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Sex addiction.. Does it exist?
February 16 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes. I am an addict. I have been sex free for 13 days now. FARK, SOME BODY HELP ME PLEASE
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Addiction means a behaviour you cannot control, despite the negative effects it has on other areas in your life, like health, money, work and relationships (including family). Sex addiction, like other addictions, is serious issue, that many cannot manage themselves. If someone finds their sexual activities are effecting those parts of their lives I mentioned above (let me add personal safety to that list), it's time for them to change the behaviour, and if needed to seek professional help. Addictions are not to be taken lightly, as you cannot "just stop doing it", as too many people still think. (Source: working with addicts for 22 years.)
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
If addiction describes compulsively acted upon behaviours..... then I'm a bit worried because I have a VERY broad definition of what constitutes a sexual activity! I extend holding hands, lustful looks, knowing smiles, hair touching, massage etc as foreplay extended beyond the usual sexual realm. Sign me up as an addict lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Well, what's an addiction anyway?If a sex addict is a person who has perilous and pretty much unquantifiable, random sex without concern for the consequences to itself, friends and family, and to the detriment of the things that person ought be doing instead, like work, study, education, mowing the lawn, then yes... HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Defiantly an addiction , I have never done drugs but I have experienced the dulling effect of hard core porn and had to find more and more extreme sexual , activities to achieve arousal , when I realised and became self aware of the situation and try hard to bit allow my self into situations where I'm home alone with a computer and as yet to find partner or partners willing to go ! There ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'If addiction describes compulsively acted upon behaviours..... It doesn't. Unless that handholding affects your life in a negative way?
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RHP User
11 years ago
It negatively impacts other areas in my life. I am sitting here now ignoring the washing that needs to be hung out, the clean laundry that needs to be put away, the dishwasher needs unpacking, there is piles of washing up to be done, the bathroom needs cleaning, the list is endless. See I even gave forum a capital F... says it all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was wondering if there's a difference between physical addiction and psychological addiction and the way they are treated. Or is addiction simply addiction these days?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
When I'm holding a woman's hand....... we both have one free hand ;-) lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Addiction isn't all that funny to me, y'all.
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madotara69
11 years ago
The thing is, we have been addicted to sex for twenty years together, plus a few apart. So we're fucked, we know it and accept it, therefore we can manage it. Since joining this asylum, and bowing out from the fast lane for a time to some settling, we are closer and taking advantage of our sexual addiction. Why not grab it buy the horns and turn it into an angry beast submitting to life in the breeding paddocks. Until we get up and off next time round, soon it appears. Really quite fond of pistachio nuts, and spirulina. Mado Tara xx (addicted to loving each other, aim to fuck as often we can, we are naughty )
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wisard'I was wondering if there's a difference between physical addiction and psychological addiction and the way they are treated. Or is addiction simply addiction these days? There is certainly a difference and the way they are treated can be different, but don't have to be. And a psychological addiction can give just a many physical withdrawal symptoms (shaking, sweating, vomiting, etc.) as physical addiction. The mind is extremely powerful.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ways in which*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Cuckle_Shells' He is a clinical psychologist, researcher and author. This is the blur for his book. Despite claims to the contrary, sex addiction is not a medically or scientifically accepted diagnosis. Sex addiction is a belief system, supported by faith, conviction and religious principles, that represents an attack on sexuality. Labeling these behaviors as sex addiction asserts a false, dangerous myth that undermines personal responsibility. I vehemently disagree with the notion that sex addiction doesn't exist. But yes, a lot of sexual behaviours are blamed on it when they shouldn't be. Famous politician gets caught cheating on his wife? "Oh, it's because I have a disease, I couldn't help it, let me go to rehab for a bit". That's like being overweight because you're not eating and exercising right and blaming it on food addiction. Still, saying sex addiction a myth is bullshit in my humble opinion.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
any person/s can be addicted to sex...YES I believe sex can be an addiction. If it interferes with ones day to day living, reducing ones quality of life and changes ones behavior pattens where they have no control of it...for sure! Sex can become compulsive and obsessive. Denial is the biggest problem!! The people I feel empathy for are, partners/friends and family members. These are the people who need the support the most. It's a hard road, looooong emotional road. Foxy
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lovman8
11 years ago
Maybe it exists. It would seem to me to be one of the less destructive addictions. What are the "with drawl" symptons I wonder? Perhaps we should ask dacougarbitch. Is she walking around glass eyed and drooling, legs slightly spread, thighs glistening................????????
