M53
Sexual Anatomy: Did you know?
October 23 2013
Comments
-
RHP User
11 years ago
lucky us
-
RHP User
11 years ago
That's a pretty comprehensive list 😉- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Gees even I didn't know I had all those spots! Thanks Doc!Pusscat xxx
-
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
You eluded to it.... but then you missed the best part and ignored it by "leaping at the clitoris (and other genital areas) like a bull at a gate" yourself!!!!....... First, you must ENGAGE HER MIND and inspire her sexuality first!!! D'OH, Doc!!!!!' You won't get to a woman's (insert body part here) if her mind locks you out. ;-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
The pussy whisperer has spoken. :P
-
RHP User
11 years ago
DG I mean. ;-)
-
Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
That you're not looking to later claim RSI for typing all that out ! Tall
-
wingman2014
11 years ago
But don't forget the most important erogenous zone is between her ears .- Posted from rhpmobile
-
madotara69
11 years ago
Is really safe, and good for all those sensitive little spots. It doesn't cost much and is on all the supermarket shelves.If it helps ladies, Tara buys bottles of the stuff.Mado Tara xx
-
madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Is really safe, and good for all those sensitive little spots. It doesn't cost much and is on all the supermarket shelves.If it helps ladies, Tara buys bottles of the stuff.Mado Tara xx It is edible too.
-
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Does grape seed oil make you a winey person? ;-) lol
-
madotara69
11 years ago
Well Tara perhaps.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
DG, you should start up a thread on how to engage the mind and and inspire her sexuality, or maybe a even start up a consultancy... :-) Due to the forum rules of not posting links, the pics & diagrams didn't make it onto my first post. The thread is a bit lacking without them, so feel free to message me and I will send the links to you myself. I looked through many to get the right ones. The formatting also suffered in translation to the forum, and seems worse on PC than my mobile. Apologies for that. It's a personal peeve of mine. Thank you for your posts YBother, Kaleidoscope, woody_pussycat & madotara69. Report back with the results of any new voyages of discovery :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
LOL I always thought "X" is da spot....find da treasure. :) FOXY
-
RHP User
11 years ago
What ever happened to " feeling your way ". ? Our parents ' nor grandparents had a text book to fall back on to check to see they were doing things right.? Mother Nature takes care of most of that. No female ever said to me' did you read the book of instructions on where it is and how to find it ? Huh ? Half the fun was learning by your mistakes .. Truth is ' you only ever get out of it what your prepared to give back.. Laying back full of expectations without any input , then you might need to reach for the text book.. May as well.. ?
-
madotara69
11 years ago
If you don't stimulate the ladies mind in the first instance, there is not much chance for being allowed/trusted enough to get anywhere near exploring that little pot of delights, any way's.
-
Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'LOL I always thought "X" is da spot....find da treasure. :) FOXY Is there something unique about your anatomy we should know about ...? Tall
-
RHP User
11 years ago
For women the best aphrodisiacs are words.The G spot is in the ears.He who looks for it below is wasting his time.....Isabel Allende allude...indirect referenceelude...escape from.Which did you mean D.G
-
inspirit
11 years ago
everywine is stating the obvious..... such insightful people I must say. I would never of thought seducing some one begins in the mind... silly me!On the other hand..Thankyou DOC for posting what you have. Maybe - JUST MAYBE - some of will gain more more knowledge form this and understand our own bodies better and that of our partners..I think is is equally important to understand the woman's body if you want to be sexually mature and more into the sensual side of sex.
-
inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Our parents ' nor grandparents had a text book to fall back on to check to see they were doing things right.? ? ..and they were very Vanilla to say the least. To a lot of woman back then it was seen as a chore, I believe because woman lived in a suppressed society. I think your comment is quite Neanderthal. There is nothing wrong with knowledge, it helps us grow and experience lifes pleasures more. Besides all that - They did have Playboy!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Phaow! You are so hot right now. Me little old brain is sizzling and I am not even lying back thinking of England!! :p
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Your body can still orgasm even if you mind isn't engaged anyway.
-
inspirit
11 years ago
fuck me... everyone state the obvious and I will lick chocolate off some ones cock just cause i CAN..... AND i really don't think the mind will need too be too engaged. Just stating the obvious. I am really over men who can not think outside the that damn hole. Or should I say inside. I can orgasm in the car while driving and I certainly DO NOT need a mans mind too stimulate my own. Being intouch with your own body is way more exciting than some dick telling you what you want too hear. ... feeling ummmm aggressive passive and in need of some real stimulation! Fuck cockbook as well and all those dumbarse emoticons. Oh man... am I going too cop it lol
-
madotara69
11 years ago
inspirit.Even ice magic doesn't set, no matter what is tried. and we tried.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
All these different erogenous zones and spots that you need a map to find!! Does anyone really bother? For me my whole body can be one big erogenous zone...IF.....touched and kissed with passion and desire.
