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Sex Toys Advice

November 24 2016

Hi everyone, my partner and i have been updating our sex toy collection in the past 2 months, and we have now included the following toys, all of which are made from medical grade silicone with the soft, satin textured finish on them. 1. Eternal Swan (for shallow penetration female to male anal pegging) 2. Je Joue DUA (mobile app operated female G-Spot/Clitoral stimulator) bought to replace her We-Vibe 4+ mainly for her to wear out away from home and wearing it around the house under her knickers, for a bit of fun. 3. Je Joue NUO (mobile app operated male anal prostate/perineum stimulator) for use at home and for wearing when going out and about with my partner while she is wearing her DUA. 4. fun factory Miss Bi (G-Spot/Clit rabbit type stimulator) for my partner to use at home or in bed for masturbation/self pleasure. We also bought one of those Mischief inflatable strapless strapon, intending to use it for deep female to male anal pegging, but it doesn't quite work the way it should, so we are looking for another option for this deeper penetration anal pegging. Here is the deal, i would like to purchase a fun factory Big Boss G5 vibrating dildo for my partners up coming birthday, but these are quite big, with the insertable shaft being about 16cm long, and about 4.5cm in diameter (5.5" round) and i have been advised by some not to give it to her if she is not used to having a big penis or a big penis style dildo inside her, rather to start with a smaller one and work her up to a bigger model. I can see the logic to this, but it could work out fairly expensive, so i was wondering if any of you wonderful ladies out there can tell me if my partner will be ok with this toy, and just let her try it on her own to get the feel for it, and hope that she can manage to get some enjoyment from it, especially as i was told that once she gets used to it, and can insert it properly, it is a great toy for A-Spot orgasms because of its length reaching the cervical wall. We have also been told to use an organin lube called YES Oil Based lube, which is supposed to be very good when using these big insertable toys made from this medical grade silicone. Any advice will be much appreciated, and btw, my partner is Asian, 158cm tall, size 10, and she has never had any other guy before (she was a virgin) and she has never (to my knowledge) used any dildo bigger than my own penis, which is a mere 13cm long erect, and a tadd over 3cm in diameter, just to give you an idea of what she has been used to, although it may or may not be relevant to my question about buying the G5 for her. Cheers everyone.

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RHP User

8 years ago

...that's near enough to a Tolstoy novel without pictures! There are only three possible answers as such yes, no, and maybe....show 'em if ya got 'em. Rock on always.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Not quite sure what you mean with your reply

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RHP User

8 years ago

but buying more toys isn't the answer, don't ask me to explain that, experience, I'd write a novel and I'm sure you don't want to read a post that long. I have a bullet vibe, gets me there everytime. With another human being, tongue, hands/fingers/cock/chemistry/intimacy etc no toys required, the human variety gets me there in under a minute usually lol but seriously, one partner only? There's your problem. We grow sexually from what we learn and the chemistry and heat/intensity of each encounter and the indivual/s involved. Are you doing any swinging or are you both considering that. No amount of toys will replace human interaction, and I don't care how unpopular that is. I know how easily i orgasm, and my bullet is bloody gold, but I'll take a variety of partners any day of the week over mechanical intervention. Just my thoughts, but short of opening a toy store, I think you're kind of missing the point a bit

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RHP User

8 years ago

why not try your hands and fingers? you should be able to gauge whether something 4.5cm in diameter will be an unpleasant stretch or not.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Does she like vaginal sensation over and above other ones, like clitorial or anal play? Does she enjoy or crave feeling full? Does she like the feeling of being stretched? These are questions for her, rather than people that don't know your partners pussy, preferences and desires. Rather than buying a toy blind, can you give her a voucher at the shop, so she can look instead? For pegging, a harness and dildo might be a better option. Just make sure the harness has either multiple O-rings, or an O-ring to fit your preferred dildo/s.

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Tall74nHard9

8 years ago

go along the same lines as I Touch. Why the collection of toys ? Having a body next to you is also imo a far better experience than any variety of other devices. If there is less than general satisfaction on the part of either of you, then perhaps the answer lies in getting some help in more 'adventurous' positions (if applicable), or perhaps as I Touch suggested, looking for extra people for satisfaction. Or is there something else that is maybe preventing you from having a more fulfilling sex life ? Tall

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RHP User

8 years ago

It sounds like your partner is some sort of toy practise station for you. Id get a bit fed up if my guy kept buying me the latest sex toys to try out. We use a toy now and again but it never beats the experience of human touch The thrill of my partners hands or tongue on me is much better than some silicone shapes. But.....each to their own, that old chestnut.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Veered off topic, just hope you enjoy the affections of your lady as well as using all the toys.

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RHP User

8 years ago

I personally don't understand some of the responses to be honest, but thanks to all those who did reply anyway, especially the guys, to which this topic was not even directed at anyway. Personally i think some of you are kind of missing the whole point to this topic, or didn't even read the bit where i was actually asking for opinions from the ladies (not the men) about the use of the new G5 toy that i want to buy my partner. Yes we have a lot of toys, but i am sorry but we know lots of couples who have more than we do, a lot more in some cases, and it has nothing to do with me using my partner as a sex toy testing machine, it just so happens that there are many times when i cannot perform certain things on my partner, sometimes i am not around when she wants me, and it isn't like she has no say about what we do or don't buy, and just as an FYI, the JeJoue NUO and Dua are wearable sex toys that we both wear out away from home, and we use a mobile phone App as the remote control to buzz each other for a bit of fun, or we can wear them while messing about at home, and my partner hasn't got a penis to peg me with, so we need a strapon for that, so i hope you understand just why we have what we have. The Miss Bi toy is for her to use to achieve dual spot orgasms, something she loves, and something i cannot give her, and she also loves A-Spot orgasms as well, but she has no toy now for her to gain this, so that was why i wanted to buy her the big G5. I just wanted to know what other women think about using a bigger toy than what they may have been used to. Cheers

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RHP User

8 years ago

I gotta agree....I don't understand some of the responses either.... But they've all got their own take on what you're asking... My take however, is simply life's a gamble....I have no idea really how well your missus is gonna take the G5. Suck it and see, buy it anyway and just give it a crack, you can always step down and keep the larger one for later if she doesn't cope that well.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

The miss didn't really enjoy the feeling of a vibe/dildo not does she really use her hands to play. bought the womaniser and it seems to provide just the right level of stimulation on the surface without having to insert anything. would suggest looking at it in store anyway as something else to consider - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks for the replies everyone, even if some replies had nothing to do with what i was asking. I only asked because a few women had previously told me that when they bought a bigger vibrating dildo like the Bi Boss G5 without having used one before, they used it for clitoral stimulation at first, and when their juices got flowing enough from that, they would gradually attempt vaginal insertion to see how well they could adapt to it, some said it was fine once they got used to it, and they claimed to have very nice A-Spot stimulation from it, others claimed they could only achieve shallow insertion because of the thickness of the toy made it a bit uncomfortable if they tried to go any further, hence they could not hit the A-Spot that others seem to be able to reach. I think i will just buy the G5 and give it to her for her birthday, leave it under the doona to find when she makes the bed, and she can have a play with it on her own, if she doesn't like it, i will keep it for later on, and i will just let her buy a smaller version to start with to get the A-Spot stimulation, and maybe she will move to the bigger G5 later on, that's if this is what she wants to do. Cheers everyone.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'Stirry'My take however, is simply life's a gamble....I have no idea really how well your missus is gonna take the G5. Suck it and see, I suppose that's one way to gauge the size of the toy, but I think just using your hand would be more acceptable to a toy store owner if you were asking to check the size before buying.

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