M43
Same sex views and hits??
January 30 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Make yourself at home...Yes it does happen...It's not you.You are a single guy - "single" men and women tend to be hit on the most - I get it a lot as well.Welcome to my Club All the best HuntingSUPERFOXPS - Maybe be more specific on your profile that you LOVE VaJayJay and what it is you love about them??What you can bring or offer a "woman" without sounding cocky or arrogant..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sure the OP could hold up a sign in his profile pic saying "STRAIGHT", and it wouldn't make a difference. Welcome, Saxa! I get it too. I figure it's because I post a lot, but then maybe women look at each other's profile to get ideas or suss out the competion?
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RHP User
12 years ago
a third of my profile views are men. It does feel a bit strange knowing men are looking at you but I think its just because they might have read a post and be curious about you. I generally don't look at guys profile unless they have posted a pithy comment on the forums. Mike
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Sf & md any chance it's just coz ur smokin hot?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of my last 20 views 7 were men 8 women 3 couples One woman looked twice, and one couple looked twice. Obviously this figure doesn't include profile stalkers who have the option turned on for dont let people see who you view. :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just like to sticky beek. There's some pretty interesting people out there in RHP world. Sometimes people's profiles give me a good giggle ... Ok back to work ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd love for more women to be looking at my profile.... C'mon girls, where are you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
we have all types looking...men, women, couples, trans...whatever....and over the past few weeks have had messages from young women wanting advice, older males wanting to know where we bought lingerie, and even transgender/sexual wanting to ask something...or leave a comment...no biggie..this place caters for everyone and all sorts. we appreciate the attention, so its all good....you should do the same OP, as thats all it might be.....
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Just 4 laughs viewed all u boys profiles- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is a public place. You stand in front of a very clear window, and anyone can look in. I wonder why some people feel discomfort by someone looking at your profile? It is very strange. Many I have met both men and women seem to avoid looking at profiles too many time.I am BI, lucky me , I like the human form. Sometimes I check out the competition. Its like looking around a crowed room. If you don't have confidence you avert your eyes. I seldom check out the straight guys, as... well... they are straight, eww.. (sorry boys feeling sorry for you). OP quoting you;" The odd one here and there I can understand, we all hit the wrong button and quickly exit out lol." That is a very unusual comment. First; " we all" ?? Well speaking for one's self I will take it you meant. Second " quickly exit out " Why quickly? (overt innuendo) All anyone will know is that you glanced at their profile, they will never know how long you looked, if you looked at any information at all, what reason you viewed, or reason you came to hit it. Sexuality is not contagious, but temptation is feared..Profile hits are the only free unlimited communication with all RHP members that are registered that is avalible. If you use it well it can give you information that is not available on the profile. Many men in the straight guy line hide the fact that they are Bi or blah blah blah (bloody labels). In fact the miss truths on social darting sites are rampant. On a whim I will do a search, eg "men seeking women". Then I will click on the first profile and then hit the "Next Profile>>" button till the end of the list, I don't read them, I don't even wait for the images to load, Click click................ click... Then back to what ever I am doing. Basically I am doing a "HI EVERY ONE LOOK AT ME".Then in some time I come back and see who has looked back at me, via the "Who Viewed Me" page. Thus I have a short list. I look for those that happen to meet my mood, needs, distance, look, whatever and click them again. So now I have two clicks on them. I wait again and if any of them return another hit. One more click from me and if they respond once more with a click. Well I know that they are staring at me. Goovy I love attention... LOLThis is the best way to find the ripest fruit in the fruitless tree. You will be surprised how well this works. As i don't have an unlimited message count I seldom ever message or flirt them first. On a busy night I can have up to a dozen flirts come in from little effort. You don't get anywhere sitting in the corner looking at the floor. I do no longer care why they hide their sexuality, does it matter. Communication established and lets see were it leads.I do this also with men seeking men and women seeking men and what ever other combination. Regular men and women from RHP in Western Australia that spend time on here will see a Blindman look at their profile at least weekly. If you don't like it, try the block button, saves us both time.On occasion you met people via random luck in the real world. Once a lady asked why do I look at her profile so many times. She thought I was stalking her. I simply said "I look at many many people every few days". She remembered me and in my book that is better then being a stranger. I get to use 5 messages a day, I seldom use flirts. Much easier standing above the crowd then picking randoms from a crouched position. At least I have established that there is more then an idle interest, with very little effort.In the end only less then 5% turn out to interest me to the point of going further. Much less do I have the pleasure to dance with. But that works out fine for me. As a guy I get an average off over 1000 looks at my profile a month. How many 45 year old males get that in this place in small town WA.. No effort just shout "LOOK AT ME"
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, not that Mike, the other one.