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I know what it is like to be with someone who has a very strong powerful addiction. I was a RESCUER, the more I rescued the more I enabled their behavior. The more enabled the more lies, the more deceit, the more ......EVERYTHING! The biggest challenge for me was to walk away. One of the most difficult things I have ever done. Broke my little heart! Foxy
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madotara69
11 years ago
It is Meander, and it is said we on average as a species mankind to date, are in touch with around 20% with usage of our minds. It's a big place in there, and truly amazing can be some of the configurations that appear from just thought process, and it's reasoning, Sure you would agree, the biggest hurdle with addictions, mind or matter, Identifying and accepting any addiction is needed before it can be addressed, in many cases managed the close to best solution. If one has an addiction, recognising it as what it is, then becomes moments to better learn and understand it's traits. Smoking cigarettes, does not hallucinate the mind, and a fair few smokers will die at a time where the smokes have worn down enough places with the immune system each their own. And there is some anti psychotic and depressant drugs on prescription, worse than heroin and it's addictive tentacles. Addictions have been here for a couple of hundred years, and they are here to stay, until science can turn off the reward function, but without the reward, we won't function any better than the addicts anyway. At least sex is a clean drug from the beginning. there is some nice drugs out about, there is some dirty suckers too. Tough job in the middle with it all. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8'It would seem to me to be one of the less destructive addictions. What are the "with drawl" symptons I wonder? Physically maybe, but it has much potential to ruin someone's life as alcoholism. (lovman, I mention some withdrawal symptoms above) Quoting 'madotara69'At least sex is a clean drug from the beginning. I said physically maybe. The maybe being people addicted to sex putting their addiction before their personal safety and physical health. Protection may go out the window, and the addicts expose themselves to STD's. Not to mention the fact they may end up alone with some dangerous people.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But not how it would seem. My addiction would be the next extreme. It can consume your mind in the planning and execution. Taking things to that next level is not an easy process. A willing partner is ever harder to find. Ide nearly be at the pinnacle of that triangle and that narrowing of kinky accomplices poses a huge problem.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sure does !!! Like anything that makes you feel good etc ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Cuckle_Shells' He is a clinical psychologist, researcher and author. This is the blur for his book. Despite claims to the contrary, sex addiction is not a medically or scientifically accepted diagnosis. Sex addiction is a belief system, supported by faith, conviction and religious principles, that represents an attack on sexuality. Labeling these behaviors as sex addiction asserts a false, dangerous myth that undermines personal responsibility. ...........................Still, saying sex addiction a myth is bullshit in my humble opinion. definitely agree with Meander. I'm not crazy on the term 'psychological addiction' vs physical addiction, your brain isn't just thoughts and magical ether. The way you think is the result of physical and chemical structure of your brain. I'll take my instruction on how the brain works from authoritative neuroscientists at dedicated brain research labs over psychologists. One looks at at the outputs of the black box and guesses at how it works, the others look inside the box to figure it out.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If only. My problem is not so much addiction but more preoccupation as I don't get it frequently enough. For me abstinence is not a choice but lack of opportunity and suitable partner/s. I guess if I weren't so damn fussy at times I would be rootin like a rabbit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
3 days free The Lion x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It may just be me, but does putting the word "addict" after sex, simply normalising and giving self justification to bad behaviours? Especially in the instances of those that risk their families and employment for a bit on the side....."oh boo hoo I'm a sex addict!" No darling you're just a cunt :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
There are two ideas running here. One is that proposed by an author who says it's an excuse for bad behaviour... You know, like they say about A.D.D, citing people behaving badly and that it impacts others... and the other argument concerns wreckless endangerment to one's own well being. These are potentially two different types of people involved here.... Arseholes who just don't give a shit... And arseholes who simply can't escape their compulsive obsessions. Clearly, there are also going to be a group of people who don't condone that behaviour from a moral platform of condemnation... And those who appreciate addictive behaviour as a disorder, regardless of the vice selected. I know what camp I belong to. Hugs Gazpacho
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madotara69
11 years ago
