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Serious question. How young are your kink thoughts.
June 06 2014
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Fair enough question, I must have been about 10 when my friend and I used to go out the back of the News Agency, and rummage through it and get the porn and play boys out that didn't sell. take them home to my garage, and I suppose I was the kid, inviting other kids around to look at it after school....I had lots of fiends then lol.My eldest sister let me watch her give her boyfriend a head job around that time to....gee thanks sis !, well she was a bit of a slut.Started masturbating at about 12 and sort of having sex, with some girls my age, I was 15 when I first came in a girl, and that was in front of my friend and the girls brother, she was 18 and slut also I suppose lol....I was certainly a early stater then....But that's over 30 years ago....I think 10 is about the norm now to start thinking about it, thanks to the Internet ! I have had all sorts of conversations with my kids, when they are brave enough to ask, inc Homosexuality or whatever. Cheers Tam
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seriously does the word kink actually relate to a child of seven ?? Correct me if i am wrong but quite frankly what the fuck !!!!! is it not just sex education ?? Not fucken kink ? You start telling your kids kink then is that not a different style and more so for a lot older more mature age to understand that kink is not just kink !! Is it ?? Each to there own but just because you adults think its cool and safe and no danger!!! dont forget the innocence of children !! And the fact that children will openly discuss or mention to there friends at school or teachers about what sort of kink they have been discussing !!!?? Seems a bit raw for children if you ask me but i could be wrong ?? Anyone ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have 2 girls aged 12&13, as they ask I explain in simple terms, other stuff that's Hard core that they hear at school I just Tell them that's for when ur a bit older As ur brain is not there yet to comprehend That sort of thing as my kids are still fairly Innocent. Also they came home saying the rude Parts when referring to genitals, I quickly Asked where they got that and let them know There is nothing rude about the body. We Have private parts but not rude parts
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passion8_l
11 years ago
Slut? Please tell me you were joking
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im with Bigocean on this, I was a bit shocked when I read that to be honest. Yes, the sex talk, and I believe parents and not school should be the ones to tell the kids, but as for kink, no way. Its something a young adult will discover for themselves in due course. And as for calling a young girl a prude....let them be innocent for as long as possible, plenty of time for sexual shenanigans and kinky capers when they reach the stage that they are joining up to be on RHP.....Thank goodness its the weekend (before I am shot down in vanilla flames)
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RHP User
11 years ago
at the end of the day, parents should be the ones to tell their own children what they think is acceptable for them or not however i'm not a fan of religious beliefs and trying to turn kids into prude brainwashed zombies the only role school should be playing, is education, how to be safe, how things work, etc either way, there is sex in advertising, sex in music, sex in film/tv so its no suprise that kids at all sorts of ages are having thoughts about all sorts of things humans are curious creatures, but whatever they do, we should be teaching them how to treat others with respect, and to be accepting of others choices about their own sexuality kids will pick these ideas and opinions up at a young age from the home, thats where the standard needs to be set i dont have any kids of my own, but i do a lot of volunteering with kids for various things and despite whether im on here, or go to strip clubs, or whatever of a sexual nature, i can still be a good role model for them maybe being around all these things helps to some degree and yes i realise maybe my rant is a bit off topic, but still relevant since we are referring to young ages
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'passion8_l' Slut? Please tell me you were joking Not that I'm keen on women being called sluts even in jest. And particularly in the second case, you were an active participant as well so why is she the only one who gets called a slut? Poor form.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Best selling book of all time!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tam,not the context to call a woman a slut in imo....you just lost some friends with that one Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honestly not sure if it's sexual, strange curiosity, beginnings of kink. It's just the only description we could think of. Please understand it's not the easiest to describe. I will offer a couple of examples and let the rest decide. Asked his sister if he could smell her vagina. Asked his mother if she would sit on his face and fart. Asking mother if he can suck boobs. Consistently poos pants with only explanation that it feels good. There are others but this describes some that have truely made us scratch heads.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We say she is prude in jest and very gently, honestly she is great. We don't want to change her in any way. She is a surprising contrast in that she has an almost encyclopaedic understanding of many things well above her age and yet an amazing innocence in play. We say prude very lightly because she is the first to tell mum to put clothes on etc. we are open with nudity and want them to be comfortable in themselves but obviously we only do this to en extent that we think appropriate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That a lady got wet. I was really surprised when my first older boyfriend started playing with the lady garden. Ah, the days before the internet!