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VillainNVixen
12 years ago
Quoting 'keentoflirt'Just 4 laughs viewed all u boys profiles- Posted from rhpmobile Wow that just got mys stats up. 6 guy view this arvo
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71'I'd love for more women to be looking at my profile.... C'mon girls, where are you? I'm with Awesome71, I'd love more women looking at my profile.
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Dimples70
12 years ago
Funlover I'm cuming in babe ....show me what you got ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
..they're just after hints and tips from the master.To them I say, just be patient fellas. My book on profile writing will be in the stores soon enough - me and my publisher are just nutting out the RRP....which I think should be around $329.65. A bargain at twice the price..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dunno what you lot are doing....I get women and couples :p lmfao
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Dunno what you lot are doing....I get women and couples :p lmfao ...but they're *clearly* not reading it..........otherwise my inbox would be full!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters'Dunno what you lot are doing....I get women and couples :p lmfao Did you get more men as Hardtrucking?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Ghostbusters'Dunno what you lot are doing....I get women and couples :p lmfao Did you get more men as Hardtrucking? HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been on a few site to find that there is a lot of time wasters getting around. They look at your profile and then give some pretty bad email. saying that they're the best, blah blah blah. They're happy to talk things up but when it comes to meet the excuses come thick. I've had a look at your profile, but I also know that women on here would get a massive amount of emails everyday to swift through. Anyway have fun lol..
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RHP User
12 years ago
How did your publisher cum up with that amount? Did they take into account manual labour and flight time? Sure your time writing books and 'how to' manuals is priceless... maybe you should mention your expert draftsmanship? ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Hotdiggettydamn' Of my last 20 views 7 were men 8 women 3 couples One woman looked twice, and one couple looked twice. Obviously this figure doesn't include profile stalkers who have the option turned on for dont let people see who you view. :P hot you are on come back later ??as am i ?are we both too busy for more contact?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'blade0009' I've been on a few site to find that there is a lot of time wasters getting around. They look at your profile and then give some pretty bad email. saying that they're the best, blah blah blah. They're happy to talk things up but when it comes to meet the excuses come thick. I've had a look at your profile, but I also know that women on here would get a massive amount of emails everyday to swift through. Anyway have fun lol.. Love wasting time. But what does that mean. If you are not entertained then why waste time (your fault), if you are entertained then is that time wasted? So if I talk to a girl in a bar and she smiles at me and I buy her a drink, is she a time waster because she does not suck my cock. Never.See time is only wasted if there is something better to do. So time wasters can only exist if you are juggling. Lucky lucky you the balls and two cunts. Ohh which is wasting my time.Fuck that is shit, most of you leap at a contact and then call "Time waster" if it goes south. I used to think I was a dirty man slut that would fuck any thing that moved. Fuck that, 99% of you are just not worth it. If you contact me you had better impress or I am just here for my fun. My time is not wasted and most likely this is the best prospect for the day for you. MMMM mmm mm sexy you. Kisses...Planing out my own site. Lets start with buying drinks, well something like buy you a free day. Maybe that would drive the time wasters away. Oh that would be fun.Who here spends all day chatting with prospective encounters. Guess not many forum posters. It would be a waste of time.Only those that say "time wasted" are time wasters.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love your work ! And many people seem to employ that strategy including me. Some to the degree that it's a subtle form of nagging !OP, my profile here and on other sites consistently runs at about 60% men, and whilst some are misclicks for sure, some are checking out the opposition and some are just curious as I have so many friends (not here lol ). Some just like to see the person behind the forum comments and opinions. The latter have become friends too.How do I know this ? I asked them ! And then did a topic on it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oops for some reason I had you on my blocked list, don't know how I haven't even spoken to you before...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Hotdiggettydamn' Oops for some reason I had you on my blocked list, don't know how I haven't even spoken to you before... blocked before any contact...... erm that does do my head in ... GRINno we havent spoken. i just read your blogs and smile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nah u two are doing fine without me Perth is small
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Nah u two are doing fine without me Perth is small Hot meet Who who meet hot...thanks Shina.....Who is Hot ?Hot is who?and what is on third?