-
inspirit
11 years ago
-
RHP User
11 years ago
is one of their best skits
-
RHP User
11 years ago
So, you have been messaging the apple of your RHP eye, the drinks progressed to dinner, to dancing, laughter is shared, intimate secrets confided, a rapport established, whispers have been whispered, and many play dates have been shared. Maybe you have been dating for months, know each other well, and looking for something more. Here is something more for the people who have already put in the ground work. I hope that satisfies the necessary background scenario. Yes, engage the mind, kiss, cuddle, whole body massage, then expand on the advanced class in exploration of human anatomy and its pleasures. I had hoped that part was established, this is not meant to be a comical exercise but further knowledge to help expand your already existing intimacy. Lets move on. Jay_Me, I don't want to discount anyone's tastes from any walk of life. Some people find greatest intimacy covered by the sheets in the dark in standard missionary position for most of their lives. If that's cool with them and potentials for fulfillment are met, that's all that is needed, and that is truly wonderful. Some people are more sexually explorative and find intimacy in sharing pleasure and sharing learning experiences together. It helps them grow together. There is no problem with that either. That is where I would place this information. To put it into context, only one generation ago, not to mention the countless eons before that, neither men nor women knew much a out their bodies, let alone, say, the role of the clitoris in sexual intimacy and fulfillment. Freud did not help by classifying clitoral orgasms as "immature", and therefore not valid. Considering the amount of women who cannot reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation alone, in my opinion, it was setting people up for failure, and robbing them of the possibility of sexual satisfaction and fulfillment. I find no harm in presenting knowledge of other erogenous zones for people to take at their leisure and with a pinch of salt. Some may not find it arousing at all, some may find it breathtaking. Take it or leave it. Furthermore, quoting inspirit "Maybe - JUST MAYBE - some of will gain more more knowledge from this and understand our own bodies better and that of our partners." Play considerately, and lets keep this on topic please.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Goes without saying today's generation have the intellectual knowledge our parents could only dream of.. but that doesn't make them any less sexual ? My mother once told me there were just as many girls sleep around in her younger days as now but not as open or talked about. Labelling them as Vanilla just.because they were born in a different era is small minded.. Do you mean to say a woman's body was that taboo they didn't have the same urges and will to experiment ? Of course they did.. We didn't discover sex, it's always been there just not displayed or open . Besides' even today a lot of women still see sex as a chore, so what's the difference. ? You may well find vital information in your text book but unless you have the right person on the same page to try and make it all work ' what's the point... May as well chuck the book , clear the mind and do what comes naturally.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Meant to read "not a clinical experience" rather than "not a comical experience". Damn autocorrect!
-
Playful2looking
11 years ago
Its all pointless if she doesnt like sex. Now this not a dig at the ladies on RHP because they make up for the ones that dont. Just that most women out there in suburbia arent that fussed about sex. Regular Sex twice a week doesnt happen only in surveys. By the way my sex life is good but most married guys I talk to have a crap sex life. We go out a lot and there is an awful lot of married guys out without their wifes. Someone needs to start a get to know your partner school. the problem is with both sexes m and f. Its not the body you have to win over its the mind.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Miss inspirit I hate to say u have generalised our elders ?? If you asked any of my family (even my nan) they paved the way for sexual delights and even added there own little kinks? I have to ask u this if our elders were so vanilla then how long has oral sex anal sex bondage FFM MM FF been around ??? Check the history books you will see it's been much more then we could imagine these days :) only difference is we are more open to talk about it more freely...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I started to read the list of spots in the opening and I thought to myself... I know most of these... then I thought... Is it not better to spend a few hours prodding, probing, licking, kissing, tickling and generally stroking her all over, inside and out, to find them all? Would be much more fun than reading a list like a "Users manual to the woman's hot spots".
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Just to keep this on topic, can we please imagine that enough intimacy, trust and rapport between partners is already established.
