is being a d!ckhead. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • shellnjas

    shellnjas

    9 years ago

    We had the same issue, I had to give a rather forceful "fuck off" to one guy in particular! It was still by far our best Saints yet, however the crowd was noticeably down. They really need to get on top of the single guy issue quickly. That said I would have paid money to see Cruising shake him the a rag doll :) Jas

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But we were there, with interstate friends, and we didn't experience any of that :) we didn't actual 'play' whilst we were there, and we did go through the play area a few times. I don't actually ever interrupt anyone playing, except telling a gorgeous gentleman he had a magnificent looking cock :) I got a spanking, a flogging, danced a heap and had a great time with friends. Hubby commented that he met lots of newbies there and people were quite friendly :) My disappointment was in the lack of effort in the dress up :( Mary xx

  • Naughtyforty67

    Naughtyforty67

    9 years ago

    We've been patrons for a few years now, it's our favourite event & we still enjoy ourselves. Sure you get the freaks but they are everywhere, at every event. Our expectation is only to look out for ourselves, speak only to those we want to speak to & avoid the fuckwits. its a tempting venue for single men as they get the word ladies are easy at S&S, they stand out so we know who to avoid. Good & bad everywhere. Keep up the good work Brian & Co xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We went for the 2nd time this year and noticed a large amount of guys downstairs stalking anyone that would come past. Had to tell a few where to go some are very pushy. These guys need to be thrown out. By 3.30 am there would have been 20 or so single guys downstairs getting very desperate that's when we left. Someone said the guys payworking girls to go in with them so they can get in, then go separate ways. Another guy was taking pictures of the crowd on his iphone and security didn't seem bothered once we told them. Apart from that what a great night met lots of nice swingers.

  • Skyn2Skin

    Skyn2Skin

    9 years ago

    Fiday night was our first time and it was a blast. We met some awesome people whom with we flirted danced and fooled around a bit. The atmosphere was as expected but we have no previous attendance to compare to. Look, the downstairs play area was an issue for us for all the above mentioned reasons. We went down with our new friends but it just didn't get off the ground particularly due to the big dressed dick pulling handsy creep who parked is nose in any crack which presented itself. It was just too much even for there. So we ended up burning our sexual tension upstairs next to the bar! To be honest that was a more exciting time anyway! Policing single guys did not happen. Obviously those staff members took the night off with the fashion police!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We saw the odd peanut walking around cock in hand moving life their mission was that of the honey bee and pollinate everyone. Stop and consider the mammoth task it would be for the security and hosts to remove these creeps. That's a lot of people in one venue. People always seem to focus on the negatives rather than the positives. Just out of curiosity, did you approach the organisers or the security staff regarding your concerns? I'm not for a second condoning the behaviour that you experienced nor am I trying to water it down. We have found that in the event of a creep harassing you, you make note of their bag number that is scribbled on their arm and pass it onto the organiser or to Security. Still for the amount of creeps to the "sane" people, the ratio we felt was pretty good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It states somewhere in their "rules" that if you arrive as partners then under no circumstances can the female depart and leave the male there...free to roamwhen we left and were getting changed there was a woman sleeping in the change area so obviously her partner was off the leashI read an interview where the organiser Brian said no matter how hard they try to stop there is always a small feral element of males there

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    9 years ago

    Fun event mostly. Get in early, have your fun and leave before the wankers get up a head of steam. A polite "fuck off" generally works.

  • Bubbaj

    Bubbaj

    9 years ago

    So i will be heading there by myself....how scared should I be? lol any1 else going and would love some info about things to see and do in a weekend in melbourne

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    9 years ago

    And we are going back in April for sure..... Whilst we did see some of the grabbing, touching that others have mentioned, we just stayed out of the bottom floor sex pit which is where that all seemed to be happening, instead we mingled with other like minded people on the roof and top floor areas, had a blast. Cheers