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October 26 2020

I’m interested in what .... to a man ... defines sexiness in a woman. I’m a single woman who’s just turned 50, they say age is just a number but does the “sexiness” of a woman have an expiry date for men?

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  • CandJadventures

    CandJadventures

    4 years ago

    I am 49 year old man and I certainly find 50 year old women attractive, especially my wife. I find curvy confident women very attractive. When I was younger I may have not been attracted to assertive women but with a little more maturity I now find it attractive. Hope this helps.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    From my extensive research and experience, there is only 1 requirement for a woman to be sexually attractive to a male. A pulse. However that can be negotiated

  • Rory98

    Rory98

    4 years ago

    It obviously varies from guy to guy, and how developed their tastes are. When I was younger I was actually deterred by big bellies and "overweight" bodies, however that changed after dating more people. I began finding different ways to enjoy and appreciate someone's body, regardless of their age or what their body type was. So I think men in their 40s-60s, who date women in their 40s-60s, would (hopefully) have found ways to enjoy those aged and sun-kissed bodies. You've got a booty though, booties are timeless - and so is cheekiness. There's also the way you can make a man feel: if a man is more concerned with how well you satisfy his kinks and keep his heart all fuzzy, then your age won't matter. If you're worried they won't look past your age, then practice being more confident and assert what you have to offer. Write more about your experience and your talents. To answer your question though, no. You'll always be sexy to someone out there.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    I'd say a man's "expiry date", is when it's closed up shop for the evening and no longer serviceable. 🙅😉😝 Ms Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    They do say, sexiness is the state of the mind. Seeing our biggest sex organ is the brain, I do like mine fucked. When one can no longer fuck my brain, I loose interest and attraction. Ms Foxy

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    4 years ago

    ....mmm, how long is a piece of string ? Both men and women will always look for something that appeals to them personally - after all, are we not all different entities ? That will usually not be the same from one person to the next. Some will definitely have age "expiry dates" in mind, whilst others will be happy to go with the flow. Only way to find out who thinks about what is to talk with 'em. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    As a 54 year old man, sexiness to me comes down to how well I connect with a woman mentally, especially if we share a similar sense of humour. The best part of sex for me is the kissing and cuddling and chatting afterwards. Jodes, from what I can see I would find you sexy physically, but whether I still had that feeling after we met would depend on how well we connect mentally. I have come on here after a long marriage and didn't really know what to expect, but have been surprised by those that i've connected with. I don't have a 'type' as such and can find beauty in all women, no matter what their body type. For me it's all about the connection.

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    4 years ago

    Sexiness has nothing to do with age - it is those characteristics in another person that fire up a spark and cause desire. It can often be difficult to define what that is. For me it is often that display of cheekiness and confidence (a tongue 👅 jauntily been poked out).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Personality goes a long way.... Sure you can look, dress and feel sexy but a sexy personality is what sells it all. If you are still living an active lifestyle and looking after yourself then age doesn't matter.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Sparkling eyes and smile...and curves help too. 😁

  • teejaylongsword

    teejaylongsword

    4 years ago

    I think that a perfect body isn't everything. A curvy body can be very enticing indeed - there can be a lot of dramatic movement during sex with a beautifully rounded body. The sexiest thing for me is (apart from the face) is the woman's willingness to be playful and to really let go. I want to see a woman absolutely lost in the act. Any guy who is a 'pleaser' will know this. :)

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    Being a bit older than you Jodes , your post helps me think I’m not past my use by date . My husband of the past 15 years feels older women , as a general rule , aren’t into drama, they are intelligent , they bring with them life experience, which in turn can give you confidence. They are willing to explore and experience all the things this lifestyle has to offer. Perhaps with age comes being at a different place in their life with their priorities and energy now being directed at focusing on themselves and their partner(s) . He finds all the above attractive . Good luck and belated Happy Birthday . A

  • squrting

    squrting

    4 years ago

    Age shouldn’t be a big deal as long as you are confident and happy in your own body then the man should be very happy

  • Adieo

    Adieo

    4 years ago

    I'm a 42yr old male. There are many beautiful women here 50 & beyond 😁 time to enjoy life !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I love that mature women have that air of confidence and know exactly what they want....... don’t doubt yourself Jodes

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    4 years ago

    No matter what your age ' when your eyes lock with thiers and you cant look away and feel all fuzzy , its called attraction.. ln other words chemistry. I was going up a escalator one day and this girl coming down and l locked eyes .. nice smile ... it was nice... and age didnt come into it....

  • Lively

    Lively

    4 years ago

    Dependent on voracity, I generally find 50 + women more appealing than their under 30 counterparts. It may be the confidence of youth, but in my brief experience on here, the younger girls are more forthcoming.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Sexy is an attitude.

  • nqbeaches

    nqbeaches

    4 years ago

    Jodes you look great and still hot at 50 ! I don believe there is an expirey. Personalities are attractive irrespective of age which also bring people together physically and intimately

  • xfit71

    xfit71

    4 years ago

    U are super hot btw see u soon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    It's a beautiful mind and character that makes a women truly beautiful, and that requires time. Add to that some attributes that appeal to you personally and that's the recipe. Is for me at any rate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    As long as you feel the drive to still have sex you will be sexy. Looks are overrated when it comes to what is actually sexy. A lustful mind and attitude is what gets us eager and as for age well we really believe experience actually leads to a more comfortable and enjoyable experience that the eagerness, unlined skin and firmer bodies just don't really make up for. Don't get us wrong, we like all ages but would when it comes down to it prefer late fifties to late teens. So just make it clear you want to play and don't worry if others want to or not and you will be very sexy indeed to plenty of people.

