Sex parties, Sydney

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  RedHeaven events are not sex parties. So I would take all your mates along, guaranteed fun. :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Unfortunately with sex parties you just have to go and check it out for yourself. I have gone to parties that have been highly recommended and have been very disappointed,some parties may have you running out of the room screaming......... everyone's idea of what it should be like is different. Every night is different too. It's something you have to go and assess for yourself. For the parties that allow single men I think you will find loads of single men there, and most guys seem to come on their own so you would fit right in. I have found at the few sex parties I have been too it is usually an older crowd, not many people in their early 20's. Except for Couples Club on Angel & Demon night.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Slicks.... the events are NOT sex parties...... so... theres a mindset you need to shake. Think more along the lines of a mardi gras dance party with performances by dancers, artists etc, with guests wearing anything from themed costumes, to not a lot of themed costume. Any uwelcomed pervy lecherous attitudes and behaviour are poorly received. We're all adults. Just because many of us are we're wearing the same amount of clothing you'd typically see on a beach, it doesnt mean the expectation of normal respectful attitudes dont apply. SO.... apply for tickets to the next event... go for a meet, greet and people watch.You might ike itYou might not. DG

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Good point, uh, let me rephrase it - I'm not after actual sex parties. Although that would be quite the spectacle - I am more into parties along the same theme as what redheaven, hotkandi.So parties where sex is the main theme and like-minded people attend, to have fun and socialize. The single male part isn't a problem - fortunately a lot of my friends are really excited to attend one of these with me.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I was thinking of going to the NYE party hotkandi are holding. And unfortunately I am away for the next couple weeks, so can't attend redheaven. Otherwise I would have definitely tested the waters.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Slicks.... the events are NOT sex parties...... so... theres a mindset you need to shake. Think more along the lines of a mardi gras dance party with performances by dancers, artists etc, with guests wearing anything from themed costumes, to not a lot of themed costume. Any uwelcomed pervy lecherous attitudes and behaviour are poorly received. We're all adults. Just because many of us are we're wearing the same amount of clothing you'd typically see on a beach, it doesnt mean the expectation of normal respectful attitudes dont apply. SO.... apply for tickets to the next event... go for a meet, greet and people watch.You might ike itYou might not. DG Yeh don't worry, I have done my research - I know what these parties are about haha. And I'm more of the introvert when comes to the perv factor! Probably should have phrased it differently Anyway I am after opinions of people who have gone to some of these - and what the general consensus is on people who have been. I 100% just want to party with my socks off and meet new open-minded people.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Slicx.... You said you've done your research, said you have friends eager to go, and that you want to meet open minded people. It also still sounds to me like you're titilated by the idea of what "might" go on. I've attended a few. This is where I say..... man the fuck up and just go! Don't rely on others to make YOUR mind up, when it's obvious you want to see for yourself. What they're not, is a fantasy free for all fuckfest. Man up! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  The guy's 24 and he's asking for other people's opinion. He says he wants to go and he probably will go. He doesn't need you doing your "man up" bullshit at him. I know at 24 I wouldn't have had the confidence to go somewhere like that on my own. And stop making ASSumptions about his motivations and intentions.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  He's gotten mine. Plus the bonus plan :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Slicx.... You said you've done your research, said you have friends eager to go, and that you want to meet open minded people. It also still sounds to me like you're titilated by the idea of what "might" go on. I've attended a few. This is where I say..... man the fuck up and just go! Don't rely on others to make YOUR mind up, when it's obvious you want to see for yourself. What they're not, is a fantasy free for all fuckfest. Man up! - Posted from rhpmobile huh? I thought I made it clear I was aware it wasn't a fantasy fuckfest... I think you are completely misinterpreting what I have said. I have experience with the scene and I am not an idiot... Like seriously man, I don't need to man up, fyi - I have tickets already to the nye event. And was planning on going despite the input of RHP users. But that's the point, I wanted input, not some spiel on manning up. Which is quite passive aggressive on your behalf I might add. My idea of what might go on - is not really a concern to me. I couldn't give two fucks what goes on. I am there to socialize, and talk to people (as I said previously) - but to put in a more obvious context... I am not going with the intention to pick up nor have sex with anyone. I don't need to do that, nor does that interest me because - sex isn't like that for me. And the relationships I have gained from RHP and outside lay testament to that. But this thread shouldn't be that complicated, nor should it be about me. It is simply about peoples inputs on these parties, as I am interested in how people have enjoyed themselves, what type of people attend. Also try not to be so condescending and ignorant. I am 24 - but so what? And why should I feel the need to defend myself of my motifs. This thread isn't about that, and it has been made clear that my motifs are not about sex, but sexuality, openness and meeting like-minded people in a fun, exciting environment. I am seriously restraining myself right now - as it infuriates me as to the obvious reasons of the tone of your reply.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'WildSong' The guy's 24 and he's asking for other people's opinion. He says he wants to go and he probably will go. He doesn't need you doing your "man up" bullshit at him. I know at 24 I wouldn't have had the confidence to go somewhere like that on my own. And stop making ASSumptions about his motivations and intentions. thank you...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Don't worry amigo, some men do get grumpy the older they get. Best just to ignore them eh? 😎

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  And I loved your reply to the patronising prick as well. Well said! Have fun at the NYE.

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  Mischeviouslad

  11 years ago

  Chillaxitives prescribed all round lol. Just go, as you say you we're going to, young bull. Curiosity sated. I might even say hello ;-) lol

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Single men (that fit a certain criteria - you will) are generally welcome to attend HK parties...Be warned, its fun but cliquey! Redheaven/Prima - single men are not welcome as a rule and those posing as a couple (bringing along a female friend) are frowned upon . There are a few single men that do attend these parties however they are known to the organisers and also many of the guests and behave well. All are fun and if you are polite, social and open minded, you will meet some great people. Break the rules at RH or Prima and expect to be blacklisted. MissL

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