Meander, a lot of stuff, I listen with interest on the radio when it is quiet at work which means I listen to it a lot, The ABC For example, if this topic were to come to discussion, It's talk back radio, then someone in the field and experience will come to an interview and over an hour or two, maybe over a few days. The topic gets to all the nooks and crannies, Someone such as yourself would be sharing the answers and like an anchor talk back brings the public feel and mostly stories from folk dealing with the issue in their homes and family experiences, some opinions and some cold hard facts to that actual scenario Not so much a general overall it wont happen to me type of callers as they are screened , on topic stuff. So there is a whole bunch of ways to see things, the professional, experts or university professors leaders of the fields and on the cutting edge for the physical real time rules or answers, backed with some data of some type of library or configuration as factual it is to be. I know you are what I consider an expert in this field, and don't know of any one to these forums who would have the knowledge to this topic addiction being the big word insert. So I may be the fruit loop, but(for gazpacho and his treats) but, but (to his health and well being) and but I am not stupid to think anything I post would be challenged to your posts, so if it is not right what I said, no need to even the politenesses, a need for disagree, as you are not challenged, if it is wrong or misleading or simply a crock of nicely presented bullshit. Tear it apart and make it right or example of what not, I don't care to that, as I do to respect any benefit gained by what you know Meander, and how could I feel anything to in trouble or in for a smack or just a good shake from the naughty hand, when you look at me like that. See your eyes and im just oblivious to any thing in the surrounding environment, and that is where your girlfriends are so i'm sort of fucked to get up to any more mischief, so but I will more than likely go and play with Tara since I am in that naughty feeling of all you ladies and the look. But I will see if someone is rude to disrespect you eg the important stuff and I will speak of what I know to that. There is another view, the heart of the beast it is. Sex drugs and rock n roll spent a fair amount of time with some addicts who have not had their world fall apart and they I do believe acknowledge have a reasonable wealth of information to the danger points and have accepted the addiction as the preferred and isolated any potential flammability factors to the chosen addiction, and seem to have managed it all for years and peaceful family work and general day to day or country to country, state to state, the thing that seems to keep everything at a fast lifestyle, Gazpacho again for his honesty to speak out has dabbled to it his-self, The entertainment business, show bizz and Rock n Roll, is a world apart from general social studies, and has what even seeing and being well in amongst it all, the most remarkable network of support, active and the mail travels quicker than AUS post. There is fall outs, yet mostly due to newbies thinking they know how to direct or act for or just plain selfish for the Hollywood spotlight they wish to be seen as. More damage than addictions in that place only. 80% of the hit songs from the leading performers have been written and interpreted to the story and feel the music is created has been theorised on the state of mind Heroin takes to. Cocaine just the coffee and only thing the best part of the world has used to keep up to the demand these people are required to maintain, money is big and big business has it's wings over the whole lot, musos generally are not the logical money managers, so they just throw it up in the air, so to speak, there is always some somewhere if any happen to need a bit or lot, rarely is any one sick, doesn't seem to grab hold, if it does it takes them quick. The bit that would be straight out frowned at (the drugs violent and disgusting killers of society) is at the highest end with usage and addiction right at the top of all us. The MAN can afford and manage and give the invisible cloak. What the general bottom end of the population see as drug effected pockets in suburbia is hardly a pimple on an elephants bum. but I would not have any part of this expected to enter your professional system of the publics caretakers, different completely and irrelevant , I would imagine, no fact, no perception for the workings to it all such to the professional methods your associates have developed. Just some truths. Shy could probably edit this into a lot fewer words. End of riff, off to play with Bigocean if he is up to it. Thanks Meander, feels good to get it out throw it into the wind
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RHP User
11 years ago
Anything that people turn to, in order to help relieve emotional stress, can become the focus of an addiction. Anything that activates the neurochemical / neurotransmitter reward pathways in the brain can become the focus of an addiction. The problem is that addiction is not well understood by the majority of people. There is still the pervasive notion that only 'weak' or 'morally compromised' people become addicts, and that it is easy to stop the behaviour as long as you want to stop. Both of these ideas are very, very wrong because addiction is so much more complex than that. "When referring to any kind of addiction, it is important to recognize that its cause is not simply a search for pleasure and that addiction has nothing to do with one's morality or strength of character." (Psychology Today)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Addiction isn't all that funny to me, y'all. I work in the same field as you at times. Its a reality for many people, and can ruin lives. Any thing you do that impacts in a negative way, that you want more than anything despite it costing you money, family, friends and it eats your time. How may of you have sat here, when you could be reading a book, cooking, cleaning your house or even being at work. I am at home and could be reading a book, or doing some work yet I sit here and feel the urge to open my yap on any topic that comes up. That's not healthy. when I was meeting men the sex drive was through the roof and I was wanting more and more sex, and with more and more people. The obvious risk in that is STD, and being hurt by someone both physical and mental. Everyone on here takes risk, by meeting strangers for sex, especially women.you invite strange