-
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Ok, I have to assume that's a comment made by the Mr. The "most women" comment, is a gross generalization. Sure, family and life can impact upon ones sexual expression and opportunity to express it..... but if there's one thing Ive learned from those women (without medical reasons) who say they're not interested in sex.......is that they're not interested because the guy she's having it with (or guys in her history) are NOT inspiring her to be sexual. There is no reward for her, no significant benefit.... so why would anyone do something there's no benefit in? ....There is a lot more I can say on the subject, but that's the short and precise answer to counter the lame excuse so many guys use that women don't like sex. And they the because it puts responsibility off them, and onto her...... and thats s big part of why shes not interested in the first place. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
-
madotara69
11 years ago
it is a great topic, I think a lot of people think a woman just cums during sex and that's it. wham bam thank you mam.OK some ladies can orgasm just by thinking about it, and yes all women can squirt (so it is said). Even some types of orgasm where the woman has no need or want to be mentally engaged.There is nine different types of orgasms a woman can have, all unique in there own ways. Then there is a combination with those orgasms. Double penetration hits a few of those spots for example. All those little forests of nerve endings, mixed with the chemical cocktails of endorphins, adrenalin and blood flow, then the combinations with muscle, deep tissue and toxin release based massage...... I plan on spending the rest of my life, learning all that with Tara.I don't think the ladies should be driving or operating machinery during an uncontrollable full body orgasm.MadoMado Tara xx
-
RHP User
11 years ago
It's cool to see something a bit different in the forums. I like the way you put it across too lol. I'll read in more detail later, I've got too much to do right now... I'm checking out a few spots I've just heard about...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
It's cool to see something a bit different in the forums. I like the way you put it across too lol. I'll read in more detail later, I've got too much to do right now... I'm checking out a few spots I've just heard about...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
You can never have enough information, I'm looking forward to reading about the Guys erogenous zones I have a question about squirting. One of the first things asked is "Do you Squirt?" Is it really that common and do all women have the physical ability to do so? I haven't and a lot of guys seem to make it their personal challenge to make me squirt, often poking and prodding roughly in an attempt to make it happen. I don't like the pressure either, I'm quite happy being multi-orgasmic and insatiable, isn't that enough?
-
madotara69
11 years ago
Trust is on topic, You emphasised it in the OP
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks to madotara, MrsPeachyPear & rocknminx for your supportive comments. Rocknminx, I'm sure multiorgasmic is a nice compromise :-) Squirting or exploration of these erogenous zones is no Holy Grail to be chasing (excuse the Monty Python reference there), but an addition to an already satisfying sexual interaction. That's my opinion on it. Maybe madotara69 could field your question about squirting?
-
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
From what I've learned speaking to women, guys have "learned" about squirting off youporn etc, and the vigorous thrashing they think they need to do to bring it on.... and it's just not the case. Its another example of the Internet being a great way to get the wrong information.... ehich is more to validate their ego than it is for your pleasure benefit. yes... All women can, not all have yet..... but it's not everything. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
From what I've learned speaking to women, guys have "learned" about squirting off youporn etc, and the vigorous thrashing they think they need to do to bring it on.... and it's just not the case. Its another example of the Internet being a great way to get the wrong information.... ehich is more to validate their ego than it is for your pleasure benefit. yes... All women can, not all have yet..... but it's not everything. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Goes without saying today's generation have the intellectual knowledge our parents could only dream of.. but that doesn't make them any less sexual ? My mother once told me there were just as many girls sleep around in her younger days as now but not as open or talked about. Labelling them as Vanilla just.because they were born in a different era is small minded.. Do you mean to say a woman's body was that taboo they didn't have the same urges and will to experiment ? Of course they did.. We didn't discover sex, it's always been there just not displayed or open . Besides' even today a lot of women still see sex as a chore, so what's the difference. ? You may well find vital information in your text book but unless you have the right person on the same page to try and make it all work ' what's the point... May as well chuck the book , clear the mind and do what comes naturally. Excuse me Jay Me. Though I have not referenced a txt book the above, but rather made a comment from my own experience. Yes I did perhaps make a generalization however I was raised in a small country community which was predominately European and Australian farmers where sex was not an open topic - not even in high school did we have decent sex education. I wont go there any further though I think you may get the picture. I wont even mention the greater population of Australia was and still is rural (Maybe - some one can look that up) whereby education was not as high on the agenda as our city counterparts. No Jay... what I was trying too express was, woman were not as in touch with their body's as today. Same goes for men. Jeezes can you imagine Grandma putting a finger Grandads bum for a better orgasm... No I didn't think so. Sure there was probably a few though minority. I will ask you Jay did your mum squirt and experience the wonderfull feeling of female ejaculation in her peak sexual days. maybe she did though I doubt it. Yes another generalization though I think a safe one. Did woman know about clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms. Some still don't. Now as for this topic I think you and a few others have a very closed mind. A forum as this is suppose to give you knowledge and how you choose too use it is entirely up to you. It is just knowledge whereby maybe sexually mature adults can explore further if they had not heard of all these zones. I know I had not heard of one. Can you not imagine being into your partner wholly and solely in the moment and exploring these other zones. just too bring your partner too an amazing climax perhaps not experienced before. This thread is clearly not for one night stands or people who think sex is just all cock and pussy till u cum. Dayam this city air.
