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Sexual regrets?

April 28 2015

ever done anything sexual with even an ex and regretted it? Also wondered if present partners have said have you ever done such and such, when you replied you had. They were quite disgusted ha ha - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    further on from that, I'm far from jealous etc but past partners sexual exploits really make me jealous for some reason. If they've done something sexual, I have to do that with them too, or I do get really jealous lol. That's all behind me now thankfully - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    regret I have sexually is that I stayed in a sexless marriage for so long and only got to experience the mind blowing joy of sex at 45. Seems all too soon it is disappearing from me again. But in those few years I have enjoyed every single luscious minute!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    sexually. If I didn't enjoy something, I just won't do it again, but no regrets about trying different things. When I tell people (and some partners) about what I have done/do, they always get disgusted lol.........but they keep asking because a part of them is fascinated. The only situation I regret is being caught by an ex's teenage children while she was blowing me in her lounge room. Their father dropped them off earlier than he should have without notifying their mother. They kids had their own keys so they literally walked in on me and their mother, she was on her knees with my cock in her mouth lol. Her son lost his shit and ran out of the house and her daughter nearly fainted from shock. That was the first time I met them and they didn't know about me, so I felt bad for the kids. Makes for a good story though :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    What I did,but who I did it with,...yes I have made some poor choices..sigh xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... does that count? Had we not, I'd be none the wiser and wouldn't know what I missing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    God, where do i start, i'm wiser now, thank god. If they're up front about what they want, then you have the choice to accept or not. I had a message from very hot looking guy only yesterday, been messaging for a while, then the bomb drops, he would see a good first encounter as a hand job in the shower bahahaha laugh out loud would be an understatement. Are they really so deluded they think women of a certain age are desperate, i can't keep up, seriously? Sorry, went off on a rant there, but at least i had the chance to respond by saying not a chance, good luck with that, other times i've been caught in less than nice situations, all part of internet dating i guess, long as we keep smiling and not take it too seriously - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    out what things you can tell some people and what details are best left out.Things that 2 guys can get up to together is not something that is well received by the general population unfortunately........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Because its only in the past couple of years since becoming single that I have had a great sex life! I didnt know any better before. If my teenage son caught me with anyone I would be horrified and feel guilty. Kids always remember those things, its certainly not funny.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have had a couple of learning experiences, which is what I will call them rather than 'regrets'. The worst was probably with a guy who has been my friend since high school. And I am with nortyfortyxx, I stayed in a loveless, sexless marriage for way too long. I can't believe how much I want sex now and how friggin long I went without it, blows my mind haha.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' further on from that, I'm far from jealous etc but past partners sexual exploits really make me jealous for some reason. If they've done something sexual, I have to do that with them too, or I do get really jealous lol. That's all behind me now thankfullyAre you..... sure? Regret... nothing! Learn from.... everything.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was waking up after a wild encounter without any clothes, wallet or phone in a strange hotel room without any sign of other people besides the bed sheets thrown about the place and various 'paraphernalia' in the trash. I just regret not being able to remember what happened! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Only regret I have is turning down a MFF 3way long long time ago :(( shameful I say bloody shameful

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    only what i didn't do. and now will never be able to do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I for one would love to hear about it, in detail, don't leave anything out haha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not really , maybe a couple of small things for reasons not of the obvious nature . Had a recent encounter with someone actually , two more recent ones i wasn't impressed with but not from here . Never had anyone say anything i've done with an ex / partner etc was disgusting though lol . If anything , had one fwb a couple of years back that probably rattled me with what he'd done with others aha .. and what he was into lol but nothing too major i guess ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't regret anything that I've actually done, but there has been a couple of occasions that I've regretted answering questions, too honestly about said activities.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...instead of volunteering to my lovely partner of a few years how much I had enjoyed being involved in a couple of threesomes. That was a mistake. I think from that point on she felt that she couldn't 'compete' with my past because she had no intention of going down that path. It didn't make any difference that I declared that, whilst I was glad that I got to tick that box (so to speak), I was happy not to go there again. So I'm with you, HennaJay. Sometimes, even in a relationship based on the truth and honesty, some things are best withheld for the sake of all both parties, in my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can identify with that. If I get messaged from guys who say they like 3somes and orgies, I won't meet them.. There was one exception, but I still felt inadequate when we were together, thinking that he would not be finding me very exciting. Right or wrong, I just couldnt see how one body compared with two or ten? And I actually know someone who said that he could never go back to one on one again . However, I think its always best to be honest, sometimes you can hide something for years, then all of a sudden it comes back to bite you on the arse...

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Honestly if someone turned there nose up for something I did, then they're probably not really the someone for me, my deal breaker is must have an open mind......It's about pleasure, having an open mind to exploring and experimenting to find what makes your juices flow, finding what you like or don't like, if you don't try things how do you ever find out what real pleasures there are out there.....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    One on one with someone special is always the best. Groups are a different dynamic and like anything, too much of a good thing gets boring too so not everyone just wants group sex. They are different experiences.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    One on one with someone special is always the best. Groups are a different dynamic and like anything, too much of a good thing gets boring too so not everyone just wants group sex. They are different experiences.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    regret on your mind.....you don't feel regret. Everything I did or didn't do had its place at the time. I don't feel regret at all, because I do what I feel is Ok to me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    i do joke with my wife and threesomes or foursomes with other men but she knows I'm not serious. I'd run a mile ha ha....we joke and we have called her dildo a mans name and I text saying 'mike' wants to join us and she replies she's down with having two cocks lol...hell it turns me on ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    are opportunities not taken. The girls who dropped hints and flirts on barren ground I feel bad about it now, not just for me but for them. Janis Joplin sang about the one you miss out on being the one you can't catch up on...Funnily enough one girl I've known since we were kids is still keen, I always thought I was punching above my weight, she a former Miss New Zealand and Miss Universe contestant. I played up at her wedding, and would not have been surprised if she'd never spoken to me again. About ten years ago I was asked about my most embarrassing moment, my mind went blank on that one. Then it hit me when she made contact on a visit back to NZ. If Mrs D ever leaves I'll definitely be in closer contact with this woman.