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September 23 2013

Hey gents, Just wondering your thoughts on what you like volume wise in the bedroom? Are you turned off/on by heavy breathing, moaning or a screamer? I would take it as a compliment if I were male, but I'm not, so interested to know :) Thanks in advance. Liss xx- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I enjoy a woman who is vocal. Primal feedback is great!I've taught a few ladies to open up and let go... they said it made the experience more enjoyable.So the return question is, for the ladies who do vocalize, does it increase your pleasure at all compared to remaining quiet?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Personally, I never even think of it until I get told to sshh (if the situation calls for it)! It's not something I think about. Dead quite is down right creepy though.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • FunTimeLover

    FunTimeLover

    11 years ago

    I enjoy when a woman is vocal and definitely take it for the compliment that it is. I've found in the past it can sometimes be 'interesting' due to the location...... But would certainly prefer a woman to feel free and comfortable enough to make as much noise as she wanted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love it doing and causing screaming (in a nice, careing, consensual way 😛) But it depends a bit on the proximity of the kids... And the neighbors too of course 😎 Ex gf used to try cover my mouth, which did tend to throw out my timing... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Moaning , heavy breathing ..even screaming is always a turn on ...it's great to know that what you are doing is working ..and well over time one can understand and learn the subtle changes in the moans of the partner to understand what she wants n how she wants it without saying a word ..( as long as the screaming and moaning isn't a fake show a la cheap porn ;)) So to answer your question ..it's definitely a big turn on for me ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Scream away!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And like everything, people have their own opinions. I like aural feedback but I don't need people two blocks away to know we're going for it. I find extremely loud ladies distracting but the ones that only make very quiet whimpering noises can be harder to read so I'm not sure if I'm hitting the right spot.......... And I do like hitting the right spot.

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    I like a lady to enjoy herself and to let me know so I know whats working and whats notJust no fakers thanks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Never have been and never will be. I moan, I groan a little (softly) and quietly, I am normally putting all my concentration I to the enjoyment, normally far to involved and busy to make noise.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Guy that get into it, and you know by that raspy breath and that primal grunt. The quiet ones make me feel like I have not done my job well enough.what I do find off putting is guys that want a running commentary from me. Or want me to say stuff to them non stop, like whip me daddy and ride me home...you get my drift. talking softy into my ear, telling me how hot I feel, how good is my body, how warm is my Y those I can handle when were on the passion trail and we are almost talking in tongues.I will tell a guy how great his cock looks , if it does but he will soon know anyway when my laughing gear is wrapped around it.I do make noise when I cum, not before I tend to be rather quiet as I need to focus. Bit like before you bundgy jump, your heart is racing, your feeling the rush but your not talking to much, then its step off and let go.Maybe I do murmur as guys often say, god I miss your moans ...LadyT the quiet then not so quiet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Anything but completely silen is fine by me. One girl I was with in my 20's would just get catches in her breathing but them when she came she whimpered. That was amazing but the fact I was hopelessly and completely in love with her meant a lot I am sure.A personal preference? Overall in favour of a woman vocalising how she feels, screaming or moaning and definitely heavy breathing. Although I would maybe use a gag if she could be heard two blocks away ;)

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    11 years ago

    Depends on where we are having sex!!! If it's in another persons house or outside I try to keep the volume down, but when I let myself go well let's say moans n groans all the way n my hubby loves it

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    If it's genuine..... and not a deliberate performance she's giving...... verbalisations are fantastic...... anything from sighs, groans, moans, yelps and screams and even crying....... if its a genuine emotion, it's fantastic. DG- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    The levels of sound that cums from mutual pleasure can very on each mood and the mo at hand? We do like to know we are pleasing the other but it's a big turn off if it ever sounds fake?? Some sadly do try and make the moans that just don't sound natural...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love girls that make noise. Nothing is more of a turn off than a woman who is completely silent. It just makes it....awkward.That said, I only like it if it's genuine, there's no point making noise just for the sake of it!

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Goes very well with writhing and bucking ! And it definitely ramps up the hardness factor and the OMG I'm gunna cum factor !

