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Seducing men - the best techniques
March 10 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
So I can't really answer any more questions :( But I do love my food :) Perhaps, together on the couch, if you slowly and gradually make ever more daring moves until we both can't stand it any longer and I pull you down with me while kissing passionately and I slip my hands underneath your clothes...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am sure there will be many guys that say never happens, the situation never arises or girls these days don't initiate in that way (or guys don't give them a chance to) but i can safely say it does.... Encountered a girl at a work meeting, she visited our offices once a month to drop in paperwork. Her eyes stole my attention everytime and to be honest by the third meeting I just sat there, looked into her eyes and thought about her naked. I got the impression she was thinking the same thing as she kept going over and over the same stuff without making any move to leave. I asked her about her interests outside of work and suddenly the work clothes came off, she relaxed into herself and talked and talked and talked. Her natural style was to engage with her hands, she'd brush my forearm or grab it when making a point. I soaked in her excitement, it was contagious but it was also a work environment so I restrained myself. We flirted for a couple more meetings until she left for a trip overseas, on her return she emailed me and I told her I wanted to see her photos, we met and shared a bottle of wine and relieved some of that built up sexual tension. It is those encounters that make life so enjoyable, one must be ready to accept an opportunity to be seduced, I have no doubt she was in charge all the way through and don't regret a minute of it. A footnote to women : Being seduced is not a bad thing, for some reason some people think its dark and wicked, its the extension of a romantic liaison not a deviant taking advantage.
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I do know of one that clearly fails ,,,, do not dress seductively if the sports news is on or a crucial game is in progress . The response may not be to your liking :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
10 years ago
We were at a swingers party and I said I wasn't playing because I wanted to be seduced ..... I'd still be waiting today if I didn't say 'fuckit' this isn't going to happen. Hubby says 'want and passion' gets him in the mood which includes extended periods of foreplay, touch and innuendo. For me....kiss me, touch me, thrill me ... (not making it too easy for anyone) Mary xx
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
As I don't think I have ever been seduced (must be just me), or I just haven't noticed. All of the above though would be fine with me, or could just start by saying Hi (seems it is generally up to the guy to instigate something, hang on, need to refer to the guys thread) :-)
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
The eyes. Windows to the soul. They can tell you a lot of things. When a woman looks into yours..................you just know. Done deal. Nothing else required. I love eyes.
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lovman8
10 years ago
if it was you doing the seducing Meeka, any of those techniques would work on me. Once had a younger woman, who we had swung with andhad been out all night partying and decided she was horny, climb , naked, into bed with me at about 5 am and wake me up. That worked very well on me. Unfortunately that was a one time occurrence.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I have never been seduced by a woman. That is not to say that women haven't tried to seduce me.... but, its been more of a mutual dance. Typically I have approached her, we engaged in light flirty banter, and seduced eachother. DG
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Well not dominance for seduction <imo I would find that a turn off> however that's not saying I would ultimately reject it once we'd significantly progressed....it might just be lots of fun...for me that would all hinge on how super super sexy I found her.... Generally speaking - like AWW - the eyes have it.....eye contact = personal warm caring interested <possible> sexual connections.......i thin k most would feel very little connection without it....... then its the subtle hints of availability.....I find that a real turn on..... Next would be hints of interest in my passions......there's the mental connection beginning..... Then body language........ If all of those are present, and youre sexy - you may not get the chance to ask me.....we may be already going out for coffee.... =========== Of course - the above is assuming this is referring to very first random meetings.......if we have established common interest then that would be a different set of metrics........ +++++++++++++++++
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Seachange
10 years ago
If all else fails chloroform. Hah. But who does not want the dance of seduction. It is like mental foreplay less ng to physical with stolen glances Over drinks, eyes saying it all. Touch of hand ever so light at first gauging response and then extending to caress if response is positive. Slow simmer. go with the flow.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
wrap your hand in my hair and pull my head back firmly and kiss me passionately and I'm yours how do I seduce..... the eyes have got it babe
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I get this naughty sparkle in my eyes, I think it's that's what my friends say, but buggered if I know, I don't look at me..... But I did grab a lovely young man by the hand, lead him into a room and showed him a little attention the other night, I can't remembering him saying anything about my eyes being naughty, he just I was naughty.....😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
use sexual innuendo, being suggestive without actually saying it. Eye contact, slow blinks, body language, hair flicks, playing with hair, hands on hips to accentuate curves....I like to be subtle which is odd because subtlety doesn't work on me, you have to slap me in the face with a wet fish before I get it! I do prefer the man to be masculine and make the real moves though.
