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Seduction
July 06 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is the slow burn,the sizzle,the gaze,the touch ,the kiss.,that leads to connection. The game, is using seduction to dupe,to pretend ,to win. x Hugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is the frist email, the first phone call and subsequent phone call. then the dinner date..all fueled with sexy sex innuendos....the dinner dates filled with longing looks, slight touches of the hand, the long stares...telling me he wants me...mmm...well, that is what happened to me personally the last time I meeted and "greeted" a date...no games, no stand up...perfect night...
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
Amen! I didnt know a man existed to be saying exactly how it is, well done! Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Ahhhh .... my favourite topic..... human interaction..... specifically ... Attraction. Seduction and Attraction IS a game....... it is a game that has played out between the sexes whether they are aware of it, or not. It is a game that has been guided by our subconscious, as part of our evolutionary strategy to survive as a species for millions of years. Every woman will say she doesnt want a game player...... which is fair enough, because nobody likes to feel used within someone elses screwed up and selfish mind-fuckery. BUT...... and I will qualify.... women DO want a man to know HOW the game of attraction is played. A woman wants a man to understand how attraction works.... she needs a man to understand and practice the art of seduction, to solidify attraction into desire.... because it makes her feel good consciously, and particularly subconsciously. There is soooooo much more to the subject..... but.... Ive opened a second bottle of red and Im indulging one of my other passions for enjoying it. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Games, are those played by people whom have nothing else better to do than to fuck with your head. The suggestive smile, the wink from across the room, they never come with labels, for all you know it could be bloke standing behind you, and you've just stumbled into it. This whole game that we call "seduction" is just simply a ploy to get men or women, lets not aim this at anyone in particular, to beat their chest, fluff out their feathers, and make themselve look like idiots. Mind games, no matter what, or how they may seem, are simply just that....a game. Games are not reality, and reality is not a game. That's just my opinion though...
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RHP User
12 years ago
So hardtruckin2011, how do YOU seduce a woman?
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RHP User
12 years ago
As you guys have probably guessed, and I might add quite rightly so, have very little knowledge and expertise in this field. Whatever the reason, it's not really that important I don't think. I might also take this opportunity as well, to apologise for the way my opinion does read. I don't hate the game, I just see it as something that is very confusing at times; as like everything, it's a very individual experience. After spending the last 3 years single, and the 7 before that in a relationship, it has been a journey of ever increasingly changing waters; that of which makes me scratch my head a little at times, and other times have just left me laughing 'till I nearly cried. I love the comments so far, and love learning, and listening to other peoples opinions, and what they love so much about this crazy little thing called lurve. P.S. You all thought you were going to hear "nobody loves me" rant eh?? :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Ahhhh .... my favourite topic..... human interaction..... specifically ... Attraction. Seduction and Attraction IS a game....... it is a game that has played out between the sexes whether they are aware of it, or not. It is a game that has been guided by our subconscious, as part of our evolutionary strategy to survive as a species for millions of years.Every woman will say she doesnt want a game player...... which is fair enough, because nobody likes to feel used within someone elses screwed up and selfish mind-fuckery.BUT...... and I will qualify.... women DO want a man to know HOW the game of attraction is played.A woman wants a man to understand how attraction works.... she needs a man to understand and practice the art of seduction, to solidify attraction into desire.... because it makes her feel good consciously, and particularly subconsciously.There is soooooo much more to the subject..... but.... Ive opened a second bottle of red and Im indulging one of my other passions for enjoying it. DG It is holding eye contact for that split second longer.It is biting down gently on your bottom lip, your cheeks flushing as you break that gaze.It is him seeing you squirm in your chair slightly straight after.It is him seeing your pupils enlarged...Some are conscious, some are not.Not all games are bad hardtruckin. I think I do know what you mean though. The games that are intended from the go to be a complete mind fuck with the promise of something that will never eventuate. However, if the seduction promises a night of fulfilment... and it delivers... it can't be all that bad.If someone is