Sexting and sending

May 18 2021

Do woman get as turned on as guys during sexting? I know that everyone is different, but I feel like if a woman starts too sext a man or send a risky nude it’s like a huge turn on for most men but if it’s the other way around most of the time it’s more annoying than good haha

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    IfI have an emotional & physical connection with the person, yes I love sexting or sending pics. But if its a random Ive just started chatting to, nup.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    If he (whom I know), knows how to actually mind fuck (and I mean actually mind fuck), I don't mind over sexting. If done right, it is a lead up to something beautiful. Fuck my biggest organ first. Texting Unsolicited tacky penthouse porn scripts and cock pics without my consent, is absolutely not ok. It makes me less interested and it is creepy. Ms Foxy

  • Player_J

    Player_J

    4 years ago

    For me depends if i've met them yet. If i haven't yet i personally don't like it, feels presumptive and pressure of expectations. Also like another thread, pet hate is any greeting that starts with "sexy" or "babe". Definitely prefer banter and humour pre-meet, feels more relatable. After meet, if it goes well, definitely open to sexting now we have some experiences to work off :)

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    4 years ago

    Great topic! For me, I have to know the person and like the person for it to have any impact or enjoyment for me. If I don't know them it is irritating and a turn off.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    It’s the reason we stopped using kik for group chats! Single guys wanting to sext, swamping us with messages when we were either at work or doing family stuff, having zero understanding that this isn’t our entire life and chucking tantrums when we didn’t respond straight away! We save this stuff for people we know and even then it’s not hard and heavy, subtle teasing goes a long way

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    4 years ago

    Sexting with people I don't know does nothing for me at all, other than bring on a bout of yawns. There are many men who think their cock is THE thing which will attract women so they will be turned on by pics, but the reality is more like...seen one, seen them all. If its pics from people I know and have a connection with, I'm more likely to be interested. But ultimately, I'm an in-person person... I want to see the sexy bits in person, and add more senses into the mix - such as touch 😘

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    4 years ago

    Sending a dick pick - doth not maketh a good sexting session. Unfortunately too many guys believe this is the epitome of great sexting. As SupeFoxxxy has mentioned - its an opportunity for mind fucking and seduction of the highest order - not cheap ass dick picks.

  • Margo_Lover

    Margo_Lover

    4 years ago

    Margo has discovered the joy of sexting recently on Twitter. Prior to that she had precisely zero interest in it, and didn't see why I bothered with it either. With guys she connects with... she now has an amazing time sexting, later sharing her fun times with me, then we have our own sexy fun. - Alex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hi Alex

  • I_touch_myself2

    I_touch_myself2

    4 years ago

    I used to love it, sexted prolifically with every guy I was looking to meet, but I found it too demanding. You know, you're trying to cook dinner and constantly stopping to reply to messages, also eats up your time and they don't always understand why you can't reply immediately. I just can't be bothered with online at all anymore. I prefer to meet men in RL. It's so much easier

  • Rubyblue1974

    Rubyblue1974

    3 years ago

    It’s a turn on if they give ‘good talk’ I have come on here and had sex chat with men (it always seems to be men in couples who want to chat) I find it hot with a stranger. We chat, get what we need and move on. But if I’m actually dating someone, sending me a dick pick (especially if I’ve not asked for it)after a first date is disappointing and a turn off.