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Share my wife?
May 31 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
if she's not actively involved in either the 'lifestyle', or telling you she really wants this, its probably best left as fantasy...its dangerous ground to tread when shes not aware or not a willing participant...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is she into this fantasy as well or will she freak out and pack your bags?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yup, what Mike said. Take care with how you progress this x- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
sounds good to us,give us a call
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of coarse interested but as above she would want to be on the same page both for her and the guys benefit. Have ou told her about your fantasy ?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are surprises, and there are surprises... Even if she has spoken of the fantasy, you still need to make sure it is something she wants to realise... People can have fantasies but be happy to never indulge in them... Although I do like the way you think.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry Dude, this is as bad as the guy that wanted to shout his wife to a glory hole experience. So a little advice, women are notoriously fussy so surprising her with a random fuck is always going to be a bad idea because no matter what you do, you are not going to choose right. Besides I am sure if the two of you did the search together it would be much more as the lead up can be just as exciting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry meant to say the lead up will be much more exciting if you chose together.
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RHP User
12 years ago
what a thoughtful young man you are....I do hope she is not on any heart or blood pressure medication though...perhaps you could find a paramedic or two...just to be on the safe side...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can I just say if this is one thing you want do this the right way...I mean if it is just a fantasy of yours and not your wife's then maybe talk on this with your wife a little morebefore you do surprise her with another guy...But then if this is what you and your wife would both like to experience then take your timeand find the right guy...But most important bit of advice I can give you is..Do Not Involve a Guy Who Is A Friend or Someone You Both Do Know..As if it is not an enjoyable experience for you both you would not have any weird feelings when you seen this guy again.Friends can complicate things afterwards...Good Luck...
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RHP User
12 years ago
... You're both on the same page with this fantasy , I'd leave it right there. Have you spoken to your amazing wife about this ? If you have, and she is a willing participant ' that's different. But if its a surprise and she has no idea.. It could and probably would backfire... I've been the guest a few different occasions and its a real buzz providing all know exactly what's going on.. Tread carefully .
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RHP User
12 years ago
JohnI once played with a lady who liked the idea of that in discussions. One night we were playing a little with her blindfolded and lightly bound and I was teasing her and lightly brushing her with my tongue and fingers, whilst suggesting and whispering about what she would do with two men. She seemed to be getting hornier with each suggestion so I thought I would play a little game.Once she got to the point where she was really fired up, I said to her I have surprise for her and said I would be back in a minute. I grabbed the front door keys and walked to the front door (near the bedroom) and pretended to greet another man and basically told "him" she was ready for her surprise. I walked into the bedroom telling him to leave his clothes on the chair by the bed and told her that it was time for her treat. That was enough to send shudders through her when I touched her again. She was very very wet and a large damp area had formed on the sheet underneath where she sat, but she was also trembling which she later said was from excitement and a little fear hence her request to remove the blindfold. She later said she was actually relieved on that occasion, that no one else was there but she did say she got a wicked thrill from it and was not ruling it out but said it might be better in her head rather than played out for real, unless i could arrange a Clooney or a Pitt. She said she liked the idea of being a lady outside and a "slut" (her words not mine) in the bedroom but was not quite sure if that scenario was a line she wanted to cross.I would try and discuss it with her first and see how she reacts. I guess what I am trying to say is that you could never be sure how it is going to go and each woman would be different. It is hard enough for us blokes to know the kind of man that our lady would love to spend time with. Hell I am staggered at the quality of some of the ladies that have chosen to spend some time with me over the years. At times I felt like Glenn McGrath batting with an average of 60+ and I am very thankful to them indeed !!
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