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RHP User
12 years ago
How are u? Or should I say who are u? On third?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funny what perceptions are made of people just by their username... for the man who keeps messaging me in German, I have no goddamn idea what you are saying... I am not German, nor am I Dutch or Russian. (My mother in law IS German, however, I don't think I will be getting her to translate said message)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Alta vista translation..... Im intrigued as to what he is whsipering to you !!! i
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RHP User
12 years ago
Or Google Translate. You can send him a nice message back saying "Lass mich in Ruhe, bitte".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol, thanks ladies, I think it's just your run of the mill stuff though, I can see lieben, kaffee and sexy dame in there, think he wants to go for coffee. Not my type though anyway so will leave it at a polite "nein, danke" I think? and if he tries again I will then refer back to Miss D's phrase.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I have been getting messages to play with a couple, but they want a single female - ummmm I'm a couple... I point it out to them, but they continue to send flirts, messages n even though I tell them I play as a couple, they still keep contacting. Lol...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's the old baseball joke.... Who is on third...... What is on second.... I am me and proud of it. You are hot .....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who is hot ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
smiling Knowledge is power
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a bit lost now haha Hi shinas what knowledge is that ? I'm totally confused now
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RHP User
12 years ago
changing their usernames to stuff like 'I'msostraightIbarelyeventouchmyowndick!' ... Lol
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Goodvintage
12 years ago
I occasionally look at a male profile if I find the person interesting or intriguing..I don't mind saying hi or having a chat with another guy nor should anyone else...I enjoy reading some male and female profiles...can be interesting and entertaining...lolI think that guys who are concerned about other males viewing their profile are either insecure or paranoid...?I grew up in Eastern Europe as a child and remember male friends and relatives greeting each other with three kisses on the cheeks...it is a cultural and traditional gesture that has 1000's of years of history...I guess that it shows that in some cultures men still respect, care and like each other and are not concerned about being judged or expressing their feelings...Sexual connotations don't even come into play...Nothing wrong with being interested in other mans profiles or having a male chat and having a male friend....straight, bi, gay etc....?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just assumed maybe it was just checking out the competition. Though I have had a lot of friend requests from straight guys too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've certainly had a few, i don't mind until they keep sending flirts and messages... Block... Thanks move along. Funny tho how it almost becomes irrelevant what you put as a preference... Like the 'nearby' feature that shows me women looking for women only. Thanks RHP, great for my fuck buddy, doesn't help me much... :/- Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
12 years ago
that said this topic was running hot hmmmm..... no one can see if I check them out. I like it like that. As for shoot the OP some of you. I am sure I never read a negative comment. Perhaps he does take it as a compliment and just forgot yo mention it
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is hot cool?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a gay man contact me (realised after the fact), who had a profile set up as a woman (no pic). Long story short, we got chatting here, "she" sent me some pics via email, I liked what I saw and suggested we should get in touch (I provided my number), "she" called, going so far as to set up a date the following night. It was very weird, the whole time on the phone I was thinking to myself... this chick must be a massive chain smoker, lol... but the line of questioning also gave it away, questions that only a man would ask really, and continually being told I was cute, hahahaha. I've got nothing against gay people, but this was just totally ridiculous behaviour, which I called the person out on.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It could be a multitude of reasons, perhaps you are friends with someone and a guy browsing their profile checks you out, could be due to a verification and someone checked you out, could be someone responding to this thread wants to see who posed the question, who knows??. All you can be sure of are the messages that state they seek gay encounters, a guy viewing your profile could be nothing more than someone reading saxa1 and thinking it sounds like a female or couples profile then casually clicking and muttering "oh fuck it's a dude".Life gets a lot worse than a man checking out the competition. Buckle up mate, it could get a lot worse.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Awesome71'I'd love for more women to be looking at my profile.... C'mon girls, where are you? I'm here specifically looking for other women, it's clearly mentioned in my profile. Yet men outweigh views on my page something like 20 to 1, couples 10 to 1 and lately i've noticed an average of 2 views a week by TV/TS. Now i'm not against the views, but it would be nice to start seeing more ladies looking at my profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What who said
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nortiesecret
12 years ago
and sometimes it can be because people are checking out who's behind a comment in a forum (I just looked at your profile ) and I reckon some it can be because the searches do not always return the people you ask for so I think a few times people are probably trawling thru search results and didn't check the 'looking for me' box
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Saxa1 :) Welcome to RHP I hope you find some awesome Playmates to enjoy new Friends too.. I get the varietty of Members cioming to check put My profile.Men, Women Bi mainly , couples TV TS so on .I think it's very nice of them to be curious.. I sometimes wonder if the Guys are checking out other Males see the competition or if they're Straigth but Bi curious just checking through all Male Profiles even Bi Guys doing that too because the ration is about 20M-1F they figure why not ..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Usually I am looking to see where people are from, which state for example. It's also nice to look at other women's profiles just to see what they write about themselves, what they are looking for as well as interests. I check out forum posters and look at people who are viewing me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'c_mitchell' Quoting 'Awesome71'I'd love for more women to be looking at my profile.... C'mon girls, where are you? I'm here specifically looking for other women, it's clearly mentioned in my profile. Yet men outweigh views on my page something like 20 to 1, couples 10 to 1 and lately i've noticed an average of 2 views a week by TV/TS. Now i'm not against the views, but it would be nice to start seeing more ladies looking at my profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I get a lot of males looking at my profile and sending flirts I'm a lesbian where are the single lesbians on this site..lol lol...- Posted from rhpmobile
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