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Seduction techniques

July 08 2012

How do you go about seducing the person that takes your fancy?....and apart from physical appearance ,what is it that is a certainty to seduce you?

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  • playful4u

    playful4u

    12 years ago

    Confidence in who you are and just being yourself with a small hint of nonchalance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    for me I don't like approaching guys :/ (wish I could tho)a cute face and smile gets me though :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Confidence in who you are (without arrogance) is what will engage another person's interest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Good sense of humor and good conversation does it for us :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    hmmmm....that's a hard one....as I'm not really able to indentify when someone is trying to seduce me...lol how bad does that sound?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    OMG this is too easy The eyes really are the window to the "soul" It has to start with the eyes. After the eyes it is general confidence and presentation. Mike I have walked past "good" looking women for someone who can talk with their eyes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    chose a few interesting board games and started to explain the rules.with in minutes, she was so bored she ripped her nickers down and shoved my head in her crotch to shut me up.i find "carcassonne" and "power grid" are good choices for this play. if they fail, you can always pull out "twilight imperium 3rd ED"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I use my camera   Its amazing how many guys get turned on having naked pictures taken of themselves. But as its work I have to restrain myself from jumping their bones. Unless its so heavy they need a hand with it   I think confidence and just having a laugh is very seductive as the pressure is not on, and you are so relaxed that you hardly notice your pants are missing.   plus I give beer goggles works a treat

  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    12 years ago

    Someone who doesn't meet you like there checking you out like they would a 2nd hand car. Engaging in conversation with you,eyes focused on you not who's sitting at the next table. Sense of humour,happy with who they are.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's the little things that makes seduction so sweet.The eyes have it,.. you know " that first eye contact that lingers longer than normal ? and then something magic seems to happen.Holding that good eye contact then slowly running the back of your fingers over her soft cheeks and sweet parted lips before gently kissing them .. usually gets things well under way.. get that right and theres no turning back...Works for me. but then again I'm one of them guys who loves kisses and finding my way .... lol Jay...

  • Gonesurfing

    Gonesurfing

    12 years ago

    The intensity of the attraction the more skilled the art of seduction will be. Seduction for most is nearly, but not quite as satisfying as the sex, "the thrill of the chase" . Women love to be seduced and as irressistablle as the female form is to man it is in his own interest to hone ones skills.   Elegance, class and a good sense of humour is always seductive.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    apathybitchinessa sense of humourbawdinessall happen naturally for me and seem to be working quite well for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Conversation and a hint of what will come...what I could expect from this encounter.... Smile.....I love the mouth....have to admit it is my first attraction....nice clean teeth and lips....oh so delicious, the thought to kiss. But then how he talks to me, makes my mind see all this little things to come....always a hint of sex...never stops to hint. When I meet in person......AFTERSHAVE....lol. I will melt away.....lol ohh I am a gonner with great aftershave. Then hands...I look at the hands. Ohh god I need to go now....indulge in my fantasy of a male.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hesione:   My tecnique is BEAUTIFUL... it is poetry in motion.. Music to the ears.. The most outstanding photography..   I walk up to the proposed seducee.... Crack her over the head with club.. Reach down, grab her ankle, and drag her back to somewhere where I dont have to worry about some sabre toothed tiger biting my arse whilst I get down and dirty..   See Hesione.. It is from the birth of time itself.. the most basic of all talents: An ART form itself, LONG since forgotton, or watered down by modern males unable to understand WHY they need sex in the first place.. Sad really... SAD..   Hullo Tuscan   caveman (chuckling to himself)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ahh Cavey - the author of Neanderthal Seduction Techniques for dummies :p Seduction for me involves flowing conversation, punctuated with 'accidental' brushes of skin on skin and the knowing, heated moments of silent prolonged eye contact where you can see their pupils dilate and your nether regions clench in excitement. At that moment, you have absolutely no doubt that you've got dirty plans for one another... Keep the long stemmed roses and chocolates for your mother...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ice cream and strawberries