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RHP User
11 years ago
We do think we generally have a good balance of honesty, openness and protection. This is a genuine question that we as parents are struggling to answer. Totally unsure where these requests are coming from and are just wondering if others have come across this. Are they the early stages of sexual awareness ? Basically; is this normal of a little boy? I ask not to just jump on the attack band wagon. Read, understand. If you have genuine advice we appreciate it. If you don't have anything positive to say; don't say it. It's taken a bit to ask this question, we are also reaching out to child psych (ourselves, not him unless they say otherwise) I hope that you will honour this.
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP I appreciate that you have come here seeking answers/opinions to a valid if not unusual question It is not for me to say how you raise your kids, they are your kids and you are raising them in your household I imagine with great love and support. And I'll be honest I don't have kids so what would I know but I do know that his 7, his a little boy , so let him be a little boy while he still can be. Give him a Xbox, Ipad , let him play footy or lego. Just let him be and if you have concerns regarding his behaviour then it may be a good time to perhaps discuss seeing a child psychologist. These are just my thoughts. Nothing else. But what has concerned me, was Tamworth guys post. Twice you have referred to women as sluts. One, your own sister(I wonder how she would feel if she knew her brother spoke of her in such a derogatory term in a public forum ) another, a women of consenting age who you had consensual sex with even though you were underage and somehow she is a slut ?. Define slut ????? Am I a slut ? or any of the women on this site ? As other posters have said, very poor form and its thinking/comments like this that sadden me, in the knowledge that SOME men still take this view of a woman and then add insult to injury by adding LOL Not laughing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For ourselves we were very late bloomers into sex. We were each other's first at the late age of 20 & 21. However mr Madmanx has memories of sexual curiosity at about age 8 or 9. Mrs Madmanx remembers at a very young age feeling interest in both sexes and feeling ashamed of the girl girl attraction. Obviously these are basic sexual awakening rather than the things described but is that just because we don't have the same interests he may present later in life? I guess the age old question : nature verse nurture?
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RHP User
11 years ago
What sort of kink are we talking about? Some kids are simply more curious and have sexualised behaviours from a young age. I remember being quite young and building tent cities to "play in" with family friends, rubbing against the poles on the monkey bars, peeing in front of friends and I always fell asleep twiddling my clit. I was never exposed to innapropriate information, actions, visuals or abuse, it simply felt good or I was curious. (still does, still am ) Teaching protective behaviours and the where and when lessons are just as important, if not more important, than making sure they know the right terminology and the basics of sexuality. Good Luck, childrens sexuality can be confronting and concerning, but doesn't have to be a big issue, be careful not to shame your child, do some research or seek professional advice if you are worried about how to handle the situation.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I understand where you're coming from OP... However I gotta ask-what do you mean by "kink"?? What's one kink to one person may mean a different thing to another. Do you mean sexual kink or kink as in different likes and dislikes?? And another thing... A child at 7 talking about "kinks" and IF they are "sexual kinks", I would be asking some serious questions... As in; where is this child finding out about stuff if it's not you guys...I believe 7 is the start of a curios mind, they can be quite innocent and vulnerable. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
To me... It's someone who's very proud of their sexually and who's pro active if it...and if one calls another that; it means your jealous of their sexual drive/activities....Is that what you mean by that Tam? A little curious why you called those ladies "sluts"... *insert thinking man* Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey superfoxy. I did put some specific examples in one of my comments above. We are honestly not sure if this is early signs of future kink or what it is. As to where from? None of these things are anything we really do so pretty certain he has not been peaking around corners. We watch almost zero TV and there is never unsupervised internet access. Possibly from school? You know, friends with older siblings etc but we have queried teachers and nothing has been heard mention at school. We are not sure that it is necessarily sexual. But we are truely stumped as to the origins.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Sorry on a role here as my mind is curious.....OP- why do you call your daughter a prude for, if she's older and had the talk?? She chooses what she chooses...her choice how she wants to be. I have a daughter who is 18,and no way would I call her a "prude" because she chooses different kinks to me. She is her own person, and likes what she likes. I can't make her choose things I like. I love the fact tho I'm open with her. She may not like some things but we've talked about what choices are out there as in; swinging, open relationships, poly and different sexual kinks. It's up to her now, as long as she's happy and I'm happy that's all that matters to me. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Re the prude comment, trust me when I say there is no push for her to grow up. The one addressed to kinkoflamingo Hell from a fathers point of view I hope she maintains that for another ten yr! Lol Honestly I hope that my kids could have the same sexual path we have had, we started off much slower than most and grew slowly with each other. We have learnt and changed together, neither holding the other back. We have a great sex life but took much longer than most through the early stages which I think has helped us to be comfortable and open.