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Missb4u
10 years ago
you have to slap me in the face with a wet fish before I get it! or a dripping cock perhaps lol
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inspirit
10 years ago
6pm and it is going to be a sultry summers night in this city - a city that is usually sleepy and uneventful in more ways than one. Tonight though the thought of the opposite has me aroused me at the prospect of this particular night being the stage for something lustful, sensual and erotic. Perhaps even taking my sense's to a new level of passion and excitement. The knock on the door l hear and l know who it is. A woman l have only just met and in the preceding few weeks. She is a sensual being who looks upon these encounters as a need to fulfill every sense of her sexual self. She will take from me whatever she needs for the fulfillment of her desires and fantasies. l know she will also give back anything l desire and fantasise about with a sensual woman who knows how to please and know what she wants. l open the door and there she is a raven beauty dressed in full black, with the only colour she is wearing has been carefully applied creating sexy voluptuous lips in red. I cannot see her eyes as of yet, as they are wandering over me feeding on my sense's as i stand in the doorway mirroring her. Her dress has buttons on it and i notice the few top ones are undone and her full breasts are seeking their way out of her brazier, creating a cleavage l want to tongue and slide my cock through. l look down and i see the bottom buttons also undone, only to tease me further with the slight opening showing a silky stocking attached to a black suspender and then further down she is wearing black stilettos. I can feel myself becoming excited as my eyes meander back up towards hers, taking their time, pausing along the way at the places i need to touch and taste. My senses are heightened, but l am soon bought back to reality in a second as i feel a hand wrap my neck and pull me forward and then I look into her eyes which l can feel to my core. She is pulling me closer and i feel her breath on my lips .........then she leans in a little, her lips now so close to mine l feel them brush past mine and begin to sensually caress's other areas of my erogenous zones whilst whispering in my ear "do not touch me as it is l who is the only one allowed to touch for the moment". At that point she pulls away looks straight into my eyes and say's "do you or don’t you.............want to invite me in"......... l look straight back into eyes and into her seductive world, my mind is swirling with the thoughts of being taken by this sultry seductress. l hesitate for a second in answer to her question for i can’t find the words 'hell yes' then they appear, though not those i was wanting. Instead the simplicity of the word "Welcome" emerged and seemed more appropriate for this woman. In return she lent over and whispered "thank you, let the play begin"............ l stood aside and as she glided past me the smell of her perfume was intoxicating as were the words lingering in my mind "let the play begin". l closed and locked the front door for now l was at her mercy, though knew, in the not to distant future she would be at mine. As i followed her down the hall and almost into the kitchen she turned, took one look at me and l knew what she wanted. There was no need for me to speak and if l did, I don’t think she would of heard, for her mind was not on talking. I felt her hands on my shoulders which sent a shudder through me... a shudder of the unknown. l stand there looking into her eyes as hers are piercing mine with erotica. She lightly push's me against the wall...her hands reach mine and they are lifted above my head pinned with hers to the wall. She leans into me and there, that hot breath again as her lips glide past mine. Oh my god i can almost taste her though she will not give me the pleasure. Her breath is seducing my face and down my chest for she has somehow undone my shirt without me realising. As i feel her breath on my nipples i suddenly feel the wetness of her tongue flicking one of them. They are so erect and screaming to be sucked as is my now hard cock. She looks me in the eyes again watching me and my thoughts, she moves my hands down and places them behind my back where l am to lean on them and not move .... Her hands are now on my face caressing me and she leans in and there, i taste her, her kiss is passionate and sensual and l kiss her back in the same way. Then she stops, lingering and pulling away slowly, gently biting my lip as she leaves. Geezuz l want more l want her lips back i want her. Her hands are swirling around my face her fingers teasing my lips and my tongue as i suck them wanting her more and more. She has found my chest again and my nipples. she is biting them creating a tingling pain sensation that i can feel on the end my throbbing cock. Her hands have moved and are now unbuckling my belt. She threads the belt through my jeans and comes up, looks me in the eyes and then hangs my belt around my neck. OMG what is she going to do?!........ With my mind in overdrive i feel the pressure of my jeans on my cock being released and my jeans fall to the ground. Next l feel the soft touch of this woman’s hands gently remove my underwear and let them fall to the ground. She places her hands on my hips and i suddenly gasp catching my breath, i feel lips and tongue on my cock, she is claiming my pre cum........................ Something like that.........