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April 13 2016

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After some time its become pretty clear to me that, particularly for men, there is a a view that a man is straight or bi or gay. And if bi, he enjoys what they refer to as straight or gay sex. I don't see it this way at all. Being bi is enjoying both with a female partner or without. Now thats a big hurdle for most men to get over. MM fun? Hey am i gay? Get over it. If its fun its fun. If its play its play. Slogan: 'Bi is not gay, its just more play'. In our experience a MMF session with a bi man beats the socks off any straight guy in town. Geddit. What do you all recko

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  • lovman8

    lovman8

    9 years ago

    The good thing about being bi............ ...........it doubles your chances of getting laid! While I have no attraction to men alone I find MM play comes very naturally in a threesome or group situation. I also find I have s curiosity that can lead me to play with people who would indentify as TV or Ts. I guess the label doesn't mater too much, but like summer I have no interest in playing with my own gender alone.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I like your slogan. Its all about more diversity in play for me. Connecting and on the same wave length. Im also not one to label people. I dont call myself bi for the same reason Summer mentioned.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' However, I have little interest in sleeping with women alone. Do I have to, to really be bi? I don't think so. So no, men don't need to "get over it" in my opinion. Live and live, I say. Got it in one as usual, Summer...''bi'' is one of those more innocuous terms that we define for ourselves. Flip that statement over to the male version and I'm there. We could be twins with different parents, born years apart and on different continents. Ouch!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    but get it Our market society with it's over-romanticisation of Greece thought and reliance on digital technology tends to want to pidgeonhole everything even and especially sexual energy. Play is the key word in your post i reckon, women i've known seem to view sex that way while a lot of guys its a hassle or a bit stressful, and tbh i was in the stressed box until a year or so ago so know what that's like. In the end you have to accept and expect people to be just as they are and translate that into fun

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm a straight male who doesn't give two hoots what others peoples persuasions are. ? Knowing who you are is far more important than what others might think, so getting all defensive does sweet bugga all. Not the first time I've read a post where the poster got all huffy about this. I'm sure if I proclaimed my sexuality I'd be shot down as predudice against all and sundry.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    For everytime I got asked "which do you prefer?" Well I'd most likely not be here talking to yall good folks. So I'm done trying to explain it!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Being bisexual is being equally attracted to both sexes. Just because you WILL play with someone of the same sex, does not make you bisexual. As Summer stated, some bisexuals are not interested in relationships with the same sex. Doesn't change the fact they are bisexual.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I guess I'm of the school of thought that bi just means you're attracted to members of both sexes? I personally don't care about everyone elses definitions because RHP is full of people with differing opinions on everything and nobody is really gonna change that opinion so I'll just stick with mine and move on.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I was going to have a dig at Mr3, then Summer comes right on in and proves my point moot. I'm going to go eat a dick.... Bah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There are a whole bunch of labels out there, but I think it's slowly becoming more accepted that sexuality is a spectrum, not a few pigeon holes that you can place people in to.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    To me, you're welcome to be proud of your sexuality....I think it's awesome you're happy with where you are and how comfortable you are with your sexuality.... But I'm confused with the implication that others shouldn't be comfortable in their hetrosexual orientation because being bi is wayyyyyy more fun.... You probably didn't intend it and I apologise if I've read it with a cynical bastard pair of glasses on.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • lovman8

    lovman8

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'True_Gent77' There are a whole bunch of labels out there, but I think it's slowly becoming more accepted that sexuality is a spectrum, not a few pigeon holes that you can place people in to. Birds just have one all purpose hole , a cloaca, so I wonder if they have the same conundrum and fuss over being hetrosexual or homosexual or bisexual???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I find girls attractive I look at them and admire their beauty I much prefer Guys but am happy to play with Girls in a Couple or group situation for People who need to categorise me I suppose I am Bi playfull, Bi Curiouse I do not play with Girls one on one so do not consider myself fully Bi Hubby is not attracted to Guys he does not look at a guy in a bar or walking down the Road like I do with girls he has no interest in one on one with a guy if I am not involved. He does not want to Kiss a Guy or Cuddle a guy BUT he enjoys the sexual act of giving oral to a guy in a couple or group situation with Me,he is defiantly NOT Bisexual as apart from this one thing has no interest in Guys at all. We have lived and played in many parts of the world where it is very much excepted that STRAIGHT guys can and do enjoy the sexual act of Sucking a guy without having to label themselves as Bi. Unfortunately we have found this not the case in the lifestyle in Australia (Not by all but defiantly the majority) where many have to have a label or categorise People. For all you non believers STRAIGHT GUYS CAN ENJOY SUCKING A COCK We always ask now if the Guy is ok with it as there are many on this site with Straight listed on their profile that do enjoy it. If it's not your thing no problem and we would probably not be interested in playing with you and you would probably not be interested in paying with us also, but please except that there are Straight Guys out there that do exist and do enjoy sucking a cock without having any interest in Guys at all and do not class themselves as Bisexual.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Just enjoy the moment ..your sexuality and how you express it , is just that, yours ...unique to you Q

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    Now that gets them thinking. Multisexual does too.... I'll try anything with the multiples 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Maybe Pansexual as well.I always think of naughty nymphs when I read that 😇Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    TriSexual, fantastic! Love it! Definitely my new category!! But have to say I am a woman who loves being with other women. Just saying it here, loud and clear because I can't say it anywhere else in my everyday life! Wish I could!! It would possibly make everyday life much more interesting! 😘😘😜😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    Pan it is. Dish them up 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I have played with men that consider themselves straight but they will suck cocks and bonk men's butts but in only in group situations where women are also involved. See, totally straight! 😅

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    helloo!! :) i have no label . i have looked and fantasized about ladies, guys, ooooo two or more guys lots if women , lovng couples. thought about getting spanked . thought about being the dominator!!! :) geez i get consumed by the thought of human touch and response in its most electrifying orgasmic heartracing wet wet hard hard way. i think because a person knows or imagines what would turn tease and electrify themselves then sometimes they will lust, as i do,after the same sex so it becomes like having that same pleasurable experience yourself . gay meant happy a few years ago. bi meant two , straight meant unbending. not really sexual terms or appropiate " concrete labels for any. xx i have never liked stereotyping or grouping people . it is not an absoulte. oky have a great day whatever and however you are today xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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