using seduction as a way of making another look like an idiot, that simply says more about that person than the art of seduction... and it is an art.Perhaps evaluate the difference between seduction and courtship.Agree with Mischeviouslad, so much more on it but just be aware that the next time a woman tries to seduce you, she may actually want you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Send all a message of sincere gratitude and thanks for the opinions and the like, but I think I'll give public credit that is most deserving here. Mischievouslad is one guy that I see offer so much in these threads it's not funny; and buddy if I can ever buy you a bottle of red, let me know. There are so many here also, that I have an ever growing amount of admiration and respect for their views, and very well written responses that offer so much insight. So to all that have posted, and those that will post, thank you. The human psyche fascinates me to no end, be it good bad or indifferent. Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't view seduction as game Htruck :) I see it as a process, one that is emotional and mental. A provocation of selves to connect, excite and entice :) Seduction is an art. An invitation both subtle and/or overt to share experiences and create a bond whether that connection be short or long term. I hope you learn to challenge your sardonic observation. :) Cass xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
What an excellent way of looking at it. I knew I liked you for more than just your lovely dances :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I LOVE being seduced, in my opinion it is a dying art ! I like the anticipation, the uncertainty , the lead up and the entire process .................feel free to seduce me :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
No doubt I'd put all my bloody points in WIS & INT again and end up trying to seduce a book. *sigh* Luckily, I partied up with a fellow adventurer who is high in CHA & CON ;) I've got enough points in STR and he's high enough in DEX to keep things interesting and lively ;) Oops, sorry, I think that was a little off-topic :P it does, however, summarise my thoughts on seduction well enough. Treat each conquest like a dungeon run and take your lucky dice! It is, after all, meant to be fun. Enjoyable. Exhilarating. Adrenaline rush. Endorphin high. And never forget... funny as fuck :D
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
The Art of Seduction is a wonderful place to be.....if you approach it correctly..The reason many women here complain about Game Players is because many of them are time waters.Make your Intention - Objective clear from the beginning!.Are you out to seduce a woman to bed for a one off fling of passion and lust?Or are you out to seduce a woman with long term plans on your behalf?.That is where many men come undone, they mislead the woman into believing they are after a commitment and then wonder why the women get pissed off at them when they do a one night runner..Be straight up with your your intent...dont seduce women in a misleading way and you too can be the next rival to Don Juan.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Ahhhh .... my favourite topic..... human interaction..... specifically ... Attraction. Seduction and Attraction IS a game....... it is a game that has played out between the sexes whether they are aware of it, or not. It is a game that has been guided by our subconscious, as part of our evolutionary strategy to survive as a species for millions of years. Every woman will say she doesnt want a game player...... which is fair enough, because nobody likes to feel used within someone elses screwed up and selfish mind-fuckery. BUT...... and I will qualify.... women DO want a man to know HOW the game of attraction is played. A woman wants a man to understand how attraction works.... she needs a man to understand and practice the art of seduction, to solidify attraction into desire.... because it makes her feel good consciously, and particularly subconsciously. There is soooooo much more to the subject..... but.... Ive opened a second bottle of red and Im indulging one of my other passions for enjoying it. DGYou could make big money out of this....XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes in the process of seducing the other,we end up seducing ourselves.xHugs H
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RHP User
12 years ago
Okay so there are 2 senses of the meaning in the dictionary one good on not so- this idealist likes the former :)Cass xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Vagabonde' No doubt I'd put all my bloody points in WIS & INT again and end up trying to seduce a book. *sigh* Luckily, I partied up with a fellow adventurer who is high in CHA & CON ;) I've got enough points in STR and he's high enough in DEX to keep things interesting and lively ;) Oops, sorry, I think that was a little off-topic :P it does, however, summarise my thoughts on seduction well enough. Treat each conquest like a dungeon run and take your lucky dice! It is, after all, meant to be fun. Enjoyable. Exhilarating. Adrenaline rush. Endorphin high. And never forget... funny as fuck :D even the occasional Leeeroooooooyyyyyyy can be fun ... lols
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