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    I had been listening to a Lilly Allen song, and referred to Tara screaming during sex. Much to the ladies and gentlemen rushing to Tara's defense, I admired.... I don't think I will go there again.No one knew How much Tara meant to me then, but I have surely set that in stone by now.Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Awww s**t.. you stole my thunder...

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    ... moderation is the key. getting some 'feedback' is great not just for one's ego, but also to provide VITAL CLUES as to whether youre doing the right thing or not - and as we all know, all women like different things.however, when its out of control SCREAMING, its just fucking distracting, and if you live in an apartment block, just sort of disrespectful to neighbours. I mean, as rad as you might think screaming might be, maybe your neighbours arent really keen on hearing you bone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a complete and dramatic performance of Verdi's La Traviata. But only on Saturday nights.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sometimes I do sometimes I don't...xknots

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' Guy that get into it, and you know by that raspy breath and that primal grunt. what I do find off putting is guys that want a running commentary from me. Or want me to say stuff to them non stop, like whip me daddy and ride me home...you get my drift. Yeah, work that ass. Good girl, just like that! I'm gonna make you scream, you sexy thing. You're a bad girl. You know what happens to bad girls like you?   Oh you know you want me now.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I couldn't think of anything worse being guy an the girl was putting on a 'performance'. How fake and what a turn off that would be. Haha @ Lady Tuscany. Take note gents. The ladies like a little noise/grunt here and there. Like you say, as long as it's genuine, it's very sexy for us too! Liss x- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Good post topic ;) It can be a little bit of a turn off if it's too loud lol, and when ppl are too vocal it can be quite easy to pick someone who is faking it ;( When you find someone genuinely enjoying themselves it's quite the turn on ;) B - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm a screamer, or at least very loud but only during orgasm. I find letting go really makes the orgasm spectacular, that's right, I said fantasmagorical! I've had a couple of lovers and a massage person cover my mouth to keep me quiet a few times....;) I love it when my partner is vocal, it's about letting go and a but if trust, if you're a screamer, that's HOT!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me' Awww s**t.. you stole my thunder... No I didnt.... I own the thunder..... but you can hire it from me at a generous hourly ratelol DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Moaning, groaning, grunting definitely a huge turn on...and im definitely loud. Had many a hand put over my mouth in a stall ;-) hmmmm another turn on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    shall I screamshe saidnot yet he saidshall I moanshe saidno tha'ts the phonehe saidwhat's that!she saidmy cock he saidthat's my bumshe saidI'm gonna cumhe saidNOT YETshe screamedthat's my arse you reamedoh he saidyou meanthat kinda moan

  • FunTimeLords

    FunTimeLords

    11 years ago

    ....and can let all of her inhabitions go. We have had a few complaints from people in adjoining rooms when we travel. they get over it were sure. We had the crowd at CI look up one night when her moans of pleasure resounded through the building thanks to the help from a few of our friends. Fun night that....

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I am all about giving, so receiving feedback is important to me. I like my sex like I my weather channel.... "Constant Updates" So vocal partners are awesome for fast, effective feedback on progression, so they are my favorite.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Love noise in the bedroom I guess it's approval or satisfaction. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I always thought I was the quiet type until I heard myself cumming on a video that a lover had taken. So sooooo embarrassing *blushes* I like a guy who makes some noise when he cums. The quiet ones always have me asking if they'd cum and was that it :P- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As a woman, it increases my sexual pleasure through the roof.. to hear my partner becoming excited.. the change of his breathing pattern.. the sound of him losing control.. no coherent speech but, grunts, groans.. primeval lust. It is to the point that, it is the sound of his cumming which pushes me over the edge so .. from me, a very resounding YES to vocalisation during lovemaking. It's mutually desirable and beneficial in my opinion.As for me, I cannot help but make noise.. whether it be a solo session or with a lover.. like riding the rollercoaster.. it's not something I can do in silence.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    11 years ago