-
inspirit
11 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69' Miss inspirit I hate to say u have generalised our elders ?? If you asked any of my family (even my nan) they paved the way for sexual delights and even added there own little kinks? I have to ask u this if our elders were so vanilla then how long has oral sex anal sex bondage FFM MM FF been around ??? Check the history books you will see it's been much more then we could imagine these days :) only difference is we are more open to talk about it more freely... Please be too read my above post though while I am at it I will add.... Bloody good for them as they clearly paved the way for topics such as the above. Bondage and the like I do believe maybe belong in another topic such as kinks and yes they have been around for centuries. We all know that. This forum is really about sensuality of the vagina. Sure I have tried and partaken in elements of bondage FFM and so on though I can guarantee you, I will not get as much sensual pleasure as some one massaging the inside of my vagina with strong sensual fingers or hand if that suits, in a safe sexually heightened environment. and again I will express YES I did generalize and for that I apologize.
-
inspirit
11 years ago
as I am very passionalte about my own sexuality and love exploring every possible scenario for heightened pleasures. Every one is different and some can't and some can and that is OK. There are many many components too sexual pleasures and this topic is just pointing out a few of the obvious. As some one said earlier there is BDSM, Grup Sex, Gang bags etc etc. All sex scenarios have their own merit at the time and this is just another. I heard a couple of you say why bother... well why not? Some one said it reads like a txt book. It is suppose too though I think DOC has softened the way for you... It is too give knowledge too explore further however it suits you and your partner. HAHA Love a topic when it becomes ummmm emotional . I will get off my podium now and ask Meeka too punish me with the Golden One. Sorry to hyjack your thread DOC.
-
madotara69
11 years ago
If it wasn't for some of the topics over the last year on this site, to the interests of all the folk in here about squirting, we would probably know a lot less than we have learnt.We found an educational video on line, that appealed to us both more than any other to the likes. We just put the advice to practice and have been ever since. Though it was something that was not mentioned in that particular video, where the pad of the finger/s needs to be resting on the group of nerves (A spot which really is the underside of the clitoris) and kind of act like a suction cup. (guess that is an important part with the technique) as It triggers what ever it is called between the pussy and the bladder to fill with fluid (not urine) sugary water with some pheromones that the lady makes to attract us blokes.Getting the right combination with clitoral stimulation is something that Really comes in handy if the lady can help the guy out with lots of communication. But If the lady does not want to let go, that being our toughest challenge. Then it is not so easy.Not so sure it is like all the porn squirting (wetting down the ceiling and walls) we have not made it to that stage. Though more like a fine mist of cool fliud ( like a small syringe) That is what it felt like when Tara stood up on her knees, as it hit and ran down my hands. More often we have been rooting when the fluid has built up, and I can feel it all letting go on my old feller... And Tara hasn't got a clue what is going on. We have kids so her face is buried into a pillow. It sort of dampens down the tone. he he.But we are just learning, certainly not experts.
-
Playful2looking
11 years ago
Mischevious lad Are you saying some women dont have an interest in sex apart from health issues is because its their boy friend and or husband or fuck buddies who has a lousy technic. when do women take some responsibility for their sexual enjoyment. The girls on RHP do take control of their bodies they are lot more enlighten then some. RHP is very different from average australia. which is what I was refering to. There are rewards for women to maintain an active sex life way into old age both health as well as mental well being. Troll through some of the postings from married guys on why they cheat. My wife can not believe what she hears from a few women on the topic of sex. some just say they are not into it. No amount of ten quick steps to their secret spots will change their minds unless they have the desire to explore their own needs. It is not being sexists to say that some girls need to do a lot more for their own enjoyment rather then just being a star fish
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I have started a new thread on the topic of sex in the olden days. Unfortunately the formatting was crap so hopefully people will be able to understand it. Oh well.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Madotara, have definately let go with some extra juices before and usually during pentration and clitoral stimulation. The porn industry has a lot to answer for! My ginnie sometimes takes a battering before the guy takes the hint or is told
-
RHP User
11 years ago
