Sexual repression in society

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  They cant answer your question, because they are too repressed to be here.However I suspect there are many ,many women 45 plus who are just plain bored and no longer want to have sex with their partners.Doesn't mean they don't want to have sex. x Hugs Dr.Hesione bs.sexolology

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have used this quote before in these forum pages but it is still relevant. "Girls can get it any time they want. Girls can get it when a man often won't." Girls don't need these sites to find sex partners as much as blokes do. I'm sure that Doctor Hesione would concur that, as a woman, she doesn't NEED this site. I suspect she enjoys the variety that's on offer here but would not have to rely on it for success.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I think the difference is because gay, bi and straight men and lesbians have such a niche audience and need to advertise. Straight women (or bi-curious women) won't be able to spit in greater society, much less a site like this, without hitting on potential sexual partners. I don't think straight women are at any great disadvantage or that the over-population of certain sites by these other groups need indicate that straight women are being forgotten. I think it's just the opposite. Straight women don't need to advertise! If you don't believe me, QLDtwo4fun, make a single woman's profile, even without a picture and watch the contact flood in from men of all ages. If the other groups are more vocal it's because they need to be to survive. Straight women can just sit back and then take the pick of the litter from the men falling over each other to get to them.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Of course there are heaps of opportunities for women to find sex....on the internet in particular but many women are held back from fulfilling their REPRESSED desires because of how they have been socialized..or brainwashed if you like. The double standard chaps is alive and well out there and both genders are often victims to it. No matter how much I would like to believe the opposite Many women, as well as men choose to live secret sexually liberated lives but not in public and some people, because of the judgements they fear from family and friends dont even do this. So whether bi,gay or straight many people live with their repressed desires in lives of quiet desperation

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  playfulminx

  13 years ago

  I think there probably is a good percentage of straight women who would love to be out there seeking out random sex with hot studs but if you think about it, there's only a small percentage again of those women who have the TIME!!! Let's say many single women over 30/35 are post-relationship with one or more children in their primary care. Their free time depends entirely on custody arrangements or willing babysitters. When there *is* time to meet a guy for shag, one will generally do and then it's either waiting again for more spare time to meet other guys (if the first guy was a dud) or if the guy she met is great, she still has to negotiate dates around her family obligations. Furthermore, most women don't want to bring a new guy home to shag while her kids are home (even if fast asleep) so she either has to shell out cash to get a room, or place her trust in a relative stranger and going to his house or hotel. Or wait for kids to be old enough for full time school in which case day time romps might be an option... It's not very sexy having to worry about all that, believe me.In short, I think more women would put it out there if she could literally fuck like a single man - go out any time she wants, bring home anyone she wants without having to worry about who's at home and feel relatively safe enough to meet someone and go back to their house.Conversely, I wonder if single dads with children in their primary care are in the same boat?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I was always of the opinion that a woman gets exactly as much sex as she wants. Though of course that's not entirely correct, of course it would be totally wrong to apply that little gem to men!Hesione and Playfulminx make excellent points, within certain contexts.In the past I have met a couple of women with young kids, both at their homes, one liked to do it after the kids werefast asleep, the other while the kids are at school.I think Jensman is quite incorrect in saying men need sites like this, on the surface they seem to be the way to go, but in reality you will have much more success at the Pub/Club (speaking for myself at least). However I think these kind of sites are excellent for Swingers, and to a lesser degree minority persuasions.I think the short answer is yes, but certainly not as much as twenty years ago.Cheers Felonius

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'playfulminx' I think there probably is a good percentage of straight women who would love to be out there seeking out random sex with hot studs but if you think about it, there's only a small percentage again of those women who have the TIME!!! Let's say many single women over 30/35 are post-relationship with one or more children in their primary care. Their free time depends entirely on custody arrangements or willing babysitters. When there *is* time to meet a guy for shag, one will generally do and then it's either waiting again for more spare time to meet other guys (if the first guy was a dud) or if the guy she met is great, she still has to negotiate dates around her family obligations. Furthermore, most women don't want to bring a new guy home to shag while her kids are home (even if fast asleep) so she either has to shell out cash to get a room, or place her trust in a relative stranger and going to his house or hotel. Or wait for kids to be old enough for full time school in which case day time romps might be an option... It's not very sexy having to worry about all that, believe me.In short, I think more women would put it out there if she could literally fuck like a single man - go out any time she wants, bring home anyone she wants without having to worry about who's at home and feel relatively safe enough to meet someone and go back to their house.Conversely, I wonder if single dads with children in their primary care are in the same boat? Absolutely! I won't host at my house due to my young children. I will not meet elsewhere with my children, no matter how "G rated" a meet is. I realise that this is my choice and this choice limits my meets but the benefits and safety net for my kids far outweighs the negative side."Most" single dads guys I know have their kids every second weekend - on the flip side, most women I know also have the same arrangement leaving them only every second weekend free. That's two weekends a month. If you are lucky and can manage to both be free on one of those weekends, have no other reasons you can't play (women seem to have at least "one reason" a month) or any obligation, it can be very logistically difficult.Throw together a single dad trying to meet single mum, who have their "free" time on opposing weekends and they are screwed - unfortunately not literally...

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