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    .....I think I just got hit over the head....whaaat happened....x Hesione stunned by a caveman

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i think for me is manners...charm...imagination and intelligence...too much?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Hesione:   My tecnique is BEAUTIFUL... it is poetry in motion.. Music to the ears.. The most outstanding photography..   I walk up to the proposed seducee.... Crack her over the head with club.. Reach down, grab her ankle, and drag her back to somewhere where I dont have to worry about some sabre toothed tiger biting my arse whilst I get down and dirty..   See Hesione.. It is from the birth of time itself.. the most basic of all talents: An ART form itself, LONG since forgotton, or watered down by modern males unable to understand WHY they need sex in the first place.. Sad really... SAD..   Hullo Tuscan   caveman (chuckling to himself)   Hello handsome cave man, and you should have dragged me by my hair,not by my right ankle. now I have a ton of sand in my crack!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I get really drunk.   Sometimes, if the other person is almost as drunk, it works.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'xshags'ice cream and strawberries It doesn’t interest mewhat you do for a living.I want to knowwhat you ache forand if you dare to dreamof meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest mehow old you are.I want to know if you will risk looking like a foolfor lovefor your dreamfor the adventure of being alive. It doesn’t interest mewhat planets are squaring your moon...I want to knowif you have touchedthe centre of your own sorrowif you have been openedby life’s betrayalsor have become shrivelled and closedfrom fear of further pain. I want to knowif you can sit with painmine or your ownwithout moving to hide itor fade itor fix it. I want to knowif you can be with joymine or your ownif you can dance with wildnessand let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toeswithout cautioning usto be carefulto be realisticto remember the limitationsof being human. It doesn’t interest meif the story you are telling meis true.I want to know if you candisappoint anotherto be true to yourself.If you can bearthe accusation of betrayaland not betray your own soul.If you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy. I want to know if you can see Beautyeven when it is not prettyevery day.And if you can source your own lifefrom its presence. I want to knowif you can live with failureyours and mineand still stand at the edge of the lakeand shout to the silver of the full moon,“Yes.” It doesn’t interest meto know where you liveor how much money you have.I want to know if you can get upafter the night of grief and despairweary and bruised to the boneand do what needs to be doneto feed the children. It doesn’t interest mewho you knowor how you came to be here.I want to know if you will standin the centre of the firewith meand not shrink back. It doesn’t interest mewhere or what or with whomyou have studied.I want to know what sustains youfrom the insidewhen all else falls away. I want to knowif you can be alone with yourselfand if you truly likethe company you keepin the empty moments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'missopenminded'for me I don't like approaching guys :/ (wish I could tho)a cute face and smile gets me though :)A lover knows only humility, he has no choice.He steals into your alley at night, he has no choice.He longs to kiss every lock of your hair, don't fret,he has no choice.In his frenzied love for you, he longs to break the chains of his imprisonment,he has no choice.A lover asked his beloved:- Do you love yourself more than you love me?Beloved replied: I have died to myself and I live for you.I've disappeared from myself and my attributes,I am present only for you.I've forgotten all my learnings,but from knowing you I've become a scholar.I've lost all my strength, but from your power I am able.I love myself...I love you.I love you...I love myself.I am your lover, come to my side,I will open the gate to your love.Come settle with me, let us be neighbours to the stars.You have been hiding so long, endlessly drifting in the sea of my love.Even so, you have always been connected to me.Concealed, revealed, in the unknown, in the un-manifest.I am life itself.You have been a prisoner of a little pond,I am the ocean and its turbulent flood.Come merge with me,leave this world of ignorance.Be with me, I will open the gate to your love.I desire you more than food or drinkMy body my senses my mind hunger for your tasteI can sense your presence in my heartalthough you belong to all the worldI wait with silent passion for one gesture one glancefrom you.