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Sharing information?

March 14 2012

When is it Too Much? I have been on the scene for a few years, and a few time I have found myself in situations when I think to myself "did I share too much info" I had an encounter with a young-ish girl who claimed to be "experienced", she asked one of them "golden" questions: what's the wildest thing you've done (sexually) I felt comfortable enough to share it, she was shocked, to me (and in sure to most of us here on the forums it wouldn't be nothing too crazy) but to her it was, to the point that later she even implied " I didn't think you were like that" - even though we shared numerous texts and emails that indicated a highly sexual person was sending them- Generally I'm very open, I am an exhibitionist by nature, but I do ask for general thoughts, To wait until we are sure the other person will b able to handle the potential "shock" or to play along and water down your true self to mirror the other person? Or simply "be yourself" and if it's too much, well, too bad -for them- I vote for the last option, I can't pretend to be someone else :) Cheers! Td&h

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't think people you meet along the way deserve to know every dirty little thing you've done... or may not have done. All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental.HugsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    At some time we have all said tooo much to someone and regretted it but there ya go....happens.If you like to be open about your life and experiences and someone asks then why should they be shocked.On the other hand sometimes less is best.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    *chuckles.. *   not too long ago.. I was quite on here... I had a met a girl.. or should I say.. REMET a girl I met a long time ago... we seemd to click.. She asked me the same question.. CONSIDERING WHAT she had told and suggested to me she had done.. I answered her questions.. firstly telling her she MIGHT want to reconsider the questions until a later date.. She was damaged.. the relationship failed... because of my past??? NO! I dont think so.. MAYBE she had me on a pedestal.. I dont know.. *shrug*   Next time.. just smile.. and tell her you want to do EVERYTHING she can dream of.. tell her there are no boundaries as far as you are concerned... Actually.. NO! that MIGHT not be good advise.... :)   caveman.. x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    to know what you told your "friend" ;-) Yes, I'm inquisitive (some would say nosey) but I sooo love a good story! I like to ask, to tell & to try but I guess there will always be the "shocked" & the shockers. So op just whisper in my ear ....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Funny I was just talking about that. I always ask someone what sort of kinks they have before I met them. And yes, I probably say too much about my kinks and experiences too. I know that sometimes it has worked against me and people sometimes get the wrong idea about me. Or maybe it's the right one... I can't really decide. The one person I didn't ask... is probably the longest friend I have from RHP... and I never thought he was that interested in me which is why I never asked. Lots of questions I some times want to ask...but I am scared of the answer a lot of the time so I just don't ask. Ever. :p xxMeeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I do think, until you know someone REALLY well and understand where their heads at...(and btw do you ever really know anyone ?) some things, should be just for you...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Here's a clue: If you're asked that question, don't answer it, because the only people who ask that question are people who haven't actually done anything "wild". Seriously, think about the people who've asked you.The real wild crazy fuckers don't care, they just want to get in and be dirty with you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    With you all.. :) Mind you, I do love the "shock" factor, and that in itself has been the good & the bad.. Particularly when sharing a good "raunchy" storied with a "good girl", you see in their eyes the excitement, the "naughty little devil" pops up on their shoulder and they bite their lips... THEN the good ol' angel makes and appearance and "poof" YOU DID WHAT WITH WHO AND WHERE???? lol I've learned my lesson, but keep playing Russian roulette ;) Sometimes I win and sometimes I loose, but I do enjoy the excitement in between *grin* Td&h

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  • MissSarahCurious

    MissSarahCurious

    13 years ago

    I love hearing other peoples' funny stories and experiences but if someone asks me what I've done that's "wild" I tend to look back on the things I've experienced and think nothing really fits that label but those same people have gotten a bit wide-eyed at what I have done. I just don't consider it "wild" because I get a bit caught up in semantics I guess...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yeah, totally reasonable assumption. Oh and see! You answered different to me and now I'm agreeing with you! hehe. Great minds think alike and fools rarely disagree. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Grrr' Here's a clue: If you're asked that question, don't answer it, because the only people who ask that question are people who haven't actually done anything "wild". Seriously, think about the people who've asked you.The real wild crazy fuckers don't care, they just want to get in and be dirty with you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    TD and H you know the answer to that question I figure if its the truth and they cant handle the truth then they are probably not someone that really "matches up" with you. Then again I guess it depends what you are wanting...do you want to play your cards well so you just get a lay, in that case tame it down. But on the other hand you are looking for a longer term FB that is in synch with you then definitely truth wns every time.PS I love your dirty kinksMinxy xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...the question by simply saying "Why don't we just make this the wildest thing either of us has done" and go from there. It's the TMI thing...too much information, and especially too soon can end it before it starts. Besides, just tell them you're writing a book and you will autograph a copy of it for them once it's published. | I don't care to know...and I don't ask.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have a gasp scale, there are generally two types: the first is a *gasp OH NO YOU DIDNT !!!!! then a moment of thought, a half smile and.......did you really? what was it like? ^ That right there is an 'in' and the only reason that person hasn't done it themselves yet, is because they hadn't thought of it. . the second is a *GASP along with one raised eyebrow, a smirk (I'm pretending Im cool with it for now, but thats too much) ^ this one....is someone I don't and won't want to play with anyway, and they wouldn't have done it because there is only one sexual position EVER and you never put the things you go wee wee with in your mouth nilla much?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You are funny girl DGT!! Gawd if that is what people are shocked about, wee wee bits no wonder people's eyes glaze in shock when I tell them some of the things I have tried. By the way, don't you own me a wet time story?? ;-) xx Meeks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I do too perfect timing too, cos it's been pissing down here all day Lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    but who gives a flying fuck? you live and learn dont ya? yeah Ive raised many an eyebrow , eyebrows seem to dance and do mexican waves over wide eyes sometimes but who cares? If people dont accept you then NEXT!! (unless theyre a really great vanilla root that is , I can accept it can be difficult to let go of them , or a 'relationship') , be careful what you say sometimes , even on the forums , its funny who you meet from here down the track. My profile is deadset honest , I got alot more action in my inbox before I wrote the gods honest truth but now I get quality action with real and fun peeps , so weigh it up I guess. It's a tough one to answer , I think you have to judge case by case and follow your intuition ,and not discuss this kinda shit when drunk!   peace   Loz

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