thank you for your post...i found your entire post very interesting, and entertaining, to read...i have recognized many of those spots you described in my own body...but some of the locations of those spots, i just had a vague idea of ...in a "it felt amazing somewhere around there" kind of way...so it was very educational, and interesting, to find out their names, and exact locations...i totally agree, that although learning your partner's body..exploring it and finding out exactly, what she likes...is a wonderful journey, for both partners...i have to admit, it helps so much, if the guy actually has a vague idea, of what he is doing!!!!i have also experienced, like a few other ladies on here, the rough , hard, aggressive manual manipulations, of some men.....not by my own partner...but by one or two of our RHP play mates...it was unpleasant, painful...and frankly gave me the impression, that the guy not only did not have,the faintest of idea, of what he was doing...but it also felt like he didn't really care all that much,either...a little bit like "the last girl i fucked liked it...so she must be the same..."your post is great...looking forward to Part II on the male erogenous zones!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Hi sensualtimestoo, thanks so much for a first hand perspective, and its good to hear reiterated that a playmate/partners sensitivity is key to its enjoyment. Part 2 is under construction. It may take a week to put it together, but it shall be posted with GREAT formatting this time LOL. I'm keen to bust down the door on the myth that men only need a hole to enjoy themselves. Our body's potential for enjoyment is so underrated, and with men actually learning that there is more out there to explore and enjoy about the bodies they live in, it would be wonderful to see a shift in their perspectives on sex & intimacy towards the positive too. Stay tuned.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Most of what you have written is generalised . You say yourself it's based on what you observed in a small country town . Women and men I've spoken to at " table of knowledge " agree they are envious of the freedom we have today. But ' insist sex "as much as a challenge it was , was still full of the activities today's generation think they invented. Just because it wasn't spoken about and in most cases performed behind closed doors doesn't mean they were incapable . How do know our parents didn't squirt of stuck their finger in each other's bum ? Just as the more adventurist couples and singles of today investigate , I'm sure there were those back then who did the same. The point I make regardless to what we learn , is it would be near impossible to perform everything you read with a pre occupied mind. I'm still a believer in' if the moment is good so is the sex. You learn what turns your partner on , just as we learnt you get off with strong sensual fingers or hand in your pussy.. Not for everyone but if it works for you, well and good. I'm sure it would be a generalising if we thought it's everyone's cup of tea.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
If you can totally engage a woman's mind and touch places like just under her ear in her neck . Touching up and down her spine the right way caressing her ass , the list goes on !! It is possable to make a woman orgasim and not even touch her pussy if you do it all right - Posted from rhpmobile
-
madotara69
11 years ago
Your efforts have given us some new ideas.Mado Tara xx
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Well I have just read on another thread that you can put cream on a woman's clit to make it bigger... And that most women have an unpleasant odor done there. Poor pussy. You boys need to be more vigilant with your education I think. Short and sweet because most men, including me, are not going to read all that.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Makes a woman's clit bigger apparently. :)
-
cremecaramel
11 years ago
Do the labels make it feel better. Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Does make a womans clit enlarge when used right... as long as the correct amount is applied and not over used 'things start to happen... In this case ' more' doesnt mean better... patience is the word.. Good things cum to those who wait...As a expert applicator, I know.. ? lol
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Cremecaramel, I truly get your point. Compare it to a thread on the anatomy of kissing. This is the upper lip, situated at the top of the mouth. The lower lip is underneath. Inside the oral cavity, you have the tongue etc. You don't approach a kiss like a scientist, you immerse yourself in the experience, the tenderness, the deliciousness of the moment, and leave the thinking brain out of the equation. Same applies to this thread. It's not going to deliver the goods if you are not feeling the love.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Guys, this is an invitation to you to speak up & let women know about the delicacies and intimate knowledge of how your own body works, what you like about it, and how you like it approached, what drives you wild, and what drops you down into the deepest states of relaxation or the highest peaks of ecstacy. Men's sensual & sexual potential is severely undermined by the notion that they just need a hole to get off in. Perhaps that's all some men know, and all that some women know about men, but its really not seeing the forest through the trees. Id love to see that myth shattered, and men's receptiveness to sensual delights receive as much attention and exploration as the focus on women and their pleasure does. Don't be shy, share your thoughts and experiences for all our benefits. Again, facts and locations first. THE MALE EROGENOUS ZONES The Glans- the head of the penis is the most sensitive part, analogous to the clitoris in women The Corona- the ridge formed around the top & sides of the glans The Foreskin- missing on many, but is the sheath that would normally cover the head of the penis. On the inside of this sheath is a mucous membrane The Frenulum- the line of skin on the underside of the penis, where the shaft meets the head, full of wonderful nerve endings The Shaft- the length of the penis from the head to the base The Base- where the shaft of the penis joins the body, having a different sensation to other areas The Root- this part is worth great consideration. The body of the penis extends from the tip right down to the base, but does not stop there. It then continues inside the body, underneath the scrotum, to the front part of the perineum. The Scrotum- the sack on the underside of the penis The