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  uneventful

  13 years ago

  can manage either but often the more input the easier to break the ice .. what is not cool .. is those messages which are short and crude .. those sourt of message get ignored by 90% of the women here ...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'celebree'can manage either but often the more input the easier to break the ice .. what is not cool .. is those messages which are short and crude .. those sourt of message get ignored by 90% of the women here ... completely agree!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  A guy could hurt himself trying to do that! Seriously though, thanks for the advice.

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  xFunlovingx

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Krissy_G' But dont pad a message out. start your message out with something witty in the subject line. That is way more likely to keep us interested in reading what is to follow. Doesnt have to be an essay but make it interesting. And always quote something from the profile. Show you have read it.    I agree with all that Krissy has to say! I would also add...NEVER send a first message that just says "How you doin?"....I find this boring and lazy and really there is no reply other than a one word answer! Also, don't write a novel in the first message and DON'T send a story of what you would do to the girl....do you know how many of them we get a week? So boring....I don't even get past the first line in those messages! Plus as hard as it is...try not to cut and paste your messages....we can tell you know! Good luck xo xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Being a guest the chance I have had to message has been quite limited.... and the flirts are exactly witty enough to catch some people lol. So for me its playing on that line of writing enough for them to take interest and keep the messages going but not too much that u look too eager... an essay reply to a 'Hi whats up?' looks a bit weird. But then again short and sweet doesn't usually work enough to make u stand out and warrant another reply...

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  A message should be short enough to read but long enough to grab the attention of the recipient. Reading the profile and quoting from it will get you more brownie points. Too short shows you can't be bothered or lack imagination. Too long and you lose the interest of the reader.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Copy and paste! Why didn't I think of tha... I mean - who'd do that? Thank you all for the feedback. I'd kind of lost sight of how inundated some peoples' inboxes undoubtedly get. From now on, it's jump in with both boots on, stomp around a little bit and then leg it.

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