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Second rate sisters??
November 25 2011
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rc_80
13 years ago
Doesn't make a difference at all to us. We're more about the people, rather than what their body can or can't do.
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The_lex
13 years ago
couldnt have said it better myself the rockers know where its at. there are so many different things that make people sexy/desirable, squirting etc hot as it is ... just a small piece of the pie a red hot pie even lol.
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lovman8
13 years ago
good sex with a playful and enthusiastic lady is great thrill inits self. Multiple orgasms or squirting ( Actually I have never witnessed squirting ) is just an unexpected bonus. More power to you women who enjoy sex, squirting or non squirting.
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RHP User
13 years ago
badge of 'honour'?? never heard of such a thing....doesnt it only matter whether you have fun or not? these magical and for some mythical milestones you speak of, sometimes never occur in a relationship...and many many people are quite happy with that.... we play..and have fun...but never once has it resulted in either a squirt (lol) or a set of orgasms.... to be truthful,theres just no time for anyone to get to the comfort zone that allows all that to happen...and even tho we two can get to both without too much trouble...its still not guaranteed to happen with any frequency....if this is a criteria for either a relationship, or a return visit, I'd be hearing alarm bells ringing and avoiding further contact...
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Onlylivetwice
13 years ago
...then everyone is having a good time!And that's all that matters :DEvery woman I have slept with in my life has had different abilities, different focusses, different ways of making smoke come out of my ears, hehe!! Loved them all :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'd never had a squirter up till a couple of months ago. I dated a chick that would squirt continuosly, a bit of a novelty at first, but I soon got sick of washing the sheets all the time. As for multiple orgasms? I suppose it gets a bloke off and makes him feel pretty good that he can make a chick cum a few times during a sesh but some chicks can only cum once. It doesnt make any difference at the end of the day whether they cum alot or squirt, it's about them and what they're like as people.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' badge of 'honour'?? never heard of such a thing....doesnt it only matter whether you have fun or not? these magical and for some mythical milestones you speak of, sometimes never occur in a relationship...and many many people are quite happy with that.... we play..and have fun...but never once has it resulted in either a squirt (lol) or a set of orgasms.... to be truthful,theres just no time for anyone to get to the comfort zone that allows all that to happen...and even tho we two can get to both without too much trouble...its still not guaranteed to happen with any frequency....if this is a criteria for either a relationship, or a return visit, I'd be hearing alarm bells ringing and avoiding further contact...
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CrackUp
13 years ago
Quoting 'goldfish71'... 'It doesnt make any difference at the end of the day whether they cum alot or squirt, it's about them and what they're like as people.'It's really nice to hear you express these sentiments Goldfish. It sometimes seems in here, that sex is like a game of one man upmanship (between the fairer sex - never stated so boldly but certainly it lurks between the lines of contributer's statements in the forum). I like the notion that maybe we are seen as people first.. and sexual performance is not the be all and end of all of a persons appeal.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Speaking from the males prospective in our relationship it is a great and rewarding feeling when my wife responds orgasmicaly when we make love. Sometimes it may be multiples or even a squirt but the pressure is never there to perform to any expectation. I would regard the topic of multiple orgasms and squirting as an interesting one but only a shallow person would make a selection of partner based on these criteria. Our minds are powerful things in the bedroom (or wherever) but they can be just as negatively powerful if preconceived expectations on one’s sexual prowess is all that matters. Isn’t sex about the mutual fulfilment and enjoyment of those partaking in the act why should it matter how many times one’s toes curl during the experience. If you are lucky enough to be a squirter than enjoy your gift but don’t wear it as a badge of honour like a soldier does he has earned his, you were given yours. By the way my wife and I have learned together the art of squirting and multiple orgasms as well as a few other delicious tricks, we believe that most if not all women can enjoy this delicious gift. Indeed it is in the mind...........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Personally I think having preconcieved thoughts about what a person should be like is a recipe for disaster. As individuals we are all different and if we start to think a person should be a certain way or do certain things like squirt or have multiple orgasms then we are messing up our own heads. Variety is the spice of life they say and having each partner with different skills is a bonus. I don't want all my partners to be the same. Boring! For me, squirting was a bit of a turn on when I watched it in porn movies but then I have had a couple of partners who did squirt and honestly, it was a turn off for me. Be yourself and enjoy whatever happens naturally.
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RHP User
13 years ago
.. would certainly bring forth others. Dont be discouraged by the lack of these abilities. Be encouraged with other skills that would be as good.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't imagine that it would matter that much? Orgasm isn't everything you know.... but of course very nice! And squirting is a bit of a novelty sure, but I reckon it would be a pain in the arse frankly.
