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Sex Hair

March 11 2016

So I have quite a long thick mane of hair. And I know men often love women to have their hair down. I love dragging it across a mans body and feel sexy with it out. But if I'm performing oral, or on top and leaning down to have a kiss etc - it gets in the way and becomes part of the meal. So my question is - if a woman has long hair and you love it, do you prefer it out even though it might get in the way? Or would you prefer it up and out of the action? Ladies - are you more of a pony tail wearer in the bedroom, or does having you hair out give you sexual goddess status?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Long hair is one of the sexiest things - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'll use it to pull your head back so I can nibble on your neck ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I rock the mum bun or ponytail most of the time because it's less likely to be ripped out or decorated with food courtesy of the toddler. Completely understand the joy of having it down. And love some gentle hair pulling but it's sounds like I should add a hair elastic to my sexy wear! Stirry - yeh but if it's in a ponytail, you can just wind it around your wrist and pull 😉

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    Is not super long being just past my shoulders. But there is enough of it to smother someone and it has a crazy curl and kink so it is by no means smooth and sleek (and mockingly laughs at straighteners). I tend to make sure I have a hair tie handy and it goes up and down as the fun progresses. Definitely up when performing oral......men are visual creatures ;)

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    Lol that's such an easy out lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My ex loved the feeling of having her hair played with and I think that most woman do. We called it hair sex. When it comes to going down, I keep the hair controlled by giving hair sex. It is a win win with both parties getting stimulated at the same time. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But of all the thing's I've lost, I miss my mind the most !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice'when I go down on a guy I'll secure it with the elastic that's already around my wrist. (Thinking ahead!) I do the same thing if my hair isn't already up . It needs to be up when going down, spitting out a mouthful of hair every few seconds does not a sexy BJ make . In everyday life I have my hair up most of the time, it's just too hot up here to have it down much although during winter I wear it out a bit more. I do feel sexier with it out and often end up with it loose during play (I'm another one who likes my hair pulled particularly during doggy)...and I've also noticed that if I start out with it up or I've put it up for a BJ, the guy will often end up pulling the elastic out because they like how it looks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Well obviously it's short😳..but I do love,love it being pulled while you bite my neck 😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I do think longer hair is extremely sexy. Mine is in between, long enough to grab hold of, not so long it ever gets in the way, so user friendly lol but I think longer hair on women is sexy as fuck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ok fair point but when it comes to doggy - If it's tied up, you've got the whole lot in your hand and it gives you complete control 😉 I was worried about whether stopping to adjust the hair situation kills the mood so glad to hear others do the same.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    always down for me i have thin hair so i just push it to the side when going down tends not to get in the way too much plus i look super dorky with a pony tail

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    Multi tasking ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    But if it's down, I also wear a hair tie around my wrist or leave one on the bedside table. I also don't like my hair sticking to my back when I'm hot and sweaty from sex so I prefer it up. I know he prefers my hair up so he has easier access the back of my neck and shoulders to kiss and nibble on 😍 And hair in a ponytail does make it easier for grabbing from behind. Yeehaw! 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    Good point - the other night I had a full on (clears throat) and my hair was saturated with sweat. Hair ties have moved to top of my essentials list!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Up during the day My hair is down past my waist , but I'm fortunate that it's long enough to tuck it into a twist bun in less than 2 seconds which doesn't require a band, as it does get in the way of so many things . Nothing sexier than when a lover releases it though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I do like to be teased it is quite seductive what a woman can do with her hair and breasts over a guys body prior to going down, it can also create a sexy barrier where I can only see part of what she is doing.. It's also fun to play with and grab ;) But if we're trying to be incredibly seductive, it must be put up so you can see the whole show and look into her eyes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ...I've never had much hair on me...of my own, that is...so I don't mind running my fingers through someone else's long and straight stuff. It's something of a novelty....and workmates and strangers don't seem to appreciate when I do it to them. Strange... Long hair is great and I love the feel of it on my skin...and I'm quick to lend a hand to hold it out of the face when the moment calls for it.Considerate I am.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    than long hair flowing free, I like it down and with a bit of curl, not straightened

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'll have a handful either way ;) But I like to gather hair up in my hands, sneak in a gentle hand around your throat as I gather it together.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My throat??? Aren't you being a little presumptuous? 😉

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    I'd say a lot ;) But I figure the punishment, if I'm too far wrong, will be fitting ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    My hair doesn't reach my shoulders, so isn't much of a hindrance. But I have a couple of hair bands on my bed head, if required, but I prefer it out and all tousled. Love hair-messed kisses, and having to slow the moment down to move it out of mouths. Running your fingers through my hair puts me on tenterhooks - as does an appropriate grab and pull. Love looking like a bedraggled mess at the end of a session. Current lover has hair similar length as me, though curly. Love, love LOVE getting my fingers into it and pulling him about. He ends up with better bed hair then me though - grrr.

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    does it matter what colour the flogger is?