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' Tam,not the context to call a woman a slut in imo....you just lost some friends with that one Q Oops came to warn you Tam that some women of this forum will now burn you at the stake for using the word slut. However, since I know you are a good person I will take the word as it was intended. Slut as in someone that is promiscuous. So I forgive you. Although I bet you were a dirty little slut too Tam.... aren't all boys really.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't have kids but sounds to me that he is just being a gross little boy saying dirty stuff. Normal enough for some I say! My nephew constantly refers to everything being in the butt! (He clearly takes after his aunty. hehe) My cousins little girl at 4 seems to have more sexual awareness (if I can call it that) than my 10 year old niece. What I am trying to say is that all people are different and I think yes, maybe some kinkiness and curiosity comes naturally to some people. It did for me. For example I started the dick club when I was in kindergarten and if people wanted to join they that had to show me their pink bits.... boys and girls. (God how embarrassed was I when someone brought that up at the 20 year school reunion. FFS!) I would just tell your son that no you don't do that with Mum, etc. And those things are private,,, or what ever parents are supposed to say. I wouldn't discuss kinks with him.... he will develop those naturally I would say. Just don't shame him, or say that is dirty or wrong. Well, I am sure you wouldn't have anyway. ------------------ As for people always picking up on one word and going on and on about it. Gawd it is bloody tiresome. Wish they would stop it. So what, some people are fucking prudish. Big deal, why does every word have to be given some negative meaning? My niece was telling me how rude Jesus was because he was naked on the cross. That is what she got out of the whole story. LMAO! Kids are kids and how they are now doesn't mean they will be the same when they are older.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes that's what I was looking for. I would suggest I never ran into this as a kid so a litte shocked when those comments came out and others in our circle didn't have answer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The idea if children being sexual beings is very uncomfortable and taboo, however I think it is natural for children to be curious, explorative and have sexual feelings. Some children's sexual awareness develops earlier than others - we are all different. I would not be overly concerned about your son's 'unusual' behaviour and comments. I remember playing very sexualised, somewhat 'kinky' role- play games with my friends as a young child. Meeka100, I related to your comment above... I started up a similar club called the RL club (Rudey Lovers club) with my best friend lol I work with children who have special needs and have observed quite a lot of self-exoloration and masturbation and even what might be described as 'kink' and 'fetish' behaviour in children as young as 4-5. I am in no way saying that children should be viewed as sexual or should be engaging in sex. I just recognise that as humans, our curiosity and discovery of our bodies begins and develops from a young age, and should not be viewed as abnormal. I agree with meeka's advice above... dont shame or chastise your son. Aknowledge his curiosity gently explain what is and isnt appropriate but don't make too much of a 'fuss' or give it undue attention.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have vanilla friends that range from the sleeping in separate rooms to the full I swingers that make me look vanilla. Everyone is different. Children are naturally curious. If you suspect some form of abuse then I would've worried but if your children are informed then let them make their own educated decisions. But remember they are just that Children. I was very aware of the ways of the world from a very young age the ways of society is the blame for that. Sometimes we think we are protecting our children by making them aware and informed and causing more harm than good. I am seeing 8 and 9 year olds acting like 13/14 year olds pretty scary Ms S - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok definately a little different , but i think as parents you have to now draw a line for your children a line that you determine taking in consideration , there age contex of the question , the facts regards to the line between what is write and what is maybe not wrong ! But just whats extreme at there age . I dont consider kink being shit in your pants it feels good !!! Fetish ! Sit on my face and fart !!! No !!!thats not kink , you put a boy in a class sitting on faces farting i assure you that aint fucking kink thats suspension !!! Mum can i suck your tits well no . I remember i stuck my tongue in my mums mouth when she give me a kiss good night ! And it was the last time i did that , so draw the line i think between sex education , kink , fetish , and consider certain requests from a child to be yes wrong . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I remember when i was about 8 or so this italian girl that lived in the unit above the TAB in werris creek where my mum worked .well i remember dry humping her in a cardboard box out the back we both had undies on but boy oh boy it was really weird when i look back but do you call it kink ? Or just curious kids ? Im not sure , but i remember every season the green truck would come in the back paddock with her old man at the wheel , her mother in the passenger seat her brother in the middle next to her and to this day i remember standing looking up through the window at this fiesty little italian girl waving franticly at me licking her lips . As i stand in fear piddle running down my leg thinking oh my god im fucking done for !!! FUCK MY LIFE !!!!! Mum mum there back!!! Aaasarrrgggghhhhh !!!!!!!!!!! Suppose nothings changed really Bahahahahahahaha ! Oh ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you also. As much as we like to think we always have a handle on things and have the right answers, sometimes things just don't fit what we believe and it's nice to know there are others that are just as outside the box.