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Same faces Different places

October 12 2013

Like many others, not wanting to put all of my eggs in one basket I can also be found on other social/dating sites. I have noticed recently that I get a lot of messages from the same people but on different sites. The funny thing is though this could be someone that I have had quite in depth conversations with on one site and then they will message me on another site as if we have never even spoken!! Yes I have the same photos and the user ID is almost exact on most.     So what is it....Am I leaving that little of an impression.........Does it prove that they are not really even reading the profile and just on auto pilot because search criteria matched?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I have been on so called dating sites for over three years...recently two men that I met three years ago contacted me again...one here,one on another site....obviously our ''intimate '' encounters left a lasting impression

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is it possible that the guys (and gals... am sure it happens in the opposite direction) are hunting so hard for Mr/Miss right (or right now) that they put the blinkers on and don't really see the side by side view they should have? I think so.I have a lady friend who is registered on 3 vanilla (read non RHP type) dating sites and she dates 5-6 nights a week! our mutual friend related the story of how she had 2 dates in 1 week with the same guy and said he was crap the first night and great the second night... it wasn't until the third date night that it clicked with her that she had seen the guy twice before from different sites and cancelled the third date in embarrassment.So... I think desperation can make some people blind... or they could just be plain stupid.And no it's not you... you leave a great impression.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    I would think that the guys may be using another approach with you probably because they were 'unsuccessful' with you on this site, and are hoping you won't recognize them on another site ie having two bites at the cherry. If they act like they don't know you on the other site, maybe they're hoping you likewise won't remember them and they can go at it with a fresh start. I seriously doubt that you wouldn't leave a favourable impression on any guy. BTW like your piccy in your lil red dress.   Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've assumed men function a bit like a robot that scans its environment. They come across a human form, register it's fuckable, determine there's potential to get laid, engage to see if they're going to get laid but only engage as much as they have to, never actually registering the UNIQUE human they're engaging with, get laid, or fail to get laid but do what they need to keep the prospect alive or eventually give up and move onto the next warm-blooded prospect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    JayJay.....don't you get tempted to mess with their heads a little before breaking it to them?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    I sincerely hope that you haven't really experienced such a poor outlook on all robots (er, men). Surely there must have been a few who were redeemable ? If you truly have had such treatment and want to believe that something else it really possible, then take the opportunity to acquaint yourself with this unique individual. I believe you will be quite pleasantly surprised.   Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    if it wasn't so damn funny it would be tragic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had that happen with two women, it was quite a while ago. One, we met for dinner but the chemistry wasn't there. On the second contact from her, even when I mentioned the previous dinner date, she still said she had never contacted me before. It was a new profile the second time and she later said she hoped to make a better impression this time as she felt like a different person altogether. It didn't sit right with me. The other time it happened, I think she had just lost track of all the men she had met. So a polite no and we both moved on.All in all, with one I think I dodged a bullet, with the other she just seemed to have a lot of dating on her plate. All the contacts were from RHP....maybe I am fairly forgettable as well Freya lol.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    Penis pointing North. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ah that explains all...I live in a notherly direction

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and I love that,almost a Zen Koan