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    Hopefully, with some luck, its my favourite colour :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ImpressMeTemptMe

    ImpressMeTemptMe

    9 years ago

    I always have a hair tie on my wrist as yes, it does tend to get in the way. I love using my hair during foreplay to tickle and tease with. Grab a handful of hair, wrap it around his member and use that so there isn't too much friction whilst doing something else using my tongue elsewhere. Drives them crazy ;) ~MissT

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    I've been known to plait my hair in the middle of the action when a hair band magically disappears. Gotta manage the main, this stuff can suffocate a man! We really are very obsessed with hair, IMHO there are so many other more important factors to being a great lover.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I miss having Long curly locks. Never to be again. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    9 years ago

    I always have one on my wrist. I do like my hair out during play, because I love the feel of my lover's hands running through it, or twisting it for a bit of traction, but there are times when it just needs to be pulled back so I don't suffocate under it. It's quite long, and very thick, so sometimes a ponytail or plait is essential.

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    I put my hair up is when I'm home not expecting company, or if I'm about to give a blow job and he insists on lying down. Me personally I prefer a blow job with him standing and me kneeling so my hair can be down and used to control my head. I always have a hair band on my wrist and a brush in my bag. as that meme says that I've seen "when she puts her hair up shit just got real"

  • PatchworkGirl

    PatchworkGirl

    9 years ago

    That's my preference too, but often if he's laying down, I just can't resist. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My hair down as it usually compliments what im wearing. He can always hold my hair back :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    9 years ago

    I find if rope is involved and I'm being tied it's best to put my hair up. Nothing worse than having it in your face and you can't do anything about it or it getting pulled into the tie. best one was having it tied to an anal hook.... Why would I cut my hair 😊

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    Awww, I think much better when you hang your head over the edge of the bed, as they're standing. Hair can stay out, they get a view, easier for deep, then they can lean forward for a 69. Win, win, win, WIN

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Dear softandcurious, Happy to have you handcuff me to the bed and do some objective research until we prove which is better. ;) Rick

  • MrMechanic

    MrMechanic

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'CeeCee64' My hair down as it usually compliments what im wearing. He can always hold my hair back :) - Posted from rhpmobile Holding the hair back can be romantic. An ex GF I went out with for years told me she found it extremely romantic when I held her hair back while she was on her hands and knees vomiting in the front garden after a big night out we had to save her spewing on her knew hair do and color.

  • RHP

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    9 years ago

    Well aren't you cheeky? 😉 Be careful offering to be handcuffed by a total stranger......they might take the opportunity of performing unwanted research on you 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    That's half the excitement... Ready when you are (mwah!) Xx

  • its4u2

    its4u2

    9 years ago

    Guys really need to be proactive and hold the hair away from her face when she is doing you the favour of a BJ, it's only fair as she is already doing most of the work, a little assistance and encouragement for a B job well done.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    was the only way to describe my hair last night. Holy shit it was everywhere even when I tied it up But so worth it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mines really long and I twist it up and hold it with a clip. Doesn't stay that way for long usually. Most fellas just take it out and long enough to twist up into a knot if needs be. Amazing how many fellas like to spread it out over their chest and stomach. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I, like Summer S, always have a hair tie around my wrist - and although I dont have long hair (it is actually really short in the back) when I go to the hairdresser and they ask what I want I say "short in back but I want the front grabbable length" Must add though that I love it when I am giving head if a guy holds my hair back but resists the temptation to control my actions

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I love it when a man holds my hair back to see my face whilst I'm blowing him ;) But if done right, my hair gets ridiculously messy during sex 😆😜 If it's hot sweaty sex, my natural curls return and it really looks shocking! Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I love the feel of your nipples brushing against my body with your hair whispering all over. Not to mention looking up to see the sultry look of woman wanting to take charge. Oh.. Just felt some movement..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I get really turned on when a woman's bikini doesn't hide all her pubic hair.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    "So I have quite a long thick mane of hair" This sounds lovely! Keep it down, let it get in the way, thats part of the fun :) (having said that, I do not have a preference for long hair, short hair, shaven, hairy......its all good, its the person that counts)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Great for a little gentle hair pulling and love to rub my hands through a thick mane.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' I put my hair up is when I'm home not expecting company, or if I'm about to give a blow job and he insists on lying down. Me personally I prefer a blow job with him standing and me kneeling so my hair can be down and used to control my head. I always have a hair band on my wrist and a brush in my bag. as that meme says that I've seen "when she puts her hair up shit just got real" interesting, have never had a bj like that as have always been lying down......I made an assumption, incorrectly from what I now know that woman preferred guys lying down

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    I can't work out if you are talking about head hair or pubic hair 😎

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Quoting 'PepperRose' Awww, I think much better when you hang your head over the edge of the bed, as they're standing. Hair can stay out, they get a view, easier for deep, then they can lean forward for a 69. Win, win, win, WIN wow, he should be so lucky to have that

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    8 years ago

    You really must try it. The visual aspect alone is so worth it. Or hang my head off the edge of the bed with hair flowing free and have him fuck my mouth that way, it's great for really deep throat penetration

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' You really must try it. The visual aspect alone is so worth it. Or hang my head off the edge of the bed with hair flowing free and have him fuck my mouth that way, it's great for really deep throat penetration sounds very sensual.......and the thought of a mouth fuck like that is a very horny thought to say the least The visual component of sex is so important as to me it heightens the moment, which is why I love woman in lingerie. it hides just enough to want to explore but shows enough to make it incredibly sexy........doing what you described with someone wearing suspenders or fishnet bodystocking.....WOW

  • RHP

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    8 years ago

    Would it really matter? 😙 - Posted from rhpmobile