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I think I became sexually curious, and nothing bad ever happened to me folks; at age 6/7. Definately had fantasies about certain grown men in my life by age 10 and lost my virginity at 15 but didn't let anyone touch me for a year after that. I knew how to please my body young.....I'm not sure what that says about me but I think I was basically a happy, healthy "normal" child. Hmmmm have always been and was only told recently that I am a lustful woman (shrugs) I love love, sex, physical, emotional and intellectual intimacy is all a healthful and natural part of our make up. ~ Indy doesn't fuck (sometimes I do lol) but consumes every morsel of an encounter she values.
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Qefenta2' Tam,not the context to call a woman a slut in imo....you just lost some friends with that one Q Oops came to warn you Tam that some women of this forum will now burn you at the stake for using the word slut. However, since I know you are a good person I will take the word as it was intended. Slut as in someone that is promiscuous. So I forgive you. Although I bet you were a dirty little slut too Tam.... aren't all boys really. Thanks Meeks.. Tis why I love you ! Firstly I am probably a little different from the majority, yes I will and do take responsibility for what I say and do.....And I will continue to contribute honestly, without fear of political correctness, or being taken out of context ! ...No I didn't intend using the slut word as a derogatory statement, it all depends on our own personal interpretation of words, pretty much like a fair bit of the English language......also my sister has laughed at family gatherings and said she used to be slut, so there it is, it's not a bad word to us in that context, and if it means something else to someone else ?, I don't really have any control over that do I ? And yes Meeks, I was, and probably still am ! ......I can't speak for other guys, only assume lol Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
10 years ago
From what a lot of people are telling me I am starting to realise our little man is a lot more normal than I thought. Lol Which was the intent and what I hoped to find out. Thank you for sharing. They are still some strange requests and work will be done in teaching the fine line between being open and speaking freely to what is appropriate. We never want him thinking that sex is bad or dirty or to be ashamed of his body but need to balance that with time and place!
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's all about context....and women have been called sluts in a derogatory way for centuries....if a lover calls me a slut dending on our play,that is totally different.I do not object to the word just the context...and I am little sick and tired of the women bashing here when one expresses an opinion ...especially by other women Meeka ..Q
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'passion8_l' Slut? Please tell me you were joking Not that I'm keen on women being called sluts even in jest. And particularly in the second case, you were an active participant as well so why is she the only one who gets called a slut? Poor form. Agree...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Agree with Sukki. I have teenage boys and my parenting experience is very different so I can not make comments outside my experience. But like you, we address our sons' questions intelligently and with respect. We discuss world events, issues affecting our lives, friendships, schooling and separation between myself and my ex (many moons ago). All very open. I suppose you have raised your children in quite a sexually liberated household and good on you. To me, I see it that your son's questions are just an extension of his curiousity and nothing more. I would rather he openly ask that rather hide his curiousty. If it concerns you further, seeking professional help may be the way. . I wish you luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My apologies. I suppose I am not allowed to express my opinion. But I don't really care and I will not be shut down just because my opinion doesn't suit you. But the man bashing by some and the constant picking up of one word drives me batty and ruins the forum for me to be honest. I think some woman go ove board with the political correctness and you can't use this word and that word. What a hostile world some people live in, eh?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just because you are a woman doesn't make you right and doesn't mean I have to automatically back you up. I do resent that comment.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not your son...... When a child holds a playboy and says look at this ginger pussy, you are shocked, when you see the picture, it is a ginger cat........... What your son said, is a normal 'gross' stage that they all go through, when everything is farting, smelling etc, the request to smell the vagina is a simple playground discussion from a boy with an older sister (yes we have the older daughter and younger son and have had that) ......... Ok the pooing in the pants is going to need a special talk (after you've checked for worms)............... You keep your talks at a simple level, if they want more information, they will ask.......... Oh and when they hit their teens, mmmm the discussions get REALLY interesting.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just read what I posted and realised the beginning sounded harsh...... It wasn't meant to be, I was only trying to point out that you should change your perception when dealing with children....
