RHP

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Second cumming

December 21 2017

So conversation with FWB last night. Has never cum again after the first time, and doesn't cum quick and can go for ages after the first. The next day he can but not within a few hours. Have yet to test this theory but I haven't come across it before. I was wondering how common it was? Everyone is different and you get guys who can cum over and over with a little recovery time.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Cumming seems to be the holly grail for a lot of people... My man is similar to your friend in the respect that he can go on forever and not orgasm... But after a short recovery time he can go again..not always but most of the time. He says he likes to make the first time last, because the sensations are not near as intense once he came... Go figure:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    In my twenties I could go six times a night, in my thirties about 4 times. I can now but with recovering time (about an hour) still go 3 times. A lot depend on stimulation, in my twenties looking at boobs was enough 😂😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    My cock seems to do what it likes! Sometimes I'm over stimulated and I spend the entire session desperately trying not to cum, other times he doesn't wanna wake up! Occasionally I get into something which I've now called "the zone" this is where I'm highly turned on, very erect and the sensation for me is intense! The great thing is tho is despite the intense sensation I can totally control when I want to cum and this leads to some amazing love making for both me and my partner. The draw back is I can't always replicate it, something's going on in my head that I'm yet to decipher. In terms of the number of times I can usually go 3 or 4 times with maybe a 15 minute recovery inbetween. I think it's really subjective though based on a lot of other factors like how tired I am, how much I've masterbated that day, how much I've drank and who I'm with, weather its a new partner or someone I'm comfortable with

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks for insight. Everyone is different. Depending on the circumstances, if I am tired, too much too drink or too much on my mind depends on what experience I will have and if I come or not. He did mention he cums but not ejaculates (didn't even know there was a difference). He is 10 years younger and super fit. All good I am happy with the way it is and we have a chemistry and a big attraction so all good. It has been comfortable right from the start.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    At least according to science related evidence, there is a minimum time between orgasms, that increases with age. Can be measured in seconds at puberty, then minutes, eventually perhaps hours. For me, it's about 10 minutes give or take, no amount of mental combined with physical stimulation can result in a second orgasm less than say 7-8 minutes after the first. I'm not including any advanced orgasm techniques/controls perhaps possible to learn.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I had one fb who would go up to 3 rounds, with a short recovery time. I miss him. My fault, ended with a failed hookup attempt at his work lol I got crappy with him because his 'lunch' break on nightshift moved as can happen, and he got crappy with me because I should have got their earlier to allow for that. But being the train wreck I am, I got lost and was late leaving after my shower/douche etc 😊 but I'm the one who never replied to his last message. I felt like such a tart that night, rarely dress in lingerie but wore this tiny little nurses type thing, was so short, exposed my arse lol and had to drive home like that. Funny now but I wasn't laughing at the time. Back on topic though, we'd have a steamy session, sit outside for 10 minutes with him in a towel 😍 then back laying on the bed. I'd start lusting after his cock while we were resting and chatting, desperately wanting to go him again but worried it was too early. One day he said don't let me stop you lol like waving a red flag to a bull, he was hard again, and so it went. Amazing. Guys like that are so hard to replace 😞

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Personally i always last much longer second and third time. That's usually reserved for the hot marathon sessions - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Thanks I like asking these things on the forums. It is always so informative especially from a guys point of view. Still so much to learn on this little adventure of mine. M

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    7 years ago

    It depends on my fatigue level (shift worker so have good and bad times) and the level of attraction for the other. My last Lucky Encounter she wanted to go again pretty much straight away, I was pretty exhausted so had to decline but told her if she could wait until I'd had a bit of a kip I would be good to go again. She stayed and slept alongside me for a bit, I woke up a bit later and was good to go. Sometimes I am so tired I can pound away for ridiculous amounts of time and not really come close to orgasm. There's not a lot of sensation attached to it, you're like a high-octane zombie (minus the rotting flesh). You would think the opposite is true, that you would be Victa two-stroke when you were tired, but not me. It's either same as normal or ridiculous amounts of stamina (but again with not a real lot of feeling behind it). I've done the ''allnighter'' sessions (multiple sessions in the one night), but not for a long time. It can be hard sometimes not losing complete interest after your first session. If it's a one-nighter with a stranger they tend to want to leave not long after, which is fine by me. It can be difficult to summons the desire and energy to go again if someone wants to stay around for a bit, but again it depends on a few factors.

  • eatsyoufirst

    eatsyoufirst

    7 years ago

    Is he on any sort of medications? I found that, when I was put on new antidepressants, I stayed hard but it took an enormous effort to actually cum - and no chance of a second one at all. After about 6 months, it wore off and I am back to a more regular timeframe. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    As with a lot of things there are a few variables on this score.In the past I have been known to cum before achieving penetration, I've been over excited and she's been somewhat less so. This can happen if sh'e not so relaxed and her vagina is tight. On these occasions which happened with my wife and no condoms were used I've just carried on with the intercourse to cum again some time later. The best of the lot was, again when my wife was still sexually active, she didn't want to screw again so I masturbated in front of her which made her horny again and that led to another round of action. It was a big night that I remember with nostalgia.Now days when I get together with a girl friend we have a room for the day and usually tear three or four with pillow talk in between.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The second time does take longer and the third even more. Lucky I can usually go again in under a minute. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Age has definitely made a difference. That second cumming can now take a bit longer but I suppose I am lucky enough that I am still a randy little bugger. Don't know if I could go all night like once but by hell I'll give it a go