    Seems you've got your moneys worth on this one. Personally I (seemingly like the majority) like an amount of vocalisation, as long as it is appropriate to the circumstances (ie not waking up people that like in the next suburb), but I also don't need it. Watching the lady with her various facial expressions and bodily contortions can also give quite clear indications of how well she is enjoying herself in the heat of the moment, which I find just as arousing. It is, literally, each to their own as to how they show their enjoyment during sex. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hadn't come across what you call a screamer until i met the lover i still see. When she started her loud moaning and cries of pleasure I found i a huge turn and i found it made me last longer as i was concentrating on making her moan more and more. I still find it very arousing to this day even though she finds it embarrassing. Its great for me as i can see she has no control of it what so ever. Its just a natural thing for her and i hope she never loses it, ever.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Nothing better than a women who moans loud and groans when she fucks I love to talk dirty when I fuck tell my wife how good she feels etc and is a big turn on knowing the people next door can hear us going at it.remember in my old place being able to hear them fuck when I'd come home she was loud and it was so hot.

  • Fantasyplus

    Fantasyplus

    11 years ago

    ...always a screamer! lolYep, I'm a screamer and don't mind if the guys get a bit vocal too....I have found however, the neighbours at my mums place don't appreciate it (Or that might have been the fact that I was getting some and she wasn't!)...and if I make too much noise the kids wake up (it really throws you out of whack when a little person appears beside the bed and wants to climb in with you because they have been woken up!) The harder you fuck me the louder I scream...you don't give it to be hard enough, I scream for more

  • Highwayman21

    Highwayman21

    11 years ago

    Nothing better than listening to a woman really enjoying herself and moaning - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We didn't get the door busted down the first time I had an orgasm with oral. I screamed so loud I couldn't understand why security had not come to check if I was still breathing. Maybe screaming with sex sounds different to murder! The guy I see ATM is also loud when he comes. At least I know I get to him. These days I keep a small pillow within reach to muffle me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    a cheeky naughty boy giggle when I cum, just a little then a lot ! A few have been wtf ? But they get it, most just think it's "cute"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    M is a screamer and moaner...to the point we think we may create a soundproof sex room.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I definitely like a woman to get vocal when we're getting it on. Lets me know I'm doing everything right, and pressing all the right buttons so to speak. I recently had a woman holding my head between her legs during oral sex as she climaxed over and over, while screaming at me to keep doing what I was doing. Love it and live for it, although it gets a little hard on the neck lol

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Our neighbours never have any doubt about what is going on in our place ;)Only way to get us to quite down would be to cut our vocal cords, maybe one of those zapping dog collars but those might just add to the fun.We both totally let go and live the moment, is there a better way? I love when M lets go, I totally know how much he has been satisfied by his volume level ;)

  • Fitnhorny4u

    Fitnhorny4u

    11 years ago

    We love to hear each other being vocal, it is such a turn on. Mrs Fit is definitely a screamer! Both our ex's were so quiet, almost had to check a pulse to make sure they were still alive! We just love to hear each other enjoying it, the louder the better, besides it gives the neighbors something to aspire to!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I love a vocal girl...such a turn on to hear and know that she is loving the experience.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Every moan, every whimper, each scream or change in breath allows me to tune in to what my lover likes in that moment. Paying attention to all of the above, as well as the obvious body language, such as vaginal contractions, grinding etc., enables me to bring her to the edge of orgasm, hold her there, drawing it out, before making her explode. Love it!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • PL1963

    PL1963

    11 years ago

    There is nothing better than a lady who lets out whatever noises/moans she needs to at the time, it is part of a true orgasmic experience. Fuck the nieghbours, it's 2013 not the 1920's. They'd only be jealous any way. Paul.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Aussie_beef' I love a vocal girl...such a turn on to hear and know that she is loving the experience. So I must have really turned u on then bc I loved the experience

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...which you may have noticed at the time...lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Heavy breathing is nice, moaning is good, and a nice build up to some loud moaning/screaming towards the end is great - but can't stand the loud pornstar screaming right from the start. The neighbours don't need to know EVERYTHING aha

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I love it when a girls loud as long as it doesn't go toooo far.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Feedback is a must. Don't like it if you lay there like a starfish. Moaning, squirming, screaming and giving direction if I am missing the right spot are all good.