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' To me... It's someone who's very proud of their sexually and who's pro active if it...and if one calls another that; it means your jealous of their sexual drive/activities....Is that what you mean by that Tam? A little curious why you called those ladies "sluts"... *insert thinking man* Foxy Yes Foxy To me, a slut is someone who is uninhibited sexually.....my best friends are women who are open minded, and sexually uninhibited, and I merely stated that my first proper sexual encounter was with a girl, who just fucked me for the hell of it...and that's it.......I'm certainly not a woman basher or hater ......I in fact worship woman, and have spent countless hours empowering women to be independent, confident , and worthy to themselves, and I will challenge any lady on here, or not on here to say that I have been disrespectful, rude, or judgmental to them at any time. Love and peace Tam
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Thank you for being open and honest and answering to my curiosity. :) You've just won a friend. I agree, you certainly are not a woman basher or hater, by all means I do read your posts, they are never rude or disrespectful to me. Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
My daughters were 4 and 2 when they learnt where they came from. Their mother was a midwife so they wanted to know where all these babies came from. A special cuddle didn't do it so we got the book "Where do I come from" Great!! From then on the baby sitter who was 70 had to read them the book about the peanut and the gina. Never to young to learn about sex but the kinky side is what they need to find out for themselves one day as they explore further.Did warn my girls though at a later stage that they were not to take being abused by any man.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
But I didn't discuss my curiosities with my family.....that would have been weird but society is different these days. Atleast your little man feels he can talk to you both about whatever flits through his head. Be delicate as Bigmumma said so you don't make him feel like he's done/doing something wrong. Keep it simple I guess. Cheers and good luck on your parenting journey. ~ Indy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I read what you have said about your son. Having worked a lot with kid of all ages, all I can say they are all very different. Boys go through the stage of touching their penis that is usually from 3 and sometimes doesn't stop until into their teen years. The "bum phase" where farts are funny and almost an obsession, is a normal phase. I know I was the 3rd son in my family and had seen playboys and other porn magazines that my older brothers had. I was a bit more aware in primary school than most of my mates; I started wanting at 10, I know that was younger my brothers and my mates. Your son becoming aware of himself and surroundings having started school .... smells, feelings, sensations.... perfectly normal. There are boundaries that need to be set..... a kid is breast fed and then that stops at some point - appropriately. He may have seen a baby or young child being breast fed, that could be a reason for asking you wife.... or he may have seen a picture in a magazine or something with mates. Regardless of the reason, it is important to set the boundaries. I would ask him why he asked that before correcting him. If he likes the feeling of poohing his pants, ask him why..... it may be something physical or psychological. Always ask him to tell you why he thinks or asks something, then you create the opportunity to discuss it with him and guide him if what he is saying/doing is inappropriate, it also creates the communication channels for him to talk about things. 25 years ago a mate was living at my place after a marriage break up. I remember saying to a mate's 4yr old son that it was OK to play with his penis, but that it should be done in his bedroom not in lounge. He got up and went to his room. He still says now in his late 20's that I was the one who told him it was OK to wank....... lol. It was just an opportunity taken to take something that all little boys do and just guide him as to where to do it.
