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Sexy couples?
December 19 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
What do you think?
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TheLuckyOne
9 years ago
You have 13 couples on your friend list. Not enough? 🤔
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not exactly helpful.. but thanks
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Different for everyone. You say you are genuine. Does that define you as sexy?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sexy for us is similar to us and our description..I think the couple who matches us will know they meet the brief
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CandDSwing
9 years ago
Hey there The short answer is yes there are.... The long answer , Your profile only has girl photos, you want soft swap only and don't give a lot of information about you both - could be reasons why people aren't contacting. Not that full swap is a necessary of cours as we are all on here for different things but it's important to be clear on what you want. We have met fabulous people on here, some are now great friends and people we see regularly - it takes time so come back in with a more positive, open view is my suggestion :) Xx C - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
It sounds like you are looking for couples who are in the same shape you are, which I think greatly limits your options, and there are no pics of the Mr. Good luck x
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RHP User
9 years ago
You are not into full-swap, which again would greatly reduce your options imo.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You are not into full-swap, which again would greatly reduce your options imo. Being honest w our boundaries should attract the right ppl... at least we are up front.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
I always found the no swapping pointless. Reminds me of kids mucking about in the back shed.....juvenile. Plus it reeks of jealousy issues/drama.
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lovebitten
9 years ago
Your profile seems a bit aloof? I'm not interested in couples but there are so many warm, clever, sexy profiles on the site that are genuinely alluring, and you're up against that. I know this is online dating, but just like finding attracting someone in a bar you need to seem warm, inviting, human. You need to entice and make the other person feel good and desired. Try and get a bit of that into your profile. Smiles, lovebitten xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
+1 To what Meander has said. You could always verify your profile, which might help give people some peace of mind that you're as 100% genuine as you state. Have fun :)
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jenniecruising
9 years ago
They exist and plenty on here. You might help yourself if you were full swap and added at least one photo of your male half, unless of course he is dog ugly but then you might find that sexy. We always doubt a profile with only the female being presented in the photos. We doubt those that are not verified or have validations.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Full swap restriction turns a lot of people off, me included, and as meander said, no pictures of him, absolute deal breaker as far as i'm concerned. Whether single, couple or bi couples, all need to be seen. But yeah no full swap will limit the responses
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm on two couples profiles but you wouldn't pique my interest! I'm not interested in profiles that don't show both parties! Why the 'ask me' for race for Mr! Secondly, I like validations, even the non sexual kind that tells me something more about you! Now I think we are sexy, but we aren't everyone's cup of tea! I've met a heap of sexy couples so to answer your question, they do exist ;) Mary xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'PepperRose' +1 To what Meander has said. You could always verify your profile, which might help give people some peace of mind that you're as 100% genuine as you state. Have fun :) I realised this might of been the issue.. I sent the verification photo yesterday.. still no word..no approval..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' I always found the no swapping pointless. Reminds me of kids mucking about in the back shed.....juvenile. Plus it reeks of jealousy issues/drama. Thats where we feel comfortable.. no jealousy we just know our limits
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lovebitten' Your profile seems a bit aloof? I'm not interested in couples but there are so many warm, clever, sexy profiles on the site that are genuinely alluring, and you're up against that. I know this is online dating, but just like finding attracting someone in a bar you need to seem warm, inviting, human. You need to entice and make the other person feel good and desired. Try and get a bit of that into your profile. Smiles, lovebitten xxx Thanks for your advice xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you looking for A grade supermodel material to put on a show for your man? Sorry but your profile seems more geared towards your own wants and needs with the other couple serving as little more than entertainment and reads as if the pleasure of your company should be taken as a priviledge and not a mutual thing. Just my 2c. This forum posting sort of reinforces that view imho.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'HotPieCoupleSyd' Hey there The short answer is yes there are.... The long answer , Your profile only has girl photos, you want soft swap only and don't give a lot of information about you both - could be reasons why people aren't contacting. Not that full swap is a necessary of cours as we are all on here for different things but it's important to be clear on what you want. We have met fabulous people on here, some are now great friends and people we see regularly - it takes time so come back in with a more positive, open view is my suggestion :) Xx C Thanks for your advice xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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pizzadogs
9 years ago
sounds like guys think your better than the rest of us
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RHP User
9 years ago
you sound and look very sexy to me.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The greatest attribute for a persons sexyness is deffinately there mind and feeling sexy within yourself
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think your sexy too pizzadogs
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RHP User
9 years ago
Does seem a lot of couples photos are of the woman only, not to many men included in them, we are a bit the other way, that is her choice and I respect her for it
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RHP User
9 years ago
Meander you are most certainly sexy, would enjoy getting into your mind
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Coupleupforfun1' Quoting 'Meander' You are not into full-swap, which again would greatly reduce your options imo. Being honest w our boundaries should attract the right ppl... at least we are up front. yes it is great that you're honest about your boundaries - but it should also be pretty obvious that a limitation culls potential people. If I only wanted leggy, busty blondes... well , sure there are plenty of those, and maybe a few of them that wouldn't mind me.. but if I also only want ones with a full-body jigsaw tattoo... well how many of those even exist, let alone want to play. There are LOTS of sexy couples on here, plenty of ridiculously hot ones, but if they all want full swap then you're SOL. Any guy on here can tell you that you can modify the odds, but it's also a numbers game.