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' you have to slap me in the face with a wet fish before I get it! or a dripping cock perhaps lol yes a wet cock sounds much more palatable :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you have your special man all of the above is a good journey - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Tonight I was stopped at the traffic lights when I glanced over at a lovely younger woman in the car next to me. Our eyes met and she flashed me a huge smile. That's a good start but tough to consummate. Many years ago a women sat across from me on the train and told me she knew me. After it became clear she didn't, she told me I looked like a certain rock star. It was probably because I hadn't slept, but it worked. A little later a friend had been behaving a little oddly - lingering eye contact, incidental touching, sitting next to me whenever she could. It should have been obvious but I wasn't paying attention. Eventually one night she took my hand and said "you should take me to bed". I politely declined, I had a girlfriend. Then she was invited too, and that worked. This one time, a very sexy women firmly suggested I should just hurry up and fuck her already. I did, but she was in a swing at the club and that may not work everywhere. (Actually, she could probably get away with it anywhere ) I do also appreciate the slower build up, particularly suited to online seductions. Start with a couple of getting to know you messages back and forth. Have some fun with some public flirting, maybe even a bit of a tease. Play a little hard to get, build some tension. Make me work for it! Will have to let you know how that one works out
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RHP User
10 years ago
I enjoy it when a lover makes me work for it. I am squirming in my panties just thinking about it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice story obviously has been made to conform to the masses ,,, simple got caned for something similar , guess its all in the wording - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
With lily... Removing consent and adding a hint of violence is the go... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... Oh yeah... lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whimper. Ply them with booze a huge flat screen with footy. If that fails, cold hard cash - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
just lol m'lady Hp xo Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sparkling deep eyes always get me, the wafting of her perfume, a cheeky grin, incidental touching, whispering in my ear, soft lips teasing mine. Give me that and I'm about ready to go :) Mr HnH
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lingerie. If I have a friend coming round, I will meet him at the door with some nice lingerie and heels on. Ive never met a man yet who doesnt like a woman in lingerie. Its a pity most young girls dont bother with it these days. Those "Boyleg" undies? Give me cheeky cut lacy panties any day.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Too many to mention, but in each situation that i can remember, the women were very direct, whether at a club, bar, dance party, beach, bbq etc. One memorable one was at a friends bbq.....hot blonde, gorgeous body etc. We were chatting throughout the day and she would make sure to look at me with a sultry look from time to time. As the end of the night neared and people started leaving she walked up to me, put both hands on the arms of the chair i was sitting on, lent down looked me in the eyes and said 'would you like to come to my place and fuck me'.....so i went to her place and fucked her brains out!! Being the mad clubber and dancer for much of my 20s and 30s i cant count the number of times i have been seduced by girls at clubs
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boots_69
10 years ago
Ask me to dance will work 99/100 for me, as will that little run of the finger down the back of my neck. Not to mention the backless, strapless lil black dress
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blkcapricornday
10 years ago
"Every girl wants a bad boy who will be good just for her, and every boy wants a good girl who will be bad just for him." Be yourself, but show me a glimpse of your deep, dark and naughty side and i'm yours ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Omfg.... that is just plain unfair! Especially since im reading this on the sly at work, lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
10 years ago
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inspirit
10 years ago
Tell us how YOU seduce a man these days Yeah Yeah I am a Kuntlicious Sex Bag
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hurry up and fuck me already. Nah, kidding! I guess I smile more. And I touch. My glass, my neck, his arm... Seems to work. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I mostly assume lady's are simply being nice and not seducing me? I'm so blind at times lol... In saying that I was asked out for coffee few weeks ago by a tidy mum at my daughters school :) again I assumed she was just being nice :) then I told my mate and they simply said you idiot she wouldn't ask you for coffee unless she was interested ? Yet I said noo she just being nice as she is about 15 years younger... Great body but mmmm. I think I've been alone to long now and miss the signs
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compressor
10 years ago
The eyes say a lot and the way she looks at you. Soft flirty action and gentle touch with the gentle rub of body parts
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RHP User
10 years ago
Answer a message. 😜
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Never tried to! My fear of rejection outweighs it.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Never tried to! My fear of rejection outweighs it. Get out of your comfort zone and give it a craic. It is sooo much fun and makes you feel super sexy too.
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Seachange
10 years ago
go for it JG. you have a lovely smile and you are smart. have fun sweet.