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N4November
13 years ago
I met an amazing man last year who ticked so many boxes and we got on so well.... but he was actually grossed out by the squirting. Not his thing at all. So that was the end of that. I'm now with a guy who can't get enough of it nor can he keep his hands off of me! And dito - I love him squirting on me and I can't keep my hands off him either!!! When you find someone you click with, you just do heh??
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Just_Auzzie
13 years ago
I think work with the strengths each person has, like everyone has said, squirting or multiple orgasms are not the be all and end all of good or even great sex, there is much more to it then just that. Enjoy the moment, enhance the moment where possible, and who knows. Picking ones partner should be based on much more then if the can or can't squirt or multiple orgasm. I guess from a guys perspective, its nice to have our sometimes fragile ego's stroked by knowing you (as in the guy) can have you achieve these things, but at the end of the day, its really all about the fun that is being had. Sometimes too much pressure gets put on these points and no one enjoys themselves, girl feels let down cause she couldn't do it for him, guy feels let down cause he couldn't make her cum multiple times. Sexual tension as we know isn't good for achieving that ultimate pleasure for a guy or a girl. Relax and enjoy Baygirl couldn't have summed it up better, when you click with someone, you just do. Thats when all hell breaks loose in the bedroom / any other room / public place lol, you get my drift.
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mrcheeky70
13 years ago
CrackUp, any man or couple who deems as undesirable any woman whom doesnt squirt or achieve multiple orgasm probably isnt worth worrying about nor wasting your time on......as most others have said its all about having fun and the personalities of all involved.....as you no doubt have realised there is plenty of shallow people out there, no matter how good looking some may be (or think they may be lol) some have no personality what so ever, which for us is a big turn off no matter how many times they may cum, squirt whatever.....sure squirting is unique, different etc but for us whether Mrs cheeky squirts or not during our lovemaking is neither here nor there.........as another has said it can become quite annoying with all the sheet changes, as yes it can be quite messy usually.......as for a pain in the ass Meeka, generally a tongue in the ass will do the trick ........chin up and forget the pathetic prerequisites of the minority here, no such thing as lesser sisters....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have never been with a squirter. I can only imagine that making a woman squirt is an amazing experience. That said, squirting is just one bodily action which lets you know you're doing the right thing. The various other actions are just as satisfying. I would never not date a woman because of her inability to squirt, that's just a dick move.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are we not all individual beings with the absolute right to be accepted for who we are and how our bodies respond to pleasure? It's not always a choice. I can't help that when I orgasm I squirt. I have no say, it's how my body responds. How lucky am I that I have the experience of this and multiple orgasm when so many women for whatever reason can't. It's not a badge of honour more a sheer delight that some of us have the honour of being able to achieve... It's makes me no better than any other women though, we all have our talents... Each to their own of course :) xx
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CrackUp
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic' Are we not all individual beings with the absolute right to be accepted for who we are and how our bodies respond to pleasure? It's not always a choice. I can't help that when I orgasm I squirt. I have no say, it's how my body responds. How lucky am I that I have the experience of this and multiple orgasm when so many women for whatever reason can't. It's not a badge of honour more a sheer delight that some of us have the honour of being able to achieve... It's makes me no better than any other women though, we all have our talents... Each to their own of course :) xxNo, it's not a matter of choice, I totally understand that - however, you fall into the group of women that at the moment 'are popular culture' - the stuff of porn and painted as every man's fantasy, so of course, you can see it as a delight. You have the upper hand - you are every man's fantasy woman (as painted by popular culture). What I was asking..and why I wanted men's responses was to see if actual 'men's opinion mirrors that of what is popularly portrayed and whether us women, who do not fit.. 'popular culture' current 'ideals' have any sexual 'validity'.Can you see what I am driving at here.. I'm simply trying to establish how influencing these trends are, in determining men's sexual preferences and if, some groups of women are adversely affected by these 'expectations' of sexual ability.
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
I have had one sexual experience with a squirter, one with a woman who was multi-orgasmic and one with a woman who did not obtain orgasm from penetration (only oral). For me, squirting was detrimental to the enjoyment of the sex as the fluid decreased the natural slippery lubrication to the extent of requiring artificial assistance. While not having the 3rd woman obtain an orgasm with penetration sex, the fact that she did through oral was enough to make the sexual experience satisfying for us both, many times. In a way it brought us closer trying to help her find out what would. The multi-orgasmic woman, of course, was a great boost to the male ego ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whether squirting is a desirable attribute is a personal choice or preference for sure. I know men who don't like it one bit. Whether it's a trend getting exposure or an age old orgasm the chance of losing a man because you do or don't squirt would be a pretty shallow preference to base a sex life upon. Only the shallow know themselves. As for anorgasmic females, the non-achievement of an orgasm may slowly decline into 'doing it for him' and her doing without. That equation will become boring in the end as there is no great pleasure for her and she may lose interest in sex.
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