Testes- contained within the scrotum The Perineum- lies between the scroum & the anus, & contains the root of the penis and the meeting place of the muscles of the pelvic floor, including the PC or pubococcygeus muscle The Prostate- known as the P Sopt, or Male G Spot, is accessible by deep pressure through the perineum, or can be felt as a bulb of tissue the size of a small marble to a 10c on the front wall of the rectum when felt internally via the anus As with female anatomy, I have left the anus to be discussed later perhaps in another specific post (as we share that in common), and I hope also to cover the pelvic floor muscles in another specific post, and its functional role in sexual pleasure and orgasm. For hand picked pics & diagrams, please message me, and I will send them to you as links cannot be posted in the forums at this stage. Hope this was worth the wait, and look forward to hearing peoples perspectives.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I think most of us have found these lovely erogenous zones, however some use them in different ways. One of my friends was seeing a guy that liked to insert things in his penis, made me squirm with discomfort hearing about it, but each to their own!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I think most of us have found these lovely erogenous zones, however some use them in different ways. One of my friends was seeing a guy that liked to insert things in his penis, made me squirm with discomfort hearing about it, but each to their own!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
[In my best cooking show voice] and here is one I prepared a little earlier, written as part of a collaborative effort with the gorgeous Mrs him_and_me. She: I leave a trail of small kisses and licks from your neck, across your collarbone and chest to your navel. I have to scoot back further now and position myself between your legs, the kisses continue across you belly and I breath you in deeply again. You smell so good. There is no hiding your arousal now, I feel so sexy knowing that I can have this affect on you. As I watch them, my hands trace the line of your hips, skim across your lower belly and find their way to your cock. I sneak a quick look at you again before bending my head down to plant a kiss on the smooth head of your penis. My tongue sneaks out and caresses across and around, my lips spreading open to allow me to complete the round. I run my tongue from the base slowly up the underside before flicking off the top. I repeat this motion, base to top along the underside, again and again with a flat, soft tongue, breathing out my warm breath each time, my hand cupped gently in front to control your position. I have always been fascinated by the combination of soft, velvety smoothness and underlying rigidity of an erect penis, it's simply delicious and I part my lips to take you into my mouth. Squeezing my lips around you gently at first I begin my descent down the shaft. I pause when I have taken as much of you into my mouth as I can, breathing in your scent again and laying my tongue flat against the underside of your penis. Then, without moving off you I let my tongue begin to trace lines and loops and shapes along you. You don't know it but I'm spelling my whole name on you, marking you in my mind as mine for the night. He: The complete delicacy & dilectability of your tongue on my cock has me sink deep into the mattress. My body has all but surrendered to you. It is like my mind, my energy has been drawn down lower into my body, coaxed & comforted by the warmth, soothed by the slow sensuous strokes of your mouth & tongue. I was expecting heights of passion and energy, yet I find myself dropping to deep levels of relaxation and within myself, I am shrinking in size, yet expanding at the same time. It is spacious within, & I am swooning, swirling with movement of energy and emotion. You draw your mouth up along to shaft and kiss me, right underneath the head of the penis. You kiss me again, this time drawing in the soft skin of my frenulum into the warmth and wetness of your lips and mouth. You do it again. I can tell from the ease of tension and pressure against me from your body, that you have also sunk into a world beyond thought, and are enveloped in your own world of sensation. The feelings of softness and warmth are deeply nurturing, and nourishing. You are truly making love to my cock with your mouth, surrendering yourself to pure, slow, sensuous enjoyment of me. Without missing a beat to the gentle rhythm of your mouth, your hand comes up and cups my balls, squeezes ever so gently, and pulls them in the scrotum in a stretching, downwards motion. Your hand gives them a gentle massage and again, I find comfort in the warmth of your caress. Drawing your mouth down along the shaft, your other hand reaches up and cups my cock from the top side close to my body, and you bring your thumb to the frenulum, well lubricated with your saliva, and rub it gently in slow circular motions. Your mouth comes down to my balls, opens, and gently kisses as much of each testicle as you can comfortably fit in your mouth. Again, I am drawn down by the warm, moist sensation, and the waves of energy rush up my body, and back down again to meet your ministrations. I feel nothing but depths of trust, and a deep sense of security in your presence, in the most vulnerable area of a man. Your second hand comes up to stroke me underneath the balls, slowly, but with increasing depth into the soft tissues of my perineum. It increases the primal, visceral urge to need pleasure, and I am truly enveloped in every sense, in every aspect, in every sensation, by your gorgeous and generous sexual warmth, grace, & tenderness. My head rolls back, and my cheeks contract, bringing to my face a smile of blissful wonder and satisfaction.
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Sheesh I love the way you write, Unrushed! How's that tele-porter going, by the way??