  • gero17

    gero17

    4 years ago

    I so have a thing for mature women I don’t even know why haha

  • steve5858

    steve5858

    4 years ago

    Hi Jodes a women get sexier as she gets older

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Sexy is in the mind , confidence and enjoying sex nothing else matters.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    For me, elegance defines sexiness...

  • thikdik

    thikdik

    4 years ago

    If you are hot, your are hot, age is irrelevant.

  • Discretenkinky

    Discretenkinky

    4 years ago

    Well speaking for myself the most sexy thing about a woman is intellegence. Oh to be able to have a deep conversation about a whole range of topics.. now that is a turn on

  • funboi274

    funboi274

    4 years ago

    For me sexiness isn't just looks, but I think it's also about attitude, character and how much you work what you have, otherwise a person is just attractive, not sexy. Lol just my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    50 just refers to your actual birth date. Your age can be viewed as biological; a bit of genetics and how you’ve looked after yourself. Emotional; how you’ve grown from mistakes and reacted to mistakes made against you. Mental; what your thoughts are of what 50 means. Intellectual; the sum of what you’ve learnt and absorbed in your life - not just ‘college’ education Men can be attracted to the physical initially but it usually takes the emotional and mental to sustain attraction. The mature (grown up) man will always (mostly) be attracted/turned on by an emotional and mental mature woman.

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    4 years ago

    Attitude & Personality - As I get older I need way more than when I was much younger and dare i say - dumber! I now understand that many young women are very insecure and put up this mask of makeup and false bravado - The sexy women are often older, comfortable in their own skin and exude a sassy confidence the same goes for men. Often the young bucks think with the wrong head (or just dont think at all) but every now and then one of these young bucks grows into a man who understands that sexy is between the ears, not between the legs!

  • willingtooplease

    willingtooplease

    4 years ago

    Besides an attractive woman lying on a beach towel In a bikini, intelligence (not only academic), smile, eyes, ability to initiate conversation, kindness and confidence. There are always the intangibles that are unique to individuals.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Confidence in herself , and her desires - that is the essence of sexy for me . It seems we cornfield so much effort on conformance and acceptability , we miss out on being ourselves . Those are my thoughts , anyway

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    *expend

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    4 years ago

    A welcoming come here confident smile at any age is as sexy as it gets for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    No I don’t think at 50 or 60 in fact, that there’s an expiry date on being sexy - everyone is attracted to different things, don’t be something you are not, be comfortable , confidence is one of the sexiest things around! If you know what your flirt is, flaunt it, it will grab the right persons attention, we need to remember the pheromones as well!! There’s a real chemical and primal reaction that happens that is undeniable - love it!! So no o don’t feel there’s an expiry date, I’m finding surprisingly that I am getting more attention as I get older, maybe the confidence, maybe the humour and the ability to connect - that I think is sexy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Sexiness in a lady to me is the ability to be her true self and normally the rest follows. It then doesn’t matter if your a bit shy or really confident slim or hold a few extra kgs. Seeing the person you really are is what is attractive and mentally stimulating. I think I have written before that maybe until my mid 20s I thought attractiveness was purely physical looks based. How wrong I was.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I’m really into it. . Im31 and think it’s sexy as 😅😚

  • Ms_Conduct

    Ms_Conduct

    4 years ago

    Confidence makes you sexy. 👌

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    What is sexy to one person is not necessarily so to another. Age certainly doesn’t determine sexiness to me nor does bikini model bodies ( as nice as they are ). For me it’s a combination of visual attraction and mental attraction. What I find is a huge turn on for me is confidence but not arrogance and the ability to laugh at all manner of things. I believe laughter is the absolute cornerstone of any relationship, if you can laugh then everything glows around that

  • Sensualtime

    Sensualtime

    4 years ago

    A wicked sense of humour is ageless

  • perthangler

    perthangler

    4 years ago

    I reckon its got nothing to do with age or looks but a lot about attitude and personality. i reckon chrissie amphlett from divynals was one of the sexiest singers Australia has produced

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    A woman certainly doesn’t have an expiration date, sexiness is different to everyone. I find a woman that is confident intelligent and funny sexy

  • nessbidress

    nessbidress

    4 years ago

    Sexiness definitely does not have an expiry. I’ve always found more mature ladies to be sexier personally, intimately and physically.

  • Jjmac69

    Jjmac69

    4 years ago

    Older the berry the sweeter the juice 😉😉 and it's so true 🔥❤️💦 and you gorgeous 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    50 is the sexy age mature experienced and horny😘by the way you look sexy if I ever get to Newcastle would you be interested in meeting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    being real, that's sexy, doesnt matter your age

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Not read all the comments but in my view it has to do with confidence. Not necessarily assertive or demanding (although on here that might be ok in B&D) but if you have the courage to approach a guy and know what you want, that's a turn on. Some women think a man should make the first move but guys like that in a woman. If you can strut your stuff without being arrogant and verbalize your needs then that's sexy.