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RHP User
10 years ago
They often say about the soft touch on the arm ? Sounds good but I'd need a little squeeze or I'd think it's just being nice :) yep I'm a confused male lol then again I fear the point of rejection if I ever acted and got it wrong... I'd like a lady (couple as we'll) to simply walk up and take my hand ;) I guess that would be clear signal
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cutecouplewa
10 years ago
Woman: Hey, you wanna fuck? Man: Yes.
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TimeToPlayAus
10 years ago
Show up naked, bring beer. Done :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... confidence ...... I believe to the ultimate weapon of mass seduction .... .... it comes in the form of ..... a smile ..... a knowing look ..... a gaze that cannot looked away from ..... a subtle reveal (modest) .... that earnest interest that a man cannot tear himself away from (men crave sexual attention) .... ..... and for best effect ....... deliberately slow progressing in intensity ... Meeks ..... I would not think that you would need too much coaching ? > confidence?
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
To seduce me is to just tell me you want me and visit or tell me to visit you.. just be yourself and not play games as in try and manipulate the situation into happening.. if it doesnt happen just make the move.. open your heart and soul and ill do the same. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive forgotten what it feels like to be seduced - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
As easy as you assume! If a girl said lets drink and have sex im sure the fuck would be good.. but we are talking seduction!! And its quite a turn on when a girl makes the first move or makes an effort.. i dont like fweling like im hunting for meat.. i like response even if its negative. . I prefer nice ket down rather than a bitchy assumption i usually get. Us men arent as easy as you think.. unless of course youre dealing with the asshole ones that will fuck literally anything.. for a woman to even invite me over and i artive to her opening the foor in lingerie.. she then has full ccontrol of me.. while im in her company from her tsking the first step approach i would want yo protect her with my life.. For me to have to chase and make all the effort its more like shes well ive earned it snd whrn i get it the thrill has gone. If i have to kerp chasing i realise the energy isnt worth it and i feel like im stalking do i only put out the interest a few times.. after that the iinitial interest has gone whether i continue or not. They just become a choice not a main interest. Thats the same with couples etc too. This is why it confuses me on this site.. its almost like view the profiles assume and fantsise.. nobody actually seems to want to genuinely meet up for fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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trypilot
10 years ago
Many moons ago, when I was a young man, I was travelling on a bus to the pilbara to visit and stay with my father, during the trip, I met a lovely young lady on the bus ( a bloody long journey ) . We shared conversation, headphones, music ! And contact details ( but not much else ) . A few weeks after arriving in the same town we made contact and arranged a date so to speak, my dad went out, place to ourselves ! I had bought a couple of quality bottles of red, with no ulterior motives, we hardly new each other, I was in my late teens, her in her early twenties. I poured us each a glass, a little chat, one bottle finished, I went to the kitchen to get the other, on my return, Kelly had spilled wine all over her top and was apologizing whislt removing her top in front of me , a gorgeous pair of breasts exposed unashamedly in front of me ! In a state of teenage shock ( keep in mind I was raised by a single mum ) , my reaction was OMG ! I ran to the bathroom, gave her a towel, said " I'll b right back" and brought her a shirt from my room . ...... I look back and see her thanks was with great disappointment when I gave her my shirt, she left not long after ! OMG, if only I knew then what I know now lol
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trypilot
10 years ago
Not sure if this fits the forum question, but one of the few times I'd been seduced and I was completely clueless, oh to have my youth back lol ! If you're out there Kelly, fancy another wine ?
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blackbig
10 years ago
Love being seduced. The eye contact is most captivating. I don't mind someone being direct. I hesitate to act to quickly just incase I am reading the wrong thing, which happened once with a work colleague. I found it real sexy when a lady seduced you..the eye catch, hair touching, leg movements or just spontaneously ask for your number or meeting for coffee-:)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
10 years ago
But would love to be seduced by a sexy slim Attractive mother and daughter team anyway they wanted to do the seduction is fine by me.LMAO
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mrs 71 tells me I'm almost completely oblivious to the more subtle aspects, so the direct approach is warranted.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'chevtrek' But would love to be seduced by a sexy slim Attractive mother and daughter team anyway they wanted to do the seduction is fine by me.LMAO And will they be your wittle girls and call you Daddy? Chev that is incest and pretty disturbing in reality.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ulysses42' ..... confidence ...... I believe to the ultimate weapon of mass seduction .... .... it comes in the form of ..... a smile ..... a knowing look ..... a gaze that cannot looked away from ..... a subtle reveal (modest) .... that earnest interest that a man cannot tear himself away from (men crave sexual attention) .... ..... and for best effect ....... deliberately slow progressing in intensity ... Meeks ..... I would not think that you would need too much coaching ? > confidence? Yep. You got it! I am interested in that comment men crave sexual attention. It is a shame that more men don't get it, I wonder why that is??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Touch Feely gets me every time, especially coupled with come to bed eyes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like to seduce men, especially when they play a little hard to get. HAWT!
