Sensuality....a learnt thing??

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ...it's worth showing someone the ropes, in sensuality...if you think, your lover is genuinely there, because he wants to pleasure you..(and not just to get his rocks off)...then he will have his eyes and senses open...and will be eager to experiment, and learn, what turns you on..that goes, for being sensual, too, i think...i know, we have played with a few couples, where we exchanged partners...and the guy was not at all tactile, or sensual, at first...but once i started caressing him, with slow, soft, tantalizing strokes, kisses...he got the picture pretty fast!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think anyone can definitely learn to be more sensual,perhaps with your partner you could just concentrate on one sense at a time....sometimes I think we are in sensory overload,sights sounds,tastes ,touch,smell. A blindfold in play can accentuate the process and introduce an element of surprise...which sense will be tantalized next?... so erotic to speculate for the one being tantalized....and for the tantalizer so much pleasure in experiencing their reactions...soooo many possibilities....x R

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think your all right..   To me sensuality is a natural thing..i can tell when a touch someones hand if they are sensual..and that excites me..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  may be different to another.. Yesterday ' I high five'd a girl who gripped my hand and let her eyes do all the talking... Now that was sensual at that moment.. Mind you, we've been flirting for awhile so I guess its a natural progression..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Karynb thanks for the intertesting topic:) I'm extremely Sensual Tactile I've been all My LLife so it's hard for me to understand why some People are missing out on such a Pleasureable thing.I guess what you don't know you don't miss. Luckily I tend to attract Guys who enjoy sharing this with me.even if it's not their natural gift..like others have said they learn to enjoy it once they open their minds and give themselves over to the experiences Sensuality can bring..Enjoy Lu :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Our upbrining and other issues can shut a womans sensual side down. Just look at this site, so many women are waking up to their sexy selves , thanks the the men or RHP   So to my lovers from here and my loves yet to have from rhp   Thank you

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  no...it cant be learnt. you either have it, or you dont...........having your eyes opened to possibilities isnt learning...its an awakening. for something to be woken....it had to be there all along...........

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  we all have it......some needs awakening.......mostly relaxing.We tend to live in a fast world, and most people are pretty winded up, tense, and not very in touch with subtle things.Sensuality, as many other subtle things, some time get overlooked, or I should say, not experienced.Given the right environment, the right partner, the time, the attention to explore, the trust and the willingness it can be awaken, experienced and embraced.OHHHH the eyes....they play such a part in a person sensuality......

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It's something you either have or you don't. You've got to be born with it

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