men into your house and into your body, some even do it with kids in the home. Not only are you then putting your kids at risk, your over riding your parent responsibility with your own short lived pleasure. we can be addicted to anything and many of us are functioning addicts. we cant get enough of RHP yet we go about our lives and do the things we have to do but cant wait to get on and check out the RHP life. if you want to test this theory then get of RHP for a month or two and do not read the forums in all that time.I did it but then I wanted to come back as I need my fix. I can say oh I came back to organise a meeting or what ever lame excuse you give to yourself for being here and wasting time. its mind numbing stuff but it gives you an ego boost, your all of a sudden some cartoon of yourself. Your getting hot young men that would probably offer to help you across the road if they met you offline. Your over weight, unattractive and yet men worship at your feet. your a guy that is a player but its to hard to go to the bar and you might have to just pay for a drink so this merry go round of stray pussy is pretty darn easy and addictive as hell and pretty soon you cant have intimate sex as it does not float your boat like this porn sex with strangers. if your here, if your always reading the forums and posting, if your fucking a bunch of women or men that you cant connect with and its like a MacDonald's meal and on to the next then your an addict.if you do this and your marriage is at risk including loosing the kids, and yes DOCS does use sites like this to show your a shit parent, then your and addict. DG nothing to laugh about it here, as your a prime example
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you want to see how drugs affect the bottom feeders, then work for Centrelink, and social welfare, and drug centres and then the jails. Oh how the mighty fall and drag everything they love with them, and they start of with its just a little recreational thing, I can keep in in control. fast forward to a woman who had a nice home, nice kids nice husband to one sitting across from me looking twenty years older and its been six months and picking at the hole in her once lovely face the size of rim of a tea cup. yes there are functioning addicts, my friend functioned very well in her million dollar house, and her pubs and her trips around the world , she functioned very well till she tripped down the stairs in her drunken state and lay there for three days without anyone knowing, found swollen and unrecognisable by her x husband and children who had long since given up. there she was rolling it it, just having a little sips darlllllll ing, still working, still driving( despite the loss of her licence with drunk driving offences} Leaving a bitter pill for her sons, who will know that that once vibrant and lovely women let drink and drugs over ride her. like a pale horse called death, to steal their futures and the grandchildren she never saw. Yes us poor old social workers and medical professions have to see the addicts take up the valued space in emergency at the hospitals and jails , and trying to doctor shop for scripts, My brother and friend is a doctor and they get mighty sick of it. there was a time in every addicts life, when they were just recreational uses and yep they could handle ityou know? all part of the great rock and roll thing.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Well said! I agree.. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51'There are two ideas running here. One is that proposed by an author who says it's an excuse for bad behaviour... You know, like they say about A.D.D, citing people behaving badly and that it impacts others... and the other argument concerns wreckless endangerment to one's own well being. These are potentially two different types of people involved here.... Arseholes who just don't give a shit... And arseholes who simply can't escape their compulsive obsessions. Glad you brought up ADD, that's another good example. It's those people who blame their bad behaviour and choices on a condition they have no control over (and therefore bear no responsibility, nor have a desire to change), that ruin it for all of those that are suffering from real addiction, disease, chemical imbalances, etc. How many times do we hear someone say "Oh, I'm so depressed" on Monday, only to be happy again on Tuesday? Those suffering from actual clinical depression (and bipolar disorder) struggle to be taken seriously as a result. I think the same is very much true for sexual addiction. The term is so overused by those not suffering from it, it's very much a "Boy who cried wolf" saga. And of course for many sex is both a funny and embarrassing subject to discuss in public. Say you're "Addicted to sex" in a group of people and you'll hear a few of them snigger. The fact that several posters joked about the subject only emphasises this. Just my 2cts.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Never said bottom feeders, at the bottom of it all, and the rock n roll is just the engine for the the where it is all at, the ones up there running the country, how do you class their addictions, drugs just a part of it. and drugs alone don't cause the problems, the ones driving them down are. sex is a different world again where no such thing as poverty or centre link. I was praising our professionals for putting together what ever they can, with fuck all support from the powers above drip feeding the cure for the sickness sent down. How can people like you and Meander, Foxy perhaps. a billion dollars might see you make some real break through in some communities, drugs kill the pain of poverty, got nothing better even interesting than addictions, rock n roll has done more good than bad and many people managed their addictions better than your friends, drug and alcohol in the prisons, a joke. If your drug of choice is pot, only smoke pot If your drug of chioce is amphetamines only take amphetamines If you are an alcoholic and invited to a party on Friday night, don't think about the party until Thursday night, save temptation. Run every young bloke who gets locked up with the older crooks allegedly, through the clinic first and sign them up to anti depressant drugs that fuck people up worse of all, and those kids coming down from the medication, had them all fucked up in a corner of a cell for weeks, good Dr gets the big bucks for treating the violent unsafe unstable patients. invoice a big feller out to carry the high dose and still walk the yard all day, top dollar few of those walking the dose in each yard. if they don't drop, they can carry it week after week. 100 000 a year times 4 or 6 yards call it half a million just the top invoice. all the way down to the kids, but they are worth saving, so the shit is taken from them and they are to be beaten if they take it up.