Same Room Sex 1st time swingers

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  No I doubt there is a pre school swingers. Just go, seriously it won't be as scary as you think and you can just watch the first time anyway. You only ever do what you are comfortable with. If someone approaches you just say it's your first time and you are only observing or you only playing together. People go to swingers clubs for all sorts of reasons... Some to watch, some to root as many people as possible, some want to be gang banged, some will only play with their partner, some will only play with girls, some want as many people watching them as possible and some will stay in the shadows. It is customary to ask people "what are you into" as you never know why someone is running around nude at a swingers club. Your fear of people asking to join in is odd.... People will ask and all you have to say is "no I am okay" or not at the moment or something like that. Don't be rude and most people are quite okay with people saying no. Pushy people or people who complain that someone says no are the people who are in the wrong and probably should be kicked out of the club. There is absolutely no obligation to play with people just because they ask. Seriously, just go.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  With anything like that, you sometimes just need to get on with it and enjoy the ride. I have been in relatively few "unusual" circumstances, but these did include partner-swapping and a swinger's club.The main thing was to see what got you enthused, and follow through. You may surprise yourself.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  We went to the swingers club and just played with each other..... We said it was first time when we arrived, the people there gave a tour and stated No means No and that everyone should ask before, as such, we just said no thank you...... Please note, that girls are more popular than the boys, lol I wonder why, so don't be shy in saying No, you are not going to hurt anyone's feelings...... Another great way is to join in a private party that knows you are new and that you don't want to play with others in the beginning....... We have all been there and understand how it goes....... Good luck and Enjoy

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Pre School Swingers Clubs .......... Amazing just that one extra word ....... put me in my place ... which is a newbie thanks for the reply, we got more info off your reply than we have had before .cheers"Thank you miss can I leave the room miss":)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Awww I thought that was kinda cute... We were all newbies once. My first swingers club experience was pretty overwhelming. I went on the biggest night of the month, where up to 100 people can attend. I just watched. I just watched the second time I attended too! Lol. Although I am a single gal, so even though I went to meet a couple, I still felt very on my own. So if I can do it, anyone can!! ;-) PS: they should definitely have school night theme. That would be fun. Oh please master don't came my butt. :-D

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Cane my butt I mean... Then you can come on my back. Ooooh yeah!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Just thought I would add that some ladies like to get around in sexy lingerie, or corsets, etc and will have sex in them too. So you don't have to get totally starkers If you are not comfortable with that. I always take an outfit or two in my bag and then see how comfortable I feel on the night. (Or how bloated I feel more like, nothing like a little shimmy outfit to kind some bulges. ;-) )

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Kind = hide

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The swings clubs I have gone to fully understand the 'no means no'. People are not overbearing and pushy. If someone asked to join you, a friendly "no thanks, we're just enjoying each other tonight" would have that person happily heading off to find someone else. Lots of ladies that I've seen were not fully naked. I wore a beautiful lacy short flamenco dress to one club.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Meeka100' Kind = hideThis was funny but the one above was a classic .. lolI am tempted to make stay in after class ..... ok I will stop.And thanks again for the Info its very helpful Cheers

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Although we have nnot been to a club the couples we have met have been understanding of us not wanting to swap partners for sex. We have enjoyed interaction with them during foreplay but the fucking part we do ourselves, with the help of an occasional tongue or hand. So we would expect people at clubs would have the same understanding. Good luck with your quest. - Posted from rhpmobile

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