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I love what you've posted Doctor_Feelgood. You have mentioned a lot of great orgasmic potential zones in the female's genital area. We should also not discount the nipples and the neck and even some other parts of the body. It seems females were made to be turned on... yay!The key how ever, is her relaxation. So yes, get into her mind and switch on the heat and desire but also she needs to be really relaxed an open so she can be comfortably intimate and vulnerable in your presence.. So essentially trust and connection is important for amazing intimacy and orgasmic experience.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Another piece of beautiful writing unrushed, thank you. - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me'Sheesh I love the way you write, Unrushed! How's that tele-porter going, by the way?? The teleporter got stuck in development soon after the sight & sound components were established, however I am writing this message from about 30m underneath Mudgee, hand tunnelling a coast to coast route for my new bullet train, which is due for arrival by mail order within the next few days....
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Rocknminx: that reminds me of an episode of The Simpsons where Bart was trying to join a girl's tree house club, and upon consideration, they would allow him in if he passed one test. That was it. There was a post here not long ago on urethral sounding. Not my gig, but obviously appealing to some people. It's a weird, wide, wonderful world out there. Unrushed1 & Mrs him_and_me: that is one sexy duet you have going on there. Would you be interested in a 3-way? :-D Unrushed1, that is exactly what I am seeking here, an explosion of male recpetiveness to the finer points of masculine sensuality. Do we have any other male contributors? FunlovingNoodles: Thank you. I know from my own experience that some zones are no go zones until a threshold has been reached in either how relaxed one is, or turned on one is. It varies from person to person too I would imagine. Thanks for reiterating the recurring theme here that "trust and connection is important for amazing intimacy and orgasmic experience". It is obvious it needs to be said and heard. Would I be asking too much for you to describe the differences in approach, sensation, and different types of orgasm from these areas? Thanks again.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
@nibbleme- thank you @doc- you're welcome.
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Doctor, I'm certain that a 3-way with you and Unrushed would be out of this world! But we're having some geographical issues at the moment. I guess, with two of you over there and one of me here, it might make more sense for me to come that way...x Me
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Imagine if you had 6 nipples. That's one for each mouth and two for each of our hands to twiddle. Where do nipples fit into erogenous zones Doc?
-
RHP User
11 years ago
They fit in your mouth.
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Unrushed1' Imagine if you had 6 nipples. That's one for each mouth and two for each of our hands to twiddle. Where do nipples fit into erogenous zones Doc? Ok. Interesting. But I only have two (yes, I did go and double check - who's been telling you lies about me?)So leave your mouths there but you'll both have to find something else to do with your hands. x Me
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Jeez it's quiet in here. Guess no one wants to talk penises.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
I had more posts, views, & messages from my kinky gyno play thread.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Doctor_Feelgood, it is hard for me to put myself out there as an expert on how it feels for all women, the only think I excel in is my own bodies response and that has taken time and a lot of mindfulness. By that I mean, being totally present with the bodies current sensation, putting all my focus on that. When I do that, I can orgasm longer and with more intensity. If I'm slightly distracted, then it takes much much longer to orgasm.Some women find it easy to orgasm just from nipple play, but others have never experienced it. I've come close and it certainly gets the juices flowing! I also recognise it's the state of mind I'm in. The best time for this one is in the middle of the night when I'm being woken up by a tongue on my nipple swirling around it slowly and building up to a suck. Instant wetness!The g-spot is different again for each woman, some find it easy and others have never had it happen (or have found it). It's heaven when it does... for me slightly different from a clit orgasm, it can go on longer and can happen repeatedly (so no sensitivity after the first, second, third etc). The U-spot - I'm still working with that one and it we use it in conjunction with other spots (so stimulating g-spot, clit and U-spot). With practice, the combination of three is supposedly able to bring about an organsm that can last between 2-5mins... hence why we're still practicing :)With you're gorgeous penises, both the G-Spot and the V-spot (depending on your size fellas) can and do stimulate an orgasm in a woman. Positions are important here. On top and on top from behind are great for the g-spot. The V-spot depends on your length and her length of the vaginal canal. This one is like riding a wave, it starts our small and builds up into intensity and again, it's so important that we mindfully pay attention to it so we can maximise the wave and let loose those endorphins.I hope this answers some questions Doc.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Then Doc, the answer is clear. You just need to create a bit of controversy. I can really appreciate where you are coming from, trying to bust the door down on male stereotypes and open the worlds eyes up to the fact than men can be sensual beings worthy of as much exploration into their pleasure and states of ecstasy as women. I have started and posted on numerous threads about this, and welcome your contributions to the cause. I feel we have a lot in common. We write similarly, we think similarly, we post similarly. I feel like I know you like the back of my hand. Oh, wait a moment. That IS the back of my hand!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Your 'thesis' for my sons discussion booklet. Yes he is only 13, and we have many the interesting discussions, however I have always said to him that when the time came (yes all pun intended) I would talk to him about how to satisfy a girl. You have made that all the more easier........................ Now as for Unrushed1 and I won't forget him_and_me, I'm always loving those sensual ballads of your written word, i find that I am enjoying the verbal travel and am loathe to reach any destination. Oh can reality match those poignant moments when you touch the mind so explicitly. These words of wonder and magic I am saving for my own personal file that I don't need to discuss with anybody!!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Dude, you need to get a life. Go surfing of something.