( they believe they will get beaten) problem solved.The scum of the earth have saved thousands of kids from that shit, and I may have just fucked it all up. but I am a fruit loop, who would believe it. Someone puts 15 - 20 years into care for addiction. what are they given or what is the allowance to make an appearance from up above? them selves is about the only reliable tool, everything else is the tolerance. A bucket of water to put out a burning building. So these people giving their life career to the nieghbours family and some family over there they would never meet, and them they need help thm too and all those there are homeless only do so much for them? hands tied, but some how these people themselves make a difference and that difference is the fuck you to the MAN The kids and the parents then the rock n roll cops it. Take it away from all of them. nothing in the suburbia guard the borders. Suburbia will be re distributed and topped up within a week. Their is only a few men maybe a lady running the show, top 1% of the population owns 50-60-80% of the lot Still these people get out of bed and go help as many they can. Could go up near the top, smart enough, professional, could earn in a week what they earn in a year, they still network each other and help who they can. centre link process the bits and pieces as they wander in. The staff may just do a little above and beyond their pay rate allows. They work it out in the lunch rooms or where they work it out, not with the boss. The Rock n Roll life is a good life and the rock n roll stars are not selling drugs to your kids and centre link traffic, Angry Anderson has spent his life looking out for kids in troubles and his house is full hardly move with stuff donated to help him do his thing. I spent ten years, going from house to house and fixing problems from people ringing people to tell the right people someone needs some help, into the city each morning and the phone would ring and we were off in that direction and never stops ringing. Met and sat with the musicians on the record covers in top 10 each week, With one of the best person I have ever cme close to knowing and he is the best in the world to his part in the music game and we drive from house to house and people welcome with open arms and don't want him to leave. He owns fuck all really, gives most away. So don't go blaming them, they do their bit too. Never met a junky amongst them, beautiful people with worldly stories names to fame and doing it tough because the give it all away to anyone who needs it. Drugs and sex find a few songs then withdrawals and never look back and Cocain does not grow here the rock n roll are to busy looking after each other because musicians are nice friendly people no grip to logical lifestyles. The wrong people are being frowned at for these addictive habits, and go back a few years you are all part of the problem, can you recognise your addictions of choice, everyone is addicted to one thing or another in this system and society. Communities all carers, worked better. Dreamtime it is Meander, riffing is something else
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RHP User
11 years ago
But, I think the title gets thrown around too often when not justified.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm a bit confused about why you brought rock'n'roll into this, but thanks for the kind words.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Totally agree with everything you have said. I think one of the issues is lack of education and awareness of a lot of addictions and depression, and any disorders. It is hard to understand when you have never experienced it I think. I was on a medication a few years ago that put me into a severe depression. I wasn't eating, I cried numerous times a day, every day for two months. Even at work, I had to sneak to the women's toilets a few times a day because I was crying at my desk. The older men in the office where even pulling me aside and asking me if I was okay, I felt like I would never smile again. But because I had never experienced anything like that before I unfortunatley didn't relaise I was having one of the side effects of the medication. So, I now know and can appreciate that you can't just snap out of it. Obviously, lucky for me it was a side effect that went away as soon as I stopped taking the drug. Fingers crossed I never experience anything like that again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I would especially like to say, there are so many people who hide behind addiction as an excuse for bad behaviours. ADD/ADHD is a perfect example, my cousin supposedly had ADD, when in truth, his parents were lazy assholes who couldn't be bothered to discipline their kids. And as meander mentioned, a politician, actor or any other public figure gets caught with their pants down and their publicists cites addiction, when in reality, they got caught out rooting around. And because of this, the genuine addicts are scorned because of misuse of the "addict" tag.