RHP

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Secret swingers

July 14 2015

Hi folks ,We were wondering if theres any research on the percentages of swingers in Australia.Imagine as we often do in crowded pubic spots. eg the pub or resteraunt or the markets if you could do the maths and try and spot the other swingers in the crowd. It;s just a sexy thought we often have and wonder if anybody else do;es the same . Love to hear your input.

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  • Haleakala

    Haleakala

    9 years ago

    I do wonder sometimes what other kinks and sexual practices people might be in to. I know for people looking at myself they probably would not guess my kinks and fetishes. I wouldn't even hazard a guess what percentage of the population on the whole are swingers. I would imagine in small country towns you would be able to work it out if you are involved yourselves as most would be at the same parties. Speaking to locals in your neck of the woods though most play with holidaymakers though as everyone know wa everyone's business so people seem to be very discreet. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Cristal24U

    Cristal24U

    9 years ago

    In a crowd at the pub : Maybe about 3 % ! ? ...not even ... But,lots of people dream about it : Maybe 40 % !!!

  • jandv

    jandv

    9 years ago

    There needs to be a recognised symbol, especially when your on a night out, so other people could recognise another couple. Could be worn as a necklace or anklet. I know there is one for a "hotwife".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    A male friend and I were standing in a long que for the ferry. A couple behing us were VERY friendly and we got into a conversation. We were wondering afterwards if they were trying to pick us up but thought it might be impolite to ask

  • doubles72

    doubles72

    9 years ago

    Wish we knew... Although we wife tends to try her luck and find out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We have often thought it would be nice to have a couple hit on us when we are out. Shame we haven't had the courage to fully do the same, although we have very lightly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    In the USA some swingers wear a black ring on the opposite hand to their wedding ring. Not sure if I'd like to wear a black ring, but I like the idea of a symbol showing interest! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Black rings would certainly make it easier,But not terribly fashionable.Thankfully we have sites like this.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yeah a code or something likewise would be a great idea. Whats the code for hotwife? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    whats code for hotwife JandV? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    9 years ago

    As we mentioned in another thread we found on a trip to the US that in many swinger couples and hotwives the wife wears an anklet on on the anklet you put charms on to signify what you are into. eg. male and female symbols, spade symbol. We changed the symbold based on what we were feeling like for that night. eg. one night I had 2 male and one female symbols as we wanted a MFM. Another night I had 2 spade symbols as I wanted 2 black guys. Our best night was when I had a number of both male and female symbols. I would wear my anklet with symbols all the time. We were approached a number of times by couples and single guys who noticed my anklet. I have worn the charms out here at night in Australia with less success.Just our experience!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Love to read a forum post without having to be confronted by some blokes raging boner profile pic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Because it is so secretive very hard to put a number on it. They do suggest that swingers have more sex than the average population as well. In the 70-80s a butterfly on your house was an indicator to the lifestyle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We do think it;s very sexy people watching and wondering.We attended a burlesque reveiw the other night ,and the sexual tension was very thick in the air .Just seemed there was more side ways glances and sexy smiles .The room cpuld of been full of swingers and we would never know.

  • jandv

    jandv

    9 years ago

    I just brought a anklet. I got some charms, HW for Hot wife, Letters FMFM. You can also buy the male symbols and the female symbols.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Cheers jandv ,so were did you get your symbols,online somewhere,is there a site .?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'TnM4fun' In the USA some swingers wear a black ring on the opposite hand to their wedding ring. A black ring worn on the middle finger of the right hand is a common symbol of the asexual community. I found that out after I'd been wearing my onyx ring on that finger for months. Ooops.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ...Suggested hanging out a red scarf when travelling, eg in a tourist park. Haven't found out how they got on. But then there's also no way of indicating what/who you are looking for with that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' A black ring worn on the middle finger of the right hand is a common symbol of the asexual community. I found that out after I'd been wearing my onyx ring on that finger for months. Ooops. So, you found no-one was hitting on you for a while? :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting '123yesyesyes' Love to read a forum post without having to be confronted by some blokes raging boner profile pic Me too, almost as much as liking to read comments with an actual photo next to them. As much as I struggle with a talking cock, taking a grey ghost seriously is much harder for me. Just my thoughts.

  • jandv

    jandv

    9 years ago

    Got it from Ebay. Searched letter charms and brought a cheap anklet chain.