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Naughty_nature
10 years ago
Tam have never read one of your posts before or spoken to you and your quite right the interpretation of a lot of words is quite subjective to the individual. And personally hate that word which gets applied to a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality where as if it was a man he'd be a stud and an object of envy at the local. Fully aware that's off track as to what we should be discussing he's seven and may have no real idea of what he's asking so stick with safe answers and try to find where hes getting his information from. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Kids have amazing imaginations. Likely just a phase. It will pass..Annexure(1).Slut - Woman with the morals of a Man.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seems the good old double standard is alive and well in Tamworth eh! A bloke spreads himself around and he's a stud or early starter, a girl does the same and she gets branded with the slut tag which some guys consider lasts forever! Just hope when your son comes out you don't label him a "poof"
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moreforyou69
10 years ago
Wow, what a topic! And it illustrates what a different world we live in these days. I'm not a parent, but I can appreciate the difficulty in raising little'uns these days. Personally I believe that childhood is a 'one time' deal, and kids should be allowed to be kids for as long as possible. That said, kids have easier access to the adult world than ever before, and they can't be cotton wooled every second of every day. I don't envy you OP, this situation demonstrates what a minefield being a responsible parent is in this day of Internet, 'soft porn'music videos, not so subtle drug and sex references in so called family shows. Tough gig, and the fact you even posted this speaks volumes for your will to get it right. Good luck :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seriously, what makes a girl a slut? Are you implying a female is a slut simply because she likes having sex? Look out ladies!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
This particular forum is about raising kids and a person uses a word (albeit offensive) and the forum goes completely off topic. Suggestion.... create a new forum topic and discuss it. This my rant.... it is the one thing that I fine frustrating with forums.
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Quoting 'Tungfun' Seems the good old double standard is alive and well in Tamworth eh! A bloke spreads himself around and he's a stud or early starter, a girl does the same and she gets branded with the slut tag which some guys consider lasts forever! Just hope when your son comes out you don't label him a "poof" Nope, no double standards with me, sure have a go at me for using the slut word, that's your prerogative, these are open forums, and people can interpret them however they like, if you would have taken the time to read my other replies, I have explained what I meant........I'm a bit curious why you brought up Homosexuality , and that you think I might call my son a poof though....? ..... my turn to make assumptions now....are you tying to collect brownie points, or doing a bit of trolling maybe ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
we agree with bradbi ,getting of topic ,But tam good luck with your attitude ,should get you plenty of action LOL......
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tamworthguy46
10 years ago
Quoting 'micknmaggie' we agree with bradbi ,getting of topic ,But tam good luck with your attitude ,should get you plenty of action LOL...... Cool mick, just so I can be clear on your views on being of topic, You don't actually comment on the original post, but you state that you don't like off topic debates , so haven't you just added to the off topic, and just thrown in some sarcasm that has nothing to do with the original post ?...every thing you said was off topic !
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RHP User
10 years ago
Far out! You are all bunch of sluts just for being on this site. Men are massive sluts..... or they would be if they had the chance.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When men or women call other women sluts, and they use it in a derogatory way, it's because they are jealous. They wish they were so at ease with themselves and free........... and for the men they just wish they had the opportunities. I know people that proudly call themselves sluts. Sluts as in a promiscuous person I believe that Tamworth, based on his past comments, did not mean the word slut in a bad way. He meant she was promiscuous.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cheers tam very good point,will go away now .But before i do ,i dont think you need to worry,madmanx kids are kids and pick up all sorts off input from freinds and school ,and they allways seem to find there way through the maze of growing up,good luck and dont stress.
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onepurpose2010
10 years ago
Kids are humans and humans are sexual beings ... which means, us, supposed adults who must educate and not abuse the growth of children in a normal sexual world ... tell the truth ... with words appropriate to their intellectual development ... do not pussy-foot around.
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RHP User
10 years ago
.... I stopped looking at it! To the people who have made responses, thank you very much. The number of people who have come across same/similar situations is very much a reassurance! I am starting to think maybe a phase, nothing of the same variety has come out for some time (apart from the expected obsession with farts and poos of course) but yes I guess we all have a bit of a freak out at times, wondering if we are being good parents. Lol Gotta say, girls are so much easier than boys! (Famous last words.... As we are just around the corner from teenage years....) But seriously, I asked for a serious response and at least for most I have received exactly what I hoped for and then some. I appreciate it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
..... Seriously! Get over yourselves! Grow up and take your whinging elsewhere. It's really not that big of a deal.... I even know someone that likes being called my little slut.... It wasn't said at anyone, he wasn't accusing. If you really have to carry on the topic, start it afresh!
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