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' Your 'thesis' for my sons discussion booklet. Yes he is only 13, and we have many the interesting discussions, however I have always said to him that when the time came (yes all pun intended) I would talk to him about how to satisfy a girl. You have made that all the more easier........................ Now as for Unrushed1 and I won't forget him_and_me, I'm always loving those sensual ballads of your written word, i find that I am enjoying the verbal travel and am loathe to reach any destination. Oh can reality match those poignant moments when you touch the mind so explicitly. These words of wonder and magic I am saving for my own personal file that I don't need to discuss with anybody!! I love the idea of a discussion booklet for your kids. Would you mind sending me a PM to tell me how it works for you and your son?
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Hey Bigmamma1 & Mrs Me, I am honoured, & do as you see fit, but I would suggest that you save this stuff for when your children are already sexually experienced personally. Believe it or not, I am a bit conservative in this regard and I'll share why. When I was 13, talking with girls was where I was at. It was a big deal, hormones rampant, peer pressure, a growing need to share the close frindship of a girl as her boyfriend, a growing interest & desire to explore their girly bits. I had little information to go from, and porno mags circulating amongst the boys gave a distorted view of women and what to expect from similar aged girls to myself, but the pressure was there to get to first base, if not more. Sex education classes gave insight into human reproduction and STIs, but was very clinical, and none of it centred around the desire to be close to another human being, which essentially, was behind it all for me. I wouldn't be too wrong in saying that in teen years, it was typical for boys to be overly zealous and girls reserved and cautious at pacing sexual exploration. As a result, there came the devastating blows when I was dumped by the girl for having no idea about how to talk with them, share personal parts of myself with them that I would not share with others to build closeness & trust between us, which are the foundations of a relationship, let alone the building blocks towards physical intimacy. I still believed in the fairy tale, together forever, and due to my teenage relationships lasting on average about 3 months, that myth got shattered and I moved on to philandry as a modus operandi, or closer to the fact, monogamous, but less invested in relationship longevity. I would have benefitted from a book I found many years later called First Love, First Sex which covered the spectrum of angles of human bonding, and identifying & navigating emotional needs, and building a holistic sense of my emerging sexuality as a teen, and my attraction to the opposite sex. That's my perspective in retrospect, and hope it helps in raising young men.
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks so much again for your insights. Id you have more to add, keep them coming!
-
RHP User
11 years ago
If you have more to add...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Are always appreciated. The story of how my discussion book started is long winded and won't be gone into here. However, the outcome has been that at each area/stage of development I would sit with the children and discuss what they should expect and that we understand that this will happen and as such can talk about it. So when my son turned 12, we had the discussion about how hormones will affect him, be it body changes, mood swings, pimples and 'yes' sexually. We have had many great discussions about masturbation etc, at some points he would actually whisper the brag in my ear (so hard not to crack up). I don't make a big deal about it but pointed out that I put a wheelie container under his bed with tissues and paper bags for discreet disposal, his answer "oh good I was just stuffing them behind the cupboard". He is still at the point of kissing a girl is eew, so we are definitely NOT at the next step, but just watching for the signs and making sure he knows I have the info. When he does get to that sexually active stage, he can fumble but that fumbling can be a bit more directed and more pleasurable for both participants
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Haha, some of us never get over fumbling. Have they invented a Velcro bra strap yet?
-
RHP User
11 years ago
Just how many people have had a slow, sensual, fragrant genital massage with warm oil? For how long did it last? 5mins? 20mins? 50mins? There is a dilectabe collection of classy erotic massage videos at Hegre-art dot com with high production levels and glistening reproductive parts worth viewing. I think you may have to pay to access them, yet you may have luck finding them on other free sites. Please post your feedback on what you think of these videos.
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Doctor_Feelgood' Haha, some of us never get over fumbling. Have they invented a Velcro bra strap yet? Hah! It would be very hard to take that off stealthily...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
whose cock is covered in chocolate,worry about the sheets
-
RHP User
11 years ago
@Mrs_Me- cone of silence is required for such delicate situations. @Freya- sounds like a zen koan 😄
-
him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'Doctor_Feelgood' @Mrs_Me- cone of silence is required for such delicate situations. I think unfortunately, Doctor, there isn't much that's delicate about velcro...
-
RHP User
11 years ago
IMHO Women don't have errogonous places, they are an errogonous place. xox
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share