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Anyone want some popcorn ? :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
The common denominator has been their sexy minds - because that is what attracts me first and foremost. They are friendly, welcoming, interested in me as a person not just a sex partner, intelligent and funny. If your primary attraction is physical and that is how you define sexy (which is totally your right to do so) then you need to ensure you show them ALL of your package - female and male. You need to show both of you - preferably in the same pics, for people to be able to gauge their attraction, and to gauge whether your idea of sexy meets theirs. There are many many posts and forums about couples who only put up pics of the female - it's a bit like dangling bait really. If you think you are both sexy then show it! If privacy is a problem, well many of us have the same concern. There are many ways to take pictures which give the audience an idea of you both, but hide identities. Perhaps also pad out your written profile as well. Explain what it is that you find sexy, explain why you don't want to do full swap. A profile is an advertisement... so make it as enticing as you can.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It seems you just get negativity when asking a genuine question on here... I don't think we are better - I'm simply looking for what we came on here to find.. Is that not acceptable? Seems not. I too am paying $$ in hope of finding our fantasy.. We took earlier advice to validate our profile but that's still not good enough!?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think you are a typical new couple, arriving here with expectations that are not totally realistic. You're choosy about who you want and on top of that you have boundaries that may be too strict for others. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that (I'm totally guilty of turning down all men under 6ft tall), it just affects your options here. In my opinion you are finding out the hard way things aren't flowing as smoothly as you were hoping, which (if the fora are anything to go by) is the case for a lot of new members. You can either adjust your expectations and use tips you receive along the way (great that you got verified), or get bitter and jaded. There are plenty of topics posted by people saying how disappointed they are in the site and other members, and that are quick to point fingers, blaming everyone but the OP for their lack of success.Only recently there was a forum posted by a couple complaining bitterly about how frustrating the single women on this site are, all because they weren't having success. Lower your demands or don't (I haven't), but accept that may not be as easy to find others that suit your wants and needs as you initially thought. And as was pointed our elsewhere: remember you have to suit them too, it's a two-way street. My last tip: In your profile do write as much about what you have to offer as what you want, or you may be perceived as demanding or entitled (as some have noted) when that may not be who you are at all. My last 5cts, good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Perfect.
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chevtrek
9 years ago
Be in it to win it.You might be better of watching porn movies.
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amarola
9 years ago
We are a sexy, fun, adventurous in bed couple, but we dont seem to find single girls who want to join us. we are new to RHP, what should we do to attract them? Thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
9 years ago
You only play with those you perceive as sexy.Swinging is like a fun house of the variety and has to startwith an open mind not limits.I have limits myself as I am not bi and that alone cuts my playdown to half so rethink and alter profile.As for lack of girls , I am over 50 and still play with 20 year oldsand for me finding a normal woman my age is a challenge. LOL
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RHP User
9 years ago
My openness will come with my comfort.. And at this stage am only comfortable with those who respect that desire
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'dissolvedgirl' I think you are a typical new couple, arriving here with expectations that are not totally realistic. You're choosy about who you want and on top of that you have boundaries that may be too strict for others. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that (I'm totally guilty of turning down all men under 6ft tall), it just affects your options here. In my opinion you are finding out the hard way things aren't flowing as smoothly as you were hoping, which (if the fora are anything to go by) is the case for a lot of new members. You can either adjust your expectations and use tips you receive along the way (great that you got verified), or get bitter and jaded. There are plenty of topics posted by people saying how disappointed they are in the site and other members, and that are quick to point fingers, blaming everyone but the OP for their lack of success.Only recently there was a forum posted by a couple complaining bitterly about how frustrating the single women on this site are, all because they weren't having success. Lower your demands or don't (I haven't), but accept that may not be as easy to find others that suit your wants and needs as you initially thought. And as was pointed our elsewhere: remember you have to suit them too, it's a two-way street. My last tip: In your profile do write as much about what you have to offer as what you want, or you may be perceived as demanding or entitled (as some have noted) when that may not be who you are at all. My last 5cts, good luck. why cant i be honest with what we seek? being straight forward offers no bullshit? i do take ur point re writing more about what we offer
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RHP User
9 years ago
Clearly they exist if you do a quick search you will see that.We've found going to meet & greets an easier way to meet with others, less talk more action. Online you tend to find most people that fit your description are either inundated with emails or not online when you are.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Clearly they exist if you do a quick search you will see that.We've found going to meet & greets an easier way to meet with others, less talk more action. Online you tend to find most people that fit your description are either inundated with emails or not online when you are.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not sure who you are talking to
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