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Seachange
10 years ago
What do you mean by seduced by mother and daughter team? You mean FMF with them? Disturbing for me ic that is the case. What is your definition of seduction? Resulting to sex? The thought of my mom and I having sex with the same man makes me sick and to do it at the same time makes my stomach churn. Sick. Sick.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In the fantasy thread a person wrote about his FMF with twin sisters. Although I think there was no sexual contact between the sisters, they just masturbated while they were waiting for their turn!!! Eeek! There is alot of daddy/daughter and stepmom, stepsister, twins, etc porn. I think it is disturbing too.
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Seachange
10 years ago
What do you mean by seduced by mother and daughter team? You mean FMF with them? Disturbing for me ic that is the case. What is your definition of seduction? Resulting to sex? The thought of my mom and I having sex with the same man makes me sick and to do it at the same time makes my stomach churn. Sick. Sick.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' In the fantasy thread a person wrote about his FMF with twin sisters. Although I think there was no sexual contact between the sisters, they just masturbated while they were waiting for their turn!!! Eeek! There is alot of daddy/daughter and stepmom, stepsister, twins, etc porn. I think it is disturbing too. Can you recall the topic where one guy said he and his twin brother swapped ?! And how the topic evolved after that?! Its fine to have a fantasy.... some types...... should stay inside your head!!! DG
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madotara69
10 years ago
Mum picked up on it, she would tell me I was hopeless, some girl kicking around had the hot's for me. Even girls would come and tell me such and such likes you, run off and giggle amongst each other, pointing their fingers at me and totally embarrass the girl as a flush reddened her skin, knees rubbing each other and toes digging the sand, all adjusting the bikini's and rubbing tanning oils over each other. I'd be thinking, they are having a go at me, she has never said anything like that, she's just being friendly and feel a bit sorry for the girl getting teased by her girlfriends. Same with some of my mates, all different girls, little did we know then they had matured earlier than us and they weren't giggling about holding hands while acting so strange. As time went by the behaviour of the girls became less of the teasing sort of carry on and that's only because the young women had started slipping sexual innuendo's into conversations, the sight became arousing for the lads as the women sensually rubbed oil on to each others pert little figures tanning under the sun, whispering the sexual thoughts they were having for who and what would do and when, the body language showed they were fantasising the thoughts as the curvaceous bodies swayed in an intimate way holding hands, oiling each others breasts and the sensational twitches as the hands explored the erogenous zones of the rounded bum and inner thighs, shoulders and neck, even the friendly girly kiss women do, seemed as playing out the dreams, teaching each others curiosity and waves of passion a secret between fantasies shared by the feminine bonding, innocent of the emotional hurts love, lust and bruises can bring, care free and desire, they would carry on like that all the bloody time and keep it too the fellows curiously amused by the erection this thing they were doing was training us to observe the art of seduction Yep women sure do know what they want when they hit the naughty forties. Mado Mado Tara xx
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
Where she just keeps talking to me and starts to physically get closer and just says she wants me and makes me hers.. can be for the night or we just keep seeing each other after that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
10 years ago
Wearing something sexy helps a bit too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
One day in the future, Chev's house will have tour buses pulling up outside, the commentary clearly heard by those walking past....... "Yes, you've heard all the stories folks. This is where it all happened" Murmers amongst the crowd, cameras clicking.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
You wish Annie but I will never stop being straightas I enjoy the curves of a slim gal and knowing how much pleasure her body can feel.In fact in some ways in sucks being a guy we have lesspleasure zones.
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RHP User
10 years ago
DG, I think the story of the twin brothers secretly swapping midway through sex (was that the one?) posed a different issue altogether: since the woman did not consent to having sex with brother number two, it's legally classified as sexual assault.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Came to mind, of the seductive story of a mfm threesome and the woman exploding all over his cock cumming from double penetration. Separately posting the topic along side the story, as it progressed to it being inseminating the sterile twin brothers wife and twin sister of the twin brothers ex that urged him, without the consent of the child, who by all accounts would be crawling about looking at uncle daddy right now. You could have been a bit more specific DG
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