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Sexual relevance
September 03 2020
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Mrs_Deep_Love
4 years ago
*throw
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MissyT
4 years ago
There’s a couple of issues with this particular situation. The first one is workplace discrimination, where your male colleague chose to make an inappropriate comment based on gender as well as an implication on said person’s age. On this basis alone I would consider the issues is more with your male colleague than of the alleged sexual relevance. The second issue I personally have, is that this particular man is in a position of influence. If this male colleague of yours holds women in such questionable regard, I would therefore question his professional integrity and ability to work well with others in any capacity. Yes, I know, I’m getting all uppity. I’m not even going near catfishing. You and I both know each other personally, so you know my comments come from a good place. So, from me to you, the only sexual relevance you need to be concerned about is your own. Any man (or woman - no gender bias here) who expresses those [types of] comments is the kind of person I would not want to be spending any time with, in any capacity. Especially sexually. Besides girl, I’ve got what, nearly three years on you? You’ve got nothing to worry about. You’re smokin’. I’ll expire before you! T x
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RHP User
4 years ago
No way older women rule big time, under 30s are for boys, i like women all the way up to gilf age. The guys a fucking loser, period.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Sexual relavence not a term I've heard either. Perhaps he is just not getting any at home. I like the term use it or lose it. So at 50 I will be using it for as long as I can. Besides I think women really start having a high sex drive from 45 onwards. As for male dominated industries Ive worked in them all my life. Those sorts of comments are best ignored unless directed at yourself. Plus there is always a time later that presents when you can have the perfect come back comment.
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Kokoflamingo
4 years ago
Oops, I dont have long to go before Im sexually redundant, ( big eye roll)...... My sex life has been all the better in the last few years, Im comfortable with myself and what I want and like. Ill probably be the feisty one in the residential carehome sneaking in wine and teasing all the men. Jokes aside, what a load of nonsense. I agree with Moan a Lisa, he is maybe frustrated. Im not going to be hanging up the lingerie any time soon
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nightingale8
4 years ago
What does being catfished have to do with sexual value? How bizzare. He’s using someone’s misfortune as ammunition to insult them.
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SpicyKale
4 years ago
We'd like to think it's just a case of boys being boys in the workplace, but if you say it, chances are you believe it. It's just a masogonistic rant by a guy that's probably not getting any himself and looking for someone to blame rather than having a bit of self reflection! To some degree it's like the profiles on here that talk about letting "their" wife do..... xyx, or mention wife swapping! That time has passed and we all need to move on. Women are sexy, powerful, strong and independent at any age! I just hope the guys daughters never hear him belittling women like that🙁 Chances are he doesn't realise he's doing it and has never been picked up on it in thirty odd years of adulthood🤷🏻♂️
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MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
Comments like that are telling you how they regard and view women. Nothing to do with you. Best to ignore. If the comments continue, stand up for yourself and say something or report it. If you don't, you are then part of the problem. Ms Foxy
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nightingale8
4 years ago
By the way Mrs Deep Love that was an excellent come back. Happy birthday! One could also throw the question back to him, “are you sexually relevant?” He he
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Tall74nHard9
4 years ago
Never heard of the "sexual relevance" turn of phrase before either, but I understand it in the context described. Unfortunately, Mrs D L , I don't think that this thinking will be "bred out" in the timeframe you are looking at. I believe that it will still be an issue for many more years to follow, particularly in the type of situation you have described (ie male dominated). Old culturalisms (habits) do die hard, and are passed from one generation to another - even the 'younger' generations of today will generally follow suit in that type of atmosphere. Of course not condoning the views, but just stating what I believe is the general course of happening. But this example is also not simply a one gender bias - women also give men above a "certain" age and beyond their own form of sexual relevance descrimination, too !
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RHP User
4 years ago
Oh cringe, as a vintage male I fear losing my sexual relevance before the women of my generation are likely to lose theirs. I prefer women around my age, they are as sexy as they ever were, although they do say that that they get less attention from men as they age. I'm aging too so I don't think I should expect a tight young body when I don't have one either. I'm more likely to get Erectile Dysfunstion than they are likely to have "performance" issues to to me it looks like the girls keep their sexual relevance longer than the boys do, maybe they're a bit insecure because they don't rise to the occasion so readily, or stay the distance either. Further more a couple of nice young ladies who've posted on this thread have met me around the traps, so they know who's saying this, and not just to "be nice".
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himplusher
4 years ago
I was just talking the other day to Mrs Himplusher about the fact that older women with great personality is far more sexually appealing than a equally younger woman who is ugly on the inside. I feel sorry for this old excuse for a man/human if that’s his view on people and the world. That’s a pretty freakin sad existence. Leave him to his shitty life and keep being sexy and awesome....past 40 and well beyond.
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MrNatural77
4 years ago
Definitely inappropriate in the workplace. You have the right to take it further for sexual harassment even if the comments are not directly made towards you.
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scuniculo
4 years ago
I’ve always said you can’t stop dickheads from buying boats, V8’s, motorcycles or jet skis. It appears you can’t stop them going to work and getting promoted either. I’ve always loved older women. Now I’m 40’s not much has changed
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RHP User
4 years ago
Never heard of it either, but that's probably because I have a low tolerance for dickheads and (hopefully) don't know anyone who even thinks like that. It's definitely a thing though, look at all the women I cant message on here, because I'm "too old" 😜 I just move along. If it was happening in the workplace, I'd probably leave. But every job has its dinosaurs. Some of them aren't even middle aged men. Having a job according to Steve Paulina: "Getting a job and trading your time for money may seem like a good idea. There’s only one problem with it. It’s stupid! It’s the stupidest way you can possibly generate income! This is truly income for dummies."
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The_Antichrist
4 years ago
Sounds to me a man that is ill equipped to deal with a very outward pouring of emotion....
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RHP User
4 years ago
Sounds like the mining industry. Unfortunately in any male dominated industry it will be the same. And hats off to the ladies that do work in the male dominated industries they put up with a heap of shit. Thankfully we’re not all the same
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RHP User
4 years ago
I actually find older women get more attractive and definitely more fun
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2EssesExploring
4 years ago
Surely a person’s sexual relevance is something very fluid and 100% dependent on whether the person or people they wish to find them sexually relevant at a particular time do or don’t. Who cares about what anyone else thinks! I’ve enjoyed sex my whole life, go figure, I do often look through profiles here and make judgement that I’m likely not going to relevant to many profiles with people I find very attractive. That said we have had our best experiences with people who surprised us in the way we connected due to perceived differences particularly age differences. Because we have a large age difference between the two of us anyway we are subject to one of us often not ticking someone else’s boxes, it’s a shame but it’s completely understandable. The guy in your lunch room is a tool though and most likely a dud root!
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jessica__rabbit
4 years ago
He sounds like an absolute tosspot who doesn't know a thing about sexuality and believes the female orgasm is a myth. It probably is...for his wife anyway...
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ElectricDreamers
4 years ago
When I'm 80 I intend to release highlights my of 55 year catalogue of home porn, from vhs to whatever the tech will be and all the stuff in between. That will probably reset my sexual relevance don't you think?
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RHP User
4 years ago
I think he’s just a dick. I don’t believe there is an age where sexual relevance goes out the window. It’s all in the way either a woman persuase her self or how a man sees a woman. I don’t think age has anything to do with it.
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ocean_man
4 years ago
Generally I think it is advantageous for people to say what they think. I would rather know what someone really thinks. One of the downsides to political correctness is that it is not always immediately obvious who the arseholes are.
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