M65

Sex and People Over 60

January 11 2022

Ok, I've been wondering about this so thought I should put the topic out there. Of course everyone is totally free in their preferences and should not be judged at all for them. I'm curious though about age preferences, especially of women for men and how this relates to older men. Of course, some people express no particular preferences. But for those that do have preferences, there are some common upper age limits, e.g. of 55 or 59. Of course, a lot of people prefer people in ages similar to themselves. Since there seem to be less older people in general, this means that there are less older women, hence less to prefer older men as being of a similar age. Although older women most often seem to prefer younger men, and men in general are often more broad in age preferences. Maybe this is an observation bias on my part though, since I don't spend a lot of time looking at profiles of men looking for womer, since I'm not a woman - very happy for older women to comment on their experiences with this!!! I don't have very strong preconceptions about age and have had lovers across a broad range of age differences, so having very specific age preferences is something that I don't relate to really strongly. I can imagine some people thinking 'yuck, too old'. Which is fair enough if that's how it is. I can think of a bunch of reasons why older men are not on the radar for a lot of people, but would be interested to hear what others think, and if it's based upon real experiences, or expectations, the judgements of peers, or ... ?

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Lively

3 years ago

Interesting, 60 does sound like a barrier for no particular reason. My desirable age range seems to evolve in congruence with my own ageing. Presumably there's a natural attraction and more opportunity with those similarly aged, but I'd find an effervescent lady in her 60s attractive provided we were similarly energetic. I'll update my 'looking for' age range 👍

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RHP User

3 years ago

Thanks for asking cruzyBear, I'll be watching this with interest. It's clearly obvious that the older male is not the hottest item on the shelf.

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Cucknshells

3 years ago

My age range is 40 to 65 and this changes as I myself get older. I think I am more discriminatory towards younger people than older. I prefer to meet with someone with similar life experiences to myself. But then when I have been looking I have wanted a mental connection as well as a physical connection which I have found more so with people around my own age. Both older and younger people have preconceived stereotypes associated to them which can influence what people are looking for. I have no interest in being with someone the same age range as my child. I just feel like I don't have much in common sexually with younger people and it doesn't really turn me on to be with someone that may look at me as a mother figure. Now of course this is my own preference. At the end of the day it really is just an individual preference. Everyone is different and likes different things. Shells xx

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Kokoflamingo

3 years ago

I prefer men younger than myself because they are still vibrant and enjoying life. All apart from one or two, older men I have met have no interest in socialising or going out and enjoying themselves Im not a stay in with a movie person....yet! Im going to a dress up event this weekend. I still feel a lot younger than I am and younger lovers suit me. I see you have 18 to 70 on your preferences so much younger isnt an issue for you. We all like what we like......if someone thinks its odd then thats their problem. I have found older men attractive but there has been no chemistry.

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RHP User

3 years ago

I have only been attracted to a few years younger to about 10 years older. Can't help what you like, but as with anything the responses you are going to get will be completely varied because everyone is different. But, the older men get the less 'age is a barrier' 😂

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FeistyFatty

3 years ago

My age range is 25-45. And I'm very pedantic about that. I find men 45 and under more visually appealing and just generally more stimulating mentally. I have played with men over 50 before and never had an enjoyable experience. Found myself thinking I was in the company of my own father (61) and the sex was relatively stale and passive for my liking. I like vigorous, physical sex..... men with some "throwdown" lol. The over 50s I'd been with were too passive, erotic, sensual (almost old fashioned) and lacking the stamina and vibrancy that I prefer in a playmate. Dont get me wrong, I love passionate, sensual sex (massages, cuddles etc etc) but not with my playmates. Just my experience of course👍

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Mrs_Deep_Love

3 years ago

I am very physically attracted to older men, especially successful, accomplished older men. My personal experience is that many I have come in contact with have been arrogant. Difficult though, I am attracted to success but dislike arrogance. Can you tell I'm fussy?🤣

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countrytouch82

3 years ago

A lot of profiles are here with age ranges up to 99. Just saying :p (Some people live older than that, it's a shame they are excluded...)

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couplecourious

3 years ago

I think to a large degree, age is a state of mind, and you can't know how old someone is just by a number. I hope when I approach 60 I m still fit and lively enough to not be totally rule out by anyone substantially younger

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RHP User

3 years ago

Wish I was more attracted to men my age or older. Just a past traumatic experience by a older man I once respected has ruined the way I perceive older men. Besides they behave just as badly on here as the younger ones. Wake up and realise being spoken to like your a free uber pussy is a bloody disgrace. Where are the respectful men?

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YouTarzanMeJane

3 years ago

My two cents... If I see a profile with interest in 18-99 I figure they'll have a crack at anything with a heartbeat... Kind of a turn off. I used to have a higher age limit but then met (or chatted to) so many men that were knocking 5-10+ years off their actual age, that I've now reduced the age parameters to allow for the white lies. I wouldn't dismiss someone based purely on their age (unless too young) ... It's their attitude and presentation that I'm interested in.

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RHP User

3 years ago

I’ve had a couple of experiences with men 10-15 years older than me and found they just don’t have the stamina to keep up with me.

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Sawadee

3 years ago

After reading some of these responses , it made me realise how fortunate i am. Im one of those who look at the person first and if l like them and we click ' well and good . Doesnt matter if they are younger or older .. All my adult life i was attracted to ' or attracted younger females than myself , although still true ' lve also met some very sexy older women who still have plenty to offer... Personally ' l think too many get too fussy and set standards that are totally unreasonable.. Lighten up and look around you .. You could be pleasantly surprised...

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Fantasy80

3 years ago

The oldest woman I have slept with before was 68. She was also the best woman I have encountered in the bedroom too

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angelina00U

3 years ago

Love the older guy - he enjoys n relishes a younger pussy - yum

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T_roy

3 years ago

I have always been attracted too women older and I have always been interested in ages up too 65. Attracted physically and mentally is important for me .

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RHP User

3 years ago

I’m 36, my ex is 57, our sex was otherworldly to me! His mind and words and hands and tongue and patience and experience and playfulness and tease are the reasons I enjoy anal and rimming and fisting and squirting. And also, he had the snip which meant I didn’t need to take or wear any form of birth control - so when all the above plus zero hormone interference is combined, it made for wild, uninhibited and amazing sex. And not once, in our conversations about the world, the arts, music, history, social issues or just the random thoughts to occur to me in my day or his did we ever think our age difference was a hindrance.

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SherpaWarrior

3 years ago

When it comes to gay sex I prefer mature/older men because of 1. Less drama 2. Know exactly what they doing on bed 3. Know the meaning of NSA

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RHP User

3 years ago

I'm a 59 yr old male. I'm nothing flash or special, and I'm big and cuddly. I tend to find my age a bit of a barrier, and the fact I look like a big Grizzly Bear. I wish sometimes that someone would take a chance and give me a go as the result might be surprising. Especially in NSA situation. I'm a little old school, and believe if I want to be pleased, then I need to please who I'm with. And what I lack in some areas, I make up for in others. Alot take looks over age and experience, but There is alot of good tunes played on an old guitar.

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RHP User

3 years ago

I meet a couple who were in their 60s end they played hard all night long then again in the morning. They have a fantastic sex drive. Age is definitely not a barrier. Ever......

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