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have no idea what your talking about. I think people in the music industry have nothing to do with drugs, no more than a fireman or doctor. It gets to everybody in all walks of life. So it went right over my head what you were going on about. A few of us here work on the coal face of addiction, so naturally we may have a different point of view as we are following the elephant picking up the shit with a very small dustpan and broom.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No doubt it exists, but not everyone who engages in a lot of sex is a sex addict. I like sex, as do probably most people on here, but it does not own my life. I'm still able to function if I don't get it for a while. I may get with a few people from time to time and the may go a while where I don't get it. The desire is there, but I not at in the position where I am obsessed with where does my next encounter come or driven to masterbate 50 times a day. Sadly there are people are and simple must gain the release from the conquest of the chase or the sexual gratification its-self. Those people are addicts in my opinion. I also like a drink, but may go for a while where I don't have one and don't particularly want one; I may then have a weekend where I spend most of it pissed - that doesn't make me an alcoholic. However when pissed I may do something I regret.... In this case I made a stupid decision that had an adverse effect on my life. For the Alcoholic the addiction meant that he/she need to drink to cope with life. I had a choice, the alcoholic didn't. As with not every person who is pissed is an alcoholic, not every person cheats on there partner is a sex addict.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im one - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ohh hell yeah I think I'll die if I don't have anything for a week I love sex and yes I'm addicted - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do some research on addiction and you will find that the answer is yes. It depends on will-power, personality types and how your brain functions. However I do believe there are those who hide behind the term addiction to escape personal blame.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Play back on the beat and it's Blues, play tight on the beat and it's Rock n Roll. Back on the beat is what makes a song sad, tight on the beat, same story you might want to dance. (Dr Dr, Give me the news, Got a bad case of loving you), to say (Nothing Compares to You). Meander, because it's all in the songs too, rock n roll or the blues. Nothing sexier than a woman free and letting herself go, something she feels right in and in dance gives us boys a show. Of course we can become addicted to sex, it's addictive. Some people need a piece of paper to have a stamp, all just to cover the prostitute's bills. Others to justify cheating on the wife, couldn't help it, see the Dr tells you,read this, it's not my fault it's you, but you had to know so here then, Read It And Weep. I's all powerfull stuff, and I Am Addicted to Love, Don't need power, don't need fame, or a credit card, if it's all the same. Rock n roll ain't simple plain English, and it has many examples for the question on topic. Some, it's odd that a Woman is a Woman and can't be owned, so they can get addicted to searching for that sort of sex that those sort of women have shown, but they can't find it, try to buy it. Don't think it's the addiction that is the ruins, maybe the stories that are to them. Damn this silly communication break down, it's all so interesting and so much to say. Mado, Lady T xx ( but you can call me anything you like, You're Rock n Roll in this RHP forums life) Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is a bullshit construct of an overly feminised set of beliefs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a human like dolphins we are the only mammals that have sex for pleasure. Males have a certain degree of biological imperative to spread their seed (despite the advent of condoms) as do women with their child bearing 'biological clock'. Bertina Arndt (is that correct) also says that the recognised higher sex drive of males is not exclusive to men (I want to meet one of those 'juicy tomatoes'). But the subject here is not about normal sexual behaviours and desires, which here on RHP encompasses a lot. It is about addiction, that is compulsive, relationship destroying and overwhelmingly mind encompassing behaviour that you CAN NOT control (at least on your own). Luckdragon, Meander and Lady Tuscan, my hat of to you all. Very good points and an in sighted view, from the sounds of it from personal experience of your own or a least with people you cared about. Gazpacho - just keep stiring. You get people responding even if it may be due to moral outrage.. That is what this site is about, freedom of opinion and all diversities of life. For those guys that responded that were an addict, how many of you also claim to be a lesbian reborn and then keep your hand up if despite your profile says looking for women only you have sex with men too? For those women that responded that they were an addict except for their high standards, what BS. Addiction does not have standards. A gambling addict would have a bet for the shirt of his/her back at which piece of pickle will be the first to fall off the window at Hungry Jacks. For those who can accept their shadow or believe they have a problem, help is out there.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Forgive my goof, I was passionately typing. The "Subject" is serious and can devastating impacts on families.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can not get enough sex and I think about every waking moment. I confess I am a addict please help me ladies. I need to break this cruel cruel cycle of wanting sex and more sex.....................
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is only one cure. Sex saturation. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have this problem. It is very real. I can never get enough...it has ruined my life. No sooner have I had sex I am looking for more... :-( - Posted from rhpmobile
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